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This week on Shtark Tank, we bring you a special megapod in honor of Yom Hazikaron and Yom Ha’atzmaut — a deep, emotional journey through stories of sacrifice, strength, and national pride. In this episode: Yakir and Josh Hexter's Story: Why one bereaved father turned down a public interview — and the lesson we all need to hear. Avraham and Daniel Colthuf: Two brothers, lawyers and reserve soldiers, who serve as chazanim for IDF funerals, standing by families in their darkest moments. Collection of Israel Stories: Jeff Swartz, former CEO of Timberland, on falling in love with Israel (from Invested podcast). Nobel laureate Professor Yisrael Aumann on losing his son and a powerful shiva visit. Highlights from Michael Eisenberg on making Aliyah and building a career in Israel. A personal reflection from my father about how a fallen soldier shaped our Aliyah story. Subscribe to our newsletter at ⁠shtarktank.org⁠ for more from working Bnei Torah around the world. Join our ⁠quiet whatsapp group ⁠for episode updates, event invites and exclusive bonus content. Thank you for listening.If this episode moved you, please take a moment to rate and review — it helps us bring more meaningful conversations to more people. Subscribe to Shtark Tank for thoughtful interviews, honest reflections, and real conversations for Bnei Torah navigating the modern world. 00:00 Intro 02:16 Yakir Hexter HY"D and Silent Grief 07:30 Interview with Colthof Brothers 54:56 Short Stories

What happens when the dream job just doesn’t feel like your dream? In this episode, we sit down with Yaakov (Bryant) Oberg, who left a successful banking career in LA in search of something deeper. What started as spiritual curiosity led to yeshiva in Yerushalayim, and later to a new challenge—integrating Torah learning into the reality of full-time work. He started out by learning a full morning seder followed by working in the afternoon and evening. But then he burnt out. This lead him to help launch: Kollel Gedulei Tzion, a kollel built around a bold idea—a half seder of high-quality learning for Bnei Torah in the workforce. This episode explores: The decision to walk away from a high paying job in pursuit of meaning What it looks like to live an integrated Torah–work lifestyle Why sometimes less learning can lead to more growth It’s a powerful reminder that success isn’t about how many hours you log—it’s about where your heart is. For more information on Kollel Gedulei Tzion, led by Rabbi Zev Horowitz, go to https://www.geduleitzion.org/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 06:12 Leaving Corporate Life for Yeshiva 18:13 Establishing a New Learning Framework 33:43 Reflecting on Work, Passion and Spirituality Subscribe to our newsletter at ⁠⁠shtarktank.org⁠⁠ for more from working Bnei Torah around the world. Join our ⁠⁠quiet whatsapp group ⁠⁠for episode updates, event invites and exclusive bonus content. Thank you for listening.If this episode moved you, please take a moment to rate and review — it helps us bring more meaningful conversations to more people. Subscribe to Shtark Tank for thoughtful interviews, honest reflections, and real conversations for Bnei Torah navigating the modern world.

As we prepare for Shavuos, Rav Moshe Shwed, Director of All Torah, joins Shtark Tank to discuss the intersection of Torah, technology, and responsibility. A Brisk alum turned digital visionary, Rav Moshe shares how he helped launch some of the most popular Torah apps in the world — including All Daf, All Parsha, All Mishnah, and more. This conversation goes beyond product design. We dive into how working Bnei Torah can stay grounded in their learning, how accountability and consistency build spiritual momentum, and why technology — if used wisely — can be a powerful tool for harbatzas Torah. What We Discuss: Rav Moshe’s journey: Brisk, BMG, and the unexpected call from (or to) the OU The origin story of All Daf and the 2019 Siyum HaShas push Creating curated, Yomi-focused Torah content for the real world A marathon runner from Georgia and the unexpected power of accessible Torah Torah and tech: Is it lechatchila or bedieved? Rav Moshe’s nuanced take Building for depth in a short-form world: design choices and user realities What happens if the apps go offline? The mission to lower the barrier to entry The launch of All Mishnah, All Parsha, and new frontiers like Nach Yomi Torah as the ultimate unifier — and why that matters now more than ever The mem-ches kinyanei Torah and building a national beis medrash Advice for working Bnei Torah: accountability, chaburas, and small steps How Torah changes the way your family sees you Links & Resources: Download the apps: All Torah App Suite Mentioned seforim: Mishnas Rav Aharon (Rav Aharon Kotler) Shaarei HaZmanim (Rav Dessler, grandson of the Michtav M’Eliyahu) Don't miss out on excellent written content! Be sure to subscribe to our newsletter at ShtarkTank.org Chapters 00:00 Introduction 04:57 The Origins of AllDaf and Its Unique Approach 19:59 Balancing Technology and Traditional Learning 36:45 The Unifying Power of Torah 43:47 Success in Learning 50:30 Lightning Round

What does it take to go from learning Torah to owning your unique chelek in Torah—and maybe even publishing it? In this powerful return to Shtark Tank, Rav Tzvi Goldstein joins us for a deep and practical conversation about writing, editing, publishing, and most of all—developing a personal connection to Torah that lasts beyond Yeshiva. Why your unique Torah insight matters—and why you might not have permission to keep it to yourself How Rav Hirsch and Rav Soloveitchik’s hashkafos shaped Rav Tzvi’s own Torah worldview Writing as a spiritual discipline: not just for clarity, but for growth and legacy What to do before you publish (and how much it really costs) Behind the scenes of editing seforim for Rabbanim and laymen alike Why Substack might be the best starting point for sharing your Torah And yes—why your writing doesn't have to wait until you're 60 Best Quotes “If you really have a unique Torah idea… you don’t have permission to keep it to yourself.”“Writing isn't just expression—it's clarity, chazara, and connection.”“Publishing a sefer isn't just about ego or status. It’s about celebrating Torah—with yourself, your family, and your community.” Thinking of Publishing? Rav Tzvi breaks down the entire process:Content edit → Copy edit → Proofread → Typesetting → Final read-through → Print or publish online.Whether you go with a major publisher or self-publish, he offers tips, costs, and what to expect—without the smoke and mirrors. For More from Rav Tzvi Check out this substack post on the same topic Order Rav Tzvi's book Halachic Worldviews

