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512 - Yissurim (Part-4)

Jan 12, 2026

4:18

The verse in Divrei Hayamim states, “Ki Mimcha Hakol umiyadecha natanu lach” - everything we have is from Hashem, and from your hand, Hashem, have we given back to you. This verse teaches us an incredible fundamental principle about our lives and all of our accomplishments. Hashem put us into a world where we are meant to make an effort and try to succeed in our endeavors and accomplishments. However, it is so vital to remember the advice and guidance from Hashem expressed in this verse, which states that anything and everything that we give back to Hashem is in actuality returning a gift that Hashem gave to us in the first place. So, let's say a person has been blessed with wealth, and they would like to use this blessing in service of Hashem, and they decide to perform many acts of charity, helping many people in a tremendous way. One in such a position might be led to feelings of pride at times. This verse reminds us that if one has been given the blessing of wealth and is now using it to perform charity, of course that is a very commendable act, and they're passing the test of having been given wealth, because again, somebody could choose to use their wealth just for self-gratification and not to perform acts of charity. But this verse reminds us that even if somebody is performing acts of charity with their blessing, with their wealth, they nevertheless should remember at every moment, that the only reason they can perform this mitzvah is because Hashem gave them this blessing in the first place. And therefore, we ought to sing Hashem's praises in gratitude for allowing us to perform this mitzvah. And in the same way, take an individual who's currently feeling very down, and I have the type of relationship with this individual that I might be able to help them feel more upbeat. The Gemara teaches us that it is a tremendous mitzvah to make other people happy. Let's say I'm successful in my endeavor, and I succeed in bringing a tremendous amount of light into this individual's life. Of course, that is an incredibly elevated and commendable act, because one could have chosen to ignore that individual and not taken responsibility to help out. However, at times, after helping someone else out, one might be led to feel feelings of self-pride, perhaps arrogance. And this verse is reminding us anything in the world that we are able to do is only because Hashem has blessed us with that blessing in the first place. Let us take the opportunity every moment of our lives to capitalize on the opportunities that Hashem does send us with our blessings, to use them in the right ways in performance of our service of Hashem in helping other people in acts of kindness. And at the same time, let us internalize that any act of kindness that we are ever able to perform is in itself always a gift from Hashem in the first place. “Thank you, Hashem, for all the tremendous blessings that you've given me.”

511 - Yissurim (Part-3)

Jan 11, 2026

4:03

One of the main expressions of having emunah is to believe in life after death. It is well known in Torah teachings that after we depart from this world, there is an evaluation process in the next world which scrutinizes all of our actions and deeds from this world. Anything good that we did is recorded and recounted as well as anything bad that we did is recorded and recounted. We don't see this process taking place because it doesn't happen in this world. It is a process that takes place in the next world. So, without emunah, in a sense, one could be led to deny that such a thing takes place. But again, if we are living according to the principles of emunah, belief in Hashem, one of the basic expressions of emunah is to believe in the world to come, in the process that transpires after we depart from this world. The following story sheds some light on what it means to live with real emunah and how that can really affect our lives in this world in a positive way. There was an individual who passed on from this world. When they came to the next world, all of their mitzvos were put on the one side of the scale and there were many, many mitzvos. However, thereafter, the individual's sins from his life were also recounted and brought to the scale. And suddenly, the scale was tipping towards the side of sin. So, it was obvious to this individual that he was in trouble. However, suddenly, after first having counted the mitzvos and thereafter the sins, there were items that looked like mitzvos, going towards the side of mitzvos. And the man asked, what are those? I can see they are being grouped together with the mitzvos, however, I can also see that they're not mitzvos. He was told, those are yissurin. Those are the suffering that you endured during your life. Suffering and doing our best to respond with emunah through the suffering is parallel to the reward for mitzvos and sometimes even much more. When everything was placed on the scale, all in all, the side of sin had just one more than the other side. So unfortunately for this individual, his result was going to be negative. And he started shouting, please, more yissurin, send me more suffering. In the next world, everything is very clear. We would even wish for more suffering to transpire through our lives if we knew the true reward and result for that in the future. It's all about our perspective. When we remember to view life, suffering, challenges and whatever we may be going through through the eyes and lens of emunah, of faith, of believing sincerely that Hashem only does everything for the best, we will truly transform our experience of life.

510 - Yissurim (Part-2)

Jan 9, 2026

5:18

Many Torah sources teach the potent results that we obtain when Hashem sends us suffering and we respond in the right way. So, although we usually don't wish suffering upon ourselves or those around us, when suffering does come about, it is actually an opportunity Hashem is sending us to earn more points towards the next world - Olam Haba. On the one hand, many Torah sources highlight the great value of Yissurin - of suffering, to the point that sometimes only through suffering can we attain certain high levels in our spirituality, in our relationship with Hashem. As much as we strive to grow, sometimes only through the suffering can we get there. On the other hand, the Talmud elsewhere reports that some of the great sages in the times of the Talmud who were undergoing illness and suffering were asked the question, are you happy that you're going through the suffering or would you prefer to not have to go through the suffering and also miss out on the reward you will get for enduring the suffering and still living with Emunah? And the response by numerous Torah sages was, I would rather not have to suffer even though I'll miss out on the reward which is due for the suffering in the future. This Torah passage at first glance is seemingly difficult to understand because there are many Torah sources which highlight the tremendous value suffering has, sometimes greater than any mitzvah, any form of Torah learning, any form of prayer. Sometimes the suffering that a person endures and still responds with Emunah is greater and can bring us to a greater spiritual level with more reward due in the next world than anything else. Why then did these Torah sages respond that they would prefer to live without any challenges and they were even happy to forgo their due reward in the next world? These were not ordinary people. It was very real to them, the concept of the world to come, so it's difficult to understand why they would so easily give up something so powerful to earn them more points for their place in the next world. And the Maharal gives a beautiful answer on this Talmudic passage that sheds light on how we are to view the concept of suffering in this world. The Maharal explains that there is no question that experiencing Yissurin - suffering and nevertheless responding with Emunah, believing that it is all for the best, this approach is higher than any other form of service to Hashem. The reason these Rabbis in this Talmudic passage responded that they did not want the suffering was for the following reason: The Rabbis were expressing the point that when it comes to suffering, if one does not respond with Emunah, then sometimes one can actually be worse off than if they didn't suffer, because if one does not respond with Emunah, connecting to Hashem, believing that everything is for the best, then sometimes the suffering that we experience can actually move us further away from Hashem. And therefore the Rabbis were expressing, we'd rather not have the challenge of Yissurin, of going through difficult times and challenges, even if we have to forego the potential benefit that one can gain for the next world, because we're worried we will not respond in the right way. Maybe we will be challenged and not respond with Emunah. We do not choose whether we should be challenged and which challenges will be presented to us. And perhaps one can pray that they shouldn't be challenged from Hashem, because we don't want to fail the test. However, when a person is already undergoing a challenge, the challenge is already there. I am currently experiencing Yesurin in whatever way that may be, we ought to remember that there is a tremendous opportunity. If we respond to the challenge with Emunah, this form of service to Hashem is higher than anything else.

509 - Yissurim (Part-1)

Jan 8, 2026

4:06

Life is full of challenges. Torah sources teach that usually a person's life has more challenges and difficult times than pleasant experiences. Challenges, also known as Yisurin in Torah literature, are clearly a fundamental aspect of HaShem's plan for our lives. Without Emunah there are no answers. With Emunah there are no questions. When a person is able to let go and rely on HaShem absolutely and sincerely, all the questions about all the hardships and difficult times I, people close to me and our nation as a whole have had to experience, all those questions in a sense fall away because I know my purpose in this world is not to know. My purpose in this world is specifically to believe when I don't know. So if I believe and trust and rely on HaShem, I have no questions. As dire as a situation may appear to be, if I am relying on HaShem in His hands. I can still live with absolute calm, happiness and really sail through the challenges successfully. Why does HaShem send us Yisurin - challenges? There are many reasons, but ultimately the most correct answer is: I don't fully know, but I believe it's for the good. Again, basic, simple Emunah. With that Emunah I have no questions. However, there are Torah sources that shed some light on the concept of Yisurin, sometimes to help us seek inspiration to manage the challenges that arise through our lives. The Talmud recounts a story of four students, great rabbis unto themselves, who came to visit their rabbi who was ill and suffering. Each student offered words of encouragement to their rabbi. One student expressed, “rabbi, you're even greater than the sun.” Now the sun is something quite vital for this world. And he explained, because the sun helps us in this world, but you rabbi, you help us in this world and for the next world, so you're much greater. And the rabbi was not encouraged much by these words of his student. The next two students continued along similar lines of words of encouragement to their rabbi, and their rabbi similarly was not particularly encouraged by their words. However, when the one student, Rabbi Akiva, offered his words of encouragement, he said: Rabbi, there is nothing greater than suffering - Yisurin are precious. And with these words, the rabbi was comforted. The rabbi of Rabbi Akiva understood that although we don't wish suffering upon ourselves, when Hashem sends it to us, there is no greater gift in the world, because Hashem only does what is best for us. Remember, Hashem created us only to give to us, and therefore, when He decrees that we should suffer, there is no question that that will only bring good to us.

504 - Ahavas Hashem (Part-2)

Jan 2, 2026

4:13

We've been discussing one of the six constant mitzvahs, the mitzvah to love Hashem, which on the one hand is such an important fundamental mitzvah, whilst at the same time can be so difficult, because Hashem is not something tangible, not something we can see nor hear, and therefore how does one bring oneself to this place of being able to truly love Hashem? We mentioned the Rambam who says that by noticing Hashem's creations and admiring them, that is one conduit that brings feelings of love towards Hashem. We also mentioned that when one views life through the correct perspective, that everything that I receive is actually a gift from Hashem, nothing that He owes me, then when I take note of all the tremendous gifts that He is constantly blessing me with, that will automatically bring me to a tremendous love of Hashem. The verse states that at a certain point in history of the Jewish people, they became well-to-do and thereafter kicked back at Hashem. The natural tendency of a poor person is to appreciate everything they receive because they have nothing, and what you give them is so appreciated because they're in so much in need of it, whereas sometimes someone who is very well-off and doesn't necessarily need anything may have a harder time to appreciate the gift that is given to them because they don't really need that gift. And as this verse points out, when the Jewish people became overly well-to-do and spoiled, they kicked back at Hashem and did not take Him as seriously. The Zohar states that if we were to realize just how much Hashem loves us, we would run so fast with the passion of a lion towards Hashem because of the strong burning love we would have back. Hashem just wants to shower all the blessings in the world upon us. Hashem loves us more than we can even begin to imagine. But at the same time, much of the time when Hashem gives us too much, that can lead us, God forbid, to becoming spoiled and kicking back at Hashem, which would be so bad for us in the bigger picture, because now instead of being able to reciprocate our love back and build a close relationship with Hashem, one gets accustomed to not needing anything and therefore not appreciating anything, finding it much harder to love Hashem. Hashem wants to give to us, and as the verse states, when we experience pain, He experiences that pain together with us. And in fact the commentaries explain that when we experience pain, the Shechina experiences much more pain from the fact that we're experiencing pain, than the pain that we ourselves are experiencing. Hashem just wants to give us unlimited gifts, but if He sees that it will be bad for us because we will begin to kick back and stop appreciating and ruin our relationship, then He sees that in the bigger picture it is better not to give to us. It would be wise to make every effort that we can to try to appreciate everything that Hashem gives us, from the smallest to the biggest things, thereby building our love with Hashem, whatever we are experiencing, whilst at the same time giving Hashem reason to give us more, because ultimately Hashem just wants to give us. But if it will be detrimental to us, then it is better that He doesn't give us. "Thank you Hashem for loving me so much and for giving me so many gifts. I love you. Hashem, I want you to know that even though I am limited by my human limitations and sometimes it's hard for me to express this with absolute sincerity, but just know that the true feeling inside me is, Hashem, I love you."

493 - Chanukah (Part-7)

Dec 21, 2025

4:33

We've been discussing how Chanukah is a tremendous opportunity to springboard a boost in our emunah and bitachon endeavor. Although most of us are not on the level to experience outright open miracles like we experienced during Chanukah, however, when we fulfill the mitzvos of Chanukah and give ourselves an opportunity to contemplate on the reason why we're lighting the Chanukah candles, that we're commemorating the outright miracles Hashem performed for us, be it the oil that burned for much longer than any of the laws of nature would dictate, or be it the unprecedented victory of just a handful of people against a large army - one of the main take-homes of these episodes, and one of our focuses during Chanukah, should be the basic conclusion that many Torah sources teach: bitachon works. It is not something that sometimes works and sometimes doesn't. When one relies on Hashem, it works. In the words of one of the Rishonim, Rav Yosef Albo, in his Sefer Haikarim, he writes that just like we are sure that the sun will rise tomorrow, to the same extent one can be sure that if you rely on Hashem, He will come through for you. The only qualification to this rule is like the verse in Ashrei teaches, that Hashem is close to all who call out to Him, as long as they call out sincerely. One level of having bitachon is to say, "of course I rely on Hashem and He is my address to go to, however, I have a back-up plan in case Hashem doesn't come through for me." Although it is commendable that one is including Hashem in the picture, however, this is certainly far from the ultimate bitachon. As the Chovos Halevavos writes to the introduction of his Sefer, that when a person places their trust in another individual or circumstance, Hashem actually removes His own providence from that individual and places them in the hands of whoever they are relying on, or whatever circumstance they might think they are bound by. This is a frighteningly powerful statement. On the one hand, it is clear from countless Torah sources, that when one truly places their trust in Hashem, Hashem will come through for them. And as Rav Yosef Albo in the Sefer Haikkarim taught us, this is a basic equation: Just like Hashem placed it in the laws of nature for the sun to rise in the morning, so too, if one relies on Hashem, Hashem will come through for them. However, on the other side of the spectrum, the Chovos Halevavos is teaching us another principle of how Hashem operates in this world - that if one does choose to rely on another individual or circumstance, then Hashem removes Himself from the situation, and I become bound to the control of this individual or situation that I am relying on. And of course, there are many levels between these two extremes. Sometimes we rely on Hashem, but at the back of our mind, we have a backup plan in case Hashem doesn't really come through for us. And although that is commendable that we are relying on Hashem to some degree, however, because we are not doing so to its full degree, we then become in the hands of other individuals or circumstances to some degree. The tremendous miracles of Chanukah are teaching us that yes, although we have a mitzvah to make our effort to do our hishtadlus in the world, however, a step before that is to take to heart, without a shadow of a doubt, that Hashem exclusively is orchestrating every single detail in my life. And the more I will choose to rely on Hashem, the more He will come through for me, and the less I will choose to rely on other people and circumstances, the less I will be bound by their auspices. "Hashem, my Father, as we approach this final day of Chanukah, please can You help me to truly place my trust in You, to the extent that I really internalize that anything and everything that happens in my life is completely from You, and I have the constant opportunity to reach out to You exclusively and rely on You. And Hashem, You've taught me in Your Torah sources that if I rely on You exclusively, that is the time specifically that You will come through for me. Hashem, it's difficult in this world, because the way the natural world looks, it seems like I'm dependent on people and circumstances. But the scary thing is, that when I do depend on them, You actually put me in their hands, as the Chovos Halevavos has taught us. Please Hashem, help me to not rely on anyone nor anything except for You exclusively."

494 - Chanukah (Part-8)

Dec 22, 2025

4:38

As the festival of Chanukah comes to its culmination, let us remind ourselves of what the Ramban writes about open miracles, that although usually the world operates under the veil of nature, however when Hashem performs open miracles, one of the main objectives is to give us the opportunity to derive inspiration and motivate us to living lives according to the values of emunah and bitachon - that ultimately every single moment of our lives, although they might appear to be moving according to the laws of nature, are actually being orchestrated directly and personally from Hashem Himself. We discussed of what Rav Yosef Albo in the Sefer Ha'ikarim writes, that the opportunity to rely on Hashem and reach out to Hashem for help, as opposed to going to a different address, is part of the laws of nature of how Hashem made the world operate. If one chooses to rely on Hashem, Hashem will come through, and in the words of Rav Yosef Albo, just like we know the sun is expected to rise tomorrow, to the same extent if I rely on Hashem, I can expect that He will come through for me. Although on the one hand, when we take to heart the miracles of Chanukah, it can be inspiring and motivating to live our lives according to the values of emunah and bitachon, however on the other hand, it can sometimes be disheartening when we bring to mind those miracles, because after all is said and done, most of us in today's day and age do not experience such outright miracles. Does that mean, perhaps, that the opportunity to have emunah and bitachon is only available to super-righteous individuals, and maybe it's not applicable to me? There could be many reasons why in general Hashem wants the world to work under the veil of nature. One reason that many commentaries mention is to give us the opportunity to have emunah and bitachon, and believe, specifically when we aren't able to understand why He is doing what He is doing. But as discussed, there are times where Hashem decides to come through in a more apparent way, sometimes in an outright miraculous manner, such as in the episode of Chanukah, and at other times perhaps more relevant to each one of us, although it might not be in an absolute outright miraculous manner, but there are times where we might make a prayer and see Hashem come through for us in the way we requested, and the like. One might say, "okay, I understand, Hashem certainly does exist and runs every detail of the world, and certainly He can do miracles and break the laws of nature, because ultimately He created nature and runs every detail of the world. But that's very nice for people who have reached a high level of righteousness. But what about me? How is this applicable to me? Why would Hashem come through for me in my life? Perhaps I've even committed many sins." Let us remind ourselves of one of the most fundamental, but sometimes most misunderstood principles when it comes to bitachon. The opportunity to have bitachon and rely on Hashem is completely independent of our actions. As the Ramban in his sefer Emunah Bitachon, explains, the verse states, Betach b'Hashem va'aseh tov, trust in Hashem and do good. The Ramban points out that the verse specifically states, "trust in Hashem" first, to teach us that one is able to trust in Hashem independent of our actions. And this idea that anyone, regardless of our spiritual scorecard, is able to trust in Hashem is brought down by countless Torah sources, from the Midrash to the Rishonim such as Ramban and Rabbeinu Yonah, all the way down to the later authorities such as the Chofetz Chaim in Nefutzos Yisrael, chapter 8, who state that even if a person does not have merits and might even be classified as a rasha, an evil individual, just like the sun rises in the morning, the opportunity to have bitachon is available to every one of us. And if we practice our reliance on Hashem, Hashem will come through for us. "Hashem, my Father, as we come to the culmination of Chanukah, these holy days that You've granted us, please will You bless me and help me not to fall into the trap of those that trust and rely on other individuals, because as we learn from the Chovos HaLevavos, when one does so, I actually become under their auspices. Whereas, when I choose to rely on You, You will come through for me, and it is completely independent of my spiritual level. This act of relying on You will be the greatest asset that I can have, both in this world as well as for my eternal reward in the next world."

495 - Torah Study (Part-1)

Dec 23, 2025

4:21

One of the traditions of the festival of Shavuos is that we eat honey. The Torah commentaries explain that the reason for this custom is because the verse compares the sweetness of Torah to honey, which is so sweet. The Torah, the mitzvahs, and everything that is encompassed within the Torah is the sweetest thing in the world. I once heard a beautiful idea based on a famous verse which states that Torah is so great that it is better to me than thousands of pieces of gold and silver. The verse specifically mentions the items in this order. Torah is so great that it is greater to me than gold first and thereafter than silver second. Now, we all know what is worth more, gold or silver? Of course, gold. So if the verse already compared the value of Torah and told us that it is greater than gold, why thereafter does it also say, and it is also greater than silver? If the verse has already stated that Torah is greater than gold, of course it is greater than silver, because gold is greater than silver. And it seems superfluous for the verse to go out its way to thereafter tell us that Torah is also greater than silver. And this most beautiful explanation sheds some light on what our perspective should be in the way we relate to Torah in our appreciation to this amazing gift that Hashem has given us. Torah is such a great gift, so much greater than any money in the world, than any gold in the world, than any silver in the world, that when we compare Torah to gold and silver, it is so far removed from them that gold and silver kind of look like the same thing. Everybody knows that $2 is more than $1. So if I say $10 is more than $2, which is more than $1, that would make sense. However, if we're comparing $10 billion to $2 and to $1, we wouldn't anymore find it necessary to say $10 billion is the greater of the three, then comes $2 and then comes $1. We would rather register that $10 million is so much greater than both $2 as well as $1, that they can't be compared to one another. And we would just say $10 million is in a different league to those smaller amounts. In the same way, when we compare Torah to gold or to silver or to any amount of money in the world, Torah is so much greater than any amount of money, be it $1, $10, a million dollars or $10 billion. It is so insignificant in comparison to the value of our true gift, the gift of Torah, that we just group the items together, gold, silver, it doesn't matter. It's so insignificant in comparison to the Torah. And that's why the verse lists the items seemingly out of order, first saying Torah is greater than gold and thereafter saying Torah is greater than silver, even though it seems superfluous to say so, because gold and silver are so insignificant in comparison to the Torah that one doesn't accord any more value to any one of the two when comparing to Torah. Torah is the sweetest item in the world. With Torah, we remain with the true perspective of what Hashem wants from us in the world of how to live a meaningful life. We are so privileged to have been given the Torah directly from Hashem

496 - Torah Study (Part-2)

Dec 24, 2025

4:03

We are so privileged to have received the Torah from Hashem, the only perspective that can be absolute truth. We know from many Torah sources that the Torah itself is considered the sweetest item in the world. But what am I supposed to do if I just don't feel the sweetness of Torah? I might believe the fact that if the Torah and Hashem's perspective tells me that the Torah is greater than anything else in the world, and sweeter than anything else in the world, that that is of course true. However, what if I don't experience Torah that way? When I open up a book, I fall asleep, I'm not so interested in hearing a lecture. So, what does one do? As we've discussed many times, the solution to all problems, always, step number one. If I believe that Hashem exists in the world, and I believe that He can hear my voice, and He is interested in what I have to say and, in my life, the most basic expression of our belief in Hashem and His existence is to talk to Him. “Master of the universe, Hashem my Father, I know that you have taught us that Torah is the sweetest possible item in the world. Hashem, I want to believe that with my full heart. But the truth of the matter is that when I learn Torah, I don't feel that excitement. In fact, a lot of the time, I find many areas of the Torah to be quite boring, and when I have to make a choice between learning Torah or spending some extra time doing something on my phone or something else, much of the time, I choose to do the other option rather than learn Torah because it's hard for me to learn Torah. Hashem my Father, I know that the truth of the matter is that if you teach me in so many Torah sources that Torah is the sweetest item in the world, and this is the most important area where we should be investing our time and energy. Please Hashem, I'm asking you with all my heart, please, can you make the Torah sweet in my heart. Please Hashem, can you help me that I should find the Torah exciting and not boring? Hashem, I know you can help me in a second. I know that sometimes I've experienced certain areas of Torah which have excited me and I have been very interested in and I have found to be sweet, whereas other areas of Torah I have found to be boring. How do I know, Hashem, to find the right areas which will speak to me and excite me the most? Please Hashem, guide me to those areas of Torah. Guide me to hear lectures or to find the right books of those particular areas that I will find to be sweet and meaningful for me. And Master of the Universe, you know that a lot of the time learning Torah is not easy for me. I might not have had a background in Torah education, or even if I have, many areas of Torah might be difficult. Please, Master of the Universe, you are the one, Hashem, who created the Torah. Please, Hashem, can you help me to feel that sweetness and to be so successful in my Torah learning? Thank you, Hashem, for the gift of the Torah.”

497 - Torah Study (Part-3)

Dec 25, 2025

5:14

The Code of Jewish Law outlines that all people, men, women and children, are obligated in the pursuit of Torah learning. Women have a mitzvah to learn and master all the areas of Torah that are related to the practical fulfilment of the mitzvos, as well as areas that focus on the development and improvement of our character traits, as well as the areas of Torah that talk about how to bring us closer to Hashem, how to derive inspiration, to fear and love Hashem more, how to live with more emunah, faith, on a constant basis. Men, of course, are obligated in the same way as women to learn about the performance of the practical mitzvos and make efforts in character development to seek inspiration, our fear of Hashem, our love of Hashem, and of course growth in our emunah and our personal relationship with Hashem, whilst at the same time there is an additional mitzvah, commandment, for men to constantly be involved in Torah, meaning to say, at any given opportunity where there is an extra moment, there is a commandment for a man to delve into Torah, even if in theory he knows the entire Torah already. We've discussed many times that the Torah commentaries teach us that the purpose of our existence is to have emunah, to believe, specifically to believe when we don't see, we don't know, we don't understand. We read a mishnah every morning as part of the morning prayers that says that the value of Torah learning is equal to all 613 mitzvahs put together. When one sits down and learns Torah to the best of their abilities, it doesn't always feel as inspiring as if one has given a huge sum of money to charity or performed some other act of kindness. However, the Torah is teaching us the true perspective. Torah learning is so powerful, even when we don't feel inspired from it, that it is equal to all 613 mitzvahs put together. Our job is to internalize that belief. One might ask, seeing as Torah learning is so great, perhaps one should not spend their time on any other mitzvos and just learn Torah the entire day. In theory, that would make sense. As mentioned, we have a mitzvah to learn Torah at any available opportunity, and seeing as the value of Torah learning is equal to all 613 mitzvahs put together, it would make sense that the most ideal course would be for me to be involved in Torah learning as much as possible, even at the expense of missing out on doing other mitzvahs. Again, there are always different ways to look at anything, it all depends on perspective, but when we want the truth, the only place to look is the Torah. The code of Jewish law, the Shulchan Aruch, outlines exactly what to do. When there is a mitzvah that can be taken care of by someone else, then the law is that it would be better for me to continue my Torah learning and not interrupt in order to go fulfill that mitzvah. So, let's say I'm currently learning Torah and I notice from the corner of my eye that there's somebody who is feeling very upset. We know one of the greatest mitzvos is to cheer somebody up. Now let's say I see that next to this person who is feeling down, a very good friend of his is sitting there, and if I continue to learn Torah, that very good friend will go and cheer up the individual who's feeling sad. If that would be the case, I would be exempt from that mitzvah, and the right thing to do would be to continue to learn Torah and not interrupt to perform that mitzvah. However, let's say that that individual that is feeling down has a special close bond with me, and I know that I am the only one who is in a position to cheer him up, then the Torah commands us that we are obligated to stop learning Torah and go perform that mitzvah, because this is now a mitzvah that cannot be performed by anyone else. Again, whether we understand the perspective or not, if we are following the guidance of the Torah, we are for sure on the right track. We are so privileged to have been given Hashem's perspective, the Torah.

498 - Torah Study (Part-4)

Dec 26, 2025

5:10

Human nature is to appreciate things that we understand to have value and be important, much more than things we are just told to believe are important, but are sometimes difficult to relate to and difficult to see their true value and importance. After one performs the tremendous mitzvah of visiting a sick person, and the sick person thereafter tells you, “you just made my day, I didn't feel like living on anymore, but since you came, you put such a deep smile on my face, that you've given me a new drive for life.” After performing such a mitzvah, one usually feels quite accomplished and good about themselves because we've done something truly meaningful. Whereas, when one listens to a shiur, or one sits down to learn a piece of Torah, many times one does not feel that same sense of accomplishment. And again, the reason for that is because we don't see the value of our Torah learning. We are supposed to believe, to have emunah, that our Torah learning is so vitally important, to the point that the Mishnah tells us the value of Torah learning equals the value of all 613 mitzvahs put together. One of the things that helps us to build our emunah is when we see different Torah sources that outline to us what exactly Hashem's perspective is. The Gemara tells us that when a person is undergoing some form of suffering, the first mode of response should be to introspect and think about if there has been something perhaps that we have done wrong, that maybe because of that, Hashem is sending us a reminder to correct our ways. The Gemara then continues and says, if a person did introspect and didn't find anything in particular that they feel Hashem might be communicating to them about, to try to mend their ways in that particular area, the next step is to attribute the reason for Hashem sending us this suffering because of the sin of bittul Torah, of wasting time and not learning Torah when we could have. The sin of bittul Torah is clearly placed very high on the scale of Hashem's perspective of what is important to the point that the Gemara is teaching us: if you don't see any other particular area for Hashem talking to you, it is probably because we have not been as careful as we could with the mitzvah of learning Torah. The Gemara elsewhere also tells us that one of the first questions we will be asked when we meet our Creator after 120 years is, did you set aside time for Torah learning? This passage reveals to us a fundamental concept of how Hashem's perspective works. When we meet our Creator one day, He will not ask us, why weren't you the greatest sage of the generation? However, He will ask us, did you set aside time to learn Torah to your maximum capacity? Both in quantity and quality, we will be asked if we made our maximum effort. So, if somebody has not had the privilege to have many years of Torah background to be able to learn Torah independently, of course one is not then expected to learn passages in Torah which one needs to be an independent learner for. And when one meets Hashem after 120 years, that will not be part of the equation. And in the same way, someone whose path to life is that Hashem has given them numerous hours a day available to learn Torah, when they meet their Creator one day, their question will be based on how many hours were available to them. But someone who had a very minimal amount of time available and really made their maximum effort to learn Torah every day, even if it's one passage and that's all they were able to achieve, but that was their maximum, they will receive a hundred percent on their score on this question. Torah learning is one of the cornerstones of Judaism. It is not about how much we learn or how successful we are being in what other people might define as success. Hashem's true question is going to be, did you do your best?

499 - Torah Study (Part-5)

Dec 28, 2025

5:04

I acknowledge that Hashem's perspective is the only true perspective. Hashem teaches us in the Torah that one of the greatest activities to be involved in is Torah learning. The value of Torah learning is equal to the value of all 613 mitzvahs put together. For many people, although one might see the incredible value of Torah learning, however due to our other commitments, many of us have a very limited amount of time to involve ourselves on a daily basis towards Torah learning. Step number one to remember is that when we meet our Creator one day, as the Gemara tells us that one of the very first questions we will be asked relates to our Torah learning. The question will not be, show me and tell me exactly what you learnt. To help us understand this idea better, it's worth mentioning an idea discussed by the Torah commentaries. We know that all Jews are commanded to keep all of the 613 mitzvahs, and the question that the Torah commentaries ask is, we know that some of the mitzvos are specifically related to men - that women will not be able to fulfill, and likewise the other way around - some of the mitzvos are related to women that men cannot fulfill. And in the same way, in order to perform certain mitzvos, one needs to be a kohen, and if one is not a kohen, one can never perform that mitzvah, and in the same way, many of the mitzvos can only be performed whilst the Temple - the Beis Hamikdash, is in our midst, whereas today, when the Beis Hamikdash has been destroyed, those mitzvos can no longer be fulfilled. So, the list of 613 is actually much smaller today. So, the Torah commentaries ask, how then can we be commanded to fulfill all 613 mitzvahs, when in essence, many of those mitzvos cannot be fulfilled on a personal basis? And the answer the Torah commentaries give is that every mitzvah is comprised of two parts. You cannot perform a mitzvah unless you learn how to perform that mitzvah. So, the first part of each mitzvah is to learn about that mitzvah and its details. The second part of each mitzvah is taking that information that one knows, and actually practically going ahead and fulfilling that mitzvah. So, for many of the mitzvos that we do have the opportunity to fulfill in a practical way, even today, we are privileged to be able to fulfill both components of the mitzvah. A: To learn about it; and B: To actually practically perform it. However, the Torah commentaries explain that for those mitzvos that we are unable to perform in a practical way, nevertheless, we can still fulfill the first part of the mitzvah - to learn about the mitzvah, and by doing so, we are showing Hashem our desire to perform the mitzvah even though we are unable to perform that mitzvah in a practical way. This is a very powerful idea that we can also bring into the concept of Torah learning. Of course, the ideal would be to be involved in Torah learning 24-7, because again, this is the holiest endeavor in the true perspective in Hashem's books. However, for most of us that do not have the opportunity to be exclusively involved in Torah learning 24-7, we nevertheless can express our desire to Hashem in our personal words. “Master of the Universe, thank you for the privilege to learn Torah. I am so grateful for the time that you have given me on a daily basis to be able to learn some of your Torah. Thank you so much, Hashem, for giving me that opportunity. At the same time, Hashem, I'm trying to internalize that Torah learning is so valuable and precious, and I would so appreciate if you could give me more time. And I know that you can do anything, Hashem, because you are the Master of the Universe. You are the one who can take care of my commitments and help alleviate some time, that I should have more time on a daily basis in order to learn your Torah. Please, Hashem, my desire is to have more and more time to learn your Torah.” Although we may not have that time available, the true question we will be asked after 120 years is “did you desire with all your heart to make your maximum effort to learn Torah.”

500 - Torah Study (Part-6)

Dec 29, 2025

4:56

The information that is found in the Torah is so much that sometimes it can be overwhelming. How am I supposed to learn all of the information in the Torah? Even if somebody is completely dedicated to Torah, it is almost an impossibility to get to know all of the different diverse areas of the Torah. Certainly, for most of us who are limited, it can be overwhelming. Again, here we have Hashem's perspective guiding us as to how we are to lead our lives. Although we are taught the incredible value and importance of Torah learning, at the same time Hashem teaches us in a Mishna, in Pirkei Avos, that we are not obligated to completely finish our study of Torah learning. That is an impossibility. However, the same Mishna tells us that although we are not obligated to complete every area of Torah, we are nevertheless to make our maximum effort to do the most that we can. When we meet our Creator at the end of 120 years, the question that we will be asked will not be, did you finish the Torah from cover to cover, including all of the Rabbinic literature and everything that it covers. The question will be, did you make your maximum effort? One might argue that one of the biggest challenges in Torah learning is the language barrier. For many people, Torah terminology can be difficult, especially if one is not Hebrew speaking and especially if one has not had a significant background in Torah education. We are so privileged in today's day and age that almost everything is available in English. If one is interested in a particular topic, there are thousands of books, thousands of online resources that offer guidance at all levels, even for one who has had no Torah background. In times of old, it was only the absolute elite that had the privilege to have access to all the areas of the Torah. Because of the difficult language barrier, most people were unable to delve into many areas of Torah. In today's day and age, in a sense, there is no excuse. When we reach our Maker one day, we cannot say, “look, there was a language barrier and it was difficult for me to learn”, because almost everything is available to us in English. Something else worth discussing is, because of our limited time, of course we have to choose which areas of Torah we are to focus on. There is a whole section in the Shulchan Aruch, in the Code of Jewish Law, which is devoted to the laws of Torah learning, which outlines many of these details. Some points worth mentioning are that one of the highest priorities in Torah learning of every individual is to learn the practical laws, because again, if we have not learned the practical laws, we will not be able to fulfill the mitzvos in the correct way. We are also obligated to make efforts in the study of character development, with the many books to choose from in today's day and age. And of course, one of the highest, as we've mentioned many times, is constant inspiration about emunah, our belief in Hashem. The Gemara also tells us that one of the main areas a person should focus their Torah learning on is in an area that they enjoy, because when we enjoy something, we will be motivated to continue that venture, as opposed to if we constantly are involved in something boring, it would be very difficult to keep that practice up. How do I know which is going to be the area that is going to speak to me the most, that will excite me? And even if I do already know which area of Torah I should focus on, how do I find the right platform, online, in a book, or wherever it may be, to guide me in my learning? Although there is so much Torah literature available today, I may connect to one particular Torah educator more than another. How am I to go about finding exactly what will be best for me? Again, the answer to all questions: Talk to Hashem.

501 - Torah Study (Part-7)

Dec 30, 2025

5:08

We've learned many times the incredible, potent value of Torah learning. There is no question that the more involved we are in Torah learning, the more we come closer to HaShem, because we are taught in Torah literature that HaShem and the Torah are in essence one and the same. In a sense, the closest that we can get to HaShem is when we take the Torah and delve into it and learn it to the best of our abilities. Of course, each one of us in our own right ought to make our maximum effort in our personal Torah study. However, the Shulchan Aruch, the code of Jewish law, codifies what one is to do if one is limited in their time that they are able to dedicate to Torah study. The Shulchan Aruch codifies the well-known concept known as Yisaschar Zevulun. The Torah records that of the twelve tribes, the tribe of Yisaschar was completely devoted to the mitzvah of Torah learning, but of course, in order to do so, they also needed to have some sort of plan where they would be able to receive their sustenance to be able to provide for their families. An arrangement was made where the tribe of Zevulun committed to financially supporting the tribe of Yisachar and an official agreement was made that while the two tribes would share the financial benefits of Zevulun's work, in the same way the two tribes would share the spiritual benefits and reward that will be due because of the Torah learning of Yisaschar. Of course, even if we have partnered with somebody else, we are all obligated on our own part to commit to our maximum degree to delve into the Torah with whatever time Hashem has given us available. Whilst at the same time, it is worthwhile to remember this investment that Hashem has given us - the opportunity to reap the benefits and rewards of Torah study, even if we ourselves are unable to devote ourselves completely to Torah study. Just to appreciate how valuable Torah study really is, in the same passage that the Shulchan Aruch records this arrangement that can be made between two people, where one says, I will be the supporter and the other says, I will be the one who will devote myself to Torah study - we will share the financial benefits as well as the spiritual benefits. In the same passage, the Shulchan Aruch records that this can only be done for a future project. One can make an arrangement that for the future, we will share the rewards for the Torah in exchange for sharing financial benefit together. However, if one has already learnt some Torah and another individual comes over and says, “I am prepared to pay you $10 million just for the reward of one word that you ever said in your Torah learning, we are absolutely prohibited from selling our reward even for all the money in the world. And that is because the value of Torah learning is so great that all the money in the world cannot buy even one word. As discussed many times, our job in this world is to believe specifically when we don't see, when we don't understand. When two people come together and make an agreement, the one will contribute the spiritual benefits that the Torah gives and the other will contribute the financial benefits to be split between the two, oftentimes, it will be a lot easier for us to relate to the amazing kindness that the financial provider in this partnership is doing for both of them. Whereas the individual who's learning Torah, in a sense, sometimes it feels like he's reaping financial benefits and not necessarily contributing as much as the other individual. Let us remember that our job in this world is to believe specifically when we don't see, to follow Hashem's perspective. We cannot see Hashem's perspective with our own eyes. We are obligated to believe Hashem's perspective. What a privilege each one of us has to constantly make an effort to grow in our personal Torah learning. And at the same time, Hashem has also given us another way in addition to our personal learning, that we are able to partner with others and also reap the benefits together.

502 - Torah Study (Part-8)

Dec 31, 2025

4:35

We know that the Torah sources refer to Hashem and the Torah as one. One of the most potent things that we can do in our endeavor to connect to Hashem is to learn Torah. The Gemara, as outlined by the Shulchan Aruch, the Code of Jewish Law, also teaches us that even if one does not have this high motive of just connecting to Hashem and learning the Torah just because He commanded us to, even if one is learning for some personal motive to some degree, for example, one feels that they will receive more honor from other people if they know more Torah, or for whatever other similar personal agenda, nevertheless, we are still encouraged to learn the Torah even for the wrong reason, because eventually we will come to learning the Torah for the right reason. Of course, ideally, we aim to learn the Torah for the absolute right reason, just to connect to Hashem. I once came across a great analogy that helps digest this concept. There was an individual who bought a microwave oven from an electronic store. Before leaving the store, the individual asked the store owner to please give him a good overview of how to work this microwave with all its details. After his crash course, the microwave was packed away in the box and the individual went home. When he pulled out the microwave, he started doing exactly what the shop owner had showed him, but nevertheless, he could not get the microwave to work. Because of that, he returned to the store and said to the store owner, I don't understand. I am doing everything you told me, but I can't get this microwave to work. There must be a fault in the machine. And the store owner says to him, “please show me what you're doing, and let's try work it out”. So, the man touches all the buttons to make the microwave work, and he does everything right, but it still doesn't work. And the store owner says, you've done everything right, but you've just forgotten one thing: You forgot to plug in the machine. When we learn Torah, even if we are not plugged in in that connection with Hashem, we are still advised to learn the Torah because the potency of Torah is so strong that eventually it will lead us to be able to be plugged in and connect to Hashem in the right way. However, even today, we can all make our effort to bridge that gap of Torah learning and connection with Hashem, and again, the answer to all questions and the solution to all problems. We all have the opportunity to talk to Hashem. In fact, there is a prescribed prayer that the Halacha outlines for us to say before we learn Torah and after we learn Torah. And in that prayer, we pray to Hashem for success in our Torah learning beforehand, and we thank Hashem thereafter for the Torah learning and success that He gave us in our Torah endeavor. In addition to those prescribed prayers, we all have the opportunity on a constant basis to say, “Master of the universe, Hashem, my Father, I am currently about to learn Torah. I am going to try my best to understand the wisdom in Your true perspective, in the only true perspective that exists. But Hashem, I ask You, sometimes I get involved in the technical details, which I am supposed to, because that is the mitzvah of Torah learning. But Hashem, sometimes it's difficult to bridge the gap and feel a strong connection to You, as if we're bonding together as a result of my Torah learning. Please, Hashem, help me to be plugged in. Help me to really and truly connect to You and feel that connection to You whilst I am learning Your Torah.“ What a privilege we each have on a constant basis to learn Hashem's Torah and to connect with Hashem.

503 - Ahavas Hashem (Part-1)

Jan 1, 2026

4:25

One of the six constant mitzvahs is the mitzvah to love HaShem. It is difficult sometimes to fulfill this mitzvah of loving HaShem because I don't see HaShem, I don't hear HaShem and in many ways it's hard for me to relate to HaShem - this abstract figure. How do I come to loving HaShem? The Rambam writes that the way we come to loving HaShem is by taking note of the things that He has created and admiring them and doing so will bring us to loving the Creator, the One who created all those things. As we've previously discussed, when one's approach towards HaShem is one of "You owe me", then of course we do not particularly feel grateful for the blessings that He sends us and why should we feel reason to love Him. Whereas when one lives the emunah approach and one internalizes, HaShem doesn't owe me anything and if I take note at the countless blessings in my life and internalize that each one of them is actually a gift from HaShem. When someone gives you a gift, you appreciate it and when they give you enough gifts just for no reason at all, just because they love you, that certainly is an incentive to love them back. "Thank you HaShem for all the tremendous gifts that You've given me. Let's start with my eyes, because we've just learned that one of the ways that I can come to love You is by taking note, appreciating and admiring Your creations. By having given me eyes, HaShem, You have now enabled me to be able to see and take note and appreciate and admire Your incredible creations. Be it a beautiful sunset, the countless stars in the sky, the many animals that You've created with such great wisdom, all the many miracles that exist in a human being, which I see so many of. Thank you HaShem for these incredible eyes to be able to see Your incredible creations and thereby come to love You. HaShem, thank You so much for all the incredible gifts that You've given me. The fact that I can hear is not something You owe me. What a gift to be able to hear with these ears that You've given me and thereby be able to have a conversation and a relationship with another human being. You know HaShem, I would like to imagine for myself for a moment that I cannot hear, and I experienced many years being deaf, and suddenly You come and offer me a gift where I will be able to hear. In that situation, if I was able to, I would come and hug and kiss You for such a tremendous gift. The truth of the matter is that You've given me a greater gift than that, because You created me that right from the time I was born I didn't even have to suffer one day without hearing. HaShem, You have taught us Your perspective in many Torah sources that one of the most severe transgressions is to talk loshan hara and gossip about other people. And just as severe as it is to talk lashon hara is the transgression of listening to somebody else talk lashon hara. Now if You wanted to, You could have created a world where loshan hara didn't exist. But in Your great kindness, You gave me the opportunity to earn my place in the next world to enjoy Your goodness eternally. Thank You HaShem for giving me ears where I do have the ability to potentially listen to lashon hara, and I now have the choice to opt not to listen to the lashon hara that is being spoken, whereby I would be performing one of the greatest mitzvahs that can exist. And if I didn't have ears and the ability to hear, I would not be able to perform this mitzvah. Please HaShem help me not to be ungrateful, but rather to notice all the tremendous gifts that You give me, and thereby sincerely be able to say to You, I love You HaShem."

492 - Chanukah (Part-6)

Dec 19, 2025

4:16

The incredible miracles of Chanukah serve to inspire us throughout our lives, that just like Hashem performed miracles against all the laws of nature, such as causing oil to burn for much longer than anything nature would allow, as well as causing a handful of people to win a war completely against any and all of the laws that nature can dictate, when we make an effort to internalize these miracles, it can serve as a tremendous springboard to inspire us throughout our lives and remind ourselves of what we've learned countless times from so many Torah sources: Our purpose in this world is to excel in our emunah endeavor. And what it means to have emunah is specifically to believe when I don't see and I am not able to understand the reason why things are happening. Throughout my life, usually, things play according to the laws of nature. But our job is to constantly make an effort to find Hashem through the natural occurrences and taking to heart the miracles of Chanukah can serve as a tremendous springboard to be able to live our lives according to those values. Just like Hashem has blessed us with these holy days that serve to inspire us throughout the rest of our lives, that all of nature in essence is an outright miracle, and the same Hashem who caused the mann, the miraculous food that fell from the heavens for the Jewish people during their journey in the desert, is the exact same Hashem who provides for our paranosah today; and the same Hashem who split the sea for the Jewish people when they were surrounded by danger from all their sides and had nowhere to escape, is the same Hashem who has saved us in our personal lives so many times in so many ways. There are people that die daily in car accidents. How many times have I been in a car without having an accident? If we open our eyes, we will see that our life is full of constant miracles of how Hashem comes through for us, but again, our job is to find Hashem in the course of nature. Without the emunah mindset, one's thought process might be, "yes, although I didn't have a car accident today, however, most people in the world do not die daily in car accidents. Although it does happen to some people sometimes, however, why should I expect that that should be something that could transpire to me, and therefore why should I necessarily be appreciative about that fact?" Whereas when we are able to look past the veil of nature and realize that just like Hashem was the One who so apparently and obviously was our Savior when we were surrounded by danger from all sides and split the sea in a way that there was no question that Hashem was the only One who could do that, and there was no nature to attribute that miracle to, similarly, when we go through a day without a car accident, or the other million miracles that we experience on a daily basis, our job is to link those happenings to Hashem's doing as opposed to just assuming that that is the course of nature, God forbid, excluding Hashem from our lives. Many people have experienced Hashem coming through for them in their lives in one way or another. Although usually in our times this is not in an apparently obvious and miraculous manner, however countless people have told their experiences of having seen Hashem come through for them in their lives. When a person prays to Hashem for a new business opportunity and it just so happens that a couple days or perhaps even hours later one receives a call from another individual with a new opportunity, or perhaps one is just looking for a parking spot, and just as one makes that prayer and asks Hashem to help them, it just so happens that someone is leaving just then, making the spot available. If we are just to open our eyes, we will quickly see that Hashem is everywhere and we can constantly witness Him under the veil of nature on a moment-to-moment basis. Our job is to open our eyes and through these days of Chanukah we have a special power and energy to internalize that ultimately every single moment of our lives is an outright miracle.

505 - Ahavas Hashem (Part-3)

Jan 4, 2026

4:03

We've been discussing one of the most important and fundamental mitzvahs, the mitzvah to love Hashem. That although it is such a fundamental and basic prerequisite to the Torah, nevertheless, at face value, it is quite a difficult mitzvah to fulfill, seeing as Hashem is an abstract being that is difficult for us to connect with due to our human limitations. We've discussed that when one views life through the lens of everything that I experience is a gift from Hashem, that is one of the greatest conduits to bringing me to sincerely loving Hashem, because if I internalize the values of Emunah, that Hashem is the only one providing me with everything I have in my life, and that He owes me nothing and anything that He gives me is not because it is due payment to me, but rather because He is just sending me a gift, by internalizing this mode of thought, one certainly will come to loving Hashem. And as always, the solution to all challenges and problems, I have the opportunity constantly to talk to Hashem about anything and everything, and if I have a mitzvah to love Hashem and it's difficult for me, the first thing to do should be to talk to Hashem and say, "Hashem, I want to love You and fulfill this mitzvah in the right way, but I'm actually finding that it's quite difficult to love a being that I don't see, I don't hear. Please can You help me, I really want to fulfill this mitzvah in the best way possible, and I'm asking You to guide me to know how to do so. If there is some inspiration and perhaps Torah literature available, to teach me how to love You, please Hashem, guide me to find that course that will be best for me to follow. And I've learned that the Rambam teaches the way to come to love You, Hashem, is by seeing and taking note of Your creations. Please Hashem, grant me the opportunities to be able to see and experience and take note and admire Your incredible creations. When there is a beautiful sunset, let me not just take out a camera in order to share the picture with someone else, but rather let me stop for a moment and appreciate the beautiful sunset. And at the same time, Hashem, please help me to be so grateful for everything that You give me. Please Hashem, help me to sincerely internalize that You owe me nothing, and that really, I am the poorest person in the world, because without You, I have absolutely nothing. No money, no food, no clothes, no health, and You don't owe me anything. But nevertheless, You have blessed me with countless gifts every moment of my day, every moment of my life. Please Hashem, help me to make a commitment to You, to talk to You every day, and as part of our personal conversation, let me dedicate a certain amount of time to thank You for all the gifts." We all get busy with many endeavors, and without making a commitment of a certain amount of time that we dedicate and commit to talking to Hashem, our personal relationship can very easily fall through the cracks. It would be very advisable, in addition to committing to talking to Hashem about anything that we might want, to commit to a certain period of time every day where we just thank Hashem and try take note of all the tremendous miracles, all the tremendous gifts that He blesses us with all the time. "Thank you so much Hashem for all the incredible gifts that You have blessed me with."

506 - Ahavas Hashem (Part-4)

Jan 5, 2026

4:38

Every single moment of life is an opportunity. There is always a mitzvah to perform in every situation, and sometimes just being mindful of something can change a situation from being a waste of time, or even perhaps a sin, to a great mitzvah. The halachic authorities teach that there are six constant mitzvahs that can be performed at any and every single moment. Just by thinking of them, we fulfill the mitzvah. It is worth having these mitzvahs at the forefront of our mind, and by doing so, we can gain countless opportunities to perform mitzvahs whenever we have an extra moment. If we find ourselves waiting in line to collect food from the restaurant, or at the doctor's waiting room, waiting at a bus stop, and the like, many a time one might be tired and may sit idly, doing nothing necessarily productive. We are so privileged to have the opportunity to make an active effort to be consciously mindful of certain thoughts, and just thinking these thoughts provide us with a great mitzvah to our eternal bank account. Furthermore, the Gemara teaches that when a person is idle, that leads to sin, because when one is not focused on anything specific, one's heart, eyes, and imagination start to wonder, sometimes looking at inappropriate things, sometimes speaking or listening to inappropriate talk, and sometimes just simply wasting time by pulling out one's phone again and again just because I have an extra moment here and there. Instead of letting these moments, which will never come back, go to waste, it is so worthwhile to be mindful of the six constant mitzvahs. Let's discuss them. The first one is the mitzvah to have a emunah. The second one is the mitzvah not to serve idols. The third one is the mitzvah to know that Hashem is one. The fourth one is the mitzvah to love Hashem. The fifth one is the mitzvah to fear Hashem. And the sixth one is the mitzvah not to stray after our hearts and eyes. There is much Torah literature available for one interested in studying more about these six constant mitzvahs, but being mindful of even the simple understanding of these mitzvahs will go a long way beyond anything we can even begin to imagine. "Thank you, Hashem, for giving me the constant opportunity to fulfill your mitzvahs and gain eternal Olam Haba at any given moment. Hashem, I ask you, please will you help me not to waste time anymore. When I have an extra moment, of course, if I need to do something on my phone, then I should do so. But I know that much of the time I pull out my phone again and again and again just because I have a few extra seconds here and there. Please will you help me, Hashem. As a start, just for today, that as many times as I can, instead of re-pulling out my phone, let me think of these six mitzvahs again and again. And instead of wasting my time and perhaps sometimes even doing something that might be inappropriate, let me turn this moment into something great eternally." Let us remind ourselves of the steps that are discussed by many Torah commentaries that we've mentioned numerous times as to the reason of why Hashem decided to create the world. Step number one, the only reason Hashem decided to create the world is in order to give pleasure to every single one of us. Step number two, the ultimate pleasure that we receive does not take place in this world in the least, but rather in the next world, in Olam Haba. And step number three, the reason that we are obligated to make an excursion through our lives in this world is in order to earn our eternal reward in the next world. Every single moment in this life is an opportunity for eternity.

507 - Ahavas Hashem (Part-5)

Jan 6, 2026

4:23

We've been discussing how every moment of our lives is really an opportunity and throughout the many extra moments that we might find for ourselves, instead of wasting the time idly just because maybe we can't center ourselves to a full-out task, because we're currently busy with something else and we only have a few spare moments at hand, it would nevertheless be so wise and recommended to use that time as an opportunity to gain eternal Olam Haba, using these moments that will never come again in a tremendously constructive way. We discussed the six constant mitzvahs. For quick reference, if one is not yet familiar with the six constant mitzvahs, they can be found at the back of some Siddurim, or alternatively, it is very easy to find them via online or other resources, in order to be able to have them outlined in front of us, because remember, the way that these six constant mitzvahs are fulfilled is just by thinking about them. So having them listed in front of us would be something wise and advisable until we are familiar with them and able to think about them at all times, whenever we choose to. There is something else also which is worth mentioning on this point. The Code of Jewish Law outlines, right at the beginning in the first chapter, that there is a mitzvah of shivisi Hashem l'negdi tamid, which means to place Hashem before me constantly. Simply speaking, what that means to say, as explained by the commentaries, is to remember that I am in Hashem's presence at all times, and to behave with the appropriate conduct as if I was standing before not only a great king, but the greatest of all kings, Hashem Himself. And similarly, the commentaries explain that the meaning of this is to concentrate on Hashem's four-letter name in one's mind, and as the Arizal writes, by doing so, that is tremendously conducive to growing in one's yirat shamayim - one's fear of heaven. It has been pointed out that although we should do our utmost to avoid situations and settings where there might be inappropriate things for our eyes to see, nevertheless sometimes we are required to be in certain places that are not ideal, and we are taught that by concentrating in one's mind on this four-letter name of Hashem, the yud and the heh and the vav and the heh, that is conducive to protecting ourselves from unholy thoughts. I saw a motivating teaching that helps illustrate this concept. When we reach the heavenly court one day and have to give an accounting for our actions in this world, every detail will be accounted for, for all of our actions that were performed in this world. And when they go through all the halachic requirements, we might be stumped in certain areas and say, "you know what, I didn't do this right." But imagine the trial starts with question number one, the first paragraph of the Shulchan Aruch, which outlines shivisi Hashem l'negdi tamid - I will place Hashem before me at all times, both remembering that Hashem is in our presence at every moment, and also to think in one's mind of the four-letter name of Hashem, it is something worthwhile to try our best to succeed in. Especially seeing as this is the first paragraph of the entire code of Jewish law, when our trial begins in the heavenly court one day, we would like to respond affirmatively that we succeeded in this law. "Hashem my father, please help me not to use any time idly, but rather any free moment that I might have, help me to use my time wisely and think of the six constant mitzvahs as well as of shivisi Hashem l'negdi tamid."

508 - Ahavas Hashem (Part-6)

Jan 7, 2026

4:31

We've been discussing one of the six constant mitzvos is to love Hashem. And as the Rambam teaches, the way of coming to love Hashem is by taking note of His amazing creations with admiration and that will bring us more and more to be able to love Hashem. There is a Mishnah in Pirkei Avos which teaches that if somebody is on the road and whilst traveling they are thinking Torah thoughts or discussing a Torah topic with another individual, that is very commendable. Firstly, because they are fulfilling a great mitzvah - the mitzvah of Torah learning and additionally, because Torah learning provides a person a special protection and when a person is on the road traveling, sometimes through dangerous places, they might need a special protection. And the Mishnah goes on to say that if whilst one is traveling and involved in Torah, one stops and looks at the tree and says, "what a beautiful tree", then if something happens to this individual, they are responsible for causing themselves damage, because beforehand they were protected by the special protection of the Torah, and now because they stopped their learning of Torah in order to view this beautiful tree, that is considered a sin and thereby makes the person lose their special protection. And the question after learning this Mishnah is, didn't the Rambam teach us that the way to coming to love Hashem is by viewing His beautiful creations? So if one is to stop and say, "wow, what a beautiful tree that is", didn't the Rambam teach us that that is a commendable thing to do, a mitzvah, and in fact, the path to be able to come to fulfilling the great mitzvah of loving Hashem? And if that is the case, why does the Mishnah say that it is a sin to stop one's learning of Torah in order to view the tree, Hashem's wonderful creation? And there's a beautiful teaching said in the name of the Kotzker Rebbe and others that gives us some guidance about how we ought to live our lives. They explain that what the Mishnah means to say is if a person is on the road and learning Torah, which is providing them a special protection, and then stops their learning of Torah, meaning to say, they now disconnect from Hashem - when they were learning Torah, they were connected; now they're disconnected. And when they say, "oh wow, what a beautiful tree", they don't mean it in a way of, "wow, Hashem, what a beautiful tree You've created", but rather just, "that's a beautiful tree that I just feel like enjoying, taking a break from the Torah". That would be a sin, where one loses their special protection, because beforehand they were deeply connected with Hashem through the potency of the Torah learning, and now by taking a break, especially being on the road in a dangerous situation, the special protection is gone. Whereas if a person is learning Torah and connected to Hashem, but stops in the middle of the learning in order to view a tree and continues the connection with Hashem, saying, "wow, Hashem, that's an incredible creation of Yours, thank You for such incredible trees and creations that You've given us in Your world, I love You so much, Hashem", then certainly one is not committing a sin, because one is continuing the connection with Hashem. We ought to take this advice to heart, that throughout our lives, whatever we're doing, whether we're in the holiest of places, whether we're learning a Torah passage, and also when we might find ourselves on the road and in other places which are not particularly holy in our minds, nevertheless, we are able to continue that connection with Hashem wherever we go. We're able to notice Hashem's creations and appreciate them and admire them. And in the same vein, we have the constant opportunity to talk to Hashem wherever we go, whatever we're doing. "Thank you, Hashem, for the constant opportunity to be connected with You."

513 - Yissurim (Part-5)

Jan 13, 2026

4:53

We discussed the verse that teaches us one of the foundational ideas from the Torah, that we are to internalize that anything and everything that we might accomplish is always a gift in itself from Hashem in the first place, to have been given that opportunity to be able to accomplish. One of the reasons that we experience challenges where sometimes Hashem takes our ability away from being able to perform a certain act or achieve a certain accomplishment is because Hashem is reminding us how to have the true and correct perspective. When a person is accomplishing, I'm succeeding in my endeavor to give charity and help other people out. I'm trying my best to make those around me happy and smile. I'm successful in my Torah learning. I have an impeccable record of being super honest in all of my business endeavors and all situations where a person can consider themselves to be succeeding in their spiritual endeavors. Oftentimes one might be led to believe that due to their own efforts they have found such tremendous success. This can lead to feelings of arrogance and self-pride, which is one of the most serious transgressions in the Torah. The reason for that being is because when a person believes that they themselves are the source of their own blessing and successes, in a sense they are denying the existence of Hashem. We need to remember the many Torah sources that teach us that a person cannot lift a finger without Hashem first decreeing that to happen. So many times one of the reasons Hashem sends challenges and suffering to an individual in the form of that individual losing their ability to perform their acts of kindness and succeed spiritually in the way that they were previously able to, many times the reason for that is because Hashem is reminding us that the only reason we were able to perform those acts in the first place is because He sent us that blessing. Let's take for example a world-class piano player which is world famous for their ability to play the piano in a way almost nobody else can. To remain humble in their situation is not an easy ordeal. Imagine for a second that this piano player would break a bone in their hand which would now prevent them from being able to play the piano anymore. Of course, we cannot claim to know Hashem's exact intentions in why He sends people what He does because Hashem is so much greater than us that we can never know His workings and reasons why He does things. But the commentaries do explain that sometimes one of the reasons Hashem might do such a thing is to humble the piano player, to remind him, “now you cannot play the piano.” And as a result of that the piano player can internalize that any time he did have the ability to be able to play the piano was always as a result of Hashem's blessing to him. And in one instant if Hashem takes away that blessing, one can no longer succeed in their endeavors. It is so important to remind ourselves about the message of this verse. Anything and everything that we accomplish is always a gift that Hashem has given us that we are now giving back to Him. Of course, it is very commendable to use our successes and our blessings and opportunities in life to serve Hashem and use them meaningfully to perform mitzvos with the blessings Hashem has given us. However, another very fundamental principle to remember and internalize is that the only reason we are talented in whatever area we may be excelling in is because it is exclusively a gift from Hashem.

514 - Yissurim (Part-6)

Jan 14, 2026

5:00

Everybody understands that the ultimate destination of life is death. It is absolutely vital, therefore, to remind ourselves exactly what our purpose is on a moment-to-moment basis in this world. As discussed, many times, when dealing with any question, the way we will answer it depends on the perspective we take. And in the same way, the way we answer this question of why do I exist? What exactly am I supposed to be doing on a moment-to-moment basis in my life, a life which I know will ultimately lead to death at a maximum of 120 years? What is the absolute true perspective of the purpose of my life on a moment-to-moment basis? And as we've discussed many times, the Torah commentaries explain that Hashem created the world for one objective. He wanted to share His goodness with us. That is the only reason that Hashem decided to create the world - all of humankind and everything else that is contained within our universe. It is so important for us to remember Hashem's thought process in why He chose to create the world in the first place, because when we are experiencing an ordeal, to be able to have that perspective in mind, that Hashem only created me in the first place just because He wants to share His goodness with me, could help one to deal with their ordeal in a much healthier and more positive way. Of course, things can be painful regardless of our perspective, however, when we are able to keep the right perspective of why Hashem did create us, to share His goodness with us, it becomes so much easier to use the challenges that Hashem sends us as a ladder in order to climb higher in our emunah endeavor. Because when an individual is experiencing a challenge that has been sent to them by Hashem, one can either respond in a way that distances oneself further from Hashem, complaining, saying, “Hashem, why are You sending me this suffering? I've been trying for so long to find a marriage partner. Hashem, can You not see that I've been trying to do so many mitzvos? Why is it that so many of my friends are getting married and I seem to be the one being unable to find my marriage partner? It feels like You don't love me. How could You do this to me, Hashem? Why are You ignoring me?” Many times, the challenges that Hashem sends us can lead to bitter feelings which distance oneself from Hashem. But in truth, if we can keep the right perspective - Hashem did not need to create us; the only reason He created us is in order to share His goodness with us. And therefore, if He is sending us suffering and challenges, that is only because He wants to share more of His goodness with us. That is the only reason He created us. And if we are able to maintain this perspective, we are able to say, “Hashem, my loving Father, I know You love me and I love You too. I know that the only reason that You created me is because You want to share Your goodness with me. Thank You so much, my Father, for loving me and giving me the opportunity to experience Your goodness and kindness. Master of the universe, I am currently in tremendous pain. Many of my friends have already advanced on to being able to find their marriage partner. And as you know, I am struggling so much unsuccessfully. Hashem, I am in pain, and it's okay for me to feel pain because You made me a human being which does feel pain. At the same time, Hashem, I have emunah and believe that if You are sending me some form of suffering, it can only be for the good. And I trust You. Hashem, please send me my marriage partner. Thank You so much for sending me the suffering because I know that everything You do is only for my best.”