As we prepare for Shavuos, Rav Moshe Taragin joins Shtark Tank to discuss his powerful new book on Rav Yehuda Amital zt”l, a towering educator who fused unwavering Emunah with deep compassion and realism. The conversation moves from personal to national—from the rehab ward of an IDF hospital to the historical arc of Jewish destiny—and touches on some of the most urgent questions facing Bnei Torah today: What does real long-term chinuch look like? Is Jewish identity dependent on Torah observance? How do we avoid turning ambition into burnout?What does it mean to live a life of Kiddush Hashem—in Israel or abroad? To order the book: To order in IsraelTo order in America 🧠 Key Topics: Faith under fire: Writing a sefer while in the ICU with his son The duality of chinuch: Rav Amital and Rav Lichtenstein as complementary voices Jewish identity beyond mitzvah observance: What Rav Amital taught us about Am Yisrael Kiddush Hashem as national mission: How Rav Amital redefined religious Zionism Hungarian vs. Lithuanian Torah cultures: Ambition, hasmada, and mental health Living b’achdus: What we can learn from Oslo, Rabin’s assassination, and post-October 7th Israel Careers, calling, and giving: Rav Taragin on choosing work that contributes to Yeshua Shel Olam 💬 Quotes to Remember: “Kiddush Hashem isn’t just an individual act—it’s the arc of Jewish history unfolding.” “Stories don’t just teach; they preserve a lost world and reframe our present.” “Rav Amital reminded us: You’re a human being before you’re a masmid.” More Shtark Tank! Make sure to sign up for our newsletter at ⁠ShtarkTank.org⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections 07:11 The Role of Community and Family in Crisis 13:13 Authenticity in Education and Long-Term Impact 20:35 Jewish Identity and the Concept of Bechirah 27:21 Kiddush Hashem: Personal and National Perspectives 39:17 Lessons from the Oslo Accord and Internal Struggles 45:52 Balancing Ambition and Mental Health in Jewish Education

Simon Baum is a seasoned lawyer, a Daf Yomi maggid shiur (twice daily!), and a thoughtful voice on what it means to live an integrated Torah life while fully immersed in the workforce. But his real story begins not with success, but with a breakdown. In this moving and practical conversation, Simon opens up about: Hitting rock bottom after closing a billion-dollar deal Reframing his relationship with Hashem from stress to serenity Giving a Daf Yomi shiur as a path to deeper learning and community The relationship between professional success and spiritual growth Simon shares his high-powered legal career, his weekly flights between London and Israel, and the moment of inner collapse that made him question everything—even at the peak of outward success. Real growth came not from switching jobs—but from changing his view of what it means to live with Hashem. Guilt-based Yiddishkeit gave way to an honest, intimate relationship with the Ribbono Shel Olam. Simon moved to a Tel Aviv law firm, enabling a less frantic schedule and new consistency in his learning. His twice-daily Daf Yomi shiur has grown into a tight-knit chevra with shared values and simchas. Work isn’t just a B’dieved. Simon explains how his law career actually deepened his Torah—offering insights, challenges, and identity shifts he couldn't have experienced elsewhere. Simon explores how to grow spiritually without falling into toxic introspection, and how healthier self-worth leads to healthier avodah, relationships, and responses to stress. Olam HaYedidus by Rav Shlomo Wolbe Bikshu M’sham and K’savim by Rav Soloveitchik Crossing the Unknown Sea by David Whyte Money Quote: “Real relationships have closeness and distance. You don’t do Avodas Hashem just to tick boxes—you do it because it’s real, and you want to live it.” Chapters 00:00 Intro and Early Life 04:17 The Turning Point: Realizing the Need for Change 10:02 Transforming Life: Practical Changes and New Perspectives 17:00 Integrating Faith and Daily Life: A New Approach 21:59 The Pilgrimage of Identity in Work 23:50 Crisis and Self-Discovery 27:19 Managing Stress and Relationships 31:17 Navigating Self-Reflection and Growth 35:39 Seeking Professional Help vs. Self-Help 41:50 Future Aspirations 44:00 Lightning Round

We recorded a regular Shtark Tank conversation with Tuvia Eisenman—about sales, chessed, and life in Israel. Then the war broke out. Tuvia was called back to reserve duty, and he joins us now from his IDF base with an emergency update. He walks us through the past few days, shares what it’s like on the ground in the Jordan Valley, and offers powerful reflections on what soldiers and their families are facing right now. After the update, we return to the original conversation, recorded just days earlier. Tuvia shares how a yeshivish kid from Passaic ended up serving in the IDF, building a sales career in Israel, and using those skills to raise millions for nonprofits around the world. We talk about the art of listening—how it drives both sales and parenting—and how he balances intense frontline experiences with raising a family and living a life of purpose. We also dive into the world of nonprofit marketing and fundraising. Tuvia offers a frank take on why most campaigns fall flat, how organizations can do better, and why peer-to-peer giving—though messy and personal—is actually one of the frum community’s greatest strengths.

This week on Shtark Tank, we welcome Rabbi Shalom Rosner—Rav of Kehillat Nofei HaShemesh, Rosh Beit Midrash at Machon Lev, beloved Daf Yomi maggid shiur, and my uncle—for a deeply personal conversation about his father, Dr. Fred Rosner z”l. Check out the newly released Shalom Rav Birkon (bentcher) here. Born in Berlin in 1935 and rescued via Kindertransport, Dr. Rosner began life with no formal Jewish education. But he went on to become not only a world-renowned physician and medical ethicist, but a serious talmid chacham, translator, and teacher of Torah and halachic medicine. In this episode, we explore: The incredible story of Dr. Rosner’s late start in Torah learning—and how one summer of Mishnah changed everything His unwavering consistency and sense of mission, both in the hospital and the beit midrash The evolution of Jewish medical ethics, and how Dr. Rosner worked alongside gedolim like Rav Moshe Feinstein zt”l Balancing public influence with personal humility The quiet legacy of a man who never wasted a moment, right up to the final day Along the way, we also discuss family, Shabbos zmiros, Rambam, professional responsibility, and what it really looks like to synthesize Torah and derech eretz—without compromising either. Check out ShtarkTank.org for more!

What happens when a full-time chiropractor with a busy practice, a big heart, and zero spare time decides to launch a global tzedakah revolution—one dollar at a time? This week on Shtark Tank, we sit down with Dr. Jonathan Donath, founder of Daily Giving, a platform that’s quietly transformed the world of tzedakah. What started as a flash of inspiration in a shul lobby has turned into a global force for chesed, distributing over $24 million to 100+ vetted nonprofits (including ADI Negev) and empowering over 21,000 daily givers around the world. But the road wasn’t smooth. In this raw and inspiring conversation, Dr. Donath shares: 🧠 His powerful “epiphany moment” that sparked Daily Giving 💵 The emotional struggle of transitioning from volunteer founder to salaried CEO 🧘 How self-compassion and meditation saved him from burnout 📉 The surprising downside of professional success—and why he gave up Tuesdays 📚 The books, seforim, and mentors that changed how he thinks about purpose🛠️ His evolving views on balance, ambition, fatherhood, and the cost of impact Resources Mentioned: 💸 Become a daily giver: DailyGiving.org📘 Books: It's All the Same to Me and The Three Conditions by Moshe Gersht📘 Radical Compassion by Tara Brach 🎥 Rabbi Alon Anava – “My Life After Death Experience”: Watch on YouTube📗 Living Emunah series by Rabbi David Ashear📙 Living Legend – Biography of Rav David Grossman For More Shtark Tank go to ShtarkTank.org

“Life is like a train. You might get derailed, but you know where the train needs to go. You get back on the track.” Rav Reuven Berman didn’t plan to leave chinuch. He made Aliyah with a dream job teaching Torah in Yerushalayim—but it quickly became clear that the math didn’t work. With five kids and growing responsibilities, he transitioned into the business world while trying to hold on to his identity as a ben Torah. In this honest and moving conversation, we cover:✅ Being grouned in business while also connecting to yeshiva✅ What he learned from a personal tragedy✅ Why teaching—even part-time—can protect your neshama✅ The power of a strong minyan✅ How to stop dreaming of the “perfect community” and live in the one you’ve got✅ And why every year in yeshiva still counts—even if you go to work later Reuven shares what helped him stay grounded through transitions, success, and grief—and why he still dreams of being back in the beit midrash full time. — Check out ShtarkTank.org for exclusice written content!