481 - Gratitude (Part-5)

Dec 7, 2025

5:10

We've been discussing how one of the most important foundations in our service to Hashem is following Hashem's commandments and in general, living our lives with a feeling of joy and simcha. When we have the right perspective, it is much easier to live our lives in a mode of joy and simcha. However, sometimes we get used to receiving so many of our needs and gifts beyond our needs that we begin to expect these things on a daily basis. The fact that yesterday I might have eaten breakfast, lunch and supper, as well as the day before that, as well as as long as I can remember, I have always had the opportunity to eat food when I am hungry, because that is what we are accustomed to, it sometimes might feel like Hashem owes us those things. Imagine today I don't have food, I am hungry and I am thirsty, and either because I don't have money, or even if I do have the money, there could be a drought, a famine, or whatever other reason. When something is taken away from us, it is much easier to begin to appreciate the things that are given to us. If we are able to just contemplate on the fact that Hashem ultimately doesn't owe us anything, then when we look around, we will see just how many gifts Hashem is giving us every single moment. If we were to stop breathing for a few moments and then suddenly that gift to be able to breathe was returned to us, we would feel much more appreciation. When we internalize that Hashem doesn't owe us anything, but rather every moment He is giving us so many gifts, that will lead us, ultimately, to living lives of joy and simcha. Because if we feel that a whole list of items might be due to us—food, money, love, relationships, health, or whatever else it might be—when we don't receive those things, we become disappointed. Whereas if we feel we are owed nothing, every single time we receive even the smallest thing, we will be led to feelings of appreciation, of joy, of gratitude, of simcha. I happened to be sitting in a room recently when the weather was particularly hot. Usually this room has a nice air conditioning system, which makes it very comfortable to be there even when the weather is uncomfortably and unpleasantly hot. When at a particular time the air conditioner was not working and it became unbearably hot in that room, it struck me how something so small would make such a difference to my life if it was not there. If air conditioners did not exist and I would have to sweat in this uncomfortable heat on a daily basis, what a difference it would make. And the truth of the matter is that, until the air conditioner stopped, it was difficult for me to appreciate the tremendous gift that I have on a daily basis to sit in nice, comfortable weather indoors even when it might be excruciatingly hot and uncomfortable outdoors. "Hashem, my Father, thank You so much for the gift of this air conditioning that You have given me. You know that I am a human being, and although I might want to feel and express feelings of gratitude and appreciation to You, I am limited by my human nature, and the fact that You give me things on a daily basis, so many things, leads me to be unappreciative. However, Hashem, I ask You, please don't take things away from me to teach me the lesson that I should be appreciative, which will ultimately lead me to feel feelings of joy. But rather, Hashem, help me on my own accord to start appreciating things, even the smallest of things. Please, Hashem, help me to devote at least five minutes every day just to thanking You for anything and everything that I might think of. Although this might be a drop in the ocean compared to all the gifts that You give me, Hashem, however, I do want to express to You, to do my little part. Thank You, Hashem, for this incredible air conditioner that You have gifted me every day. If I didn't have this air conditioner, I would be so uncomfortable. Perhaps the heat would cause me to have headaches, and I would be in a constant state of discomfort. Thank You so much, Hashem, for this tremendous gift that You have given me, and this is just a drop in the ocean. Hashem, thank You for all the gifts in the world. And Hashem, I ask You, please can You help me to live a life of thanking You every day, perhaps at least five minutes a day, or perhaps more if I'm able to, because I know that when I'm in a state of gratitude, that will automatically lead me to live a life of joy and simcha."

469 - Olam Haba (Part-8)

Nov 21, 2025

4:19

We've been discussing how there are many concepts that are often thrown out such as Moshiach, Olam Haba, Gehinnnom, Gan Eden, and the like. And it is worthwhile to break down each of the segments to understand better what is in store for us. As we've discussed, when our neshamah leaves our body, if it is necessary, there is a process called chibut hakever, where a person has to undergo suffering in its burial place. Thereafter, the soul, our neshamah, makes its way up to what is called by the Ramban, the Kabbalists, and the most accepted view by the Torah authorities, the olam haneshamos, the world of the souls. According to the Ramban, the Kabbalists, and most Torah authorities, Olam Haba, our eternal address, is a different place to olam haneshamos, the world of souls. The world of souls is almost like a waiting room for the next part of the story to happen. And in the world of souls is where we have both Gehinnom and Gan Eden, sometimes called hell and heaven. Let's continue the breakdown of the process as discussed by Torah authorities. At some point, when Hashem decides it's right, either because the Jewish people who will be alive at the time will earn it, or just because Hashem decides that this is the right time, we will merit the coming of Moshiach. The coming of Moshiach will be an experience for all those people that will be alive in the world at that time. As opposed to if one has already passed on and is now in the waiting room, in the world of souls, then they will not experience the coming of Moshiach. There is a discussion in the Gemara which is brought down by many Torah authorities, such as the Rambam, in Hilchos Melachim Umilchamos, chapter 12, as to what exactly is going to transpire at Moshiach's arrival. Some hold that the world will then operate in a completely supernatural manner, such as that we will have the Beis Hamikdash falling down from heaven, and many other similar miracles. Whereas other opinions hold that the world will then function in a similar manner to how it does today, such as we will have to go ourselves and build the Beis Hamikdash, using the same building techniques that we do today. However, there will be two major differences. One will be that all the nations of the world will be subjugated to the Jewish people, and there will be absolute peace in the world. And secondly, that all the people of the time will have a tremendous desire to just do mitzvahs and serve Hashem as much as possible, as opposed to today, where we have a tremendous evil inclination to transgress, even though we might know what is right. If one is interested in studying about the Messianic era, there is much Torah literature available to be able to investigate the topic further. However, as the Rambam writes, even if one were to find seeming contradictions between different statements in Torah passages about exactly what is going to transpire in the times of Moshiach, one shouldn't pay too much attention to that, because at the end of the day, we don't know exactly how it's going to play out, until it actually plays out. There are people who work on finding codes in the Talmud and Torah in general to try to find hints to when exactly Moshiach is going to come. It would seem from the Rambam that he was not particularly in favor of doing so, because in a sense, it's wasting one's time, because only Hashem knows when Moshiach is going to come, and that is not our job nor business to get involved in. What is our job, however, is to fulfill the mitzvah that is one of the 13 principles of faith, to instill the belief in ourselves that Moshiach can come at any single moment, and even if he'll delay and he didn't come yesterday, nor for the last thousand years, today might just be the day. And as we've learned, those neshamas that have already passed on will not merit to be present for the coming of Moshiach, because the coming of Moshiach is something that happens in this world for the people who will be alive then. The concept of techias hameisim, the resurrection of the dead, is something that occurs at a later stage, and we'll discuss that further in future, Bezrat Hashem. So how much more so then, should we all daven, "ani maamin beeumah sheleimah bevias hamashiach v'af al pi sheismahamea im kol ze achakeh lo bechol yom sheyavo."

470 - Olam Haba (Part-9)

Nov 23, 2025

4:53

We've been discussing the tremendous importance that there is to try to build our belief in the next world, in Olam Haba. Although, a believing Jew understands that this world is certainly not our final destination, and we are all going to another place called Olam Haba, however, there are many levels in what it means to believe so. The first thing that we might do in trying to internalize this belief is learning about the information offered by Torah commentaries about the process of what is in store for us. As discussed, once our neshamah departs from our body, after it is cleansed if necessary via the process known as chibbut hakever, the neshamah makes its way up to what is called the olam haneshamas. And it is there that we have much Torah literature about what happens, such as in Gan Eden, Gehinnom, and the like. We discussed that at some point, when Hashem decides it's right, Mashiach will come to the physical world that we live in, and only those who are alive at the time will merit His arrival. And as the Rambam says, we should not get caught up too much as to the exact details of what's going to happen when Mashiach comes, because we don't really know until it's going to actually happen. Nevertheless, one thing is for sure, it's going to be the most incredible thing in the world, in many ways, beyond anything we might be able to comprehend. For thousands of years, every day, the Jews have been waiting for this great day, and we have a daily mitzvah to yearn for this great day to arrive. So we can certainly understand how this is something very important in Hashem's eyes. And again, our job is not to try to understand exactly what's going to play out then, because that's Hashem's business. Our job is to believe that if Hashem says this is extremely important and amazing, then we should certainly go ahead and yearn for that day to arrive. Obviously, our main motive should be that if that is Hashem's will, for the world to operate in the messianic state, that should be our main motive. However, it is certainly also acceptable and praiseworthy to want to be alive at that time, to be able to experience Mashiach with our very own eyes. There are different opinions amongst the Torah commentaries as to exactly how many years will transpire after the arrival of Mashiach. But at some point after that happens, there will be the next part of the process, which is called techiyas hameisim, the resurrection of the dead, where all people who have passed on, who merit this part of the process, will be resurrected back to life. According to the most accepted view of the Ramban and the Kabbalists and most Torah commentaries, once the stage of the resurrection of the dead occurs, our body and soul will then move into a new existence called Olam Haba, where although we will still have a body together with our soul, we will then move into a new existence with complete holiness, where we will not need to eat, drink, nor use our bodily functions. The Gemara in Berachos 34b states some amazing things with regards to the coming of Mashiach. But thereafter, the Gemara states that when it comes to what's going to transpire in the time of Olam Haba, our minds cannot even begin to comprehend the greatness of such a thing. Just to put it into perspective, if you stop for a moment and try to imagine a world where time doesn't exist - our minds cannot comprehend such a thing, because in our existence, it is impossible to exist in a world where time doesn't exist. And in a similar vein, our minds cannot even begin to comprehend the forms of pleasure that will exist in the next world, because the greatest forms of pleasure that exist within our imagination in this world do not even compare to one moment of the slightest pleasure in the next world. There is much Torah literature about all of these concepts, and one interested in pursuing these topics further will certainly be able to find very valuable information easily accessible. However, let us remind ourselves that our main purpose in this world is to earn our place in the next world. Meaning, our job in this world is not to try work out what is going to transpire and how it's going to be then, because that is up to Hashem, and our experience will be B'ezrat Hashem when that time arrives. Our purpose in learning these topics is to motivate us to come to more Yiras Shamayim, fear of heaven, and Ahavas Hashem, love of Hashem. Because when we're able to internalize that the concepts of Olam Haba are not just fairy tales, but rather a real destination for our real future, we are then, B'ezrat Hashem, able to be motivated to use our time in this world in the most efficient manner, when we realize that each moment that we have in this world is an opportunity to gain eternity for eternity. What a tremendous opportunity we all have to be learning about Olam Haba and making an effort to B'ezrat Hashem internalize that the next world is our true, final destination.

471 - Olam Haba (Part-10)

Nov 24, 2025

4:28

The Mishna in Pirkei Avos, chapter 4, mishna 17 teaches, that this world is like a corridor before Olam Haba. And therefore the mishna advises: prepare yourself in the corridor, in order that you may enter the palace. If I like a certain type of food, and I don't restrain myself from overeating, altough I might enjoy those moments indulging in that food, however if I am irresponsible, I will pay the consequences thereafter with a stomach ache, or other areas of my health. The verse in Koheles, chapter 2, verse 14, states, "Hechacham Einav Berosho", and as some commentaries explain, a wise person is always considering the future consequences of their actions. Although we certainly do need to pay attention to the consequences of our actions in this world, because we live in this world and we need to function in our day-to-day lives, however, much more important than that is to think ahead of what's going to be in the future when we leave this world, because as we've been discussing, our time span in this world is so short in comparison to what eternity has in store for us. And therefore, the mindset of someone who is truly in reality, mindful of the real future in store for us, will make an effort to not get too caught up in indulging in this world and being distracted from our spiritual pursuits, but rather, making our highest priority to serve Hashem and earn our place for eternity in the world to come. Let us remind ourselves that the main purpose that Hashem placed us in this world and didn't directly place us in the next world, was so that we should have an opportunity to be able to earn our place in the world to come. And in order to do so, of course, we have to lay out the opportunity to be able to choose good and earn our reward, whilst at the same time, also have the choice to do the opposite. And let us also remind ourselves of what the Torah commentaries teach us, that this world is the world of emunah, the world where we are required to believe. Because if a person does not have the next world at the forefront of their mind, for the most part, we don't see consequences for our actions in this world. And that being the case, it is very hard to remain constantly motivated and inspired to choose good and stay away from bad. Because let's say, I did commit a sin, as we all do every day, because we are limited by our human capacity, but because usually nothing happens in this world as a direct consequence of our sins, but rather we are called in to believe of the effect, if that belief is not so strong, it is difficult to be motivated to constantly make our maximum effort to do the right thing. And again, as discussed many times, that's why the Torah commentaries teach us that our purpose in this world can be summarized in one word, emunah, to believe, because we don't see, we have to believe it. If I'm standing with my family or a few friends, and I have a really good joke to make about a certain individual that will really make everyone laugh, but it happens to be that this statement qualifies as lashon hara, which as we are taught in Torah literature, is one of the most severe sins. Now again, one might say, "listen, I don't really mean bad, I'm just trying to be a bit funny and create a good atmosphere. It's not so bad, right?" And if one is to go ahead and tell the joke, usually one doesn't get struck by a bolt of lightning, and one does not have to pay any direct consequence. Imagine for a moment that if I go ahead and say those words of lashon hara, that immediately that would cause a bolt of lightning to strike me and paralyze me for life, with excruciating pain. If that happened to the guy next to me, and I clearly saw that it happened as a result of his speaking lashon hara, most of us would certainly think twice before saying the lashon hara, even though it might be super funny and socially appropriate. We are taught that the effect of what will happen in the next world from our actions is much stronger than a bolt of lightning striking us and paralyzing us. And conversely, the positive effect of our actions is much stronger than anything we might even begin to imagine. The more we work towards believing in the real impact of our actions that do not take place in this world and we cannot see in this world, but rather we have to believe that will really and very literally take place in the next world, the more we will be successful in our endeavor for eternity.

473 - Olam Haba (Part-12)

Nov 26, 2025

4:28

We've discussed some of the concepts that the Torah authorities outline to us, with regards to the world to come - Olam Haba. However, as many of them mention, ultimately, we don't know exactly what is going to transpire, until we actually get there and see for ourselves. However, one thing that is clear according to all opinions, is that in the next world, there is no more opportunity. Olam Haba, the next world, is the world of reward, where we reap the benefits of everything that we did in this world, whereas this world, the world where we have to believe, and many things don't make sense - the world of emunah, is the world of opportunity. It is known about the Vilna Gaon, that when he was passing onto the next world, his students saw him crying. And when he was asked why he was crying, he said that he was now leaving a world, where for a small act, for a very small price, one can perform mitzvos that earn you eternal reward, greater than anything that this world can buy. A story in Tanach brings this point out in a very powerful way. The infamous king, Nevuchadnezzar, before he became king, used to be the secretary of another king who had dealings with the king of Israel. Once, when Nevuchadnezzar the secretary was away, the Gentile king wrote a letter where he addressed it to the king of Israel and the God of Israel, first referring to the human king of Israel and only thereafter addressing the God of Israel. When Nevuchadnezzar the secretary arrived back and noticed that the king was about to dispatch this letter, he suggested to the king that it would be more appropriate to first address the God of Israel and only thereafter the human king of Israel. The Gentile king followed his secretary, Nevuchadnezzar's advice, and it says that Nevuchadnezzar took four steps in order to implement this change. Because Nevuchadnezzar was such an evil man on every other front, Hashem did not want him to have a place in the world to come. But Hashem will never skip over any good deed that anyone performs, even the most wicked of individuals, and Hashem wanted to reward Nevuchadnezzar for standing up for the honor of God in this one act that he committed. And because of the four steps that he took in his effort to stand up for the honor of Hashem, he was rewarded with becoming the most powerful man and human ruler over the entire world. How many times do I take a hundred steps, or maybe drive in a car for ten minutes in order to go to Shul, visit a sick person, or any other mitzvah? We are taught that the reward that awaits us is so great that it cannot even fit in this world. Let us just digest that concept. That the reward that awaits us in the next world for just one single mitzvah is greater than being rewarded with becoming the ruler over the entire world. "Hashem, my Father, thank you so much for teaching me the truth of what real reality is. I know that ultimately this world is a distraction from true reality because everything in this world operates in a way where we seem to experience things exactly as they are, at face value. But the truth of the matter, as you've taught us so many times in your Torah, is that we are called unto believe in the information that you've given us in the Torah. Although much of the world are making the main pursuit of their lives to amass as much money as they can, or perhaps to try to find forms of happiness that speak to them in this world, however, Hashem, you have taught us that this world is so short in comparison to what eternity is, and the opportunity that we have each moment to perform mitzvos in this world will gain us reward beyond anything that we can even begin to imagine in this world. Please Hashem, help me to use my time wisely in this world and not get distracted by the normal way of the world and direction that people follow, but rather to use every moment that I can in service to you. And as you've taught us in your Torah sources, that even if I've fallen and committed transgressions, it's never ever the wrong time to pick myself up and say, Hashem, from now on, I'm going to do my best and capitalize on each opportunity to pick up another mitzvah and, b'ezrat Hashem, move to an even higher place in Olam Haba, for eternity

474 - Olam Haba (Part-13)

Nov 27, 2025

4:30

How do I know if I'm doing well in terms of my spiritual scorecard? The truthful answer is that I don't know. But that's okay. I'm not meant to know because I'm not the judge. Hashem's job is to take an accounting of all our actions in order to reward us appropriately and fairly in the next world, B'ezrat Hashem, whereas our job in this world is never to know exactly how we are doing, but rather always to strive higher and higher. The Gemara in Berachos 28b states that when Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai, one of the greatest sages, was passing away, his students asked him why he was crying. And he mentioned, because there are two roads after a person dies, that of Gan Eden, heaven, and that of Gehinnom, hell - and I don't know which path they are leading me onto. Now one might feel if Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai wasn't sure where he was going, what chance do I have? But again, as the Rambam says, every single individual is able to become as great as Moshe Rabbeinu. And as the commentaries explain, of course it doesn't mean that we are able to actually reach the same spiritual state as Moshe Rabbeinu, the greatest human being ever to live. But rather that just like he achieved his maximum potential, we are able to achieve our maximum potential. Hashem will certainly not make an unfair challenge that is impossible for us to pass, but rather the opposite. Let us remind ourselves, why did Hashem create the world in the first place? Only to give to us. Of course He does want us to have a challenge, and we are taught that one of the most basic fundamentals of Judaism is that we do have free choice, and we are able to exercise our choice in whether we are going to choose good or bad, whilst at the same time, the whole purpose of Hashem giving us that opportunity is only so that we should have the ability to earn a greater place for ourselves in the next world. On the one hand, of course we must remember that Hashem is never trying to catch us out, and He is an absolutely loving Father, whilst on the other hand, we should remember that just like Rabbi Yochanan Ben Zakkai was worried that perhaps he would have to go through the terrible tortures of Gehinnom, so too each one of us should have that at the forefront of our mind, because by doing so, that could be a tremendous motivator to doing more good and staying away from bad. The Gemara in Bava Basra 10b tells of the son of Rabbi Yeshua ben Levi, who had a near-death experience, which as we know, means he went to the next world for a few moments, and then came back to this world. When he recovered, his father asked him what he saw in the next world. And he said, "I saw an upside-down world, because many people that were considered noble and respected in this world were the real poor people in the next world, and many of the paupers in this world were the ones that were of highest royalty in the next world." And his father said back to him, "you saw the real world; this world that we live in is the upside-down world, where many people are honoured for their material successes, whereas people who have truly achieved what counts in the real world, much of the time are ignored." The Torah commentaries teach us that in the next world, there is no beating around the bush. Everything is absolutely clear, and there are no excuses. The Chofetz Chaim in his Sefer Shem Olam, chapter 4, writes that the poorest of people in this world still have a way out, because they can really rely on the kindness that others might show them, such as by hosting them, giving them food and accommodation, and the like. However, says the Chofetz Chaim, there is no such thing in the next world. If one does not have a place in what he calls the Machaneh of the Shechina, the place where Hashem manifests Himself, he is then stuck in the outer chambers. And the Chofetz Chaim then brings a Midrash, which says that friends cannot save one another in the next world, to the extent that even a father cannot invite his own son into his place in the heavenly chambers - If you have not earned that place, you have no license to be able to go there on someone else's account. Every single one of us has the tremendous opportunity to be able to gain eternal Olam Abba and bask in Hashem's light forever. But with that comes the opportunity to choose each moment of our lives - how exactly are we going to make use of those moments.

475 - Olam Haba (Part-14)

Nov 28, 2025

4:17

There are different approaches taken on by Torah leaders, where some focus more on the fact that Hashem is a loving, forgiving Father always looking out for our best, and others focus more on the fact that there are severe and serious consequences for our actions. It is very clear from many Torah sources that both of these aspects are true. On the one hand, Hashem created the world just out of love to be able to give us pleasure eternally. And on the other hand, the system that was created in this world, where we are given the opportunity to earn our eternity, gives space for choosing good and earning our reward, and also the opposite, where there are very serious and severe consequences for our transgressions. It is important to note that both of these approaches are true perspectives of the Torah, and one should certainly expose oneself to both of them to some degree. However, for many people, focusing on one of them is more beneficial. Some people are very inspired and motivated when they understand the extreme seriousness and severity of the consequences for their actions in the next world. Whereas for many people, that idea may be very overwhelming, and although one certainly should be exposed to it to some degree, because as we've learned previously, many Torah commentaries write that the only way to come to real love of Hashem is by first coming to fearing Hashem, and the most basic level of fearing Hashem is understanding that there are severe consequences for our actions in the next world, however, at the same time, one with this type of nature and approach could expose themselves mainly to the more positive areas, such as what is waiting for us in Gan Eden and the like. There is much written about all of these topics, and if one would like to investigate it further, perhaps a place to start are the Midrashic collections on these topics, called Meseches Chibut Hakever, Meseches Gehinnom, and Meseches Gan Eden. Every one of us has our own journey, and different people connect with different things. But one thing is for sure, to just ignore the fact that reality is one day going to hit, and not expose oneself whatsoever to the concept of Olam Haba, is certainly not in line with what all the commentaries do. Throughout Torah literature, right from the early classics such as the Talmud all the way through to the later Torah commentaries, the concept of Olam Haba and the consequences that we've been discussing is on the front pages of every topic. Because let us remind ourselves, this world is a world of Emunah, although everything around us might seemingly dictate that the important things are getting evolved in the materialistic things of this world, however, our purpose in this world is to practice and excel in our belief, our Emunah, in what we are taught from Hashem's perspective, the only true perspective. "Hashem, my Father, I am so grateful that You have chosen me as Your child to teach me this true information of Your perspective that teaches us the truth of what reality is. Because Hashem, although You created this world, that many people are involved in this world for its own sake - Of course I can't understand Your real calculations - but as Torah commentaries teach, one of the reasons that many people exist in this world is just because of me. Because as the Gemara states, I am obligated to believe that the entire world was created just for me, and although there might be many people who seemingly do not understand that there is another world and just get involved in day-to-day materialistic activities in this world, however, Hashem, as You've taught me from Your Torah commentaries, many of those people were created just to test me. Because although they might appear to be successful in their endeavors, I am now called on to believe that those pursuits of the materialistic world and the successes they might be seeing is not reality. Although it might appear to the naked eye that that will lead to happiness and the like, however, a person who is truly connected will quickly realize what true reality is."

476 - Olam Haba (Part-15)

Nov 30, 2025

4:15

Imagine you are up to write an important exam, and all the students are informed that if you would like, you are welcome to come over and see the exact questions that will be asked on this exam. Not only that, but we will also show you the correct answers to the questions that will be asked. Of course only a fool would skip such an opportunity, because after seeing the questions and knowing the right answers, we can be guaranteed to succeed in our exam. Much more important than any exam that can exist in this materialistic world that we live in, is the exam we will have at the time that we pass on from this world. The Gemara in Shabbos 31a states that there will be six questions asked of us at the exam we will have to face on the day of our passing. Of course there is much Torah literature about these six questions available for one who is interested in further study. But for our purposes right now we will go through these six questions very briefly, so that b'ezrat Hashem, each one of us, can make an effort to be mindful of these questions and be prepared for that exam when the time arrives. Question number one the gemara says, is nasata v'nasata beemunah - did you conduct your business affairs in an honest manner? That is the simple meaning. And on a deeper level, as the commentaries teach, is - did you live your life according to the values of Emunah? And in truth, these two explanations are really one and the same, because one who is living according to the values of Emunah will also certainly conduct their business affairs in an honest manner, because if Hashem is truly in charge, I have no need to cheat anybody. The second question is kavata itim latorah - did you set aside time to study the Torah? And as the Shulchan Aruch in Yoreh Deah chapter 246 states - every single Jew is obligated in the mitzvah of Torah study, whether poor or rich, whether healthy or unhealthy, whether one has family responsibilities or other responsibilities, under all circumstances one is obligated to set aside time to learn Torah. In our day and age we are so privileged to have so many forms of Torah learning available in all languages and in all mediums, such as books, online lectures and the like. Let us remind ourselves that this is the second question that will be asked in our final examination. It is also worthwhile to mention that the Halacha states that although women do not have the same level of obligation in terms of Torah learning as of men, by helping others such as her husband and children to learn Torah, she bears the fruits of a full out partnership in their Torah learning. Question number three is asakta bepirya ureviyah - was one involved in making an effort to try procreate and make a family? The emphasis on try, because if we believe Hashem is in true control, then Hashem exclusively decides if and what type of family we might have; but our effort needs to be to try and pray to make a family and be able to procreate. Question number four is Tzipisa Liyeshua - did you hope for the arrival of Mashiach? We have a mitzvah every single day to hope for the coming of Mashiach that we should merit in our days. Questions five and six are also related to Torah study, where the questions surround some of the more deeper and technical aspects of how exactly we went about our Torah study. And again, highlighting and seeing the great emphasis that Hashem places on Torah study. And the gemara ends off by saying that a prerequisite even to all six questions that will be asked in our final examination is did we have Yiras Hashem - fear of Hashem. Of course there are many levels in understanding these six questions, but at least revising a brief understanding of these six questions for preparation of our exam can certainly go a long way. May we all merit to be successful in all our endeavours in this world, but most importantly may we all merit to pass our final examination with flying colours.

477 - Gratitude (Part-1)

Dec 2, 2025

5:09

HaShem knows all of our thoughts and all of our needs, and the question then arises, why should I pray for anything? Because if HaShem knows exactly what I need and will come through for me in exactly the way that I need according to what's best for me, why should I pray for anything to be different? Although this might be a good question, as discussed many times, if we use our own perspective, there could be many different answers, sometimes right, sometimes wrong. However, we always opt to follow HaShem's guidance, HaShem's perspective, which is portrayed in the Torah and throughout all the Torah commentaries. It is very clear from the Torah that we have a mitzvah to pray for our needs, whether we understand it or whether we don't. We find throughout Torah literature many personalities that were unable to have children, and although they could have just accepted their situation, they nevertheless chose to pray to HaShem to send them their desired request, to have a child. And there are many examples for this in the Torah, that it is a mitzvah to pray for the things that we desire to have. However, it is also important not to forget the fundamental starting point, that HaShem does know everything that we need, because sometimes we might feel anxious, did I express my prayer in the most perfect way? We do have a mitzvah to make our maximum effort to pray in the right way, and in fact, Torah sources do teach that we are to make our highest effort in verbalizing and outlining all the details to what we are requesting from HaShem. However, at the same time, to realize that HaShem only expects us to make our maximum effort, and at the same time, we are to humble ourselves and realize that even if we make our maximum effort, we can still not do it in the perfect way, because we are imperfect beings. When we ask HaShem for something, we might leave out many of the details that are actually of paramount importance. Just because of our limited nature, maybe we forgot, or maybe we didn't realize the importance to ask about other details. Again, our expectation is not to bring about any desired result. Our expectation is to make our maximum effort in doing so. And in the same vein, when we live with this fundamental principle, realizing and internalizing that HaShem of course knows everything that we might need even before we have verbalized, so we are able to also focus our energies on the highest form of prayer. The Torah commentaries teach that there are many chambers in the heavenly worlds, and depending on what our prayer consists of, our prayer is directed to a specific chamber in the heavenly worlds. We are taught that there are angels appointed over each of the chambers, and sometimes they can be strict in their judgment of why a certain prayer of ours should be prevented from making its way into a certain chamber. However, there is one chamber which the angels have absolutely no jurisdiction to, and this chamber is exclusively managed by HaShem Himself without any opportunity for the angels to get involved whatsoever. And we are taught that this is the chamber of gratitude, when we express our gratitude to HaShem for the areas He has come through for us. That itself is a catalyst for HaShem to thereafter answer our prayers that we might not even have verbalized, because HaShem now sees our appreciation and says, Oh, you think that was a gift? I'll show you what a real gift is. And through our thanking HaShem, we bring about all of our needs, even the ones that have not been verbalized. Of course, the ultimate reason we thank HaShem should not be to bring about the fringe benefits of the other things that we need. However, it is inspiring and motivating to realize that when we do thank HaShem, that merit extends to even unrelated areas to what I am thanking HaShem about and brings about HaShem answering our prayers, sending our salvations and our success.

478 - Gratitude (Part-2)

Dec 3, 2025

4:15

We've discussed that the Torah commentaries outline that there are many chambers in the heavenly realms and sometimes a specific prayer can only make its way up if certain criteria are met, perhaps related to our righteousness, to our commitment and performance of the mitzvahs, to how sincere we were in verbalizing that prayer and many other factors. We've also discussed that Torah authorities outline to us that there is one chamber in the heavenly realms where no angels have any jurisdiction, the chamber of our prayers of gratitude. And that being the case, even when our merits do not dictate for our prayer to be answered, Hashem overlooks the situations many times, bringing about what we have desired, even when we shouldn't have deserved so. The potency and power of thanking Hashem and the responsibility and opportunity for each one of us to do so is portrayed to us in the laws of davening. There are three prescribed prayers and the main part of the prayer is the where everybody stands and prays the prescribed prayer quietly. After the quiet Shemoneh Esrei, the leader of the davening repeats the Shemoneh Esrei for the basic reason that if somebody does not know how to pray, this prayer can now be counted for all the individuals who do not know how to pray as if they prayed themselves. This law was much more relevant in times of old where used to pray without any siddurim and it was common for people to come to a synagogue and not know how to pray. However, even though we do have siddurim today, this law nevertheless still stands for various reasons. It is worthwhile to point out that although one is able to fulfill their obligation of prayer by listening to the words and recitation of the Chazan, nevertheless, when we reach the paragraph of Modim which deals with thanking Hashem for the many blessings that He has given us, there is a special paragraph there that we all have to recite ourselves. And commentaries explain because although all prayers are important but in a sense the most important prayer is the prayer of thank you and therefore when we reach the section of thank you in the repetition of the Shemoneh Esrei, it does not suffice for us to just hear the words of the Chazan and fulfill our obligation in that way. Rather, we need to verbalize the thank you in our own words every single one of us. The gift of saying thank you to Hashem is available to every single one of us at every opportunity. “Thank you, Hashem, for the privilege of waking up to another day and all the opportunities that you have presented me in my life. Thank you, Hashem, for the incredible opportunity to recite brochas today over everything I'm going to eat and drink and every time I use the bathroom. Thank you, Hashem, for the ability to go to the bathroom without pain so many times. Thank you, my loving Father, for the opportunity to be learning Torah, to be trying to and to have a personal relationship with you. Thank you, Hashem, for giving me a mouth and teaching me how to talk and giving me the opportunity to pray to you about anything and everything I might need and in particular thank you Hashem for the opportunity to thank you for all the gifts that you bestow on me in so many different ways. Thank you, Hashem, for all the gifts that you have given me.”