Rav Boruch Clinton spent two decades as a high school Rebbe before pivoting to a second career in IT. Along the way, he wrote prolifically about Torah, technology, and the challenges of working life — including a practical guide for Bnei Torah entering the workforce. In this episode, we explore: Why Rav Hirsch remains his intellectual and spiritual anchor How writing became his tool for learning, clarity, and impact What Torah actually says about choosing a career The dangers of romanticizing our generation’s nisayonos Why being a mentch is a core Torah value — especially at work Plus: the forgotten career that now pays $92K/year as an apprentice, the Hirschian take on Kabbalah, and how to push back respectfully when Torah values are at stake. “If you’re a Ben Torah in the Beis Medrash, you should be a Ben Torah in the boardroom. No barriers. No masks.” – Rav Boruch Clinton Resources Rav Boruch Clinton’s Substack: Bechol Drachecha “A Career Guide for Bnei Torah” by Rav Clinton (available via Amazon)

Yaakov Ehrenkranz grew up in Memphis, learned in KBY and the Mir, got smicha from YU—and today helps dozens of families navigate the financial realities of life in Israel. In this wide-ranging conversation, we cover his personal journey from the American South to Ramot Beit Shemesh, and his professional journey from options trading to financial advising. Check out ShtarkTank.org and subscribe for exclucive written content! This week will feature one listeners Aliyah journey. We talk about: Why real estate is the #1 financial challenge facing Olim What Americans get wrong about “affording Aliyah” How Israeli society creates more meaning—and more happiness The role of values in long-term financial planning Balancing money and shalom bayis And much more—including lessons from Rabbi Dr. Aaron Levine zt"l, the economics professor and Talmid Chacham who shaped his thinking early on.

In 2004, Rav Ari Katz moved with his family to Gush Katif, to serve as Rosh Yeshiva of a local high school. Just over a year later, soldiers knocked on his door and told him to leave. In this 9 Days special episode, Rav Katz shares: What drew him to Gush Katif despite knowing the threats The beauty, unity, and spiritual strength of the community His firsthand account of the expulsion—including “the longest day of his life” How he and his community coped with the trauma, picked themselves up, and started again Why he believes October 7th began in the summer of 2005 Modern Day Churban? As we approach Tisha B’Av, the day we mourn our exiles and national losses, this story feels especially relevant. Because Gush Katif was not ancient history—its a kind of modern Churban, including the destruction of entire communities, shuls and schools. And yet, its a very complicated story. The 'disengagement' was the product of a Jewish government, and a Jewish army comprised of Jewish soldiers. The residents were not sent in to actual exile, they moved in to other parts of a flourishing and successful State of Israel. Rav Katz doesn't shy away from these complexities. Pain and Hope We spoke about pain and trauma, but we also spoke about resilience. After the final Mincha minyan, David Chatuel addressed the community. A year earlier, his preganant wife and all four of his children were murdered by terrorists. He got up and said "When tragedy strikes, you can crawl under your blanket—or you can get up and live." Guest Bio Rav Ari Katz is the Director of Sderot Hesder Yeshiva For More Make sure to sign up for exclusive written content at ShtarkTank.org For more on the Gush Katif Heritage Center click here For more on Sderot Hesder Yeshiva click here

While we’re on our bein hazmanim break and gearing up for some exciting episodes in Elul, I wanted to share a podcast I’ve been enjoying on my commute. This week’s recommendation is a thought-provoking episode of the Iyun Podcast, hosted by Rabbi Ari Koretsky — in my opinion, one of the best podcast hosts out there. Each episode takes a deep, nuanced look at issues like the Charedi draft and other pressing topics. In this episode, Does the Torah Protect?, Rabbi Dr. Yitzchak Lifshitz offers a fresh and engaging perspective. The conversation ties closely to themes we explore on Shtark Tank, especially the relationship between the Beis Midrash and the outside world. Give it a listen — I think you’ll enjoy it as much as I did. Sign up for our newsletter at ShtarkTank.org

This is the third and final week of our Summer Listening Series, where I share some of the podcasts I enjoy on my commute. Next week, we’ll be back with a brand new episode—stay tuned. This week’s pick is from Shu"t First, Ask Questions Later, hosted by Rabbi Moshe Kurtz. This podcast truly takes advantage of the medium—bringing together voices from across the Jewish world to learn Torah in conversation. The featured episode is especially relevant to Shtark Tank listeners, as Rabbi Kurtz is joined by Mr. Gedalia Wielgus, a lawyer and talmid chacham, for a thought-provoking discussion about a wild case of Yibum. Check out Shtarktank.org for exclusive written articles!

It’s Elul, and we’re focusing on Defining Success as Bnei Torah in the workplace. What does real success look like? Is it possible to set goals that are both ambitious and compassionate? This week, we sit down with Rav Shimon Isaacson, Rosh Yeshiva of Mevaseret. Before entering the world of Torah and chinuch, Rav Isaacson worked in Big Law in New York City. Many assume he left that life to escape its spiritual emptiness — but the truth is much more surprising. Summary In this episode, I sat down with Rav Shimon Isaacson, Rosh Yeshiva of Mevaseret, to trace his remarkable journey from Big Law associate to respected mechanech and community leader in Israel. Rav Isaacson shares how his wife’s passion for Aliyah shaped their family’s path, how he balanced intense Torah learning with a demanding legal career, and how an unusual arrangement of “lawyer in the summer, learner in the year” gave him the springboard into full-time chinuch. The conversation dives into big life questions: What makes for a successful decision-making process? How can a Ben Torah thrive in the workforce? What does passion in Avodas Hashem look like? Rav Isaacson also reflects on 30 years of Aliyah, the role of rebbeim as life guides, the value of combining Torah greatness with real-world experience, and how yeshiva can prepare talmidim for decades of growth ahead.