479 - Gratitude (Part-3)

Dec 4, 2025

5:24

There is a fascinating teaching that helps us to digest emunah and the way that we pray in a powerful way. Rabbeinu Bechayei and other Torah commentaries write that before every single neshama descends into this world, each soul is given the opportunity to outline and choose all the details of what will transpire throughout their lives. And each one of us goes and chooses exactly what type of being we will be, what our characteristics will be, how much money we will have, who our family and friends will be, what our health will look like, if we will have children and how many, and all the other many details that transpire throughout our lives. If we remember and internalize with our emunah these words of Rabbeinu Bechayei, that we ourselves have pre-chosen every single nuance and detail that will transpire in our lives, it can help us tremendously in our endeavor of emunah and bitachon. Before we came into this world, when we were not limited by our body and human limitations, we have the opportunity and ability to see through the lens of absolute truth, through the full picture. And therefore, our neshamas choose exactly what is best for us before we come into the world, because our neshamas can see everything there, why it is good for us. And in this world, as discussed many times, we do not see, we have to believe. But if we remember that we've already chosen all the details to our own lives, ourselves, it can be tremendously inspiring to accept all situations with love and happiness. We've discussed many times that the highest and most potent prayer that we can opt to pray is the prayer of thank you. And it is worth highlighting two sides of the coin when it comes to thanking Hashem. The first and most obvious is thanking Hashem for what we did experience when He came through for us and investing time and energy into verbalizing and expressing those feelings to Hashem. “Thank you so much, Hashem, for the gift to be able to keep Shabbos and all its tremendous blessing every single week. Thank you so much, Hashem, for the opportunity to be able to have eyes and be able to see. Thank you, Hashem, for the gift to be able to breathe. Thank you, Hashem, for the incredible family that you've given me. Thank you, Hashem, for all the parnassah and food that you've given me throughout my life.” And the more we thank Hashem, the better, because in a sense, we are then appreciating more. And as we've discussed, when Hashem hears our “thank you’s” to Him, He then brings about more blessing in all areas of our life. And the other side of the coin when it comes to thank you is thanking Hashem for those things that we do not understand and see the good in, but we believe that Hashem can and will only send us good. Remember, we ourselves, before we came down into this world, chose all the details precisely of what would transpire throughout our lives, not because we were forced to, but because we chose that that will be the best for us. And with that perspective and understanding, it is easy to thank Hashem for anything and everything which might transpire. “Thank you so much, Hashem, for the fact that I broke my toe, because, of course, I don't know all your calculations why that is good for me, but I know for sure that that is good for me. And in fact, I might myself even be able to think of reasons why that may be good for me. Thank you, Hashem, for breaking my toe, because the truth of the matter is that I get quite busy with my life, with the many obligations that I have to take care of, and I don't usually appreciate the fact that I can walk around without this constant pain bragging at me. Thank you, Hashem, for now breaking my toe and giving me the opportunity to appreciate all those other times. And thank you, Hashem, for the fact that I didn't break my other toe, my arm, my legs, and all the other incredible things that you've given me in the health of my body. And the truth of the matter is, Hashem, there are many deeper reasons why you might have caused me to break my toe. Perhaps there might have been some form of consequence waiting for me in the next world for some act or sin that I might have committed, and you, in your loving kindness, would rather me clean that slate by stabbing my toe in this world. Thank you, Hashem, for all the incredible gifts that you've given me, both those that I do understand as well as those that I don't understand, but just believe that are for sure for my best.”

480 - Gratitude (Part-4)

Dec 5, 2025

5:04

The Gemara in one place teaches us that since the time of the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash, the gates of prayer have been locked. The Gemara elsewhere, however, teaches that even were there to be such a strong separation, such as an iron wall dividing us away from Hashem, nevertheless we would never be separated from Hashem, and our prayers always have the potential to make their way up to Hashem. And one of the classic commentators, the Maharsha, writes that in order to resolve this contradiction, that when it comes to prayers of gratitude, then there is no barrier whatsoever between Hashem and ourselves in terms of our prayers. Whereas when it comes to other forms of prayer, requests and the like, then since the time of the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash, it is more difficult for our prayers to make their way up to Hashem. I read an amazing story in the book, Just One Word, Emunah, by Esther Stern, that drives this point home. There was a couple who got married in the year 1979. For ten years they were unable to have children, and of course throughout that process and time they made their efforts to try and enable them to have children, be it seeing doctors or spiritual endeavors. Another ten years passed, now twenty years in total, with still no sign of any child or possibility of having children in sight. This of course was a point of tremendous heartache in this couple's life. Nevertheless, being God-fearing Jews, they went to receive blessings from some great people, and the woman in the story recounts that their situation was so impossible to have children, when they went to certain great people, they were encouraged to accept their situation that they weren't meant to have children. However, this woman says that she had learned that there is never a space to give up, and even when all odds are against an individual, one can always pray for things to turn into their favor. The woman in the story reports that she and her husband, during this period of being unable to have children, and of course having this at the forefront of their minds all the time, visited Kevar Rachel, the holy place of the tomb of Rachel, every morning for two years reciting the entire book of Tehillim. Now for most of us, that would be a very big spiritual effort. Nevertheless, they did not see any sign of children. After 31 years of being unable to have children, says the woman in the story, she was speaking to a friend who had learned about the concept of thanking Hashem both for the times that we understand as good, as well as for the unpleasant times, because although we don't see the good in those situations, we believe that Hashem will only send our way what is good for us. And after learning about this concept, she and her husband decided to change course completely, and instead of requesting from Hashem to have a child, they began thanking Hashem for 32 years of being unable to have children. Firstly, thanking Hashem for their emunah in their lives, being able to believe that if Hashem has sent them a certain challenge, of course it will be for their best, and perhaps also finding other reasons why Hashem's decree could be for their good, such as for 32 years they have had the opportunity to live with a certain level of humility and connection to Hashem, and dependency of Hashem praying to Him so much in perhaps a way that many others could not do. And she says that this became their mode of thinking in all areas of their life when something broke in their house. Although one's instinctive response is to be frustrated or complain, they got into a mode where they said, “thank you Hashem that the washing machine just broke; thank you Hashem that the fridge now needs repair”, and believe it or not, after 32 years, this woman and her husband merited to have a child, and she passionately describes how more potent than any form of prayer or spiritual endeavor, to just thank Hashem is the highest of the high because again, if we believe that Hashem can do and only does good for us, we will thank Him for everything.

468 - Olam Haba (Part-7)

Nov 20, 2025

4:55

We've been discussing the process of what the Torah authorities outline to us happens after we leave this world. As discussed, after one dies and departs from this world, one needs to go through a cleansing process called chibbut hakever, where there is some form of suffering that one needs to experience in one's burial place. And as the Torah authorities outline to us, there are many levels of what that pain and suffering might be, dependent on the severity and extent of our sins. Again, let us remind ourselves that the only reason Hashem created the world in the first place is just to give us pleasure, and God forbid, never was there an objective in mind to punish us, just for the sake of punishing us. But if we have committed sins, we do need to be cleansed. And depending on the severity and magnitude of our sins will be the extent of how hard we will need to be scrubbed to be cleansed. But again, let us remind ourselves, this is not a fairy tale for children that one can make jokes about. The Torah commentaries discuss that one moment of suffering after we die is much greater than any atrocity that we might have experienced or even heard about, and imagine that terrible act, continuing for 120 years without a break; one moment of suffering after we depart from this world is much worse than that. But we are so privileged to have been given such a tremendous gift from Hashem, called teshuva, that as we are taught, it doesn't matter what one has already committed, there is the possibility to repent for anything and everything. And let us remind ourselves of what the Gemara says, that if we truly repent out of love for Hashem, for even the greatest of sins that we might have committed, not only are those sins erased from our record, but they actually change to become mitzvos, and we now get points for those aveiros that we might have committed, because Hashem in His great kindness is so proud of us for repenting for those sins that He actually changes them to be considered mitzvos. Of course, there are many levels of what it means to do teshuva. One might repent for 10 seconds and one might spend 3 hours repenting about a certain act, and the more serious we might feel that we have committed a certain act, the more time we might be required to fully repent. But let us remind ourselves of what many Torah commentaries teach, that although there are many levels for repentance, but it is certainly invaluable beyond any words that we could be able to describe, to even take a few moments to just contemplate on an avarice that we might have committed. The basic steps of teshuva are to take a few moments and acknowledge the transgression that I committed, and express to Hashem my regret for having done so. And if there is something practical to do right now to rectify what has been done, such as if I have stolen money and the like, then certainly to go ahead and return that money. And thereafter, to say to Hashem that I am going to try my best in the future not to commit this transgression again, and of course to do one's best in the future. Sometimes, some transgressions are so difficult for us to stay away from that we almost feel insincere to do teshuva and repent for these things. As we are taught from the Torah commentaries, this is very much the wrong approach, because Hashem understands that we are limited by our human nature, and the fact that we are not able to repent in a way that we are sure that we will never come back to this sin is no reason for us not to repent, God forbid. But exactly the opposite. We are able to say, "Hashem, please help me that I shouldn't commit this sin again. But the truth of the matter is that, Hashem, I know I'm going to come back to speaking Lashon Horah probably tomorrow again. And although I want to repent for this act, I'm concerned that I'm being insincere. Please Hashem, help me that I shouldn't speak badly about other people tomorrow, and my repentance should be considered sincere in Your eyes." And again, if this is the best that I can do, even though I know I might even probably commit this transgression tomorrow, but the fact that I have even asked Hashem to help me is a tremendous, tremendous level. And similarly, if a woman got dressed in an immodest manner, and perhaps was looked at inappropriately by others, she might say, "Hashem, I'm really sorry for not following Your commandments and dressing immodestly. I regret what I did, and I'm going to try my best from tomorrow to dress in a much more modest manner, the best that I can. But at the same time, Hashem, You know that it is really hard for me, from the way I have been brought up and the way I'm accustomed to dress in a certain way. Please, can You help me to be able to dress in the way that Your Torah prescribes." And again, even though I know that I might not be able to live up to the standard, but if I am doing the best that I can, and just asking Hashem to help me, that is certainly extremely valuable in Hashem's eyes, and will work wonders for us, for our eternal place in Olam Haba.

482 - Gratitude (Part-6)

Dec 8, 2025

4:13

We've been discussing how when we adopt an approach to life, of seeing everything that we receive from Hashem as a gift, rather than assuming that it's something owed to us, that will lead us to feeling constant feelings of appreciation and gratitude to Hashem, which will ultimately also lead to being joyful and besimcha, and of course, having a constant close relationship with Hashem. Of course, it is not easy to remain with that mode of thought all the time, because most of the messages of the world around us are conducive to exactly the opposite. So what are we to do, seeing as it is a difficult ordeal, living lives with constant gratitude? As always, the solution to all problems, step number one, is talk to Hashem. "Hashem my Father, I want to be grateful. I want to see all the blessings that You give me and take nothing for granted. But Hashem, the messages in the world are conducive to exactly the opposite and it's difficult for me to remain with that mode of thought. Please Hashem, help me to notice all the things that You give me, from the smallest to the biggest on a daily basis. And in return, maybe something I can do from my part, Hashem, is commit to a certain amount of time that I will contemplate on some of the gifts that You bless me with on a daily basis and thank You for those things." For some people, maybe to write these things down would be beneficial, and then perhaps to take the things one's written down and dedicate a certain amount of time to talking to Hashem about those things and thanking Hashem for them. "Thank you so much Hashem for the gift to be able to talk. Imagine what my life would be if I was not able to communicate with those around me. I know that whatever I say to you Hashem is only going to be a drop in the ocean, but I know that You only expect of me to tell You a drop in the ocean, because I am just a human being and therefore I will just do my best." Making a daily commitment and having a safety net of a certain amount of time that I will talk to Hashem and express my gratitude for as many things that I can think of would be very conducive to remaining in the space of being grateful rather than living a life where I might feel that everything is owed to me. Remember, our relationship with Hashem is not something that is objectively the same to all of us, rather each one of us has our personal relationship with Hashem. Some of the points that are being mentioned here are just some ideas to help one perhaps get started or motivate ourselves to continue to move towards the right direction and living a life of appreciation, of gratitude and of joy and simcha. But ultimately, the way we do so will depend from individual to individual. For some, maybe just to recite the bracha Asher Yatzar with real meaning and intention will bring about feelings of appreciation and gratitude. For others, after reciting the bracha, to talk in their own words and say, "Hashem, thank You so much for the gift of being able to use the bathroom and not have to experience any pain. There were times that I did experience pain, and I know how painful it can be. And something so basic, like using the bathroom, which I might need multiple times a day, if I experience pain, or perhaps even excruciating pain, I would be completely dysfunctional and everything else in my life would become unimportant because I wouldn't manage. Thank You so much, Hashem, for the gift to be able to use the bathroom once again without pain." There are so many things, and life tries to distract us to forget to live a life of gratitude, to forget to have a personal relationship with Hashem. "Thank You, Hashem, for teaching us what life is truly about."

483 - Gratitude (Part-7)

Dec 9, 2025

4:21

We've been discussing how one of the most important fundamentals of living a happy life is being able to notice all the blessings we receive on a daily basis, which will thereby lead us to expressing gratitude to Hashem for the many blessings He constantly gives us. Expressing our feelings of gratitude to Hashem is clearly one of the fundamentals and most basic principles of the Torah. As we've learned many times, there is a Torah passage which outlines many curses which could befall the Jewish people just because they did not serve Hashem with simcha. When we neglect living lives of gratitude and joy, although one might be performing the mitzvahs in a practical way, one is missing one of the most important components of what it means to live life as a Jew. We are taught that in the future, all of the animal offerings which were brought in the temple will be discontinued except for one, the toda offering, because the toda offering is to say thank you. Although all of the offerings might be extremely elated and holy beyond anything we can imagine, however, the level that we will rise to in the future will be even greater than that and therefore the offerings will be unnecessary and won't have a place anymore. However, the offering of thank you will always remain because to be grateful is such a fundamental component of what it means to be a Jew that will remain with us forever regardless of our spiritual levels that we climb to. One component of expressing our gratitude is contemplating on all the amazing gifts and blessings that Hashem has blessed us with and as discussed, dedicating a certain amount of time every day to make efforts in thanking Hashem for all of these things will certainly be very conducive to living a life of gratitude. In addition to all the things that we perceive as gifts from Hashem, be it food, health, family, money, relationships or whatever else it might be, the halacha outlines that just like we are called on to bless Hashem and thank Him for all the things that we perceive as good, we are also called on to bless Hashem and thank Him for the things that we perceive as bad. This is a teaching from the Gemara which is also codified in the Shulchan Aruch as the law. It should not be viewed as a pious act for some righteous individual on a very high level, but rather applicable to every Jew that we should internalize that we need to thank Hashem for everything, both what we perceive as good as well as what we perceive as bad. As we know, there are blessings that are outlined for an individual to recite when tragedy strikes such as death, loss of large amount of money and other things. And the reason for that is because if we truly trust Hashem, we will understand that anything that happens is ultimately for our best, even when it might seem like there is no possible way for this to be good. But if we are able to humble ourselves to realize that we have no idea what's truly going on in the bigger picture of things in Hashem's books, but rather we live our lives with a trust that everything that He does is for sure for our best, then we will be able to trust and appreciate and be grateful for anything that happens. Of course, we are allowed to feel feelings of pain because we are human beings, and the halacha itself even dictates certain periods such as the mourning period for losing a relative and other similar things. At the same time, we are called on to feel feelings of appreciation and gratitude for everything that Hashem does because if Hashem decided to do something, there is no question that it is for my best. "Thank you Hashem for teaching me that everything that happens in my life is a gift from You and always going to be for my best."

484 - Gratitude (Part-8)

Dec 10, 2025

4:12

We've been discussing one of the most important and fundamental components to Judaism and Torah. As mentioned, the only animal offering that will remain in the future is the offering of the Todah, because although we might reach such a high spiritual level in the future that we will not need the other offerings, however, the offering that is brought in light of our gratitude to Hashem remains forever. And that is because gratitude is such a fundamental and important component to who and what we are. In the same vein, we are taught that all songs will cease to exist in the future. And again, because of the level that we will climb to, we will be beyond what songs can communicate and express. But the one song that will remain is Mizmor L'soda - is the song of gratitude, because thanking Hashem is something that is with us forever. We also learnt the Gemara which is codified in the Shulchan Aruch that states that a person is obligated to bless and thank Hashem for the good things that transpire in our lives as well as the bad things that transpire in our lives. And as pointed out, sometimes one might feel like a certain practice is saved for some super pious and righteous individuals, however, this is a law codified in the Shulchan Aruch which is applicable to every single one of us. In addition to having a daily commitment of a certain amount of time where one thanks Hashem for all of the good things in our lives, it could be very advisable to also dedicate a certain amount of time where I try contemplate on things which are seemingly bad and difficult and tragedies that I might be experiencing, and nevertheless find it within me to say, "Hashem, I know that this can only be for the best, because if You are sending this to me, there is no question that You will only do what is best for me." Let's say I am looking after another family member who is elderly and unwell, and being a good person, I make my maximum effort to look after them. I consult doctors, I try get the right guidance to give them their best treatment. I wake up one morning to the sad news that this family member has passed away. And it's also currently going all over the news that only just recently a certain medication was discovered that has a 99% success rate to treat this illness, and for whatever reason I did not see that information on the news. The wrong approach would be to say, "if only I knew about this news information, I would have saved my family member's life, I regret so much that I didn't look around more on the news and I didn't talk to more people, because maybe, who knows, I would have found the solution." If a person is responsible and made a reasonable amount of effort to look after their family member, an emunah approach would teach, the fact that I did not see that information on the news is just because Hashem did not want my family member to live more. For whatever reason, it was the best thing that they should be taken from us now, because everything that happens in the world can only be for the best. "Thank you Hashem for teaching me this golden information, the true perspective, your perspective, that anything and everything that transpires throughout my life is directly orchestrated by You, and therefore, whether I perceive it as good or if I perceive it as bad is only my perception, but ultimately, anything and everything that happens is always directly orchestrated from You and always only what is absolutely best for me."

485 - Gratitude (Part-9)

Dec 11, 2025

5:46

We've been discussing one of the most important components of what it means to live a life of Torah, the true perspective of Hashem. And as discussed, having a daily commitment of a certain amount of time where I can focus on and contemplate all the things that I perceive as good, just to appreciate them and be grateful for them, is something very conducive to living a life of gratitude, which will ultimately lead to a life of joy and simcha. And in addition to that, it would be wise to also devote a certain amount of time to try to contemplate the things that I might perceive as negative and as bad, but nevertheless communicate with Hashem that we trust that whatever He does is for our best, because He only does what is best for us. As mentioned, this concept is codified in the Shulchan Aruch where it states that a person is obligated to bless and thank Hashem for both the things that we perceive as good as well as the things that we perceive as bad, because ultimately nothing in the world is bad. Everything that Hashem does can only be for our best. Remember what all the Torah commentaries teach us as to the most vital question of why Hashem decided to create the world in the first place, and what they all unanimously state is that ultimately, Hashem did not need to create anyone nor anything, but He did so just because He wants to share His goodness with us. That is the starting point to never forget that anything and everything that ever transpires can only be for a positive effect that Hashem is bringing about, because that is the only reason He created the world in the first place. It happens to be that for our ultimate benefit, there needs to be negativity in the world. There needs to be the potential to sin, to break our relationship with Hashem, and there needs to be tragedy and challenges that transpire. However, ultimately it is only for one purpose. It is ultimately just so that Hashem can give to us in the highest, most potent and powerful way which only He understands, the exact course that will bring about this desired result in the most effective way. There is a story of the two famous and pious brothers, Rav Zusha and Rav Elimelech. It happened one time that because of the antisemitism, these two great tzaddikim were imprisoned. Not having committed any form of transgression, but just because of the antisemitism, some pretext was found against them. And whilst in prison, one of the brothers started crying, and the other brother said to him, why are you crying? We know Hashem runs the world exclusively. Are you worried? Are you scared? What are you worried about? Just like Hashem put us in here, He could take us out at any moment. And if He wants us to remain here, then of course that is for the best. So why are you crying? And the brother retorted back, you think I'm crying about that? I'm not scared. I know that everything happens only for the best. And if Hashem wants us to be here right now, that is for sure for the best. And if He wants to take us out, He can do so at any moment, because He runs the world exclusively. You know why I'm crying? Because I see the sun is about to set, and the mincha prayer which I have not yet recited needs to be said before the sun has set. However, one is also forbidden to pray if there is a foul odor nearby oneself. And we here are locked in this small room, and right there in the middle of the room, there is a garbage can with a foul odor emanating from it. And therefore, I am unable to pray the mincha services now. And the sun is about to set. I have never missed the mincha prayer before. And now, for the first time in my life, I am going to miss this prayer. This is the reason I am crying. And the brother retorted back, what is the reason you usually daven mincha? Is it not because Hashem commanded you to daven mincha? Well, if Hashem put you in this situation right now, where you are locked in a room and are unable to daven mincha, then just like Hashem is the one who usually commands you to daven mincha, today Hashem is the one commanding you not to daven mincha. And the two brothers began to dance around the garbage can, celebrating that this was their best way to serve Hashem now, because everything Hashem does is for the best. It happened to be that as an anecdote to the story, the prison warden came and saw that there was such tremendous joy about this garbage can that they were dancing around, and because of his hatred for the Jews not wanting them to have any joy, he removed the garbage can, thinking that this was some form of ritual and the brothers were of course now free to continue with their services. Sometimes, when we choose to focus on the good, to be appreciative and grateful, and to be full of joy, that itself is the catalyst to removing the heartache and challenges that are presented to us. But perhaps an even deeper message is to contemplate on the fact that anything and everything that happens throughout our lives is always exclusively orchestrated directly from Hashem and therefore can only be for our best.

486 - Gratitude (Part-10)

Dec 12, 2025

5:24

Let us remind ourselves, the only reason Hashem created the world was in order to share His goodness with every single one of us, and therefore anything that ever transpires throughout our lives can only be for our ultimate benefit. And at the same time, let us remind ourselves that we are taught that our main focus in this world, ultimately the foundation of the whole Torah and all the mitzvos, is to practice emunah, belief, specifically when I don't understand, to believe. Hashem designed the world in a way that everything is conducive for an opportunity to believe. So although we are taught from all the Torah sources unanimously that ultimately Hashem created the world only to give to us, only to be good to us, however, Hashem made the world operate in a way that many times it can seem like bad things are happening to us, thereby giving us an opportunity to be able to exercise our emunah, our belief; although I seem to see what appears to be bad, however, I am going to make an effort to believe and have emunah that the only reason Hashem is doing this is in order to give me an opportunity to choose to believe in what He's taught me, in His Torah sources, which is ultimately the only true perspective, Hashem's perspective, that absolutely anything and everything that transpires throughout my life can only be for my good. We ought to constantly remind ourselves about what the Mishnah states, which is ultimately coded in the Shulchan Aruch. חייב אדם לברך על הראה כשם שמברך על הטובה - that a person is obligated to bless Hashem for the seemingly bad times in the same way that one would bless Hashem for the seemingly good times. We know that in halacha there are certain blessings prescribed to the birth of children and in the same way there are certain blessings prescribed to when one experiences the death of a family member. And we also have certain blessings prescribed in halacha when one receives a large amount of money or an item of substantial value and in the same way when one loses a large amount of money there is a blessing outlined. And ultimately as we've learnt many times, this stems from the fact that we ought to believe that everything that transpires throughout our lives is directly orchestrated from Hashem and can only be for our best because that is why He created us. But again our job is to believe that when other factors seem to indicate the opposite. There are many great sages and Torah sources that outline the benefits of fulfilling this law where we bless and thank Hashem for not only the things we perceive as good but also for the things we perceive as challenges and tragedy. The main student of Rabbi Nachman of Breslov in his book Likutei Halachot writes the following: "If everyone would constantly give thanks and praise to Hashem whether under good circumstances or not, then surely all the troubles and all the exiles would be completely nullified and the complete redemption would take place." There are many Torah passages outlined by many great sages along similar lines. What we are learning here is that of course by thanking Hashem and being grateful for even the challenges throughout our lives, the ultimate benefit is that we are fulfilling our purpose in this world to have emunah, but an additional fringe benefit is that by choosing to be grateful and thank Hashem for what we perceive as challenges and say, "Hashem you know the fact that I lost all this money it is so hard for me and it hurts me but if that is what you sent me I have no doubt that this is the best thing in the world. Thank you so much Hashem for making me lose one million dollars in this crazy transaction that took place. Although this is such a huge blow to me and I have no idea how I am going to come out of this, I am going to thank you with all my heart because Hashem if you created me and you sent me this situation and I trust that everything you do in the world is only for my best there is no question in the world that this too is for my best. Thank you so much Hashem for making me lose a million dollars." And as we are taught here, by doing so, one of the great fringe benefits is that that itself is the catalyst to turning the tragedy and challenge into a time of revealed blessing, a time where we perceive it as good. May we all merit to thank Hashem for all the things in our lives, for the things we perceive as good as well as the things we perceive as bad. And Im Yirtzeh Hashem, may we all merit to lives where we can perceive the goodness that Hashem is sending us at every moment throughout our lives.

487 - Chanukah (Part-1)

Dec 14, 2025

4:36

The first part of Emunah that we've been focusing on and discussing is making our maximum effort to build our belief in Hashem, believing specifically when we don't understand and we can't necessarily make logical sense of many of the happenings in our lives, but nevertheless we are called on to believe that everything Hashem does is for our best; that all the mitzvos with all their precise intricacies have a very specific reason and are to be treated with utmost importance; that when we feel feelings of anxiety and worry, as the verse teaches, we have the opportunity and are called on to take refuge in Hashem and turn to Hashem for our salvation. And as we've discussed, there are many levels in what it means to do so. Although it is already a tremendously significant achievement when one has acknowledged and internalized to even a very minor degree that Hashem does exist, and therefore when I am experiencing some sort of trouble in my life, I do turn to Hashem, even if it is only for a few seconds or a few moments, instead of trying to go and find my own solutions, if I turn to Hashem and acknowledge that He is the one that can help me, that is a tremendous achievement. However, as we've discussed, there are many levels as to what it means to rely on Hashem. The more we grow in our Emunah and Bitachon, the more we will be inclined to turn to Hashem. And as we've discussed many times, Emunah is our life's work. And although we are certainly called on to make our maximum effort in achieving our life's purpose, in growing in our Emunah, and one of the main ways we can exercise that effort is by exposing ourselves to what the Torah, the only true perspective, Hashem's perspective, has to teach about Emunah and Bitachon, thereby trying to incorporate those concepts more and more into our lives on a daily basis, at the same time, we have learned many times that Hashem only expects from every single one of us to make our maximum effort. Everyone has a different story, a different background, and many other factors that make up who we are. And certainly it is not our place and we cannot tell about the success levels of Emunah of one another. Our only focus is to make our maximum effort in our own lives to grow as much as we can, just a little bit more every day, to have that little bit more Emunah and that little bit more Bittachon. Although on the one hand, throughout the year we are certainly called on to do our best in making an active and practical effort to grow in our Emunah, be it by learning Torah sources, seeking daily inspiration, asking Hashem in our own words to help us with our Emunah and Bitachon endeavor, and the like, at the same time, however, there are certain times and places that our opportunity to connect with Hashem and have an Emunah and Bitachon boost are stronger than other times and places. A basic fundamental to the Torah and to Judaism is that Hashem fills every single space of the world that we live in, and certainly Hashem hears us, whatever part of the world we might be in, as well as whatever time of year it might be. However, we are also taught that the opportunity for this connection is more potent at certain auspicious times and holy places. Although we all have the constant opportunity to talk to Hashem from our own homes, and we should certainly capitalize on that opportunity, b'ezrat Hashem soon when the Beis Hamikdash will be rebuilt and we will have the opportunity to come to the holy land of Eretz Yisrael and go to the Beis Hamikdash, there is no question that the opportunity for closer connection to Hashem will be all that more potent inside the Beis Hamikdash. The way I once heard this concept explained can be compared to Wi-Fi connection. The whole world is within Hashem's Wi-Fi vicinity, and there is no question that we are connected, wherever we are, whenever it might be. However, there are certain spots that the Wi-Fi connection is particularly strong, and the connection is therefore faster, more efficient, and the like. And similarly, when it comes to our connection to Hashem, there are certain times that our opportunity for connection has a tremendous boost. We are about to enter the holy days of Chanukah, eight unique days that have a tremendously electric energy in terms of the opportunity of our connecting to Hashem and building our emunah and bitachon. May we all merit to capitalize on the tremendous opportunity we have to boost our emunah and bitachon and connection with Hashem throughout the eight holy days of Chanukah.

488 - Chanukah (Part-2)

Dec 15, 2025

4:06

We are so privileged to currently be experiencing these eight powerful days of spiritual dynamite. Although usually throughout the year, we certainly are called on to make our maximum effort to grow in our emunah and bitachon, and as many Torah authorities outlined to us, such as the Mesillas Yesharim at the beginning of his book - that the purpose of life is to give us an opportunity to overcome the tests that Hashem sends us. And in many ways, we are called on to view life as if it were in our own hands, of course, always according to the values of Emunah, such as reaching out to Hashem and asking Him for help, but again, assuming that it is our responsibility to do whatever we can from our side within our maximum capacity to overcome the tests and challenges that Hashem sends us, which are ultimately opportunities to reach our maximum potential for our eternal reward b'ezrat Hashem. However, at the same time, these opportune moments that we have at different times of the year, where Hashem imbues a certain holiness, where the opportunity for connection is all that much more stronger; let us capitalize on the tremendous opportunity we have during these holy days of Chanukah, where the potential for closer connection with Hashem and for a tremendous boost in Emunah and Bitachon is available to every single one of us. On Chanukah, we express our gratitude to Hashem, celebrating the tremendous miracles that He performed for us in times of old. We have the tremendous opportunity to perform the mitzvah of lighting the Chanukah candles, which ultimately commemorates the miracle which transpired in the Chanukah story. We know that the menorah in the Beis Hamikdash needed oil to be able to be kindled from. And when the Greek enemy destroyed the Beis Hamikdash, when the Jewish people came back and discovered just one jar of oil that was available to kindle the menorah, a miracle transpired and the oil, which was supposed to last for only one day, continued to burn for an entire eight days, an outright miracle. The message of Chanukah is coming to teach us what we are really trying to work on throughout the year - Emunah and Bittachon - that Hashem exclusively orchestrates every single detail in every single one of our lives. Yes, usually, for whatever reason, Hashem does not decide to come through for us via the means of outright miracles, but He usually rather opts to work through the course of nature; but as the famous Ramban at the end of Parashat Bo teaches: just like Hashem is the One who is able to break nature and go against the usual order of the way the world operates, such as by splitting the sea, causing the miraculous plagues to appear in Egypt, and by extension, when Hashem performs these outright miracles, such as when Hashem caused the oil, which is only supposed to last for one day, to be able to burn for the entire eight days - this is a tremendous opportunity for us to inculcate Hashem's perspective, the only true perspective, the Emunah and Bitachon perspective, that although yes, we are usually called on to work within the laws of nature and to make our maximum effort, as if we are in control, to do the best that we can, however at the end of the day we are never to forget, even slightly, that Hashem exclusively orchestrates every single detail in every single one of our lives. Just like Hashem was the One to change nature in the past and split the sea, bring about the plagues in Egypt, and more relevant to our times right now, to cause the oil to burn no shorter than eight times longer than it is supposed to according to the laws of nature, the message of Chanukah is coming to teach us that the laws of nature is just Hashem hiding within the normal way that the world operates, giving us the opportunity to look under the veil of nature and acknowledge that ein od milvado - there is nothing in the world except for Hashem.

489 - Chanukah (Part-3)

Dec 16, 2025

4:17

What a tremendous privilege to be able to experience another day of these tremendous holy days of Chanukah. As the well-known Ramban at the end of Parashat Bo mentions: although usually Hashem decides to operate according to the laws of nature, however, at times Hashem decides to break the laws of nature in order to teach us and inspire us that ultimately, the laws of nature are Hashem Himself hiding behind the normal way of the world, giving us the opportunity to believe that Hashem is truly pulling all the strings, and therefore, although in times of old the world was also operating according to the regular laws of nature, however, when it came to the time of the exodus from Egypt, Hashem decided to break all of the laws, turning water into blood, as well as all the other miraculous plagues in Egypt, and culminating with the miraculous event of the splitting of the sea. And as the Midrashim teach, not only did the waters of the sea split, but in fact, all water at all parts of the world split. Can you imagine for a moment: somebody's having a glass of water, and in an apparently obvious miraculous manner, the water in my cup splits. And when I find out that that happened to everyone in the world, and it was a clear miraculous occurrence, there is then no way to deny the fact that Hashem caused that miracle to occur. And in a sense, although witnessing such an experience is truly awesome, seeing the workings of Hashem so vividly clear, and not having the test of having to try to find Hashem through the veil of nature, however, in a sense, there is no opportunity to believe when one experiences such a miraculous occurrence, because I can see the workings of Hashem loud and clear, and that will certainly motivate me to follow the course of Emunah and Bitachon, and reach out to Hashem about anything and everything, follow His mitzvos with all their intricacies, whether I understand or not, and everything else that a life of Emunah and Bitachon leads to. Because after witnessing such a miracle, I am living now on the inspiration that it is absolutely clear that Hashem runs every detail in the world. However, as mentioned many times, the Ramban in the same passage at the end of Parashat Bo writes that our ultimate focus and purpose in this world is Emunah, and in fact, there is no other reason that Hashem created the world in the first place, except for giving us the opportunity to express our Emunah. And as the Vilna Goan and many others that we've discussed mention, the purpose of all the mitzvos is to come to having Emunah in Hashem. And that being the case, usually Hashem wants the world to operate in a manner that He is hidden under the veil of nature, and if we do not make an active effort trying to find Him, we will just see nature, and we will not see Hashem. But Hashem in His great wisdom also understood that at certain times, in order to give us motivation and inspiration, He needed to reveal Himself in a more obvious, apparent way, so that thereafter when He goes back into hiding, we can live off the inspiration and motivation that we gained through those moments. One of the main purposes behind lighting the Chanukah candles is in order to publicize the miracle that Hashem broke the laws of nature and caused the amount of oil which usually burns for only one day, to burn for all eight days. Most of the days that we live throughout our lives are not outright miracle days, however much of the fuel that we are able to gain to drive our lives according to the values of Emunah and Bitachon, can and should be derived from these above-nature experiences. What a tremendous opportunity we all have to fulfill the incredible mitzvah of lighting the Chanukah candles. And similarly, what a tremendous opportunity we all have to perhaps spend a little bit of time talking to Hashem around the Chanukah candles, digesting and appreciating the tremendous miracles that Hashem brought about for us during these holy days. And b'ezrat Hashem by doing so, that can be a tremendous springboard for us to take leaps in our journey of Emunah and Bitachon.

490 - Chanukah (Part-4)

Dec 17, 2025

4:22

What an incredible opportunity to wake up to another one of these holy days of Chanukah. Besides the tremendous mitzvah we have to light the Chanukah candles, one of the core focuses of Chanukah is "Lehodos Ulehallel" - to express our gratitude and praise to Hashem. And as Torah Commentaries outline, it is a tremendously opportune time and place if one is able to do so specifically by the Chanukah candles. "Hashem, thank You so much during the year for giving me the opportunity to believe in You. And as You've taught us from many Torah sources, that believing means specifically taking that leap of faith when I am not able to see and understand Your ways. Because although the Torah is replete with passages along the lines of "Ein Od Milvado" - that You, Hashem, exclusively orchestrate every single detail in my life and in everyone's lives, and there is no such thing as the course of nature and the normal way of the world, however, at the same time, usually throughout the year, You want me to live in a world where You are hidden behind the veil of nature, and my job is to try my best to find You through everything I'm doing. Because again, the point of my existence and my ultimate ticket to eternal pleasure in the next world, as outlined by many Torah sources, is to excel to my maximum degree in my Emunah and Bitachon endeavor, and specifically to believe when I don't understand. Whilst at the same time, thank You so much, Hashem, for giving us those opportunities where we do see You loud and clear in our lives. Because when that occurs, it gives me tremendous inspiration and motivation to be able to see through the veil of nature, throughout the year, when You are hidden. Hashem, I'd like to just take a few moments now, whilst I have the opportunity, standing by these holy Chanukah candles, to look into my own personal life and appreciate and thank You for all the tremendous ways You've come through for me. Thank You, Hashem, so much for the gift of my health, the ability to breathe without struggle, the fact that I can see, and the fact that so much of the time I experience life without physical pain and suffering. Hashem, thank You so much for the gift to be able to have family, as well as the friends that You've given me, and the opportunity to share experiences together. Thank You so much, Hashem, for providing me from day one of my life, right up until today. Although there might have been times of struggle, and again, that You did for me also for good reasons, to help me grow in my endeavor of emunah and bitachon, however, at the end of the day, You have provided for me since day one, right up until today. Thank You so much, Hashem, for the opportunity to be involved in a life where I am aware that my main purpose is to develop my emunah and bitachon. Thank You so much, Hashem, for sharing with us Your incredible Torah sources that allow us to grow in this tremendous endeavor. Hashem, I want to thank You deeply for all those times of challenge in my life, because I know that You love me and You created me just to give me good. And if You're sending me a challenge, it's only because You're giving me an opportunity to be able to believe that everything that You do is for the best. When I'm struggling with the pain and suffering of this illness that You've sent me, after contemplating on the fact a little bit, I've realized, Hashem, that You would only send me this out of Your love, because again, that's the only reason that You created the world, to share Your goodness with me. And although there can be many reasons which are beyond my understanding, but one reason which I know is certainly applicable to me and objectively applicable to all of us, is that by sending me these times of darkness and suffering, You are thereby giving me a chance to practice my emunah and bitachon, that everything that happens is directly orchestrated from You, and You would only send me what is best for me. And similarly, thank You so much, Hashem, for all those times in my life that although I might not have experienced outright miracles, similar to the splitting of the sea or the miracle of the oil on Chanukah, however, I have certainly at times noticed Your divine providence in my life, and those times are certainly springboards of motivation and inspiration for me to live my life according to the values of emunah and bitachon. Thank You so much, Hashem, for these holy and incredible days of Chanukah."

491 - Chanukah (Part-5)

Dec 18, 2025

4:31

We are so privileged to be able to experience another one of these holy days of Chanukah. Besides the miracle of the oil, which we commemorate with the lighting of the Chanukah candles, where the amount of oil which was only supposed to last for one day, against all the laws of nature, lasted for eight days, again clearly showing that although usually the world seems to run according to the laws and course of nature, however, as the Ramban at the end of Parashat Bo, that we've discussed many times, points out that the reason Hashem performs these outright miracles is in order to inspire and motivate us for the times when Hashem is hidden under the veil of nature, to teach us that there's no such thing ultimately as nature, that ein od milvado, there is nothing else in the world that exists except for Hashem - there is no force or power or individual or circumstance that can dictate even slightly what will occur in my life, except for Hashem exclusively, and as outlined in the Rambam's principles of faith, "vehu levado" - Hashem exclusively, meaning without the help of any individual runs every single detail of nature. And as we've discussed previously, although we do have a mitzvah to make our own efforts throughout life, however, it is so important to never fall into the trap of believing even slightly that my efforts are what cause my successes, because as we've discussed, that could borderline on the tremendously grave sin of idol worship, where I believe that there is some power outside of Hashem, God forbid, and the tremendous miracle of Hanukkah is coming to teach us that just like Hashem is able to come and take oil and make it miraculously burn much longer than it is supposed to according to the laws of nature, so too any and every occurrence throughout our lives are ultimately miracles that Hashem is orchestrating every single moment. Besides the miracle of the oil on Chanukah, the other tremendous miracle that we commemorate is the war that transpired, which according to the laws of nature, logic and statistics would make anybody laugh at the absurdity of such an attempt. We are taught that it was only a handful of people that decided to take on an entire huge and powerful army. Just imagine in our times, ten people would get together and say, "we are now going to take on this mission to go and destroy our enemy and the entire army of thousands and thousands of people." Besides the fact that we are completely, absurdly outnumbered, we also have very little military training, whereas they, on the other hand, are elite soldiers. If one were to try to take on such a task today, this would be seen as a complete absurdity, and although we do have a mitzvah to not rely on outright miracles, and we are certainly not permitted to put ourselves in dangerous situations, however, we are also to be so careful to never ever fall to the side of Avodah Zarah, believing that the world can only work according to the laws of nature. Because let us remind ourselves, this is the purpose of the world, to test us in emunah, in our belief, where the world is going to appear like it runs according to the laws of nature, but in truth, there is only Hashem pulling every single string. And when we look at the Chanukah candles and remind ourselves of the miracles that took place on Chanukah, and we meditate on the fact that there was only a few people who decided that they were going to rely on Hashem to such a degree that He would help them in a complete unnatural manner, because they had no other choice, and He would help the handful of them to wipe out an entire army, something completely against all the laws of nature, logic, and statistics, when we take this to heart, this can be a tremendous springboard for motivation and inspiration throughout any endeavor we might be dealing with in our lives, to remind ourselves that ein od milvado, that although usually Hashem does opt to work through the laws of nature, however, in truth, there is nothing whatsoever in the world except for Hashem.

397 - Paying On Time

Jul 30, 2025

4:52

One of the many mitzvos that we have is the mitzvah to pay a worker on time for their services. Simply speaking, when somebody does a job for me and the usual expectation is to be paid on the same day, then unless stated otherwise, one is obligated to complete the payment without delay. The Chofetz Chaim in his Sefer Ahavas Chesed writes that the reason many people do not fulfill the mitzvah of paying a worker on time is because many people are just not aware of the laws. It is important to remind ourselves that a basic extension of living a life of emunah and bitachon is making our maximum effort to follow every detail of halacha. Following halacha is applying emunah in a practical way. If a sick individual in dire need of help were to find a single expert doctor to help them with their case, if I choose to visit this doctor, I am choosing to believe in this doctor, and by making my way to the doctor's office for my appointment, I am expressing my belief in this doctor. Applying that belief in a more practical way will be when the doctor tells me exactly which medications and procedures to follow, that I listen carefully and make sure to treat the information that he is giving me with utmost importance. It would be absurd for me to pay a huge amount of money to get an appointment with this highly sought after doctor, and after his assessment of the situation, upon giving me instructions, I pay no attention and leave the appointment without following any of the guidelines he has given me. In the same vein, as we've learned many times, we are called on to believe in Hashem, and as the commentaries write, our ultimate purpose of being alive in this world is to express our emunah and bitachon. It is important to remind ourselves that one of the highest ways we can express this emunah and bitachon is when we follow the guidelines and instructions Hashem has commanded us. But as the Chofetz Chaim teaches us, we cannot fulfill the mitzvahs appropriately if we have not learned how to do so. With regards to many mitzvahs, it might be easier for us to fulfill their intricacies because these mitzvahs are more famous and we have been exposed to its details for many years. However, it is important to make every effort to learn halacha with regards to all mitzvahs, both those that are well-known as well as those that are less well-known, so that we can fulfill all of Hashem's instructions in the appropriate way. "Hashem, my Father, thank you so much for the opportunity to be learning about emunah and bitachon on a daily basis and trying my best to grow in this endeavor, which is ultimately my main purpose and focus whilst I am alive in this world, as you have taught us many times in your Torah sources. Thank you also, Hashem, for teaching me that one of the most basic extensions of practically applying the emunah and bitachon that I have learned is by making my maximum effort to fulfill all of your instructions that you have commanded me, including all of their intricacies, both when I might understand some of the reasons behind the mitzvahs and also with regards to mitzvahs that I have absolutely no understanding. Because obviously, if I believe and trust in you, then included in that would be to follow all your instructions. But Hashem, you know that some mitzvahs are so difficult for me to fulfill, and I take this opportunity to ask you, please Hashem, help me, that I should do my best to fulfill the mitzvahs with all their details and intricacies. And in the same vein, please help me to internalize the importance of learning all areas of halacha, even the areas which might be less well-known, because obviously, I cannot fulfill your mitzvahs in the best way if I have not learned how to do so. Thank you, Hashem, for the incredible opportunity to talk to you on a daily basis about anything and everything."

382 - Safe Space

Jul 13, 2025

4:50

We've been discussing how when it comes to talking to Hashem, a basic practical application of emunah, although we might understand logically how it is so obvious and vital for us to talk to Hashem, because if we believe in Him, obviously we should have a personal relationship with Him, and although we might have also had the opportunity to learn what many Torah passages write about how vital and important it is for us to talk to Hashem and build that personal relationship, nevertheless, one of the main deterrents for many people is not because I don't believe Hashem is there, but rather because it is actually very difficult to talk to something I can't see and can't hear, and although in theory I do believe He is there, my belief might not necessarily take me to a place that my experience is as if Hashem is there, and therefore it is difficult for me to talk with sincerity, motivation, and for long periods. It is a worthwhile thing to do, to make a daily commitment of a certain amount of time that one feels reasonable to having undisturbed time, just Hashem and me together. The reason for this is because when we are motivated, then we might naturally talk to Hashem with sincerity and for longer periods, but we as human beings sometimes go through long periods where we feel unmotivated, and if we do not have a commitment of quality time to be alone with Hashem, when we are not feeling that motivation, we could G-d forbid miss out on the tremendous opportunity to have a constant personal and close relationship with Hashem. Hashem understands that we are human beings and does not expect us to constantly feel motivated, but He also does expect from us to play our part of what we can do, and many people do have the capacity to make commitments in many areas, and one of those certainly could be to make a commitment to talk to Hashem. For some people it might work to have a set time and place every day where they are undisturbed for a certain amount of time alone with Hashem. For others it might work differently, perhaps different times and different places on a daily basis. What is important to point out is that as a starting point, we need to stop and think about what we know. We've learnt Hashem's perspective - we were created ultimately in order to enjoy the next world, and the way to do so is ultimately by growing in our emunah in this world, and a most basic fundamental of practicing emunah is talking to Hashem. And besides for that, the truth of the matter is that the real conduit to success in whatever endeavor we might be dealing with, with more chance of success than anything else, is to go to the source of all, the Creator of the world, who is constantly involved with regards to every single detail that transpires to every single being, every single moment. And therefore when choosing to make a commitment, we ought to stop and be sincere with ourselves. Do I sincerely believe that to give Hashem back 5 minutes of my day in personal conversation is sufficient? 20 minutes? 30 minutes? 2 hours? The answer to these questions will obviously vary from individual to individual. If I were to meet an important individual, or perhaps have a first meeting with my potentially future spouse, would I take a phone call during such a session, or would I turn my phone off to make sure I am undisturbed? And when it comes to our commitment to talking to Hashem, we ought to stop and think about what we are committing to. It would make sense for the most part, wherever we are able to, to respect the time that we are committing to, with highest priority. "Hashem, Creator of the world, please can you help me to be able to commit the maximum amount of time I am able to in personal prayer to you on a daily basis. Please help me to treat this time so respectfully, to make every effort to be undisturbed and talk to you with absolute sincerity. But after all is said and done, Hashem, even if I am not feeling that motivation, I want to have a commitment that always saves me a space to be together, just you and me."

383 - Endless Appreciation

Jul 14, 2025

4:43

When making a commitment to Hashem of how much time we are planning to commit to be our sacred time, just you and me Hashem, it is motivating to internalize what the verse states in Divrei Hayamim. The verse states, "For everything is from you, Hashem, and from your hand we have given back to you." Hashem created the world and Hashem created us. Every single moment of the 24 hours of the day is a gift Hashem has given to us. Hashem does not owe us anything. Unfortunately sometimes we fall into a mistaken thought process, thinking as if Hashem owes us the things that we might be lacking. So when things are going well, I have food on the table, I have the money I need, and the like, I might be happy. But if I don't have food today for whatever reason, or I am struggling financially, a mistaken perspective would be to start getting upset with Hashem, saying, "Hashem, why didn't you give me the money that I need? Can you not see how my family is struggling so much now?" Part of where such a response comes from is because one might feel - Hashem owes me; He gave me food yesterday; He gave me money yesterday, why is He suddenly taking it away? And the truth of the matter is that Hashem owes us nothing. Hashem created us, and that itself is a gift, because if He didn't choose to create us, we wouldn't exist. So anything and everything that we receive is actually a gift from Hashem, not something that He owes us. And if we take this perspective to heart, we will be able to internalize what this verse in Divrei Hayamim means. "Because everything is from you, Hashem, and from your hand we have given back to you." Anything we do throughout our day, throughout our lives, success in our endeavors, and even spiritual success and achievements in endeavors towards serving Hashem, all of our successes and achievements is actually just giving back to Him from the gift that He gave us in the first place. So with this perspective in mind, today Hashem has gifted me with 24 hours. He does not owe me one hour, one minute, nor one second. It is all a gift. Each moment is a gift. So of those 24 hours that Hashem has given me as a free gift, how much makes sense for me to give back to Him in striving to build our personal relationship? Of course we are human beings and limited, and nobody can commit to 24 hours on a daily basis of personal conversation and connection with Hashem. Nevertheless, we ought to think about the 24 hours that Hashem is giving us when striving to make a commitment of how much we are going to try to talk to Hashem on a daily basis for. If I am committing to one minute a day, for many people that would certainly not be respecting Hashem in the right manner. Imagine for a moment a father gives a child a gift of $1 million, and when the time comes for the child to reciprocate and give some sort of gift to the father, the child is stingy and is only prepared to use $1 or $2 to reciprocate. That would obviously be grossly ungrateful. And in the same way, when we internalize that the 24 hours of the day are a complete gift from Hashem in the first place, then for many, committing to a small amount of time might be comparable to that child giving $1 or $2 back. "Hashem, my Father, even though I want to believe that everything You give me is an absolute outright gift, and anything I give back to You is never going to be on par with what You gave to me, nevertheless, Hashem, as usual, emunah is difficult and I have to grow in my belief, because I don't see this, I don't see You. Please help me to internalize that You don't owe me anything, and everything I have in my life is an absolute free gift from You. And therefore, help me, Hashem, to commit to giving You back, whatever I am able to, to my maximum capacity."

384 - Personal Servant?

Jul 15, 2025

4:39

One who doesn't believe in HaShem, God forbid, would of course not reach out to HaShem about anything. One who is privileged to be able to know the truth and believe in HaShem and know that He can help me and I have the opportunity to talk to Him about anything and everything, which would be a greater effort than doing anything else, much of the time does go ahead and talk to HaShem about my needs. Sometimes however, even with Emunah, we view HaShem as a vending machine, meaning just like if I go to the machine and I would like a Coke, I give it instructions and I expect the Coke bottle to come out of the vending machine. Sometimes our approach towards HaShem is, "I know you are there and that you can help me and therefore I am talking to you and expect you to give me what I need or want." Although one is talking to HaShem, which is certainly a commendable act, nevertheless, this is certainly a mistaken approach to see HaShem as our servant or vending machine, serving us in the way we would like. We need to internalize the verse from Divrei Hayamim that we've been discussing, which teaches us the true perspective, that HaShem does not owe us anything. In fact, everything in the world that HaShem gives us is not due to us. We don't deserve it, but rather HaShem decided to give it to us as a gift. When one is led to believe that the blessings HaShem sends them are just some form of payment or duty like a servant would do for his master, as opposed to the correct approach where one understands that HaShem owes me absolutely nothing and everything is a gift, depending on which approach one is living with will make a big difference in how one goes about many areas of their life. Let's say I have a certain amount of money, and yes, I do believe in HaShem and His mitzvahs, and therefore if He commanded me that it's a mitzvah to give charity, my belief is strong enough to know to go ahead and make my maximum endeavor to give charity. However, how much tzedakah I will choose to give will depend on which perspective one is living with. If I believe that the money is really mine, and any money I am giving towards charity is my gift towards HaShem, then whatever I give, even if it's a minimal amount, not on par with the financial situation that HaShem has blessed me with, but a lower amount of charity than He would have expected me to give, if I believe that the money that I have does come from HaShem, because my emunah teaches me that, but at the same time I kind of feel like He owes me that money, then my approach might be to give a minimal amount of money to tzedakah, to charity, not congruent with my financial situation that HaShem has blessed me, and within the expectation of what He would expect me to give. Because any amount that I give, even a minimal, small amount, I feel like I've done a favor for HaShem from the start, because this is my money, and I'm doing something for Him. Whereas if I have the correct perspective, and I realize that every single cent in my bank account is a gift from HaShem, nothing that He owes me, so now I actually owe Him all the money back, because it's a gift that He gave me, so when I am trying to decide how much money to part with, to give away to charity, if my perspective is that this is a gift from HaShem, I certainly will be motivated to try my best to fulfill HaShem's mitzvah in the best way possible, within my maximum capacity, and give the best amount that I can, because ideally I should actually give everything back, at least I should give back my maximum that I can. And similarly, when I do give charity, one who's living with the wrong perspective might feel anxious about having given one's own money away, whereas with the correct perspective, one will actually feel better by having given money to charity, because one always feels indebted to someone who has given you a gift, and if we internalize that this is HaShem's gift to us, so anything we are actually giving back will make us feel happy, fulfilled, and good that we are doing our best to give back to HaShem.

385 - Finding Miracles

Jul 16, 2025

4:19

Everybody who is alive needs sustenance. And although for many people, receiving one's sustenance might be a constant struggle throughout life, nevertheless, one way or another, people do recive their sustenance, some through easier means and some through more difficult means. The gemara states that the miracle of recieving one's sutenance, is on par to the miracle of the splitting of the sea. For most of us, if we were to actually witness the sea itself splitting in a dramatic way, and as the Midrashim point out, all the waters of the world, even the water that I might be drinking in my cup, would split, many of us would be extremely shaken from such a crazy event that has taken place. Yet, we are taught that on par with that miracle, is the miracle that each one of us receives the sustenance that we need. And in the same way, if one pays attention at the birth of a child, one will quickly realize that this is one of the greatest miracles in the world. All the tremendous complications of how the body of the child functions in its mother's stomach, in order for it to come out safely and healthily, biologically, so many things have to happen. In the daily prayers, in the paragraph of Modim, we thank Hashem, "al nisecha shebechol yom imanu" - "for Your miracles that we experience every day." The holy sages who composed this prayer, the Anshei Knesses Hagedolah, composed it with divine inspiration, and they certainly did not mean these words as some form of exaggeration. Every single day, every single one of us experiences miracles. Our job is to make an effort to notice the miracles in our lives. There's no question that they are there. Just because Hashem has blessed us to experience the same miracle day after day, a miracle no less than the splitting of the sea, this should not give us a license to ignore the incredible miracle of receiving our sustenance every day. Were Hashem to send us our salvation in the form of actually splitting the sea, we would certainly be so grateful for a long time, with sincerity. Part of our work in our journey of emunah - to believe, is to internalize that the gift of having food to eat today, is the same extent of a miracle as if Hashem would have split the sea for us. And in the same way, as the Anshei Knesses Haggadolah - the holy sages, through divine inspiration are teaching us, we are constantly surrounded by Hashem's miracles. But again, our job in this world is to have to try and work hard to find the truth which does not easily meet the eye. When we look around, it might just look like a regular day, but when we stop and sincerely think about it, we will find those miracles. "Thank You, Hashem, for all the incredible miracles that You provide for me every single day. If I was struggling to breathe, and suddenly some medication were to be discovered that would allow me to breathe easily, I would be so grateful for such a situation. But Hashem, in Your great kindness, You have given me the gift to be able to breathe without complications. All the things in my body that biologically need to function in a perfect way in order to provide me with a system that can give me the ability to breathe, and all the other many things that You do for me in so many ways every single day. Thank You, Hashem, for all of the miracles that You have gifted me with in my life."

386 - Could You Do That?

Jul 17, 2025

4:24

387 - Build Your Bitachon!

Jul 18, 2025

4:18

We are taught that whilst the Jewish people were in the desert, they received their sustenance in the form of mann, which was food which fell from the heaven, which tasted like anything one wished for it to taste like. Commentaries explain that although the man fell from the heavens, not everybody received it in the same way. Those people that were completely righteous and had full faith in Hashem would wake up in the morning and open their front door and there they would have all the mann necessary for their sustenance for that day. Others who were not as righteous and their faith in Hashem was not as strong, they would open their front door and there would be no mann there. They would have to go to the entrance of the courtyard and only there they would find their sustenance, and yet others who were even less righteous would have to go down a few streets in order to find their man. And the least righteous of all, even though they also received their sustenance, but they would sometimes have to walk miles in order to find their sustenance. The bottom line about bitachon is that bitachon works. The more one believes and relies on Hashem, the more Hashem comes through for that individual. And just like by the Jewish people in the desert where there were many levels where for some people the mann would fall right at their doorstep and others all the way at fields far off, and the many levels in between, so too, with regards to all of us, we have all these levels of bitachon available to us. To truly rely on Hashem means, "I don't have a backup plan. The only one I rely on is Hashem." So I need sustenance, I need money; certainly the first thing I do is I go speak to Hashem with absolute sincerity for a significant amount of time, and thereafter I feel completely calm because I know that Hashem will definitely provide me with everything I need. This is obviously a very high level. And on the opposite extreme would be one who needs sustenance and completely forgets about Hashem, doesn't reach out to Hashem to ask for help to provide their sustenance, but rather makes their own plans in order to provide for their sustenance. And whilst these are the two extremes, there are many levels in between. The more bitachon we have, the more Hashem comes through for us. And as discussed many times, emunah and bitachon are our life's work, and any small step that we take is super valuable. There are countless levels in how much bitachon we can aspire to live by. It is highly recommended to have a daily learning session about bitachon, and thereby grow in the many concepts that it has to offer us. There are many books available in English that are very well written and easy to understand at all levels. One example is the Chovos HaLevavos by Artscroll, where the newest edition has been written with a translation that is very easy to understand. Another fantastic and shorter book by Artscroll is called the Beis HaLevi on Bitachon and is very worthwhile. And there are many others. We are so privileged to have so many of these Torah sources available to every one of us. The more bitachon we have, the more Hashem will come through for us. May Hashem bless every single one of us to make our maximum efforts in striving to grow in our bitachon. "Hashem, please help me to make my maximum effort in finding the right books that can inspire me to live with the highest bitachon possible, to sincerely rely on You, and feel completely calm that You will come through for me. Thank you Hashem for the gift of bitachon."

388 - You're In the Spotlight

Jul 20, 2025

4:32

On the one hand, the Torah teaches that we are supposed to love our friend just as much as we love ourselves. This mitzvah teaches us the importance of caring for other people, how we are to go out our way to make our maximum effort to helping out another individual, sometimes in the form of charity, sometimes in the form of putting a smile on our friend's face, or whatever else may be relevant. And on the other hand, the Gemara says that every individual is obligated to believe that bishvili nivra haolam, the entire world was created just for me, it's all about me. So which is it? Am I supposed to be looking out always about the people around me, or am I supposed to be focused on myself? And the answer is that no question, I am supposed to be focused on myself. Life is about me. The mitzvah to love another individual is actually about me, because it's my mitzvah relevant to all the people that have to do with me. I have a mitzvah to be kind to them, to love them as much as I love myself. But ultimately, it's all got to do with the starting point, about me. One might ask, how can the entire world be created just for me? If I'm supposed to say that, and you're also supposed to say that, was it just for me, or just for you? In our limited mind, we can ask that question, but in Hashem's unlimited ways, He is able to create a world that was created just for me, and also just for you. Exclusively just for me, and exclusively just for you. Again, whether we understand or we don't, which in this case, we can't really understand, doesn't matter, because if this is what the Torah teaches us should be our mode of thought, then the perspective of Emunah teaches us to follow that thought process, whether we understand or not. So Hashem created the world just for me. That means to say that everything in the world is an opportunity just for me, and everything in the world is also my responsibility. If I have the chance to make a difference in whatever area may be relevant, I am obligated to fill my responsibility and role in that situation. If I have a chance to daven for somebody in need, remember, the whole world was created just for me, meaning to say I am responsible for this situation. Many times throughout our ventures, our minds and our eyes look around to see what is relevant and happening in other people's lives. And of course the result of that many times is negative, because that can lead to feelings of jealousy, viewing inappropriate things, and even if not an outright sin, just removing the spotlight from one's own life, inquisitively, being interested in another's life - is a waste of time. Again, if I have something of value to offer them, or perhaps something to learn from them, then that certainly is something relevant. But if I'm just looking because I'm interested in seeing other people's lives, not necessarily to learn nor to help, then we need to remind ourselves of this approach of bishvili nivra haolam, the whole entire world was created just for me. That is the mindset Hashem wants us to have. I came across a recording that illustrates this point. A father came home to his children and said, "I finally saw it." And they said, "what did you finally see?" And he says, "I was at the stop street and I finally saw the giraffe standing in the middle of the road waving at me." And the kids are in disbelief. And thereafter, he explained, "of course, I didn't see such a sight. What I was trying to explain to you is that throughout our lives, many times we're looking to the sides, almost waiting to see when that unexpected, incredible event is going to happen. But really, that incredible event is not on the sides. It's you, because we are obligated to believe bishvili nivra haolam.

389 - Open the Magic

Jul 21, 2025

4:26

The verse states, "Betach bashem va'asei tov" - trust in Hashem and do good. The Ramban points out in his Sefer Emunah Ubitachon, that the verse is precisely written in this order. First the verse states, "trust in Hashem", and thereafter the verse says, "and do good." And the reason for this, says the Ramban, is because one might think that they are only worthy of trusting in Hashem and exercising their Bitachon where Hashem will come through for them, only under circumstances where we have done good and we are in the category of a righteous individual - in Hashem's good books. However, the Ramban points out that although this might be counterintuitive, as always we don't follow our own intuition and what seems logical to our limited minds, but rather we are privileged to have the Torah which outlines to us the only true perspective, the perspective of Hashem. Hashem is teaching us in this verse, says the Ramban, that the opportunity to be able to exercise the powerful weapon of Bitachon is completely independent of our good deeds and our level of righteousness. And as the Ramban writes, even a rasha, even a wicked individual who chooses to exercise their Bitachon and rely on Hashem, the sole act of relying on Hashem will be the catalyst for Hashem coming through for that individual, even though they have many sins to their record. Now of course, it is important to highlight that although Bitachon is independent of our actions, the Gemara teaches us that although Hashem is our loving, caring Father and all He wants for us is the best and the only reason He ultimately created this world is so that we can earn our eternal reward full of pleasure in the next world, nevertheless, the system that Hashem did create in this world consists of consequences, and every transgression down to the most minor detail will certainly be accounted for with consequences extremely serious for our transgressions. So on the one hand, it is very clear that there is absolutely consequences for every single act that we perform in this world, both positively and negatively, whilst at the same time, we learn from this verse and the commentary of Ramban that it is also very clear that although one might have transgressed even the most severe transgressions, nevertheless, the way that Hashem operates in this world with regards to Bitachon is that Bitachon is completely independent of our actions. Although we certainly ought to try our best to perform good deeds and repent for any transgressions we might have committed, because the consequences will always be there unless we correct them, nevertheless, it is extremely empowering to internalize that Bitachon is completely independent of our actions. When we choose to rely on Hashem and exercise our Bitachon through whatever situation we might currently be experiencing, rather than turning to the opposites of Bitachon, such as fear, anxiety, anger, lack of serenity, and the like; when we choose, rather, to live a life of Bitachon, regardless of our scorecard, the power of Bitachon itself will be the catalyst for Hashem to come through for us. "Thank you Hashem for giving us the amazing opportunity to rely on you under any and all circumstances. Please Hashem help us to internalize your true perspective and transform our Bitachon."

390 - Raining with Faith

Jul 22, 2025

4:32

We discussed the verse which says, "trust in HaShem and do good." And we mentioned the Ramban who explains that the reason this verse is written precisely in this way, firstly stating, "trust in HaShem" and only thereafter stating "and do good," is to teach us that the action of bitachon, the action of trusting in HaShem, within HaShem's perspective, is viewed independently of our deeds. Of course, as taught by countless Torah sources, we ought to do our best to score as best as we can on our scorecard in HaShem's books. And there will always be consequences, both for our mitzvos as well as for our aveiros. Nevertheless, the powerful opportunity of bitachon that HaShem has given us is completely independent of our actions. And as the Ramban writes in his own words, even a completely wicked individual who chooses to exercise his bitachon will be able to access and reap the many wonderful benefits that we are taught about one who trusts and places their bitachon in HaShem. Many Torah sources outline that emunah, bitachon and tefillah are like synonyms. The more one believes in HaShem and chooses to rely on HaShem, the more one will talk to HaShem. One example of this is the verse in the Torah which states about Moshe Rabbeinu, "vayehi yadav emunah" - "and his hands were emunah." And the famous translation, the Targum Unklos, translates this as, "and his hands were spread out in prayer," translating the word emunah as prayer. Because again, the more my belief in HaShem is sincere, the more I will want to rely on HaShem in all my endeavors. And of course, one of the main ways of expressing that belief and reliance is by praying to HaShem, communicating and talking about anything and everything. There is a well-known story recounted in the Gemara about a holy and pious individual known as Choni HaMe'agel, Choni the Circle Maker. And the Gemara explains how this name came about. One time there was a severe drought in the land of Eretz Yisrael, and it appeared as if HaShem was not paying attention to the people's prayers because no rain was anywhere near to be seen. And the people decided to approach the holy and righteous Choni to pray on their behalf. Choni prayed, but still no rain was to be seen. Because of Choni's tremendous sensitivity to the people around him who were experiencing so much suffering from the drought, he felt a tremendous responsibility to make sure that it would rain. So as the Gemara recounts, Choni took a twig and drew a circle on the floor around him and stood within that circle. Within the confines of the circle he had drawn, he prayed to HaShem that it should rain. Eventually, a small drizzle started to rain down. But Choni said, "HaShem, that is not the rain that I requested for." And soon after that, a tremendous downpour of too much unpleasant rain began to fall. And Choni again turned to HaShem and said, "HaShem, that is also not what I requested for." And after that, eventually, a steady stable rain began to fall, relieving the people from the drought. There is much to learn from this story, but a most powerful take home is the power of tefillah. Emunah, bitachon, and tefillah are mechanisms that HaShem created in our world that work independent of our actions. "Thank you, HaShem, for teaching me that even though I might have committed certain transgressions, nevertheless, I always have the opportunity to grow in my emunah and my bitachon, and by extension, pray to you for anything and everything."