It’s Elul, a time to prepare for the Yamim Noraim with the theme of Defining Success.When we take stock of our lives with a cheshbon hanefesh, we’re really asking: Where am I now—and where should I be? That’s the core question of this series: how to define success as a Ben Torah in the workplace. Many of our rabbeim push us toward ambitious goals in learning, but how do we balance those ideals with the blessed responsibilities of work, family, and community? This week’s guest is Rav Simi Lerner. Rav Simi is an educator in Jerusalem and Tel Aviv, a passionate Hirschian thinker, and—on the side—an electrician in Beit Shemesh. We discuss how Rav Hirsch’s idea of Torah im Derech Eretz and other foundational principles can help us shape a grounded, realistic, and meaningful definition of success. 🎧 Before you listen: please take 10 seconds to help us grow by leaving a 5-star review and hitting subscribe. Thank you! References Judaism from Within podcastRav Hirsch on Viduy

Moshe Chaim started out as a successful Kollel yungerman. But soon after he transitioned to the workforce, he found himself in a therapists office, as his professional struggles had already started to spill over in to his marriage, emotional health, and other areas. This true story (with names changed) is the case study that Rabbi Dr. Yosef Sokol uses to introduce his book 'Becoming Godly'. The book combines Machshava from the Ramchal and others, along with psycholgy, to give a framework for religous growth. We spoke about having a healthy relationship with the past, as a neccesssary condition for building a better future. We also spoke about finding meaning at work, the role of labels, and some practical tips ahead of the Yamim Noraim. Please help us grow the show by leaving a 5-star review and hitting the subscribe button. Thanks! Guest Bio Rabbi Dr. Yosef Sokol (credentials) is a licensed clinical psychologist, professor at Touro University, and VA research scientist specializing in suicide prevention and recovery. He developed Continuous Identity Cognitive Therapy (CI-CT), an innovative approach that supports healing and recovery from suicide attempts and ideation. He has numerous peer reviewed publications and leads major research grants from the VA and American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Dr. Sokol earned his PhD from Hofstra University, received semichah from Yeshivas Bais Yosef Novardok, and is the author of Becoming Godly: Integrating Torah and Psychology to Guide Us in Emulating Hashem. He is dedicated to bringing recovery-oriented, identity-focused approaches to healing individuals struggling with suicide.

As we prepare for Yom Kippur, we speak with Joseph Gitler about his son-in-law, David Schwartz HY”D—a ben Torah, law student, and IDF reservist in Handasah Kravit (combat engineering) who fell in Khan Younis on January 8, 2024 alongside his chavrusa Yakir Hexter HY”D. Joseph shares how David wove together strong learning with real-world duty, his years in Gush Etzion, his time at Reichman University law school, his gift for connecting across communities, and what it means to mourn while still choosing life and responsibility. We also hear about ongoing projects in David’s memory and the weekly Divrei Torah initiative that now reaches thousands. Links ⁠To join the David Schwartz Divrei Torah chat⁠⁠To watch the video from the Azkara⁠ Highlights Ben Torah in the world: David’s learning (Kli Yakar chavrusas, steady seder) and his drive to serve—both in the IDF and potentially in public service. Bridging worlds: Deep ties across communities (yeshiva, Chassidus, secular campus). Seeking dialogue without blurring values. Reichman law school: Culture shock, principled debate during the judicial protests, and the value of hearing people who think differently. Army service: Training, multiple rotations in Gaza with Tzanhanim commandos; pride in the unit’s work despite the dangers. January 8, 2024: The incident in Khan Younis; community and family response; what shiva looked like for parents of the almanah. National resilience: “The whole country has PTSD.” Practical takeaways: watch your friends and kids; speak up when you see someone struggling; get help involved. Living memory: A sefer of David’s Torah (written in yeshiva), a growing weekly parsha sheet in Hebrew and English, shul/Beit Midrash renovations, and a loans fund for farmers and soldiers—projects that carry his light forward.

With tremendous historical events unfolding, I couldn’t record a regular episode.This moment demanded more than another interview, it called for guidance and clarity. What does this new chapter in our history mean?What is our role right now?How do we balance the whirlwind of emotions — gratitude, pain, pride, and confusion — that we’re all feeling? I was grateful that Rav Moshe Taragin agreed to join me once again to help unpack these questions.There’s truly no one who combines such deep Torah knowledge with historical awareness and a living connection to Am Yisrael. Together, we explore how to: Hold joy and grief at the same time Express real hakaras hatov — to Hashem, to soldiers, to each other See the hand of Hashem in political and military reality Understand what this nes demands of us A special, timely conversation for anyone trying to make sense of this historic moment. Click Here to order Rav Taragins book 'Dark Clouds Above, Faith Below' about the events of October 7th and the ensuing war.

You don’t have to love your job—but you can’t hate it.Rabbi Yehuda Halpert (shul rabbi, Big Law attorney, author) joins Shtark Tank to talk straight about Torah life inside a 90-hour week, setting real standards, and why reassessing is different than slipping. What You'll Hear How a Ben Torah can thrive in Big Law without losing the plot “Slipping vs. reassessing” — setting honest standards after yeshiva The Mincha hack that anchors your day (and your network) Peer pressure at the office: values, money, and role models Balancing a Shabbos-only pulpit with a full-time firm role Lessons from COVID that helped after Oct 7 Career calling vs. community calling: picking your tafkid Guest Bio Rabbi Yehuda Halpert — shul rabbi in Teaneck, Big Law lawyer, and author of Speaking to an Empty Shul: Timeless Lessons from Unprecedented Times. Quick Takeaways Build a system that works with your schedule Guard your company — work with good people Use Mincha as a daily reset and natural networking moment Review your standards every 6–12 months; adjust with intentYou can be excellent at your craft and strong in your values Did you enjoy this episode? Follow Shtark Tank on Spotify and rate the show (it really helps). Share this episode with a friend Join the Shtark Tank WhatsApp group for episode drops and Q&A (link in show notes).

Last week’s episode hit a nerve.Some listeners loved it. Others were really bothered by it. So for the first time ever, we’re doing a feedback episode — bringing back Rav Yehuda Halpert to go deeper on the toughest questions you raised.Is the culture of Big Law really compatible with Torah values?What does it take to survive — or grow — spiritually in that world?And how do we weigh ambition, family, and avodas Hashem when the hours never end? In this follow-up: Years 1–3: the “conveyor belt” and why control is limited When to pivot — and how to choose a practice that protects Shabbos The billable-hour trap and what it does to your mind Can you ever “limit your hours” and still advance? Real talk on money, promotions, and gam zu l’tovah Shabbos at the firm: teamwork, gratitude, and derech eretz Marbitz Torah without a title — from shiurim to writing Harsh listener feedback: “For what are these costs worth paying?” Hashkafic tension: excellence vs. moderation Marriage, parenting, and faith when energy and time are scarce If you appreciate these kinds of raw, honest conversations, follow Shtark Tank and leave a 5-star review — it helps others find the show and keeps these dialogues going.