391 - Should I Give Up?

Jul 23, 2025

4:51

We've been discussing the powerful statement of the Ramban, which teaches us that the opportunity to apply bitachon is completely independent of our actions. Of course, we always have to try to do our best - more mitzvos and less aveiros, whilst at the same time to internalize that the many statements that we are taught from Torah sources about the power of bitachon, that when we trust in Hashem exclusively, He comes through for us and delivers, that applies to any individual who is choosing to place their reliance and trust on Hashem independent of their actions. We also discussed how many Torah sources teach that emunah, bitachon and tefillah are all synonyms, and the famous example from the verse in the Torah which states that Moshe Rabbeinu's hands were emunah, are translated by the Targum Unklus, as "he spread his hands in tefillah." Because again, the more one believes, trusts and relies on Hashem, the more one will pray to Hashem. We also mentioned the well-known episode in the Gemara of Choni Hameagel, where there was a drought in the land of Israel, and he, being a tremendously pious and righteous individual, was called on to pray on behalf of the people. And as the Gemara recounts, he was extremely stubborn and vehement in making sure that Hashem listens to his prayer, drawing a circle around himself and swearing that he will not leave that circle until Hashem comes through and sends rain in the form of blessing that will benefit the people. Although we do learn the tremendous power of tefillah from this episode, how Choni literally changed the course of nature, where there was a clear drought, and suddenly abundant rain began to fall, completely denying all the laws of nature, nevertheless, the Talmud goes on to criticize Choni for being so stubborn and vehement in the way he talked to Hashem. Although none of us can compare ourselves to the spiritual level of the tremendously righteous and pious Choni Hameagel, nevertheless, one take-home from this Gemara is that when we do daven to Hashem, we should not be overly brazen and vehement to get what we want. And the question is, how do we reconcile this with other passages in the Torah, such as the episode where Moshe Rabbeinu was denied entry to Eretz Yisrael and he prayed no less than 515 times, constantly begging and begging Hashem to allow him entry. Perhaps he should have stopped earlier? Why pray so much when it is clear that Hashem did not want that? And we find many similar type of episodes recounted throughout Torah literature, such as by the matriarchs who were barren and constantly prayed to Hashem to be able to have children. And again, perhaps we could ask, if Hashem made them barren, and after making a few prayers they were not answered, maybe they should have stopped praying, trying to change Hashem's plans and course? The bottom line take-home that we gain from these sources and many others is that it is Hashem's will that we never stop praying for what we desire. We are to pray and hope and have faith, emunah and bitachon that Hashem will come through for us, and if He didn't today, we are not to give up, but rather to hope and pray for tomorrow. However, we must also remember the passage about Choni Hameagel, that although we are called on to never stop hoping and praying, however, it is important to remember not to be overly brazen, stipulating certain conditions to Hashem that we require Him to meet for us. "Thank you Hashem for teaching me that to pray in a stubborn way, making my own conditions for you to fulfill, is not necessarily what you'd like, whilst at the same time, to give up and stop praying is certainly not what you'd want. Thank you Hashem for the constant opportunity of tefillah."

392 - Unstoppable Weapons

Jul 24, 2025

4:48

We've discussed the many Torah sources which teach very clearly that it is Hashem's will for us to pray to Him. According to our own logic and common sense, one might have thought that if one has true bitachon and emunah in Hashem, then if Hashem orchestrates our lives in a way that presents challenges for us, perhaps we might think that the ideal course should be for us to keep quiet and learn to be happy with what Hashem has given us. The bottom line is that it is absolutely clear from many Torah sources that Hashem's will is for us to pray for what we desire. Even if we can't understand this concept fully, as always, we don't follow our understanding and logic, but rather what the Torah sources teach us is Hashem's perspective, which is the only unmistakable perspective. We are taught many passages of our ancestors, such as Moshe Rabbeinu, who did not stop pleading Hashem on a constant basis to please allow him to enter the land of Israel, which he had been denied entry to. And in the same way, when it comes to our matriarchs, who were initially denied the ability to have children, although one might have expected that they should just accept their destiny to be barren, as Hashem's will, and live their lives happily ever after as such, we are taught that they continued to pray day after day for what they desired, children. And we learn from here a most important principle, that Hashem's true desire in the way He created this world, is that He does want us to talk to Him for what we would like. Nevertheless, as pointed out previously, we learn from the Gemara about Choni Hameagel, that we are not to be overly brazen and vehement in our requests from Hashem. Although we are to consistently continue to pray for our needs in the way we would like, nevertheless, we are not to outline certain requirements from Hashem in an overly stubborn way. "Hashem, my daughter, currently, is extremely sick. I've been to many doctors, but it is clear that they cannot help her. I know that in truth, the only one that can help her is You, and in one second, You can send her a complete recovery, whilst at the same time, currently, the situation is very serious and dire, and I don't know what to do. Hashem, I have decided that today, I am going to spend the entire day reciting Tehillim for many hours. By the end of the day, I am hoping and begging You that my daughter should be completely healed. In fact, Hashem, I am making a condition right now that I will not stop reciting Tehillim, even for a short moment, to take a break, such as something to eat, to sleep, or anything else I might need, until my daughter is completely recovered, and if You decide not to heal her, well, I will not eat, I will not sleep, and I will not do anything else." Although a prayer of this sort is certainly praiseworthy in many ways in that one is believing in Hashem and davening to Hashem and truly exercising their emunah and bitachon, nevertheless, being so adamant with an outright stubborn condition, the Gemara teaches us, is out of place and wrong. Rather, what could be said is, "Hashem, You know that my daughter is severely sick. I am taking on right now to devote many hours of reciting Tehillim on her behalf, and I beg You with all my heart, Hashem, please heal her. I know that in one second, You could send her complete recovery, and Hashem, if You decide not to send her recovery today, I will continue to serve You, and I will still pray with all my might tomorrow, whatever I can do, but I beg You, Hashem, please come through for her as soon as possible, ideally today. Thank You, Hashem, for giving us these most powerful weapons, emunah, bitachon, and tefillah."

393 - Fear is Sin

Jul 25, 2025

4:40

The Gemara in Brachos page 60a, relates that when one of the sages encountered that one of his students was fearful about something, the sage reprimanded the student, quoting a verse that states that it is a sin to be fearful. The reason for this is because when we internalize that Hashem exclusively orchestrates every happening throughout our lives down to the most minor detail, then when we fear another individual or some circumstance, it's as if we're acknowledging that there is another force outside of Hashem, because if we are to internalize that Hashem is in absolute control, why should we fear anyone or anything? And the sage was therefore teaching the student, if you are fearful, you are committing an actual sin. We need to internalize and believe these words. When it comes to other sins that are perhaps more logical and easier for us to understand, it is easier to relate to them as a sin, such as to steal or to commit murder, to talk Lashon Hara, and the many other transgressions that exist. Those are much more relatable to us as sins. But one might argue, how can it be classified as a sin just because I am feeling fearful feelings about someone or something? But we learn differently from this gemara, from the only true perspective, Hashem's perspective, that when we build our emunah and our bitachon, we can reach a place where we only fear Hashem because we truly internalize that ein od milvado, there is absolutely no other force whatsoever in the world except for Hashem, and therefore there is no reason to fear anyone or anything outside of Hashem. We must remember the gemara which states, hakol bidei shamayim, everything is in the hands of Hashem. Hashem runs every single detail of the world exclusively. And in the same vein, one of the 13 principles of faith that the Rambam outlines is ve'hu levado asa ve'oseh ve'yaseh lechol hamaasim - and He, Hashem, alone did everything in the past, currently does everything in the present, and will orchestrate every single happening in the future. It's important to remember that emunah and bitachon, and everything encompassed within them, is our life's work, as we've learnt many times. This is our ultimate purpose of being alive in this world, the main way that we earn our place in the next world, as outlined by the Ramban, the Vilna Gaon, and many many others, and therefore we should take to heart that it is not a one day's journey to excel in emunah and bitachon. Yes, we do need to know where to aim, and therefore it is important to learn the Torah sources such as this Gemara which teaches us that it is actually considered a sin to fear anyone or anything, and ultimately, b'ezrat Hashem, we can all grow more and more to get closer to living our lives in such a way. Nevertheless, it is important to internalize that every small step that we make is greater than anything we can imagine in Hashem's books. Hashem does not expect us to climb leaps of emunah and bitachon in small periods of time. As taught by many Torah sources, Hashem places much more emphasis and importance on our effort and endeavor to grow in emunah and bitachon than the actual result that we achieve. "Thank you Hashem for teaching me that every single small step that I make in fulfilling my life's mission of growing in emunah and bitachon is greater to you than anything I can imagine."

394 - Peace, Calm and Tranquility

Jul 27, 2025

4:16

We've been discussing that one of the automatic extensions of having bitachon in Hashem is that it leads to a life without fear. I don't fear any individuals nor any circumstances because I know that Hashem is exclusively running the show. We learnt the Gemara which teaches us that it is actually classified as a sin to be fearful. And although initially such a concept might be difficult to digest, upon reflection it is actually very easy to understand. Because if our mission in life is to have emunah and bitachon, as discussed many times, and simple emunah and bitachon means I internalize that Hashem is in absolute control and I also internalize that Hashem only wants to do good for me, then when I begin to fear the repercussions of a certain circumstance or the power of a certain individual, I am in a sense acknowledging a force outside of Hashem. Basic emunah and bitachon would teach us that the most powerful individual in the world cannot even but lift a finger if Hashem does not will so. We are completely under the auspices and guidance of Hashem exclusively. For anyone serious about emunah and bitachon and our life's mission, this concept that the ideal course that we should be aiming for is a life without any fear whatsoever, should be relatively easy to understand intellectually. However, as Torah commentaries teach, the real work of emunah is not the intellectual understanding but rather to bridge the gap between what we understand intellectually and what we truly internalize on a deeper emotional level. Our job is to make our maximum effort to truly internalize these concepts and eventually be'ezrat Hashem lead to a life of true bitachon, free of fear, in all areas of our lives. David HaMelech in Tehillim compares the way we should relate to Hashem like that of a baby nursing from its mother. When the baby is hungry, the baby screams and shouts. And suddenly, when the mother brings the baby to nurse, the baby calms down because now it has all the food that it needs. And because of the simplicity of the baby not having a complex mind to worry about what will be for the future, right now when it has its food, it is completely calm without a worry or care in the world. And David HaMelech teaches us in Tehillim, that is the way that we are called on to rely on Hashem, to be completely calm, 24-7. That is a high level, but at least we should know where we are aiming for. I read a story in one of the fantastic books, Living Emunah, by Rabbi David Ashear. There was a young girl on a flight, sitting all by herself, without a parent or adult accompanying her on the flight. Suddenly, there was tremendous turbulence that even the adult passengers were grabbing onto their seats out of anxiety and fear. One of the passengers noticed that this girl was completely calm. Surprised, he went over to her and asked, "I am feeling tremendously anxious about this turbulence and so are all the many other passengers on this flight. How is it that you are so calm?" And the girl responded simply, "my father is the pilot and I trust him with my life." Hashem is the pilot to our lives and the more we internalize that, the more we will be able to live lives of peace, calm and tranquility.

395 - Complaints Department

Jul 28, 2025

4:35

We learned a very fundamental and important concept from the Gemara, which teaches us that it is actually considered a sin to be fearful of circumstance and individuals. The more we internalize ein od milvado, that there is no other power in the world outside of Hashem, and v'hu levado asa veoseh veyaaseh l'chol hamaasim - He Hashem exclusively orchestrates every happening down to the most minor detail throughout all of our lives, the more we internalize these concepts, the more we will get closer to living lives free of fear. In the above-quoted episode from the Talmud, where the sage reprimanded the student for being fearful and told him off that that is considered a sin by quoting a verse which dictates so, the student responded back, quoting a different verse which seems to imply that it is actually a commendable thing to do, to feel feelings of fear. The sage then responded back to the student, explaining how to reconcile these two verses. The one verse which states clearly that it is a sin to be fearful is referring to the idea that we've been discussing, that we are to make every effort in growing in our emunah and bitachon, and by doing so, we will be led to living lives free of fear and worry, because it will be clear to us, both intellectually and beezrat Hashem also, on a deeper level emotionally, that Hashem exclusively runs every single detail, and there is no reason to fear anything else. And the other verse which does clearly indicate that it is a good thing to be fearful, explained the sage, is referring to matters of the Torah and mitzvahs. Certainly, we should be very fearful of transgressing any of Hashem's commandments and all the repercussions that we are taught that that entails. And when we have already committed a transgression, it is also appropriate to now be fearful about the consequences in store for us, and by doing so, that can actually be a springboard to motivate me to repent for the transgression. And as the Gemara teaches, that if one repents sincerely and out of love for Hashem, that transgression actually turns into a mitzvah to our credit in our eternal bank account. The same piece in the Talmud then goes on to say that there was another individual who was groaning and complaining about a certain situation, and this individual was told off by the sages for groaning and complaining. And in fact, the Gemara says that when one groans and complains, that itself is the catalyst that brings suffering upon oneself. "Thank you, Hashem, for teaching me that I need not fear anyone nor anything because You are exclusively running every single detail in my life. And at the same time, thank you, Hashem, for teaching me that it is appropriate and commendable to fear sin and its consequences. And thank you, Hashem, also for teaching me that not only is groaning and complaining about my situation that You've presented me, a lack of my emunah and bitachon, trusting that You would only send me what is best for me, but groaning and complaining itself is the catalyst that will bring me more suffering to my life. Hashem, You and I know exactly what I'm going through, and I'm already struggling in this situation, but at the same time, please help me to be inspired, to internalize that You can and will only always do what is good for me, and there is never ever reason for me to complain. Please help me to internalize, Hashem, that You are with me every single moment of my life."

396 - Torah Vs. Tefillah

Jul 29, 2025

5:46

There are countless Torah passages which outline the tremendously great value of Torah learning, and the emphasis Hashem places on this great mitzvah. The most famous one, perhaps, is the Mishnah we recite every day in the morning prayers, where the Mishnah says that the value of Torah learning is equal to all of the other mitzvahs put together. So if one thinks of the tremendously great impact that we are taught each mitzvah provides - giving tzedakah; lighting Shabbos candles; putting on tefillin; listening to the shofar; shaking a lulav; and all of the other mitzvahs that we have. We are taught here that the value of Torah learning is on par with all of those mitzvahs put together. We are also taught in countless Torah passages about the incredibly great value of tefillah, prayer, and many Torah passages seem to indicate that the power and potency of the value of prayer is even greater than the power and potency of Torah learning, such as the teaching of the Sefer Chareidim and the Shelah Hakadosh, which we have quoted numerous times, where they state that the value of secluding oneself and connecting to Hashem with personal prayer is seven times stronger than that of Torah study. Whilst at the same time there are many Torah passages which seem to indicate the exact opposite, that the value of Torah study is in fact greater than the value of tefillah. There is no question that the potency and power of both Torah study and tefillah is beyond anything we can imagine. But at the end of the day, there seems to be a contradiction in many Torah passages. Which is it? Is Torah study greater, or is prayer greater? Some commentaries resolve the contradiction in the following way. We know that the ultimate purpose of Torah study is "al menas laasos", in order to take the concepts from the Torah study that we learn and use them in a practical way throughout our lives. Although Torah study inherently is tremendously valuable itself, nevertheless, we are taught that the ultimate purpose of Torah study is "al menas laasos", in order to use the Torah study that we have learned in a practical way throughout our lives. And therefore, the commentaries explain that because Torah study is so potent inherently, when one does study Torah, that action automatically brings us closer to Hashem, builds our emunah and bitachon, sometimes even on autopilot without us knowing it, and also improves our character, which is part of the reason we exist in this world. And therefore, when I am praying, certainly if the prayer is with regards to unimportant matters, such as, "Hashem, I would really like a new car, please can You help me to be able to get this specific car that I would like." Although it is commendable that one is reaching out to Hashem about their interests, and that is certainly some level of emunah, Torah study is certainly considered higher than a prayer of this sort. But even a very necessary prayer, such as if a family member is sick, or one is struggling to find a soulmate, or one might be struggling financially and says, "Hashem, please can You send me more parnassah, so that I can be able to fulfill the mitzvah of tzedakah, and just so that I can provide my family with their needs and have more time to devote my life to You." Although this is certainly a very high level of tefillah, nevertheless we are taught that Torah study still precedes such prayer because ultimately, we are praying to have health, find a soulmate, or have more parnassah, in order to be able to do the ideal, which would be coming closer to Hashem, by having more time to devote to our spiritual pursuits, whereas Torah study itself is the spiritual pursuit itself. However, the commentaries explain that when our prayer is of the highest form, and we are asking Hashem, "Hashem, please will You send me more emunah, that I should live a life of absolute emunah and bitachon, connected to You, please bring me closer to You, please Hashem, will You correct my character traits, and help me to become the righteous individual that You'd like me to become." When our prayer is of this sort, then the commentaries explain that this prayer is so great and high, that it can even be above the great mitzvah of Torah study. The bottom line is that both Torah study, as well as prayer, are both tremendously powerful conduits of how to connect to Hashem and fulfill our mission and purpose in this world. "Thank you, Hashem, for giving me the opportunity to connect to You and fulfill my mission in this world, both via the incredible and potent mitzvah of Torah study, as well as via the incredible and potent mitzvah of prayer."

381 - The Real World

Jul 11, 2025

4:25

We've been discussing how one of the highest forms of expressing our emunah, belief in HaShem, in a practical way, is to talk to HaShem in our own personal words. And at the same time, how do we deal with the reality that it can be difficult to talk to HaShem, because HaShem is not seen nor heard. And ultimately it comes down to growing more in our emunah, because the more we believe He is there, the more real and obvious it will become to us to take our talking to Him seriously. On the other hand, the more we talk to HaShem, the more we are able to grow in our emunah, because again, the solution to all problems is reaching out to the source of all, to our Creator. So on the one hand, if we believe more, we will talk more, because we know He is there, and we know He is the only one who can help us. And it's actually absurd to explore other avenues over and above our Creator. But to sincerely internalize this belief is our life's work, and has countless levels. And at the same time, the solution to all problems, always, is to ask HaShem for help. And in this particular area, the problem might be, "I would like to ideally believe more, that HaShem is listening, and sincerely feel the emunah more. However, I don't." So how do I deal with this problem? As mentioned many times, there might be other things we can also do. We can certainly seek inspiration, and perhaps other things that might help us grow in our emunah. But ultimately, over and above everything else, the solution to all problems is to go to the Creator Himself and ask Him to help me in this challenge. "HaShem, my Father, thank you so much for guiding me towards living a life where I am trying my best to follow the path of emunah. It is such a gift to be able to explore your true perspective, what the Torah teaches us about how to live a true life, and not a life of an imaginary, fake world. This is the real world, the world of emunah. I am trying so hard to grow in my emunah, be it by seeking inspiration, by learning books about emunah, or whatever else. And of course, this being my life's work, HaShem, it is sometimes difficult. I might sometimes have good days in my emunah, and sometimes I drop. And that's okay, because you made me a human being, and you don't expect me to be more than my maximum capacity. And I've also learned about the importance of speaking to you. And in fact, it is so obvious that if you are there, you would want me to have a personal relationship with you, and what an opportunity I have to be able to have a personal relationship with you. Nevertheless, when my emunah is strong, HaShem, then I am able to reach out to you and talk with sincerity, and perhaps even for longer periods, without difficulty, because I actually know that you're listening to me. But when my emunah is feeling shaky, the truth is that it's so difficult to talk to you, HaShem, because I'm struggling to believe that you're there listening to me, even if in theory I know it, I don't really feel it and it's difficult to do something you only know in theory, with passion, meaning, and for a long time. And therefore, I'm asking you, HaShem, help me, please, to grow more in my emunah, to believe that you are listening to me. And perhaps in return, what I could do for you is make a commitment, because although I might not feel the constant inspiration to want to talk to you with dedication and motivation and for long periods, something I can do is to make a commitment of a certain amount of time that I will talk to you every single day, regardless of how I feel. Because I know that if you see me making a commitment from my side, even when I'm feeling uninspired, you from your side could in turn build my emunah and help me to be motivated to what the basic and simple truth is. Thank you, HaShem, for teaching me that you are listening to me and for the gift to talk to you about anything and everything, whenever and wherever I choose to."

398 - Bring Him Home

Jul 31, 2025

4:52

One of the foundations to Torah and Judaism is the belief in the coming of Mashiach. In the Thirteen Principles of Faith outlined by the Rambam, we declare, I believe with complete emunah in the coming of Mashiach, and even though he may seem to be delaying his arrival, I nevertheless will eagerly await and anticipate his arrival every day. We've discussed many times that our job in this world ultimately is to have emunah, to believe specifically when we don't see and we don't understand. And here we find another area where we are called on to practice our emunah, our belief. It's been thousands of years that we as a nation have existed and Mashiach has not come yet. So logically, why should we think that today should be different to yesterday? If he did not come yet, who knows when he will come? Nevertheless, we are called on to build our belief that Mashiach can arrive at every single moment. It is told of the saintly Chofetz Chaim that he would constantly have a bag ready and packed with clothes and the things he would need if Mashiach would arrive, so that he would be able to leave immediately at every single moment. And similarly, it is told about the great Rav Moshe Feinstein that it was his practice when he needed to carry something around on Shabbos, he would keep it in his hands rather than putting it in his pockets. And the reason for that was because he was concerned that he would encounter a situation where he would mistakenly walk on Shabbos with something in his pockets in an area without an Eruv, which is prohibited. So in order to avoid that, he would never place items in his pockets on Shabbos. And in his elderly years, when he was not able to leave his house because of his health, it once happened that people saw he was carrying something around in his hands on Shabbos and not putting it in his pockets. And when he was asked why he was doing so, because he was clearly not able to leave his house anymore because of the state of his health and his elderly age. So there was no concern anymore that he would mistakenly forget and walk in an area outside of an Eruv on Shabbos. And he responded, Mashiach can come at any given moment. And when Mashiach does come, all the sickly people will be made better. I am waiting for Mashiach to come in the next few moments. And if that does happen, I will get better. And then I will want to keep up my practice of not walking outside on Shabbos with anything in my pockets. Throughout the year, it is not always easy to be constantly mindful of the absence of our Besamikdash. Of course, even throughout the year, we should make our maximum effort to remember Hashem's house, the Besamikdash that has been destroyed, and hope for Mashiach and the rebuilding of the Besamikdash. It is worthwhile to take to heart that as part of the prescribed prayer of Birkas Hamazon, Grace After Meals, there is a preliminary chapter of Tehillim that we say, one during the week, Al-Naharus Bavel, and on Shabbos, Shir Amalos. And both of those chapters ultimately were enacted to be said whenever we eat bread, which is something quite common, in order to remind us of Yerushalayim and the destruction of the Besamikdash. Although we might not be on the level of the Chofetz Chaim or of Moshe Feinstein or the many great other people who were able to hope in a very real, vivid way for the coming of Mashiach at every given moment, whatever we are able to hope for, everyone in their own way, is a tremendous mitzvah. Whether we are able to commit to saying the Animamin of the Rambam, which is our affirmation in the belief of the coming of Mashiach, or whether we are able to commit to saying the preliminary prayer to the Birkas Hamazon both on Shabbos as well as during the week, which is the appropriate thing to do as outlined by the halachic authorities, every small act that we do to remember the destruction of the Besamikdash is saying to Hashem, Hashem, I care about You, and I care about the fact that Your house was destroyed.

399 - Soothing The Pain

Aug 1, 2025

4:03

Although the ideal course would be to be constantly mindful throughout the year about the lack of our Besamikdash, and as we are taught by Torah commentaries, the pain that the Shekhinah feels at not having a dwelling place in our midst, nevertheless, even throughout the year, there are practices that the Halacha outlines for us in order to help us connect to the exile that we are in, and to the fact that the Shekhinah is in pain with the destruction of the Besamikdash. The Shulchan Aruch outlines that when we build a house, it is appropriate to leave a measurement of about half a meter by half a meter, which we don't paint and complete. And the reason for that is to show that our happiness is not complete. And in the same way, when a bride and groom get married, although it is a tremendously happy occasion, we break a glass to show that we are not completely happy. And there are many other laws outlined in the Shulchan Aruch, such as the prohibition to listen to music. In fact, according to the simple reading of the Shulchan Aruch, listening to music throughout the year is very questionable, unless done in certain specific situations. Although throughout the year many of us follow the more lenient opinions with regards to listening to music, we are certainly called on during these days to minimize our enjoyment of listening to music for the sake of feeling Hashem's pain, the Shekhinah's pain. And as always, we have the most incredible gift of prayer, that we can ask Hashem to help us to feel the pain. Because again, the reason that we don't feel the gap in the world is ultimately because we don't really know what we're missing. And sometimes we might even feel like everything in our life is okay in a certain sense. In a way, who needs the Besamikdash? I'm quite okay without it in my life. Even though we don't always speak in that way, sometimes that is the way that subconsciously we're thinking. Whereas the correct approach, the approach of Emunah, whether I understand or I don't understand what it would be like with the Besamikdash, I believe in the Torah teachings that a life with the Besamikdash is where we are supposed to be. And I believe, whether I understand or I don't understand, that the Shekhinah is in pain without the Besamikdash. I am not here just to care about my own life, but also to care about the Shekhinah. And if I am taught that the Shekhinah is in pain, I certainly want to do whatever I can to take the Shekhinah out of that pain. Hashem, my Father, even though it is hard for me to relate to the fact that your Shekhinah could be in pain, I nevertheless believe the words of the Torah who teach me so. And therefore, Hashem, I beg you, please rebuild the Besamikdash and bring Moshiach. Although I am taught that sick people will be healed and people who have difficulty will receive their salvations and many other amazing things when the time of Moshiach's arrival comes, nevertheless, my Father, the real reason that I want Moshiach to come is not because of my own vested interest, but rather because you are in pain. Hashem, please bring us the coming of Moshiach and the rebuilding of the Besamikdash as soon as possible and in a way of revealed blessing speedily in our days.

400 - Tisha B'Av

Aug 3, 2025

4:17

Tisha B'Av. We pray today in a way where we try to cry and join the pain of the Shechinah because of the lack of the Beis Hamikdash. We are taught in the verse that any time we suffer, Hashem suffers with us. And much more than the pain that we feel, Hashem feels. And therefore all the suffering and pain, although, of course, we understand that Hashem is pulling all the strings and is also the one to have caused that to happen for reasons beyond our understanding, nevertheless, once that pain is there, the Shechinah feels the pain much more than we can even fathom. Torah sources teach that one of the messages of the month of Av, and certainly at its climax, Tisha B'Av, is the name of the month itself. Why is it that this sad month, which connotes tears and a broken heart, is called Av, which also means father? Sometimes we relate to Hashem as a king where we show more respect and honor, but a king does not have the same relationship that a father does with a child. In this month, we specifically highlight Hashem is our Av, Hashem is our father. We cry today because of all the suffering the world over and so much pain that is taking place and that we've experienced throughout the years. But ultimately the deepest reason that we are crying for today is not for our pain as an individual nor as a nation. We are crying out of love because this is my father and his house has been destroyed. The Shechinah has been exiled from within our midst. Perhaps one message that we could take to heart today is that besides for my struggles and our nation's struggles, let me turn that off for a while and think just about my real true father, Hashem, who has been exiled for all these years, who feels more pain than we can imagine; any time we feel pain, any time we sin, any time we are distanced from one another. “Hashem, my dear father, I love you with all my heart. And even though this day is full of sorrow and crying, ultimately it is only because of our deep love that we experience this pain together today. Hashem, I am limited by my human nature, as you know, and most of the time I am caught up with my needs. And even in my prayers to you, most of the time might be invested in what I need and we need. But I want you to know, Hashem, my father, I love you. And although I might feel like I can't give you anything, because who am I compared to the Creator, nevertheless, you have taught me via your Torah and Torah commentaries that what I do makes a huge difference and I can give to you. I am going to try my best, even when things are going well and smoothly in my life, to not forget about you, not only to reach out to you when I need you, but also when in a sense I feel like I don't really need you. Because it's not about me, it's about you. Hashem, I want you to know I love you so deeply and I care about you and I beg you, please rebuild your Beis Hamikdash; please forgive us for our sins. In whatever areas that you and I know I can improve, please Hashem, can you help me to improve in these areas, because I know that when I sin, that causes you more pain, and when I do the right thing, that delights you. Hashem, I believe with my full heart that Mashiach can come, even today, if we just want it enough, as we are taught. Please, Hashem, I beg you with all my heart, help me to say these words, to sing them over and to really internalize them: Ani Maamin Beeumunah Sheleimah bevias Hamashiach; Veaf al pi sheyeshmahameha im kol zeh achakeh lo bechol yom sheyavo.”

401 - Appreciate Your Life

Aug 4, 2025

4:26

What is the greatest miracle in the world? Out of all the answers we might give, the truth of the matter is that the greatest miracle in the world is the creation of the world itself, because every other miracle that might exist is encompassed within the creation of the world itself. The Sfas Emes points out that there are about 30 verses in the Torah devoted to relating the story of the creation of the world, whereas when it comes to the Mishkan, the special tabernacle where Hashem's Shechinah was known to rest on and be much more potent than anywhere else, the Torah then dedicates a few hundred verses outlining that episode. And the Sfas Emes comments that we see from here that the Mishkan was actually greater than the creation of the whole world itself, because if Hashem in the Torah decided to dedicate about 30 verses to the creation of the world, but when it comes to the Mishkan He decided to dedicate a few hundred verses, Hashem seems to clearly be indicating to us that the Mishkan is more important than even the world itself, and perhaps because of the tremendous holiness that one can experience and tap into in the Mishkan, in one's connection to Hashem, so many verses are dedicated to describing its details in the Torah. But there's something even greater than the Mishkan, says the Sfas Emes, and that is, we are taught that there was a command to build the Mishkan on every day of a regular weekday. But when it came to Shabbos, the building of the Mishkan had to stop, because Shabbos is more important than the building of the Mishkan. So first we have the miracle of the creation of the world itself, thereafter even greater than that is the Mishkan, which has more verses devoted to it, and even greater than the Mishkan is Shabbos, where one is not permitted to build a Mishkan on Shabbos. And to remember this easily, says the Sfas Emes, one can find these three concepts in an acronym of the three letters of the word Shema - Shin Mem Ayin, the Ayin stands for Olam, the world, the Mem stands for Mishkan, and the Shin stands for Shabbos. But it doesn't stop there. There is something even greater than Shabbos. The law is that if the life of a Jew is in danger, then we have an obligation to do whatever it takes to try to save or prolong his or her life. And says the Sfas Emes, you can see this in the words Shema Yisrael, as we explained the three letters of the word Shema, Ayin, which stands for Olam, the world, Mem, which stands for Mishkan, and Shin, which stands for Shabbos, signify some of the greatest and most important creations that Hashem created in His world. Firstly, the greatest miracle of all, the creation of the world itself. And something that's greater than that is the Mishkan, and something that's even greater than that is Shabbos. But something that's even greater than all those three things is Yisrael. The life of a Jew is so great. "Hashem, my King, there are many things in my life that I need, and I do reach out to You about those things. Sometimes I experience things as sweet and sometimes as bitter, of course ultimately knowing that You always do do only what's best for me. However, we are taught that we are supposed to doven for what will be sweet in our eyes. Hashem, I do want to take a moment just to reflect and realize that the greatest gift of all is the gift of life itself. And even if I have experienced and am experiencing hardships, the fact that You have gifted me with another day of life is the greatest gift in the world. Thank you, Hashem, for the gift of another day and another moment in my life."