As we mark the yahrzeit of Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks, we’re remembering him through the eyes of two working Bnei Torah who knew him personally — not as a public icon, but as a mentor, a mensch, and a man of deep humility. Joe Hyams spent his late teens driving Rabbi Sacks to events across London. From the front seat, he saw the balance between majesty and modesty. “He carried himself with a regal sense of presence — yet he’d be the one holding the door open for you.” Joe describes the long, quiet drives before speeches, the relaxed warmth afterward, and how those moments shaped his own path in Torah, family, and career. David Frei, a London lawyer and communal leader, became one of Rabbi Sacks’ trusted editors. He saw the scholar behind the sermons — “a brilliant writer and a brilliant orator,” who read a new book every night and took feedback with humility. David recalls those tense early-2000s years and how Rabbi Sacks emerged stronger, turning personal trials into a wider moral voice for faith and reason. Together, their memories reveal a side of Rabbi Sacks rarely seen — deeply human, endlessly curious, and quietly transformative. Select Quotes: “He could speak to you without speaking. His smile was sharp love — piercing, serious, and full of warmth all at once.” “He showed that Torah, integrity, and professional success aren’t separate worlds — they can and should live together.”

100th episode. World-class Torah educator. All your burning questions. To mark our 100th episode, Rav Aryeh Lebowitz joins Shtark Tank for a wide-ranging Q&A on what it really means to be a Ben Torah in the workforce. We talk about: “You’re never going to be Rav Schachter… and that’s okay” – setting healthy goals in learning Gadol biographies, ambition, and why you’re not supposed to be the Chafetz Chaim How to grow in learning when you’re working full time and raising a family Stress and guilt: when “I’m not learning enough” is healthy – and when it’s toxic Who should go into chinuch and rabbanus… and who should not Aliyah, parnassah, and the real math of teaching in Eretz Yisrael Minyan, mincha at work, and missing davening for family Phones, attention spans, and why Rav Aryeh deleted Twitter It’s a packed, honest conversation with one of the most listened-to Torah teachers in the world – and a fitting way to celebrate 100 episodes of Shtark Tank. If this episode helped you, the best “100th episode gift” you can give is simple: follow the show, leave a 5-star rating, and share it with one friend who’s trying to balance Torah, work, and family.

Aliyah isn’t just a flight and a moving truck.It’s a total reset of how you think about parnassah, gashmiyus, bitachon, and what “quality of life” actually means. In this episode, I sit down with Eli Freedman, founder of Cork & Cellar Wine Club, to talk about what it really takes to move to Israel and stay – spiritually, emotionally, and financially. Eli shares how he: Went from Boston → Wall Street → Montreal → Beit Shemesh Had zero interest in Aliyah… until COVID, a grandchild in Israel, and a breaking point in Canada Sold his house and business with no Plan B so he couldn’t run back Went through the “Eretz Yisrael car wash” – a painful but powerful reset of his gashmiyus and bitachon Rebuilt his career from scratch, launching Cork & Cellar, a boutique Israeli wine club for U.S. customers Found a real rav and kehillah after years of feeling disconnected Built a serious morning learning seder and finished Shas multiple times while running a business We also talk about: Why you must come with a realistic parnassah plan – and still expect it to break The mindset shift from “keeping up with the Joneses” to “being happy with less but living with more” How living in Eretz Yisrael forces you to actually use your emunah and bitachon, not just talk about them The balance between enjoying good wine and not turning gashmiyus into your ikar About our guest:Eli Freedman is the founder of Cork & Cellar Wine Club, connecting small Israeli wineries with wine lovers in the U.S., and helping boutique winemakers who would never make it to American shelves. He lives in Beit Shemesh with his family. If this episode gave you chizuk or clarity about Aliyah and mindset,please follow Shtark Tank, leave a rating, and share it with a friend who’s thinking about moving to Israel.

What do you do when your day job feels empty — but you still need to show up, provide, and stay honest? In this episode of Shtark Tank, I sit down with my cousin and friend Yoni Schwartz — Head of Data Science at Exponential and Head Producer of Living L’chaim. Yoni shares how he went from a corporate role that felt like “a complete lack of purpose” to leading 10 shows that have inspired and helped countless people. He is also the host of Spirit of the Song podcast, make sure to check it out! We talk about meaning, ambition, family, and the real-life tradeoffs of building something big on top of a demanding day job. In this conversation we cover: What it feels like when work is steady… but meaningless How Yoni first joined Living L’chaim and how the role grew over time The ethics of balancing a primary job with major side projects Startup life vs. corporate life — and what actually changed for him How he manages two intense roles without a rigid system The idea of intentionality as a survival tool for busy people Setting boundaries after COVID blurred everything Early morning learning as a realistic anchor for fathers with young kids The impact Living L’chaim aims for — inspiration, mental health, and financial clarity Cultivating a relationship with your Rebbi Key takeaway:You don’t need a perfect system to juggle a lot — but you do need honesty, priorities, and intentional choices you can live with. If this episode resonated, please take a moment to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating. It helps more Bnei Torah in the workforce find these conversations. Guest: Yoni SchwartzHost: Yaakov Wolff

It’s Chanukah — the season of miracles. But what about the “miracles” we’re watching unfold in our own lifetime… through technology? In this special Chanukah episode, I’m joined by Mois Navon, also known as the “Mobileye Rabbi.” Mois has spent decades in high-tech and decades learning and teaching Torah — and in this conversation he helps us think clearly about innovation, awe, ethics, and where all of this may be heading. In this episode we discuss: Why Mois is called the “Mobileye Rabbi” (and how it started with lunch table conversations) What Judaism actually says about innovation and building new technology A powerful Torah framing: technology as a mandate to improve the world The other side: limits, guardrails, and ethics (and why it matters more than ever) Noach as the first engineer — and why the plow changed human history Is new tech really a “miracle,” or just human creativity inside nature? The dangers of modern tools (social media, AI, and more) — and the case for self-control Are we living in unprecedented times? The “Geulah” question: what do Torah sources suggest about a future of automation and abundance? Practical advice for building the right “muscles” for the world our kids may grow up in Links & resources: Mois Navon’s website (500+ shiurim + source sheets): link here Mois’s article on Judaism, technology, and ethics: link here If you enjoyed the episode, please subscribe and leave a rating — it helps more people find Shtark Tank. About Mois Navon Mois Navon is one of the founding engineers of Mobileye, where he designed the EyeQ family of SoC (System On a Chip) – the chip powering the autonomous vehicle revolution.  Mois is also an ordained rabbi who has published numerous articles on Jewish law and lore.  Working at the intersection of Torah U’Madda, he received his PhD from the department of Jewish Philosophy at Bar Ilan University wherein his dissertation applies Jewish philosophy to address the ethical questions arising in the field of artificial intelligence.  In this vein, he teaches a course on “Ethics in Artificial Intelligence” at Ben Gurion University.  He is also a National Advisor to the Ministry of Innovation, Science, and Technology on Artificial Intelligence Policy and Regulation in Israel. 