402 - Every Second Counts

Aug 5, 2025

4:22

We have been discussing how the greatest gift, greater than any and all miracles in the world, is the gift of life itself. And as we learned from the Sfas Emes, greater than the miracle of the creation of the world itself is the Mishkan, and even greater than that is the mitzvah of Shabbos, and even greater than Shabbos is the gift of life, because as we know, all the laws of Shabbos fall aside when the life of a Jew is in question. Just to view this from a different angle, to appreciate exactly how blessed we are to have another day of life, and Bezrat Hashem turn those feelings of appreciation into expressing our gratitude to Hashem. We know that when it comes to the three cardinal sins, idol worship, immorality, and murder, we are obligated to stop at nothing to prevent ourselves from committing those most severe transgressions, even if it means losing our lives by doing so. Besides for the three cardinal sins, when it comes to other sins that Hashem has commanded us not to commit, the Halacha in Shulchan Aruch states that a person is obligated to give up all of their money if that can prevent one from committing a sin. So imagine for a moment a situation where the only way I can prevent myself from not needing to desecrate the Shabbos is by giving away every single cent in my bank account. And imagine I might be a wealthy philanthropist where I have hundreds of millions of dollars in my bank account, and many, many organizations are dependent on my funding. And here I have a situation where I need to desecrate Shabbos in the slightest way, one little desecration. But hypothetically in this situation, if I give away every single cent that I own and become a pauper, and of course am now unable to help any organization or individual, the Halacha is that I am obligated to give away every cent that I own in order to prevent myself from breaking the law. Now just to digest that, all the money in the world that I might own is not as great as not desecrating one of the laws of Shabbos. Yet we are taught that when it comes to the life of a Jew, the life of a Jew is so holy that if we might be able to add even one second to a Jew's life, we break every law in order to do so. So imagine a 110 year old man who is sick in hospital on every machine. It is absolutely clear that this man will not live longer than one more hour. But if I desecrate Shabbos, I might, not even for sure, I might be able to add one second more to this man's life. The law is that in such a case, I am absolutely obligated to desecrate any law of Shabbos in order that there might be a possibility to add one second to this man's life. "Thank you Hashem for the gift of just being alive. I know that I can't fully internalize to appreciate what it means, the value of being alive, but I believe Hashem in what you are teaching me in your Torah, that although you have given us the opportunity to perform your mitzvahs, which their value is immeasurably great beyond anything we can imagine, with incredible reward in store for us for the future, however as we learn in your Torah, nothing in the world whatsoever can be greater than the gift of life itself. Thank you Hashem for the incredible gift of life that you've given me."

403 - The Very First Question

Aug 6, 2025

5:02

The Gemara states that the first question we are asked when we arrive in the heavenly court is, "did you give and take with faith?" The simple understanding of this passage as explained by the commentaries is that it refers to one's business dealings. Throughout one's life, did one perform their business dealings with absolute honesty? We are taught that in the next world, there is no concept of untruth. Everything is seen very clearly and therefore every action is scrutinized in terms of our honesty levels. The commentaries also explain this passage in the following way - "did you go about your life with emunah?" It is not surprising that the first question we will be asked according to this explanation is, "did you live your life by the values of emunah", because as we've seen many times, the Ramban writes the only reason that we exist in this world is in order to have emunah and he says there is no other reason for us being in this world. And the Vilna Gaon writes that the reason for every mitzvah that we fulfill is in order to come to have emunah and that is the cornerstone behind the whole entire Torah. We devote our lives to the learning of Torah and fulfilling of the mitzvahs, ultimately as we are taught, it is all in order to come to have emunah. And therefore it's easy to understand why the very first question would be, "did you live your life according to the values of emunah." Remember Torah commentaries teach that although internalizing the values of emunah intellectually is itself a major achievement and definitely the first step, nevertheless our major life's work is taking the intellectual information and transforming it into our emotions and sincerely living practically according to the values of emunah and bitachon. It's important to emphasize that this is the first question that we will be asked and both of the explanations that were cited are ultimately one and the same. The first explanation which is that we will be asked and scrutinized about our honesty in business dealings. Now of course we can all understand that one should never steal or be dishonest with anybody, but why does this transgression of being dishonest have so much weight that it is the very first question that is asked in the heavenly courts? And the answer is because when one is dishonest in business what they are really saying is the following: "Hashem does not exist, I run my business and I need to make money and because I'm now running into an issue where it seems like I'm going to be short of money. I need to do some sort of trickery and use my cunning to be able to gain more money, therefore let me cheat this individual and be dishonest in order to be able to have my parnassah." Whereas when somebody is living by the values of emunah and bitachon one is not enticed, God forbid, to steal or be dishonest even in the slightest way because one knows that every single cent that I will receive today was already ordained by Hashem on Rosh Hashanah and no circumstance or individual can even slightly alter Hashem's plans and Hashem Himself has commanded me as a great mitzvah to be completely honest at all times and certainly not to steal and therefore there is absolutely no need for me to even think about being dishonest in the slightest way. "Thank you Hashem for teaching me to prepare myself to be able to answer the very first question that I will be asked when I arrive in the heavenly courts. B'ezrat Hashem I will be able to answer affirmatively and say, yes I was successful in living a life of true emunah."

404 - Understanding Hashem

Aug 7, 2025

4:06

Hashem created this world in a way that most things that transpire can be difficult for us to understand much of the time. Because again, we are taught that the only reason that Hashem created the world was because He desired to share His goodness with us. And although we are taught that ultimately that goodness will be experienced in the next world, we might have many questions such as, "if Hashem truly desired to give us of His best, why then did He not send us directly to the next world where we are taught that there the pleasure is so great that it is completely incomparable to anything in this world?" And although we do have certain answers within Torah literature, however for the most part the main answer is that this world is not a place of understanding. B'ezrat Hashem, in the future when we get to the next world, we are taught that then everything is understood and exactly why things had to transpire with their precise details as they did in our lives in this world makes complete sense; but in this world our job is to believe, specifically when we don't understand. In Judaism and Torah we are not short of mitzvos that Hashem has commanded us to practice. And for the most part, mitzvos are comprised of many intricacies and details that to the objective, logical mind, who is not coming from a Torah perspective, much of the time does not make sense. Although some of the mitzvos, such as the mitzvah of Chesed - to practice kindness to others, or giving tzedakah - charity, or perhaps the mitzvah to honor one's father and mother, where perhaps by those mitzvos it is easier to understand them, even according to our logical minds, however, when it comes to many mitzvos, such as for example many of the intricacies of the laws of Shabbos, one might argue, "is not the main purpose of Shabbos to be able to contemplate on the purpose of my life and have more free time to also build my relationship with Hashem?" And that being the case, if I find it more conducive to this, to observe Shabbos in a certain manner, perhaps not exactly in line with what the halacha dictates, I might argue that that should be the ideal course. However, we are taught that this is not the case. Adherence to halacha and following Hashem's instructions, even when that would seem to contradict the reason for the mitzvah based on our logical understanding, we are taught that we are absolutely obligated to follow the mitzvahs exactly as Hashem has commanded us. And again, as always, everything in life ultimately boils down to emunah - to believing in Hashem. Because this world is not a place where we are permitted to understand Hashem's workings and calculations. Our ultimate purpose in this world is to develop our emunah, our belief. Believing specifically when we don't understand. Whether it comes to the performance of mitzvos that might at times be more difficult for us to relate to based on our logical understanding. Or perhaps when it comes to the opportunity for us to rely on Hashem and try eliminate feelings of anxiety and worry from circumstances that surround us. And also perhaps when it comes to the opportunity of reaching out to Hashem and talking to Him in our own words. In these areas and many others, everything boils down to emunah. And as we've mentioned many times, by constant repetition of the Torah's teachings on Hashem's true perspective, b'ezrat Hashem, that can be a tremendous motivator for us to inculcate these concepts of emunah into our day-to-day lives. "Thank you Hashem for teaching me this golden information of what my true purpose is in this world and giving me the opportunity to be able to grow on a day-to-day basis more and more in fulfilling my purpose in this world."

405 - Grab The Opportunity!

Aug 8, 2025

4:05

Precisely when we don't see and we don't understand, there we have an opportunity to practice our belief, our emunah. I am not able to see Hashem, but I nevertheless have the constant opportunity to grow in my emunah and believe more and more that He is actually there, and when I talk to Him, He is listening to every word. And not only that, but as we've learned previously, the prayers that we make are so precious to Him that as the Midrash teaches, our prayers are taken and used to make up the crown of Hashem. And again, there are many levels to what it means to have emunah and bitachon in Hashem. A basic level, but certainly a significant level of accomplishment is when we internalize that Hashem certainly exists and can hear what we are saying. And therefore when I am experiencing a challenge in my life, I of course reach out to Hashem as my first address. But again, depending on how strong my belief is, will make all the difference of how motivated I am to continue those prayers to Hashem. A basic level would be to make a short prayer, but one with more belief will devote much more time and energy and passion to their prayers. Because again, this is our objective in this world, specifically to have the challenge of emunah and need to practice our belief when we don't see. If we are currently in the presence of another individual who can help us, it will certainly then be much easier to talk to that individual and request what we need with sincerity and passion. And if they can truly help us, we won't be in a rush to go elsewhere, but rather will be happy to take however much time is necessary to express ourselves adequately. We cannot see Hashem and the only type of relationship that we have is based on belief. The more that we believe, the more that we will take that relationship and opportunity seriously. And just to remind ourselves of the idea that we've discussed many times, that many many Torah commentaries bring, that the only reason Hashem decided to create the world in the first place was because He desired to share His goodness with us. And this point is so important to remember throughout our lives and throughout our emunah endevour because when we remember that Hashem only created the world just to give to us, then it is easy to understand how the image that is sometimes portrayed of God as this old man with a stick waiting to catch us out, is a terribly mistaken approach and perspective of what Hashem is. We are so privileged to have the only absolute true perspective. Hashem created us just to share His goodness with us, and that being the case, although it certainly is going to be a challenge for us to grow in our emunah endeavor, nevertheless Hashem would not give us an impossible task. He is not trying to catch us out, God forbid. He's giving us an opportunity in this world to earn our maximum potential for eternal reward in the next world. This world is a world of opportunity where Hashem wants us to choose right, and thereby after us having achieved our maximum potential in this world, we will be able to enjoy His tremendous goodness that is completely beyond anything we can even begin to imagine that this world has to offer - in the next world eternally. So it's important to remind ourselves that when it comes to our emunah endeavor, although we certainly have to make a constant effort to grow just a little bit more each day - every one of us in our own way, however Hashem is not going to judge us in an overly strict manner - anything that is beyond our maximum capacity. All that Hashem requires of us is to internalize that the reason we exist is to build and transform our emunah as much as we can.

406 - The Jewish Leader

Aug 10, 2025

4:22

Torah authorities explain that emunah can be divided into three different segments. The first one is to build our emunah and bitachon in Hashem, which is the main focus of this daily inspiration that we've been discussing every day. The second type of emunah that the Torah authorities discuss is emunas chachamim, to believe in the words of the sages. The Midrash teaches that we are supposed to reach such a high level of belief in the words of the sages that even if they would tell us that the right is the left or the left is the right, something completely counterintuitive to our understanding, we should believe their words. Now of course, to reach such a level of faith in the words of the sages needs to be based on understanding why I should do so, and also it needs to be defined who is considered part of the sages. Let's discuss the Ramban at the end of Parashas Bo, who explains the following: In times of old, there were three types of idolaters. Some of them denied Hashem's existence at all, whereas others admitted that Hashem does exist but assumed that He doesn't know what's going on in the world. And a third category of people admitted that Hashem does exist and knows what's going on in the world, but according to their mistaken approach, Hashem doesn't care about what goes on in the world. And all these approaches are types of avodah zarah, of idol worship. And as the Ramban there explains, because Hashem wanted to give people the opportunity to move away from these forms of idol worship and rather move towards a real meaningful life according to the values of Emunah, Hashem changed the laws of nature when He performed the miracles at the exodus from Egypt, such as the plagues and the splitting of the sea. And the Ramban explains that after this happened, people now had the opportunity to clearly believe that Hashem runs the show and the world does not just operate according to the laws of nature, but rather Hashem is orchestrating every single moment. However, Ramban adds an additional point which was gained through this episode, in that Moshe Rabbeinu, the leader of the Jewish people, predicted the miracles before they transpired at the exodus from Egypt. And therefore, after the miracles happened, not only did the people gain a belief in Hashem, but they also gained a belief that this Moshe Rabbeinu had a particularly close relationship with Hashem and his advice must be heeded. So just like the people were able to acknowledge Hashem's existence after this experience, similarly they were able to acknowledge Moshe Rabbeinu's role as a leader of the Jewish people. It is well known that the Torah was given to Moshe Rabbeinu in two forms, one is the written Torah and secondly, he was given many teachings orally. The Mishnayos in Pirkei Avos discuss how from generation to generation, those laws that were transmitted from Hashem to Moshe Rabbeinu directly, were passed down from generation to generation via specific leaders who were chosen to be the leaders of those generations. And the Rambam, in the introduction to the Mishnah, outlines all the leaders, even in times much closer to ours, that their chain of tradition can be traced all the way back to Moshe Rabbeinu, who received it directly from Hashem. May we all merit to excel in all the different forms of Emunah that the Torah commentaries teach us ultimately stem from Emunah in Hashem. Of course in our Emunah and Bitachon endeavour itself, to grow in our belief and reliance on Hashem, but also by extension, to believe in the words of the sages. For whatever reason, usually in today's day and age, Hashem does not reveal Himself to us in an openly revealed manner, but rather, the way He communicates to us is via the information that He relays to us in His Torah, both in the written Torah as well as in the oral Torah. Let us then appreciate that all parts of the Torah, both the written Torah, as well as the entirety of the oral Torah, including all of the words of the sages, are ultimately the words of Hashem. And just like we are called on to build our belief in Hashem Himself, let us also make our maximum effort to build our belief in the words of the sages - Emunas Chachamim.

407 - Choosing Your Rabbi

Aug 11, 2025

4:10

We've been discussing what the Torah commentaries divide into three types of emunah, and whilst our main focus is always revolving around the core of everything - emunah and bitochen in Hashem, it is certainly worthwhile to also delve into the other areas that the Torah commentaries discuss. We spoke about the second type of emunah - emunas chachamim, where we are called on to believe in the words of our sages, starting from Moshe Rabbeinu who received the oral tradition directly from Hashem and was passed down from generation to generation. And as we spoke about, the Midrash brings down that we are supposed to reach such a level of emunas chachamim, of belief in the words of the sages, that with regards to the Sanhedrin, the great beis din of times of old, even if they were to tell us the right is the left, or the left is the right, we are supposed to aim to reach such a high level of belief in their words, that we will listen regardless of our understanding. Jjust like we do not understand Hashem's doings and we are called on to believe and place our trust in Him, by extension, we are called on to believe in the words of the holy sages who have a special close relationship with Hashem, and Hashem has designated to be guides for us in our lives. As mentioned, the Rambam outlines that the oral tradition that was given to Moshe Rabbeinu directly from Hashem was passed down from generation to generation to specific individuals. The Mishnah in Pirkei Avos teaches, that one is supposed to make for themselves a rabbi. Part of the purpose of doing so is that when a question arises in halacha that I am not able to investigate and find the answer to myself, I am now able to seek the guidance of an authentic talmid chacham who is well-versed in all areas of Torah and is able to guide us when it comes to halacha. Another fundamental principle is the concept of da'as torah - that when a person needs to make a decision - of course much of the time I am able to find the answer myself, but with regards to certain areas of my life where I have a question mark, besides doing research and as discussed many times, talking to Hashem and asking Him for clarity, we are called on to seek guidance from Torah leaders who are authentic talmid chachamim and tzaddikim who are able to guide us in the right direction. In times of old, the concept of a personal rabbi was very different to how it is today. Because the oral Torah was not written down, most of the Torah information I received was from the Torah teaching of my rabbi. And that being the case, there were very many serious laws with regards to the respect of one's Torah teacher. One example, as brought in Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah section 242, is that anybody who argues with his rabbi - and again this is a rabbi in times of old who one is learning all the Torah information from, and there was no Torah literature available in books - it's as if he's arguing with the shechina. And there are many other similar statements. There is a lot of Torah literature available about emunas chachamim, and one is certainly encouraged to pursue this topic further. For our purposes right now, it is worthwhile to mention that Torah commentaries bring that one of the extensions of having emunah in Hashem is building our belief in the words of the sages - emunas chachamim, which of course starts with Moshe Rabbeinu and was passed down from generation to generation all the way through to the sages of the Gemara. In today's times, where it is not always as clear as to who exactly that chain was passed down to. In order to fulfill this advice of the mission in Pirkei Avos which says one ought to make for oneself a rabbi, one of the greatest things we can do in trying to make an effort to find them is ask Hashem and say, "Hashem, please can you help me to fulfill the mitzvah of emunas chachamim - of belief in the words in the sages, to the highest degree, and even in our day and age today, Hashem, please can you guide me and help me to find the rabbi, talmid chacham, and tzaddik, who could be most suited for my situation and guide me in the most ideal way for my life."

408 - Believe In Yourself

Aug 12, 2025

4:36

We've been discussing how the Torah commentaries break down emunah into three parts. The first one, simple emunah and bitachon, placing our trust and reliance on Hashem, as we've discussed much about. The second one, emunas chachamim, where we extend our belief in Hashem to belief in the words of Moshe Rabbeinu, and by extension, the sages, where the tradition was passed down early to, from generation to generation. And the third category of emunah that Torah commentaries outline is having emunah in yourself. Rav Tzadok HaKohen, as well as many other Torah commentaries, discuss this idea. When we wake up in the morning, the first line we are supposed to say is "modeh ani", which ends with the words "rabba emunasecha". One interpretation of these words is, "Hashem, your emunah in me is very great." We are declaring that Hashem has a lot of faith in me. Hashem created me in the first place, and He decided that today I should wake up again for a new day. If there was no purpose for me in the world today, and I believe that Hashem orchestrates every single detail in the world, then why would He have given me another day of life? There is no question in the world that if I woke up today, I have a very specific purpose that nobody else in the world can fulfill. And in the words of the Gemara, every person is obligated to believe, "bishvili nivra haolam" - that the entire world was created just for me. Let's just take those words to heart. All the people in the world, all the investments, all the projects, the sun, moon, and stars, and we can go on. It was all created for one purpose; just for me. Digesting that idea should help motivate me what a tremendous opportunity I have in this world. But not only that, what a tremendous responsibility I have in this world. Because in Hashem's greatness, He is able to create everything exclusively just for you, and He is able to do that with regards to everyone. Now if Hashem decided to create this entire world, including everything comprised within it, just for you, there is no question He believes in you, and you have a purpose in this world that nobody else can fulfill. If Hashem believes in you, and you decide not to believe in yourself, in a sense one is denying Hashem. Hashem is saying X, and I am saying Y. By the fact that Hashem gave me the abilities in what I have to contribute to the world, from the smallest of the smallest ways, to the biggest of the biggest ways; if I have the ability to give somebody a smile, which is one of the greatest mitzvos, or perhaps I am in a position to give charity, or perhaps I am able to learn Torah, or perhaps I am able to pray, talking to Hashem in my own words, and the list goes on and is tailor-made for every individual - every single one of us has our unique talents and abilities, and we are therefore called on to believe in ourselves. When a person commits a sin, one might feel, maybe I am not worthy anymore, but again, if I woke up today, Hashem believes in me. Even if it was the worst of sins, Hashem believes in me, that there is potential for me to do teshuvah and rectify what I did wrong and become great. Just like when it comes to emunah, one can never tell the true level of somebody else's emunah. Sometimes, two people who are presented with a potentially anxiety-provoking situation may respond in a similar manner. They both might be very calm. It could be that the one individual's natural tendency is just to be calm, even though they might have barely worked on their emunah and bitachon. And certainly this is barely an achievement, because this is just the way Hashem made them. It could be the other individual naturally leans towards feelings of anxiety, and because of this individual's growth in emunah and bitachon, is now able to feel calm. And in a similar vein, when it comes to people who appear to be self-confident, it can come in one of two different ways. Sometimes that self-confidence can come from a place completely contrary to the values of emunah. Sometimes people believe in themselves because they believe they are the master to their own destiny, and because they have been successful in some areas of their life, that leads them to arrogance and sometimes can be viewed as self-confidence. Whereas another individual who is on the path of true emunah and bitachon might be led to a place of true self-confidence, not because of arrogance, God forbid, but rather because if Hashem believes in me, I can certainly believe in myself.

409 - Bulletproof Confidence

Aug 13, 2025

4:40

We've been discussing the three types of emunah that the Torah commentaries bring. The first one, our life's work that we are most familiar with - making our maximum effort to take the emunah and bitachon that we've learnt about and trying to transform that to truly living our lives according to their values. The second type that we discussed was emunas chachamim - believing in the words of the sages, not just based on our understanding, but also appreciating that because of their holiness and closeness in their relationship to Hashem, Hashem has commanded us to follow their guidance. And again, just like when it comes to emunah and Hashem Himself, we don't do so because we understand, but rather we follow Hashem based on our emunah - our belief, similarly, when it comes to emunas chachamim, we are called on to build our emunah in the words of the sages. When we read a section of the Torah, of the Gemara, of the Shulchan Aruch and the like, our job is to build our emunah, that just like we would be so inspired and motivated if Hashem would tell us that information Himself, in a sense this is the same thing when we read these passages, because the oral tradition was given to Moshe Rabbeinu by Hashem, and just like at the giving of the Torah, we know that Hashem Himself revealed Himself to the Jewish people for the first two of the Ten Commandments, but because the experience was so overwhelming, the Jewish people requested that the rest should be transmitted only to Moshe Rabbeinu, who would then relay the information to them. Perhaps this is one reason why Hashem doesn't reveal Himself to every one of us in an obviously revealed manner the same way that He did to Moshe Rabbeinu, and there may be many other reasons, but the bottom line is that the words of the sages come directly from Hashem, and our job is to build our emunah chachamim. And the third type of emunah that the Torah commentaries bring is emunah in oneself - belief in oneself. And as we discussed, self-confidence can come from two different places. When self-confidence comes from the place of, "I am able to do this", and I forget to bring Hashem into the picture, although if I have certain strategies, I might be able to portray or feel what people usually refer to as self-confidence, however in truth, this is certainly not something that we should aim at. The true self-confidence - emunah in ourselves, that we should be aiming at, is again an extension of emunah in Hashem. If I believe in Hashem, and Hashem believes in me, then certainly I should believe in myself. And therefore whatever opportunities Hashem has presented me in my life, whatever abilities He might have given me, after praying to Hashem and asking Him to help me in my endeavor, I should certainly feel confident that I can do it. "Hashem my Father, thank You so much for teaching me this incredible Torah teaching about how important it is to believe in myself. Because the truth is, Hashem, that if You believe in me, I have no right not to believe in myself. Hashem, sometimes I say to myself, what is my Torah learning even worth? I barely have a background in Torah learning. I struggle so much with basic Torah learning, whereas there are so many people that have had so much more exposure than me, and their Torah learning is at a level much higher than mine. Hashem, please help me to remove these terrible thoughts from my heart and mind. Because Hashem, if You believe in me, and You've told me that there is a mitzvah to learn Torah, and that's applicable to everyone, just like I believe in You whether I understand it or not, I also believe that if You commanded me to learn Torah, regardless of how much value I might feel that may have, I don't want to do things because of my understanding; I want to do it because of emunah. Please Hashem, help me to believe in myself, that even if I am able to read just a few passages from Torah literature in English on a daily basis, that I should treat that time with absolute highest priority, and realize that like the Gemara teaches, "bishvili nivra haolam" - the entire world was created just for me. And when I go ahead and learn Torah in those few moments, that is the core reason that You created the entire world for, including everything encompassed within it. Hashem, at times it is difficult for me to feel confident to go ahead with the ideas that I have in myself, of what I believe I can contribute to the world. Please Hashem, help me always, first and foremostly, to reach out to You and not fall in the trap of looking at other addresses to try to find my self-confidence, but rather always coming to You and begging You for help and success. And after I have done so, Hashem, please help me to be so confident, because if You believe in me, I have every reason in the world to believe in myself."

410 - Terrorist Attack

Aug 14, 2025

4:08

We've been discussing how Torah commentaries bring that one of the extensions of what it means to have emunah in Hashem is to believe in myself. If Hashem believes in me to the extent that He blessed me with certain abilities and talents, so certainly following the path of emunah and believing in Hashem, I am called on to always in any endeavor reach out to Hashem and ask Him to bring me success, and thereafter believe in myself that I can do it. Let us remind ourselves that the whole purpose of this world is emunah, specifically to believe when I don't see. Just like I can't see Hashem, but I am called on to live a life where everything revolves around Hashem, even though I can't see Him, again based on emunah, based on belief, similarly, when it comes to my actions, I am not allowed to see the true effect of those actions in this world, because again if I was able to see the true spiritual impact of my actions, that would not be emunah anymore. When I give a coin to charity, I don't see any particular change in the world. When I give somebody a smile, learn a word of Torah, make a prayer, or any one of the many mitzvos that we have, much of the time we might not even feel any inspiration or change whatsoever, and that being the case, without building our faith in Hashem, our faith in ourselves that we are making a difference, a huge difference, bigger than anything we can imagine in this world, we will not be motivated to the correct degree. Many Torah commentaries outline this idea as a basic fundamental principle to the Torah. One of many stories that some of the Torah greats tell is the following. There was an individual who passed away, and when he came to the heavenly court, as we know, there is a heavenly accounting, and of course these are spiritual ideas, but to put it in terms that we can understand, a whole lot of white angels appeared corresponding to the mitzvos that this person fulfilled. And thereafter he saw some black angels coming, corresponding to the sins committed in this world. And slowly but surely, the side of the scale with the black angels started to get heavier and heavier, and eventually outweighed the white angels. And the man was panicking, because when the scorecard is such that there are more black angels than white, that means trouble. And suddenly, from far, again in our terms, just to give us a little bit of an understanding within the vocabulary we use, the man noticed that a huge bus was approaching, and soon the bus joined the white angels on their side of the scale. And the scale completely tipped in favor of the white angels - of the mitzvos. And the man was ecstatic, and when he asked for an explanation, he was told that this huge bus was filled with white angels. And even though he could not see how these mitzvos were related to him, they explained to him that there was just one time in his life where he had an opportunity to view something inappropriate, and because he fulfilled the tremendous mitzvah of guarding his eyes, as opposed to committing the sin of viewing something inappropriate, in the merit of that, Hashem decreed that a certain terrorist attack that was supposed to take place in another city, against an entire bus full of Jewish people, was saved due to His one action. And therefore, the merit of all the mitzvos that these people did throughout their lives came to help Him to outweigh the aveira on His scorecard. We have no concept of what it means to do a mitzvah, and likewise to do an aveira. We are taught that when a person does a mitzvah, we create spiritual worlds beyond anything we can even imagine can be encompassed within this world, and likewise with regards to the negative effect of our aveiros. What a privilege we have to view the world from the true lens of Emunah, not based on our understanding, which so much of the time can be misleading and mistaken, but rather from the true perspective, Hashem's perspective, which as discussed many times, is portrayed to us throughout the vast amount of information that we have through the Torah commentaries and leaders that Hashem has given us - Emunah.

411 - Ripple Effect

Aug 15, 2025

4:04

We've been discussing the idea that Torah commentaries bring, that an extension of emunah - believing in Hashem, is to believe in ourselves. If Hashem believes in me, not only do I have the license to believe in myself, but I am obligated to believe in myself, because if I neglect to do so, I am in a sense denying Hashem's will. True humility does not mean to deny the truth. If Hashem made me a good businessman and I am doing my best to use my talents in service of Hashem, really trying to work hard and use the money for good causes, if I am complimented that I am a good businessman and trying to be humble, I deny that fact - that is not humility - that is just speaking words of untruth. And in a similar vein, if you know yourself to be a kind and warm individual, and when complimented on how nice it is to see someone so warm and kind, one denies that fact, again that is not humility, that is just speaking words of untruth. Some commentaries explain that true humility means, when I am able to write about myself, "I am the humblest of all men." What exactly does this mean? We know that a verse in the Torah which Moshe Rabbeinu wrote himself states, "I, Moshe Rabbeinu, am the humblest of all men." And when Hashem told him to write so, he did not argue with Hashem and say, Hashem let's leave this line out of the Torah. And the commentaries explain, because Moshe Rabbeinu was a man of truth, he knew that he was the humblest man that will ever exist and therefore he was able to write that verse down. But at the same time, he was able to attribute his successes, talents and abilities, not to his own doing, but completely relating it to the gifts that Hashem has given him. If I am able to realize that any talent I might have is a gift from Hashem, and not because of my own cunning and doing, I am then able to acknowledge my talents and gifts that Hashem has given me, and believe in myself and use them to the highest degree, whilst at the same time never falling to arrogance, believing that it is only because of my cunning and doing that I am successful in these areas, God forbid, but only because Hashem has given me these gifts. Let us remind ourselves that any and every deed that we might perform has ripple effects beyond anything we can imagine. Firstly, in this world, we do not see the spiritual effects of our actions and if we do a mitzvah, from the smallest to the biggest mitzvah, perhaps giving one coin to charity, giving somebody a smile, learning Torah for 30 seconds, saying a short prayer, to doing these mitzvos in their ideal manner, such as giving a large amount of tzedakah, or learning Torah for a long period, or making a long prayer; if we are able to humble ourselves to believe that we do not understand and we do not see in this world the impact of our actions, and when we perform a mitzvah there are spiritual worlds being affected to degrees way beyond anything in this world can be affected, then we will certainly be motivated to realize that we should believe in ourselves and we can make a huge difference. Sometimes Hashem does decide to show us a little bit of inspiration, again to motivate us. Let's say a person decides to give a relatively small amount to charity. I decide to give $18 for a certain cause because this is what I can afford in this particular situation. But in passing, when I tell somebody else about this cause and how I donated to it, they decide that they are going to donate $1,800 to this cause on a monthly basis. I might never find out that the ripple effect of me giving my little one-time tzedakah affected many thousands of dollars being donated to this cause. Sometimes we do experience where an individual will approach one and tell them how the effect of their mitzvah had a tremendous ripple effect on them. "Thank you Hashem for teaching me that my main purpose in this world is to develop my emunah, ultimately trusting in You, and by extension, in the words of the sages, and extending it one step further, to believe in myself."

412 - I Love You!

Aug 18, 2025

4:25

366 - Nature Vs. Nurture

Jun 24, 2025

5:08

Emunah means belief, specifically, when I don't understand, I don't see, I nevertheless believe. Emunah is a personal relationship with Hashem that is just between me and Hashem. No one else can truly know the real level of another individual's emunah. In fact, you could have two people that, from our perspective, if we were to be painting the scorecard, we would give both of them the same score, because they both seem to be succeeding in the same areas in the same way. However, it is so important for us to remember that we do not see anything in this world in its true manner. Let us remember what the Torah commentaries teach us, that this world is called Alma d’Shikra, the world of falsehood. So many things in this world are upside down from its true expression of what they actually are, which we will only see and understand in the next world. Let us use an example to illustrate this concept. Take two individuals who experience a challenging situation, such as having an acquaintance steal a large amount of money from them. Now, we have learned many times that a perspective of emunah and bitachon would teach us that we are not to get angry. Of course, we would be permitted, and perhaps even obligated, to act in a practical way to try to recover our money. But nevertheless, we are completely forbidden from getting angry, because as the Gemara teaches, getting angry is a form of idle worship, because when I get angry, in a sense I am saying Hashem does not exist, God forbid, and therefore I have a license to get angry at this individual who brought this suffering upon me. Somebody who is living with an emunah and bitachon perspective, and always has Hashem in the picture, understands that every individual is ultimately a puppet of Hashem, and therefore just like it would be insane if somebody hits me with a broomstick, to start punching and shouting at the broomstick, because we all understand there is something behind the broomstick, the individual who is hitting me; in the same way if I am living a life of emunah and bitachon, it would be absolutely insane to get angry at that individual. So let us take two individuals that respond successfully, in our eyes, to this situation. Both individual A and individual B, in their separate circumstances, who had an experience of somebody stealing a large amount of money from them, respond with calm without getting angry. In our books, both of these individuals have been successful in their emunah endeavor. It could, however, very well be that individual A has been created by Hashem with a natural tendency of being calm to all situations. Even without belief in Hashem, this individual might be calm through any and every situation, and not necessarily is their expression of remaining calm and not getting angry an expression that results from their emunah endeavor. And in the same way, it could very well be that individual B has a super strong tendency to get angry with every small disturbance. And that is the way Hashem created them. And nevertheless, in this situation, they somehow managed to respond with complete calm, not getting angry. And the way they got here is because of their tremendous work in their emunah and bitachon. Although initially, feeling inside themselves an almost natural reaction and response to get super angry at this individual, because that is their nature, however, through their growth and success in emunah and bitachon, they managed to respond in a completely calm way without getting angry. Both individual A and individual B have responded in a calm way without getting angry. However, in Hashem's books, these two individuals will have completely different looking scorecards. Let us remember, emunah and everything that is under the emunah and bitachon umbrella is not about anything we see nor what we understand. Emunah is about what we believe.