Gratitude is usually talked about after things work out. This episode is about learning it while you’re still in it. In honor of Chanukah, 'days of praise and thanks', Dan Cohen shares what it was like to go from a full, busy professional life to an unexpected spinal surgery and 90 days in a rehab ward — right in the middle of a national crisis. Not a dramatic story.Not a miracle tale. A real look at what gratitude means when: your plans fall apart your body isn’t cooperating your work and identity are put on pause Dan reflects on letting go of expectations, staying present when the future is unclear, and learning that gratitude isn’t about being happy — it’s about recognizing that this moment is where you’re meant to be. A Chanukah episode about small light, honest praise, and finding steadiness in ordinary challenges that many professionals quietly carry. We also talk about how writing Divrei Torah was an anchor for Dan during during his hardest times. More From Dan Check out Dan's firm, FCP Communications here To read Dan's Divrei Torah To learn more about Geerz, click here

This week on Shtark Tank, we’re opening the mailbag to dive into the conversations, questions, and insights sparked by our recent episodes. We explore what it really means to be an eved Hashem , a professional , and a family man in a fast-paced world. In this episode, we discuss: The "Millstone" of Marriage: Does our Avodas Hashem fundamentally change once we have families? We look at the Gemara in Kiddushin about learning before vs. after marriage. Work as a "Calling": Is the idea of self-fulfillment at work a modern invention? We trace the sources from the Chovas HaLevavos to modern corporate culture. Savoring the Steak: Why we should treat a line of Gemara like a juicy steak and how to handle the stress of "not learning enough" in a vast sea of Torah. Torah as an Antidote: A deep dive into the Netziv on why the Torah critiques Yosef’s beauty and how geshmak learning is the ultimate protection against the yetzer hara. The AI Future: If AI takes over our jobs, will we actually have the focus to "study God" all day? The Aliyah Struggle: Facing the "rational" vs. "emotional" challenges of making the move to Israel. Support the Show:If you enjoyed this episode, please hit Subscribe and leave a 5-star review—it helps us reach more listeners like you!

What does real success look like when you’re trying to stay grounded as a Ben Torah? In this episode of Shtark Tank, I sat down with Laizer Kornwasser — CEO of DrFirst, professor at Yeshiva University, and Chairman of NCSY — for a wide-ranging conversation about ambition, pressure, leadership, and the Torah ideas that shape how we show up at work and in life. Laizer shares stories from investment banking and the C-suite, including how he learned to earn his “seat at the table” through facts, results, and humility. We talk about drawing clear lines when work clashes with Shabbos, why most people aren’t cut out for investment banking, and how to define success in a way that protects your priorities. Then we shift into a deep dive on the Altar of Slabodka: Gadlus HaAdam, EQ vs IQ, gratitude, and the power of seeing each person as an individual with real potential. And yes — we get into the now-famous practice: why Laizer handwrites 1,000 New Year’s cards and sends personal thank-you messages one-by-one, and what it teaches about hakaras hatov, relationships, and leadership. In this episode, we cover: Why investment banking is “not cut out for most people” What “success” really means when you’re trying to grow in Yiddishkeit The importance of knowing your line in the sand (and not crossing it) A real story: a CEO tried to push Shabbos boundaries — and Laizer’s response “Facts, not emotion”: how to communicate with different personalities The Altar of Slabodka’s approach to building people, not just teaching Torah EQ as a Jewish leadership skill, not just a business buzzword Why Laizer sends personal thank-yous instead of mass messages Chesed that actually changes you (not just “check-writing”) If you got value from this episode, please take 10 seconds to subscribe and leave a 5-star rating — it helps more people find the show.

In this Shovavim special, I sat down with marriage coach Aaron Zakowski for a direct and practical conversation about what it really means to be a Jewish husband and father in today’s world. We talk about: Why emotional safety matters as much as financial stability The mistake many men make when they try to “fix” instead of listen How long work hours affect marriage—and what actually helps Why your value as a Jewish man does not come from your paycheck What most chassan classes don’t prepare you for How marriage changes at different stages of life Stress, self-esteem, and why men need support too Creating closeness at home without needing more time in the day Resources Aaron on Instagram Beyond The Chassan Class (Webinar) Shalom Bayis Daily (Whatsapp Group) You can reach Aaron at [email protected]

Is it possible to grow in Torah and business at the same time? Last week, I sat down with Moe Mernick, Ben Lang, and Michael Bloch to talk it through — live, in front of an energetic crowd of 50+ growth-oriented leaders, at the offices of DLA Piper Israel in Tel Aviv. The “excuse” for the gathering was Moe’s new book, Conversations with Jewish Business Leaders — and the conversation went way beyond the book. We discussed: What success really means (and why it can’t be one-size-fits-all) Why success isn’t about money — and how to build a life that actually feels aligned Meaning at work, mid-career “what am I doing with my life?” moments, and the idea of learn / earn / return How side projects can turn into real impact Staying strong in the lows: imposter syndrome, mentors, community, and keeping perspective Spiritual growth in the busy years: fixed learning times, realistic goals, balancing “heart” and “mind,” and accountability Order Conversations with Jewish Business Leaders here. Big thank you to the event hosts and sponsors: DLA Piper Israel and Yeshiva University Israel.

For Parashat Beshalach / Shabbat Shirah, we’re pulling a fan-favorite from the archives: a wide-ranging conversation with Jewish music legend Abie Rotenberg — songwriter of classics like Acheinu, Mama Rochel, and Na’ar Hayiti. But this episode isn’t only about music. A.B. shares how building a serious career in business gave him something rare in the music world: freedom. Freedom to write at his own pace, choose what to release, and never treat music like a paycheck. We also get into: His path from chinuch to the family import business (and what that transition really felt like) Why he sees songwriting as a real form of chinuch — and how melodies can open up the words of tefillah and pesukim The story and intent behind Marvelous Middos Machine, and the very real dilemmas of teaching values through songs Reflections on Acheinu returning to the world in a painful new way His Torah writing (sfarim on Eliyahu Hanavi and Rabbi Akiva) — plus a surprising third book: a baseball novel built for kiruv Baseball, balance, and the line between a healthy outlet and a distraction Subscribe if you’re enjoying the show — it helps more than you think.

Super Bowl week is here, and as Bnei Torah, we can't avoid asking a hard question: what is sports doing to our time, our headspace, and our Avodas Hashem? In this episode of Shtark Tank, I sit down with Rav Moshe Benovitz (Director of NCSY Kollel) for a real, nuanced conversation about loving sports without losing yourself in it—including the famous story of a Super Bowl night in Yeshivat Kerem B'Yavne where he made a deep decision to skip the game. We talk about: When sports is healthy… and when it starts to take over “Must-see TV,” compulsion, and where to draw the line Sports as a “religious” experience (arenas as temples) What Torah educators and marketers can learn from the NFL’s pull Community, purpose, and building a mission-driven life A fun detour into Bill Simmons and why sports can create real connection

In this episode, I sit down with Yossi (Joseph) Landes—President and co-founder of Nerdio (a unicorn), and a 23-year veteran of Microsoft. But this conversation isn’t mainly about startups. It’s about growing in Gemara when you don’t see yourself as “the best learner,” and building a life where Torah stays at the center—through airports, moves abroad, pressure, and big responsibility. We talk about: “I might be the worst learner in the whole yeshiva.” And how that humility became fuel—not a stop sign. Daf Yomi as identity: train rides, flights, gates, and “downtime” that turns into real learning time. Awe for talmidei chachamim: the pictures on his desk, and what they remind him of when work gets loud. Lessons from Satya Nadella + lessons from yeshiva—especially the mindset of being a learn-it-all, not a know-it-all. What it takes to stay frum while living around the world—plus huge hakaras hatov to Chabad for making that possible. “Truth is found in the field”: how empathy, listening, and outside-in thinking shaped his leadership style. The long game: building a unicorn company, and still saying, “When I’m done, I want to learn full time.” If you appreciate Shtark Tank, please make sure to subscribe and leave a 5-star review!

What if the most “frum” thing you can do at work… is simply doing your job well? In this episode, I’m joined by Rav Dovid Gottlieb for a sharp, practical conversation built around a powerful piece from Rav Shlomo Wolbe (Alei Shur)—with guidance that every working Ben Torah needs. Soon after, we take these ideas into one of the hottest and most real-life arenas right now: religious soldiers in the IDF, and the tension of doing what’s right while still missing the beis medrash, the minyan, and the Yom Tov experience. The takeaway applies to soldiers and professionals: avoid guilt, stay honest about what you’re missing, and keep striving. In this episode: The Midrash about Chanuch the cobbler: how “every stitch” can be holy when your goal is to help people Rav Wolbe’s big idea: there’s no such thing as truly “secular” work when you bring the right kavana The “Do Your Job” principle: why learning/davening at the wrong time can become a mitzvah haba’ah b’aveirah The soldier/workforce parallel: no guilt when you’re doing what Hashem needs from you now—while still feeling the loss of what you’re missing Balancing the three jobs: family, parnassah, and Torah (and why there’s no one-size-fits-all formula) A powerful closing charge from Rav Wolbe: Hashem hasn’t given up on you—keep striving to grow in Torah “Latent awareness”: how Torah stays with you even when you’re fully focused on your mission To support Religous IDF soliers click here and support Tzalash. If you want to help us grow Shtark Tank, make sure to hit subscribe and leave a 5 star review, thanks!

We’re coming up on the 40th yahrzeit of Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, and this episode is a guided tour through Rav Moshe’s Torah on the questions every Ben Torah eventually faces: How do I build a life where Torah stays central… while I’m working, providing, and living in the real world? Our guest, Rabbi Moshe Kurtz (rabbi, podcaster, and serious Rav Moshe researcher), just released a new sefer: Me'oros Moshe — a curated collection of Rav Moshe’s divrei Torah on Pirkei Avos, pulling from Igros Moshe, derashos, chidushim, and key writings from talmidim and family. You will hear: how Rav Moshe frames kollel, parnassah, college, career choices, and what it means to live with “aseh Torascha keva” even outside the beis medrash. What you’ll learn in this episode: 1) Kollel isn’t “all or nothing” 2) “College” is not automatically the derech ha-parnassah 3) The big idea: “Aseh Torascha keva” is about orientation, not just hours 4) Career choices: Rav Moshe’s lens on medicine and “zero-sum” tradeoffs 5) Rav Moshe’s greatness wasn’t only brilliance — it was care-driven psak To order Meoros Moshe, click here Bio: Rabbi Moshe Kurtz Rabbi Moshe Kurtz serves as the Rabbi of Congregation Sons of Israel in Allentown, PA. He is the author of Meoros Moshe (Aleh Zayis, 2025), a Pirkei Avos anthology of scholarship and stories about HaGaon HaRav Moshe Feinstein zt”l. Rabbi Kurtz previously hosted Shu"T First Ask, Questions Later, published Challenging Assumptions(Mosaica Press, 2023), and writes about contemporary halachic issues in forums such as the Journal of Halacha and Contemporary Society (RJJ Journal), OUTorah, The Lehrhaus, Torah Musings and Jewish Action.  Rabbi Kurtz proudly serves as a member of the Allentown Police Department’s chaplain unit as well as the Allentown School District Superintendent’s Interfaith Council. He also contributes to The Morning Call and was featured on Business Matters, a production of the Lehigh Valley Chamber of Commerce (WFMZ Studios). Rabbi Kurtz hosts the As I Walk Through the Valley podcast, and is currently writing a book based on his Unpacking the Iggerotcolumn at Tradition. He can be reached at [email protected]. 

Uri Edell shares his story of addiction, rehab and recovery. If you need help, contact Amudim now. Crisis hotline can be reached at 646-517-0222, or from israel 02-374-0175 This is a special Purim bonus episode—a raw and honest conversation meant to warn and wake people up. In this episode, Uri Edel shares his personal story—how gambling started young, how “just for fun” escalated over years, and how legalization + apps turned it into something 24/7, always within reach. Uri describes: The first win that hooked him—and the years spent chasing that same high How gambling isn’t only about money, but about time, secrecy, and control What happens when betting becomes available in the palm of your hand, anytime, anywhere The “VIP” treatment that makes you feel special… while pulling you deeper The moment he realized this was hurting the people he loved most—and why he finally came clean Rehab, Gamblers Anonymous, rebuilding trust, and living one day at a time This conversation is intense, but it’s also hopeful. Uri doesn’t share this story for drama. He shares it to help someone listening avoid the same trap, or to help someone already struggling realize: you’re not alone, and help is real. Purim Sameach—and please, a safe one.

How do Bnei Torah apply skills from the workforce to serve non-profit organizations? In this episode, Yaakov Wolff speaks with Allen Pfeiffer and Hillel Scheinfeld two successful professionals who bring their strengths into the world of tzedakah and nonprofits. They discuss why donors should think more seriously about where their money goes, why nonprofits need more transparency and accountability, and why giving should not be passive. The conversation also explores how working Bnei Torah can contribute not only with checks, but with perspective, standards, and real involvement. This is a conversation about treating tzedakah with the seriousness it deserves. In this episode: Why tzedakah is not just “giving money away” Why business skills matter in the nonprofit world How donors should think about impact and accountability Why trust and transparency matter so much What smaller donors can do besides give money How to support causes in a more thoughtful way

Dov Adler is an audit partner who has in intereresting relationship with auditing. In this episode, Dov Adler shares a refreshingly honest take on work, fulfillment, and responsibility. We talk about growing up in a rabbi’s home, choosing accounting over rabbanus, wearing a kippah in corporate America, and building a career that is meaningful not because every task is enjoyable, but because of the life and impact built around it. We also discuss Torah learning during busy seasons, public speaking, fundraising, parenting, and the challenge of raising children with patience, example, and conviction. This is a wide-ranging conversation about ambition, service, and what it means to build a serious Torah life in the workforce without thinking in narrow boxes. Key Highlights: Smashing Paradigms: Why you don't need to "love" your core job to find professional fulfillment. The Power of Bribes: The viral story of how Dov used a car lease to spark his son’s love for Gemara. Kiddush Hashem at PwC: Navigating the corporate ladder while maintaining a visible Jewish identity. Fundraising as a Mission: How Dov balances multi-million dollar campaigns for schools and shuls with his 9-to-5. Consistent Learning: Tips for maintaining two sedarim a day, even during peak "busy season." Listen to Dov's shiurim on YUTorah

What happens when Torah, growth, and mental health start pulling against each other instead of working together? In this episode of Shtark Tank, Yaakov Wolff speaks with Dr. Dan Jacobson — psychologist, musmach, co-author of Flipping Out, and author of Light in the Darkness — about stress, anxiety, yeshiva pressure, and the long-term impact they can have on our Avodat Hashem. To recieve a free copy of Light in the Darkness, about kedusha in today's world, email [email protected] They discuss the difference between healthy pressure and unhealthy stress, why anxiety seems to be rising in today’s world, and how formative yeshiva experiences can shape a person’s relationship with learning for years afterward. They also talk about balancing Torah, work, and family life, navigating Pesach pressure in a healthier way, and approaching struggles in kedusha with more honesty and less shame. This is a thoughtful and practical conversation about serving Hashem with more clarity, more balance, and more simcha. What We DiscussedDr. Jacobson’s path into psychology and his interest in the intersection of Torah and mental healthThe difference between stress and anxietyWhy some pressure is necessary, but too much can become destructiveHow yeshiva culture can sometimes create unhealthy stress around learning and growthThe long-term effect of yeshiva experiences on a person’s relationship with TorahWhat to do if learning has become tied up with guilt or pressureBalancing competing values like learning, marriage, parenting, and responsibilityHow to reduce stress around Pesach prep and focus more on meaningOCD, halachic uncertainty, and the importance of clear guidanceWhy so many men struggle silently in areas of kedushaWhat Dr. Jacobson hoped to add with his booklet Light in the Darkness Key TakeawaysStress and anxiety are not exactly the same thing. Stress is often tied to present pressure, while anxiety is more future-oriented.Some pressure is part of growth. The goal is not zero stress, but healthy stress in the right dose.Yeshiva can be deeply formative, for good and for bad. If Torah became associated with guilt or pressure, that needs to be rethought.A working person should try to build a relationship with learning that includes pleasure, connection, and simcha — not just obligation.Many struggles become worse when there is too much doubt, especially for people with OCD tendencies.Pesach can become overwhelming when people lose sight of what is halacha and what is chumra, habit, or family expectation.In struggles around kedusha, shame and secrecy often make things worse. Honest, psychologically grounded guidance helps. Notable Lines / Ideas“If the prime emotion that someone has with regard to their learning is a negative emotion, that has to be checked.”“You want there to be simcha and pleasure and joy and connection with your learning.”“We build our strength and resilience by encountering and learning how to handle some difficulty.”“The holiday of freedom can feel enslaving if we lose sight of meaning.” Chapters00:00 Intro 05:20 Stress and Anxiety, in Yeshiva and beyond28:12 Balancing learning, marriage, parenting, and other real responsibilities32:15 Pesach pressure: cleaning, OCD, chumros, and staying sane38:52 Light in the Darkness: what Dr. Jacobson wanted to add to the kedusha conversation45:48 Rapid fire About the GuestDr. Dan Jacobson is a psychologist and musmach who has spent years thinking and writing about the intersection of mental health, yeshiva life, and Avodat Hashem. He is the co-author of Flipping Out and the author of Light in the Darkness, a booklet addressing struggles in kedusha with psychological depth and Torah sensitivity.

Get ready for Pesach with a mega collection of divrei torah, from Bnei Torah in the workforce. You will hear from Rav Yakov Danishefsky, Rav Jonathan Livi,Rav Max Berger, Zak Lenik, Mark Tobin Dr. Mordy Goldenberg and Yoel Van Messel. At the end, you will hear some ideas of mine which I shared on The Greatest Parasha podcast, hosted by Raymond Ashkenazie and Emma Dayan A big thank you to Shlomo Price for his help with extra editing. Wishing you and your families a Chag Kasher Vsameach   Guest Bios and Links Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky, LCSW CSAT, is a Chicago-basedtherapist and author of the widely read Attached, the newly released AttachedHaggadah, and the forthcoming sefer The Delight of Shabbos. He leads AvodasHaLev, a Chicago organization devoted to meaningful learning and communityprogramming, and hosts The Attached Life Podcast. He is known for bringingdepth, passion, and warmth to everything he teaches. To order the Haggadah: To order in US: https://a.co/d/03dgzXKD   https://alehzayis.com/product/the-attached-haggadah/   https://feldheim.com/the-attached-haggadah   To order in E"Y: https://siparti.co/attachedH/ Jonathan Livi is founder and Principal of RJL CapitalAdvisors, which places JV equity for middle market commercial real estate transactions across the United States. He is also the Hazzan and assistant rabbi at Shaare Rachamim Synagogue in Great Neck, NY, in which capacity heteaches Tanakh daily. His shiurim are available on Spotify and Apple Podcast via his various podcasts. He is married to Kayla, and father to 3 kids. https://open.spotify.com/show/45srXeZZgZKHAomOmpIkmh?si=hf6h-z2dToezYb95H0dMxQ   https://open.spotify.com/show/48iHU4mP1cvgZOGFrC5Jys?si=JinlUNvmSeimGKQl9LWiMQ   Max Berger was an aspiring rabbi turned aspiring philosopherturned VC. He spent the last two years at Next Gear Ventures, a Tel Aviv basedearly stage VC fund, before moving back to New York this year.   ZakLenik  is a real estate advisor in Israel who works mainly with Anglos looking to buy a home andbuild a life here. His own aliyah journey didn’t start in the most typical way, but through years of learning—and later teaching—Torah, he developed a strongsense of purpose that ultimately brought him back to Israel for good. Now, he helps others navigate that same journey, combining real estate guidance with a deeper understanding of what it means to truly build a life here   https://www.instagram.com/zak in israel?igsh=YTU0MWRlbW5iMGMx&utm source=qr   00:00 Intro 00:52 Rav Yaakov Danishefsky: Writing Your Own Story 18:08 Rav Jonathan Livi: The Revolution of Freedom 34:40 Rav Max Berger: Matzah and Authenticity 52:26 Zak Lenik: Freedom or Slavery? 01:11:12 Mark Tobin: The Holiday of Emunah 01:19:07 Dr. Mordy Goldenberg: Late Night Vision 01:25:51 Yoel Van Messel: Understanding Our Goals 01:38:40 Yaakov Wolff on Greatest Parashah Podcast 02:01:26 Outro