351 - Emunah = Tefillah

Jun 5, 2025

4:28

The Torah teaches us in a verse about Moshe Rabbeinu, “Vayehi yadav emunah”, and his hands were emunah. And the famous commentary on the Torah, the Targum Unklus, translates the words as, “and his hands were spread out in prayer.” What the Torah calls emunah, the translation that follows is prayer. One of the most potent expressions of our belief in Hashem is praying and talking to Him. If I sincerely believe that Hashem exists, an obvious go-to is talking to Him. We need to internalize the tremendous gift that Hashem has given us, the opportunity to daven to Him in numerous ways. We have the tremendous opportunity to daven the prescribed prayers with all their holy words every single day. And doing so is a very potent expression of our emunah in Hashem. The words of the prescribed prayers were authored by very holy sages who were able to imbue these words with tremendous holiness. So, besides for their basic meaning, which is really a personal conversation with Hashem, these particular words and format and order of prayer that has been prescribed by the early great sages are particularly potent and powerful. And we should certainly capitalize on the opportunity to daven the prescribed prayers every single day. What is important to remember whilst we are praying is to do our best to mean what we are saying. One of the great halachic authorities throughout halachic literature, the Chayei Adam, says that to pray without kavana, concentration and meaning and intention is comparable to a body without a soul. Although the words of the prayers themselves are very holy, a very important component of the prayers is to mean what we are saying. For some people, understanding the words may be easier. For others, more preparation might be necessary, such as finding time to learn the meaning of the prayers and the words of the prayers so that when we do pray, they are more meaningful and we understand more what we are saying. Besides for the prescribed prayers, however, we have the constant opportunity every moment of the day to talk to Hashem in our own words, which is also very much considered prayer. The Chofetz Chaim, in fact, writes that the reason so much suffering was befalling the people of his time was because they only prayed the three prescribed prayers every day. But because these prayers are something that we repeatedly do day by day, he writes, we become habituated to the prayers and sometimes they become monotonous, to the point that we don't sincerely mean the prayers anymore. And therefore, says the Chofetz Chaim, multiple times a day a person should talk to Hashem in their own words because the nature of our own personal prayer is to be much more sincere and real. What a privilege! We have the opportunity every single day both to pray the prescribed prayers as well as to talk to Hashem in our own words.

352 - Need Help?

Jun 6, 2025

4:43

The famous words in the Torah, “ein od milvado” - there is nothing else in the world except for Hashem, mean that everything in the world is completely under Hashem's control and guidance. That being the case, it's sometimes difficult to understand why we need to do anything. Because if Hashem runs the show 100% and my efforts do not make any difference, as taught by the Torah commentaries, why do I need to do anything? And the simple answer is that Hashem has commanded us that even though He does everything, we still have an obligation to do what is called hishtadlus, to make our own effort. What is super vital to remember is, as the Mesillas Yesharim writes clearly that although we have a mitzvah, an obligation to make our own effort in whatever area that may be, we are to remember that our efforts have no effect on the final result. We do not and cannot help Hashem. Hashem runs the show exclusively. The Rambam in his 13 principles of faith writes, “He alone did everything, does everything and will do everything.” It is not a partnership together with Hashem where we are helping Him. He exclusively runs the show. When it comes to the mitzvah of hishtadlus, if one needs to make a living, of course, one's parnassah comes exclusively from Hashem, but I have a mitzvah, an obligation to make my own effort, even though that effort does not affect the final result and does not help provide for my parnassah one iota. In the same way, if somebody is sick, the first thing to do is only turn to Hashem because again, that's all that really counts. Only He can make me better and a visit to any doctor actually, in its true essence, does absolutely nothing. However, again, I have an obligation because Hashem said so, to do hishtadlus, to go visit the doctor or take medication. However, even under the wing of hishtadlus, the Chazon Ish writes something fascinating about hishtadlus itself. He says that 50% of our obligation towards our hishtadlus is accomplished through tefillah, davening, because Hashem can send our salvation, be it parnassah, recovery from illness, the spouse one is looking for, children or whatever other area it may be. Hashem can send that salvation even without us needing to pray. In a sense, our prayers are a form of hishtadlus, of our own efforts to try to accomplish something. So says the Chazon Ish that 50% of our efforts even within hishtadlus should be directed towards tefillah. What a tremendous opportunity we have every single day to talk to Hashem. Anything and everything that we may be going through, we can talk to Hashem about. And remember, we have an obligation to fulfill our mitzvah of hishtadlus. So, we have to do what we think will help. Visit the doctor, make an effort in business and whatever other area may be relevant. But never to forget that 50% of our efforts should be directed towards our davening, our personal conversations with Hashem.

353 - 180° Turnaround

Jun 8, 2025

5:16

Torah commentaries teach that the distance between knowing Emunah in our heads as opposed to truly and sincerely internalizing that Emunah in our hearts is greater than the distance between heaven and earth. Most believing Jews understand that prayer to Hashem makes an impact and is certainly a worthwhile investment on our part. However, internalizing the true extent of just how powerful each word of prayer we utter creates is our life's work. Imagine for a moment that every time we would pray, we would automatically receive a million dollars. If that were the case, we would probably be praying all day because we are experiencing the results to our action of prayer. Our job and purpose in this world is specifically to believe when we don't experience and we don't see the impact of our efforts. Making efforts to internalize just how powerful every single prayer we make is will inspire us to pray with more concentration, to mean what we say, to be more sincere in our personal conversations with Hashem, and to devote more time to such a holy and potent and powerful endeavor. There is a well-known story that took place many years ago of a man whose wife gave birth. Two weeks later, she became very seriously ill. When they visited the doctor, after he assessed the situation, he called for immediate surgery due to the urgency of the situation. The man, who lived in Bnei Brak, the hometown of the great rabbi, the Chazon Ish, decided that although the diagnosis seemed clear, he nevertheless would like to consult his rabbi, the Chazon Ish, and receive his blessing to move forward with the surgery. When the man arrived at the shul of the Chazon Ish, it was just before the time of the mincha prayers. The man went over to the rabbi, the Chazon Ish, and reported his case. He said, Rabbi, my wife gave birth two weeks ago. Now she has become ill, and after visiting the doctor, he's advised us that we need to go ahead and perform surgery immediately. However, the doctor also told us that as a result of the surgery, my wife will never be able to have any more children. So, the rabbi, the Chazon Ish, looks at the man and says, “I'm sorry about the situation, that the prognosis is that you will not be able to have more children. However, the halacha is clear. When someone's life is in danger, you certainly are obligated to go ahead and perform the surgery, even though you will not be able to have children in the future.” And then suddenly the Chazon Ish turns around to the man and says, it's time for mincha now, and they begin to daven mincha together. After mincha, the Chazon Ish turns around to the man and says, please can you repeat your situation to me? And the man does so. The Chazon Ish says, “do not go ahead with the surgery.” The man obviously is very perplexed. The Chazon Ish was very clear before mincha that this is the law, you've got to go ahead with the surgery. It's pikuach nefesh; someone's life is at stake. However, just after mincha, the Chazon Ish had a 180 degree turn and said, you should not go ahead with the surgery. The Chazon Ish explained himself. He said, “that's what we said before we davened mincha. But after we davened mincha and I used the opportunity to ask Hashem that your wife should not have to undergo the surgery and thereby not be able to have children in the future, everything's changed.” In the end, they did not go ahead with the surgery and against all statistics, this woman had nine children after that episode. Of course, we all have to be responsible in the way we deal with situations. And perhaps only people as great as the Chazon Ish would be able to make such a decision as in this story. However, what is certainly applicable to every one of us is the power of tefillah. Tefillah can change situations. Every single one of us has the constant opportunity of tefillah.

354 - Front Lines

Jun 9, 2025

4:49

In Hashem's great kindness, He has given us many opportunities of how to impact our lives in this world, as well as impact our future lives in the next world. One of the potent gifts Hashem has given us is the power of tehillim. Tehillim are comprised of 150 chapters that David HaMelech authored. If one studies tehillim, one will quickly realize that these are King David's personal conversations with Hashem, both through times of joy and happiness, as well as through times of sorrow and challenge, David HaMelech was in constant communication with Hashem. In addition to these words of tehillim being David HaMelech's personal and meaningful words of conversation with Hashem, these words are also imbued with a special holiness based on divine inspiration, ruach hakodesh, that David HaMelech had. Each one of us has the constant opportunity to recite the holy and potent words of tehillim. If we were to see the results of what happens when we recite the words of tehillim, we would not be able to stop because it would be so obvious how impactful we are being on the whole world. But again, our job in this world is to internalize the belief, the emunah, specifically when we don't know and we don't see the results. Imagine for a second that there was going to be an atomic bomb on a certain country and you knew if you were to recite tehillim now for 20 minutes, you will prevent that atomic bomb from landing. Most people would go ahead with those 20 minutes, even if they're very tired, because again, you're stopping an atomic bomb from wiping out an entire country. In the same way, imagine for a moment that the spiritual impact and result of my recitation of tehillim is going to bring about such blessing to win the war that we're going through, that no more soldiers will be killed or even injured, that anybody who's been taken into captivity will be returned home safely, and that those who have already been injured will have a complete recovery and that we will have complete victory over the enemy. The army that is fighting this war is comprised of many different segments. There are the soldiers on the front lines, then you have the cook in the kitchen who has to cook food for the soldiers, and in a sense, the soldier on the front lines who is risking his life on a constant basis can feel a much greater sense of accomplishment and purpose and doing something meaningful, being right on the front lines, fighting for his country, whereas the cook in the kitchen might feel of less purpose. Of course, we all understand that the army is a team and every segment is needed. If the cook would not be there, there would be no food for the soldiers and they would not be able to fight, and therefore, every component of the army is needed. We might not be able to be on the front lines fighting in the army. However, if we internalize the Emunah, that the spiritual impact and power of Tehillim is what will send success to our soldiers, we will recite our Tehillim with the same dedication as those soldiers fighting on the front lines. Now again, our job in this world is specifically to believe when we don't see nor understand the results of our actions. We are taught from the Torah sources that the power of Tehillim is so great that it affects our world in ways we cannot even imagine. We all have the constant opportunity to say the words of Tehillim.

355 - Back From the Dead

Jun 10, 2025

4:13

Our job in this world is to grow in our belief in Emunah and everything that that entails. As we've discussed, one of the potent areas Hashem has given us the privilege to be able to tap into is the words of Tehillim, the holy words of David HaMelech. And again, our job is to believe that our recitation of the words of Tehillim are making an impact. Even though we may not be able to experience and see the result of our actions, our job is to grow in our Emunah, in our belief that just like if a soldier is fighting in a war, when that soldier makes an effort and shoots a terrorist with his gun and sees the direct result of his actions, because the terrorist is now dead. In the same way, when we say Tehillim, we are protecting the people around us, we are making a tremendous impact in ways that we cannot imagine. The following story that Rebetzin Tehillah Abramov recounts helps us to internalize a little bit of how the words of Tehillim are actually making a difference. There was a woman driving on the highway in Israel and suddenly there was a tremendous traffic jam, a complete standstill. This woman's custom was that whenever she'd be in a situation such as this, she would begin to say the words of Tehillim. Eventually, the traffic cleared up and she went home. About three months later, this woman attended a parents-teachers meeting at her child's school, and while she was there, another woman came over to her and said, “Hi, I know you don't know me, but I just want to thank you with all my heart for saving my life.” So, the woman says, “those are very kind words, but I have no idea what you're talking about.” And the woman who approached her says, “do you remember about three months ago, you were stuck on the highway in a standstill traffic jam? And whilst you were stuck in the traffic, you began to recite Tehillim?” Now this woman is completely taken aback because she didn't tell anybody in the world about the traffic jam, nor about the fact that she recited Tehillim in the car. So, she's in complete wonder how this other woman knows that she was saying Tehillim in that traffic jam. So, the woman who approached now says, do you know the reason for that traffic jam on that day was because there was a car accident on the highway. I was the individual in that accident. And the accident was so severe that I actually died, what's called a near death experience. And she reported to the lady, I was floating above my car higher and higher because I was leaving this world. And suddenly there were some alef-beis letters that emerged from your car and pushed me back down into my car, which is when I came back to life, went to hospital, got the treatment I needed, and here I am. There are many, many stories recounted in a similar manner. But the bottom line is that there is no question that our words of Tehillim are making a tremendous impact. We all have the opportunity to say the holy words of Tehillim.

356 - The Cutest Baby

Jun 11, 2025

4:51

Our goal in this world is to train ourselves to truly and sincerely believe and trust in Hashem's prescription. Hashem commanded us to perform many mitzvos. Some of them are easier to understand with our limited understanding, whereas other mitzvos are more difficult to understand. For example, Hashem commanded us to visit a sick person. That is very logical, even in our minds, that's a nice thing to do. Honouring one's father and mother is also a logical mitzvah. However, many mitzvos are counterintuitive. If we lived at a time where we were able to absolutely ascertain who belonged to the nation of Amalek, picture this situation, a cute little two-year-old child, the cutest child you've ever seen. Hashem gives you a mitzvah now, you need to go and kill that child. One second, I don't want to be the one to do that, that's not nice, that's dangerous, people are going to view me as a murderer. Again, the reason we perform mitzvos should not be based on our own agreement to Hashem's will, as if He needs our stamp of agreement. Rather, we fulfill the mitzvos just because Hashem said so. In fact, one of the great halachic commentators, the Aruch HaShulchan, writes that the reason we honour our father and mother is not because we appreciate them. We honour them because Hashem said so. Any mitzvah we perform, we do so just because Hashem said so. The Vilna Gaon writes that when it comes to the mitzvos that the rabbis enacted, many times, even when the reason that the rabbis have given us for performing this mitzvah is no longer applicable, we nevertheless still perform the mitzvah. And the reason for this is because there may be a thousand reasons for the performance of this mitzvah where the rabbis decided to disclose only one of the reasons. Again, our belief in Hashem and our belief in the great sages who were given the license to enact certain mitzvos, we perform those mitzvahs just because we believe that that is what we're supposed to do, even if we don't understand. This line of thinking will help us to take all of the mitzvos and all their intricacies much more seriously. For example, we may say some lashon hara - bad words to another individual in privacy about someone else. And let's say these words never get out, no one ever discovers this private conversation of mine. How serious can what I did be? We know that the whole main purpose behind the prohibition of not speaking lashon hara about another is so that you shouldn't cause them detriment. But in this case, it was kept private and nothing actually happened. So how bad could it be? If we apply our own line of reasoning for the performance of the mitzvos, we could be led to making grave mistakes. But if we treat the mitzvos as an expression of our emunah in Hashem - I believe in Hashem, and if He instructed me to do something, I believe in that. And if He told me that Lashon Hara, whether the negative information I related privately to someone was ever discovered, or even if it wasn't, if Hashem said that that is one of the most serious sins sometimes comparable to the three cardinal sins, idol worship, immorality and murder. Really? Is it that bad? If it's based on my belief in Hashem, I have no questions, because I believe Him. When we do mitzvos, let us internalize that the reason we are doing so is not because we understand, but because we believe.

357 - Black & White Angels

Jun 12, 2025

5:40

We've been discussing that one of the highest expressions of Emunah is the performance of Hashem's mitzvos and specifically to perform them just because He commanded me to and not because I understand or agree with His understanding. It is so vital to perform the mitzvos based on our belief in Hashem rather than based on our agreeing with His logic because when we perform the mitzvos based exclusively on our Emunah in Hashem, our belief in Hashem, we will treat every mitzvah with highest priority and do our best to fulfill them with all their intricacies. The Mishnah in Pirkei Avos says that we ought not to treat one mitzvah as less important than another because truthfully, we don't know which are the more important mitzvos. One mitzvah may seem to us like something very potent and big and another mitzvah might seem to us as something very insignificant whereas in truth it might actually be the other way around. How are we supposed to find out? In this world we don't find out. In the next world we will see but in this world, we are just to believe. If Hashem commanded us to do something even if in our eyes it seems to be insignificant, we nevertheless ought to treat it as if it was the most important mitzvah in the world. And in the same way if the guidelines within a certain mitzvah are very intricate and detailed, at first glance we may think - why are these intricacies so important? Let me just use a bit of my own discretion in the way I perform this mitzvah? Again, if it's based on one's own logic, one might mistakenly be misled down that path. However, if we perform the mitzvos exclusively because we believe in Hashem, whether the intricacies and the logic make sense to us or not is a detail, we perform all the mitzvos as if they are the most important thing in the world as well as treat the intricacies with great seriousness. One of the classic halachic commentators, the Chayei Adam, records a fascinating episode that sheds light on this issue. He writes that there was a certain tzaddik who passed on from the world and now moved on to the next world where he had to give an accounting for all his actions and he was delighted to see so many what he calls white angels which represent the result of his good deeds, of so many blessings that he made, of so many acts of tzedakah, of so many words of Torah that he learned, of so many acts of kindness and many mitzvos that he performed. And then suddenly he saw some black angels which represent sin and he was quite surprised because he was a tzaddik and he really had a good record from his excursion in this world. So where did these black angels come from? And he was informed that these angels were created as a result of the blessings that he made without concentration. Now we may say, “look at least he made the blessings, that's a mitzvah.” However, on this man's level to say a blessing without concentration had tremendous serious consequences. If we view the mitzvah of saying blessings just based on our own logic because we have to thank Hashem for the food, so one may argue perhaps that it's not so bad sometimes to not have concentration on our blessings. If we however base our performance of our mitzvos exclusively on how the Torah guides us to do them both in terms of their details as well as the reasoning for the performance of the mitzvah, our approach to the mitzvos would be very different. As mentioned previously, the Chayei Adam also writes that if one says a blessing without concentration it is comparable to a body without a soul. A body without a soul is dead. We all have the opportunity multiple times a day to say blessings. Let us internalize how important it is both to say the blessing as well as to do our best to concentrate on saying the words to mean what we say and of course the more we learn about what the blessings mean the more we'll be able to concentrate and sincerely mean our words that we are saying to Hashem.

358 - Atomic Bomb

Jun 13, 2025

4:37

Imagine for a second that we were given the following offer. If we give $100 to charity today, we will prevent a certain country from dropping an atomic bomb. Even if it's difficult to get those $100 together, most of us would make a plan, because stopping an atomic bomb from falling is a very worthwhile investment to make.In a different scenario, if we were offered the following: If you are to sit down and say to Tehillem for one hour today, you will then cause a dying individual to be saved. Most of us would commit to that hour, even if it would be difficult, because we're saving somebody's life. Let us not forget, the reason we were created, as mentioned countless times by the Torah commentaries, is to have emunah in Hashem. Emunah means belief. Belief means I don't know, I don't see the results, I can't understand why what I am doing is important and exactly how it makes an impact. However, I believe that if that is what Hashem's perspective tells me, that is for sure the truth. That is what I believe. When we say a word of Tehillim, when we do a mitzvah, when we learn a word of Torah, when we talk to Hashem in our own words, our job is to believe. The Torah commentaries teach us that when we perform a mitzvah, learn a word of Torah, say a word of Tehillim, talk to Hashem in our own words, perform an act of kindness, or do anything towards our service to Hashem, even if in a sense we don't see any inspiration as a result of our deed, the Torah commentaries teach us that we are impacting spiritual worlds that are much bigger than we can even begin to imagine. If we were to know that just doing a certain good deed would make an impact in the world, like saving a dying soul or preventing an atomic bomb, in the same vein, if we were to know that performing a certain sin would bring about an atomic bomb on the world, most of us would think twice before performing that sin. Our job is to build our belief - to believe what the Torah commentaries teach us. When we perform a sin, we are destroying spiritual worlds that have an impact much greater than an atomic bomb on our entire physical world. And in the same way, when we perform an act of kindness, we perform a mitzvah, we talk to Hashem in our own words, we learn Torah, we are impacting and creating spiritual worlds in a way that is much more impactful than we could ever have on this world. We are not just saving an entire nation. We are not just saving the entire world. We are doing something much bigger than that. Our job is to believe that because we do not see those things happening. Remember, the only reason for Hashem creating us and placing us in this world is specifically to believe. How do I bridge this gap? The answer to all questions. “Hashem, I want to believe the truth. I am learning the information and trying to be inspired about the truth that my good deeds really make a bigger impact than anything I could imagine of this world. And also, conversely, when I perform a sin that is negatively impacting the higher worlds in a much deeper way than anything I could imagine could be affected in this world. Please Hashem, help me to internalize the truth that what I do is truly meaningful and help me therefore to really believe in You and really believe in the results of what I am doing. Hashem, please help me to believe more and more in You every single day.”

359 - Road to Humilty

Jun 16, 2025

4:48

The Torah records a verse which states that the humblest person in all time was Moshe Rabbeinu. We know that the Torah was written by Moshe Rabbeinu at Hashem's command. So, in a sense what is happening here is Moshe Rabbeinu is writing about himself, “I am the humblest man of all time.” Some Torah commentaries explain that true humility means that a person is able to write about themselves, “I am the humblest man of all time.” And of course this being counterintuitive begs explanation. And the commentaries explain - what is true humility? To deny the fact that one is talented in certain areas is not humility; that is just speaking untruth. True humility means to recognize that every single one of my talents and abilities stem 100% exclusively from Hashem. Moshe Rabbeinu knew the truth. He knew that he was excelling tremendously in the character trait of humility to the point that he could write the truth in his book the Torah and tell us, “I am the humblest man that exists.” However, the reason that that did not lead him to feel arrogant is because Moshe Rabbeinu was so clear that anything and everything that we are ever able to achieve is a direct result of Hashem's blessing. And therefore, there is no reason to feel arrogant or proud about the talents that Hashem has blessed us with. When one is living a life without emunah, mistakenly believing that they are the engine that drives their successes, sometimes they might be successful because that's what Hashem decrees, and sometimes they might not be successful because that's the way Hashem wants it. However, if they are successful, in a sense they are worse off than if they wouldn't have been successful. Because if we remember that the reason we exist, as the Torah commentaries many times explain, the only reason that Hashem created us and put us in this world is to have emunah and thereby earn our place in the world to come, and if Hashem has sent success our way, but we fail to recognize that that success was sent from Hashem, and we mistakenly attribute our success to our own efforts, that would be the greatest tragedy. Because although in our eyes this person appears to be successful, in the true lens of Hashem that we will only witness once we leave this world, when we see absolute truth, there is no success taking place here. Because this individual is attributing their success to their own efforts, which is tantamount to idle worship. The approach of one who is living with an emunah perspective would be to recognize that I cannot do anything without Hashem sending me that blessing in the first place. And therefore, if I am super talented in whatever area that may be, I don't feel proud to share that information with other people that I am excelling and succeeding in this area because I know that the only reason I can do so is because Hashem is giving me a gift. Of course, we are all supposed to make our maximum effort in a practical way to succeed in our endeavors in this world. However, what is the most vital point is to remember that without Hashem, we cannot even lift a finger. But with Hashem, we are unstoppable. A life of emunah leads to a life of humility, and true humility means to recognize that anything and everything I am able to accomplish is only as a result of a gift from Hashem.

360 - Defining Success

Jun 17, 2025

4:10

The Gemara recounts an episode where one of the rabbis had a near-death experience. He was considered to be clinically dead, and thereafter his soul returned back to his body, coming back to life. The Gemara recounts that when this sage was asked what he experienced during this episode, the sage responded that he saw the next world, the world where everything is upside down from this world. He explained further that many of the people which are considered to be success stories in this were considered to be the paupers in the next world, and many of those that seemed to be unsuccessful in this world were the true success stories in the world of truth. We need to remind ourselves that in Torah literature, this world is called a world of untruth, because we are not able to see via the lens of truth in this world. If I were to escort a blind man down a few roads, having to cross the street when the robot turns green, having to be careful not to stumble over the items and people that might be obstructing our way, the blind man cannot see where he is going; the only reason he knows where to go is because he believes that I am taking him to his desired destination. We need to remember that in this world, we are all considered to be like the blind man. We do not see where we are going, we can only believe that we are being taken to our desired destination. One day in the next world, our eyes will be open and we will see through the perspective of absolute truth. “Hashem, my Father, I know that You created me with Your main objective for me to have emunah, belief in You. I have been taught that this world is a world of lies, very often upside down to the true perspective of what we will experience in the next world. But I know, Hashem, that I am unable to experience or see the truth of that in this world. Hashem, it is so hard to hang on to this belief when everything else in this world seems to go against so many of the values of emunah. Please, Hashem, can You help me grow in my emunah and bring me to a place that I truly believe that everything that happens in the world is only for the best and can only be for the best, because if You are sending it to me, there is no question that You would only do good for me, even though I have no understanding and I cannot see why that is best for me. And at the same time, Hashem, please help me not to be misled by what is termed success in this upside-down world. Everything in this world that we live in, Hashem, in a sense is giving fuel to that mode of thought, to the successes of what people of this world consider to be successes. However, Hashem, I know the truth. I know that the Torah teaches us that many of the happenings in this world are actually upside down in the next world, and in the next world are not success stories. Hashem, please help me to find the real success story that will be an eternal success story.”

361 - It's All About ME

Jun 18, 2025

4:47

We know that the Sefer Torah is comprised of 600,000 letters, and the law is that if even one letter is either missing or damaged, the entire Sefer Torah is considered to be invalid and unusable. In the same vein, we are taught by Torah commentaries that there are 600,000 Jewish souls that exist. Now of course, there are many more than 600,000 Jews in the world, however we are taught that different parts of the same soul may be embodied by numerous different people. But in essence, in its source, there are 600,000 neshamos - souls. And Torah commentaries explain the connection between these two ideas, that just like by a Sefer Torah, if just one letter is damaged, that renders the entire Sefer Torah to be invalid in the same way when it comes to the Jewish people as a whole, if just one of those souls is damaged, in a sense, the entire Jewish nation is considered to be invalid. This idea can inspire us on two fronts; one, when we relate to other people, to realize that it doesn't matter how great the rest of the Jewish nation might be doing or succeeding, if one particular soul is missing or damaged, that affects the entire nation in an atomic way. The respect and the love that we ought to have for every single soul and person is much easier to appreciate when we realize that we are all so necessary. And in the same vein, for every single one of us to remember as an individual that not only have we been given an opportunity to live a life of Hashem's perspective with the Torah as a Jew, but we also have tremendous responsibility to play our part, because if we do not play our part, the entire nation is affected in an atomic way. Let us remember the important words from the Talmud that teach every single individual is obligated to believe that the entire world was created just for me. To digest that, all the millions of people that were created in the world, they're there just for my story. All the billions of dollars invested into all the different ventures in the world, it's all there just for me. The sun, moon, stars, planets, everything. One may say, but how can that make sense? We don't understand Hashem's workings of anything of how it can make sense. But if the Gemara tells us that everybody is obligated to believe that the entire world was created just for me, of course, if we are living a life of Emunah, we believe that. “Thank you, Hashem, for the incredible opportunity that you've given me to be a Jew. Every single moment of my life has the potential to be meaningful, to connect to you, to perform your mitzvahs, to do acts of kindness. Thank you, Hashem, for teaching me that the level of pleasure that we experience in this world of your true kindness is so small in comparison to what is waiting for us in the next world. What an incredible opportunity. Thank you Hashem for making me part of this nation. And Hashem, at the same time, I ask you to help me internalize the responsibility that I have. If you have put me in this world, and I am still alive today, it must be that there is some important role that only I can play. Please Hashem, help me to find my potential and fulfill it to its highest. Thank you, Hashem, for the incredible opportunity and responsibility of being a Jew.”

362 - It's All About YOU

Jun 19, 2025

4:24

The Mishnah in Pirkei Avos teaches us that the world stands on three things, Torah, Avoda and Gemillus Chassadim. We've learned many times the tremendous potency of Torah learning and how we are taught that the value of Torah learning is on par with all 613 mitzvahs put together and many other powerful fruits that we bear from Torah learning. The second pillar that the Mishnah says upholds the entire world is Avoda. The commentaries explain that in today's times Avoda refers to prayer to Hashem. It is so important to tap into this incredible opportunity and responsibility that each one of us has to pray to Hashem. This is one of the pillars that keeps the world going. In addition to talking to Hashem and praying for our own personal needs, it is a mitzvah to daven for other people's needs. The Gemara states that if I know somebody else is going through some form of suffering and I neglect my responsibility and ability to pray for them, I am classified as a sinner. Let us digest these words from the Gemara. It's not just an added act of kindness to daven and pray for somebody else who is suffering. It is our responsibility and obligation to the point that if we know somebody else is suffering and we do not daven for them, we are considered a sinner. In the same way, one of the leading Torah sages of the previous generation, Rav Moshe Feinstein, writes that even if we do not believe ourselves to be righteous people necessarily, nevertheless, if we know somebody else is enduring some form of suffering, we are absolutely obligated to pray on their behalf. And he explains the reason for this is because we do not understand the workings of heaven. It could be that for whatever reason, my prayer is the one that will be answered. Even though I might not be the righteous individual, in the heavenly calculations which are obviously beyond our understanding, the other righteous individuals may not have the power and license to help out with their prayers in this situation, whereas me, even though I might be committing many sins in other areas, nevertheless, if I pray, it could be that my prayer has the power to help out this individual. Let us also remember that the Gemara states elsewhere that when I pray for somebody else, I actually receive my salvation first. Of course, our main intention in praying for somebody else should not be because we are only selfishly thinking about receiving our own salvation in return. However, as a fringe benefit to give us inspiration, it is important to remember that the Gemara tells us as a fact that when we pray for somebody else, we will be answered first. Besides for the three prescribed prayers that we have the opportunity to pray every single day, every single one of us has the constant opportunity to pray to Hashem in our own words. Of course, it is important to pray about our own needs too but let us not neglect our responsibility to care about one another and pray for each other's needs.

363 - To Truly Give

Jun 20, 2025

4:36

We learned in the Mishnah in Pirkei Avos that the world stands on three things, Torah, Avoda and Gemillus Chassadim. Gemillus Chassadim refers to acts of kindness. So important is it to perform acts of kindness that that is considered one of the pillars that keeps the world going. We all have many opportunities on a daily basis to fulfill this tremendous mitzvah of Gemillus Chassadim, acts of kindness that upholds the entire world. Just giving another individual a smile or sending somebody a message that brings positivity into their lives is a fulfillment of this tremendous mitzvah. Of course, giving charity is one branch of the mitzvah of Gemillus Chassadim. If Hashem in His Torah is teaching us that the mitzvah of Tzedakah, one of the highest ways to perform the mitzvah of Gemillus Chassadim, is considered to be one of the pillars of the world, there is no question that that is the truth. We believe it even if we don't see or experience that truth. It is interesting to point out that when somebody gives charity to a poor individual, an observer would usually credit the donor as the righteous individual in the situation, because they are helping out the poor individual, and the poor individual is just receiving a gift. If we were to follow our own line of thinking, that would perhaps be the way we would view the situation. However, we are so privileged to not have to be misled to view situations by perspectives that can be mistaken and wrong. The Zohar HaKadosh, one of the holy books of the Torah, teaches us that in actual fact when a poor individual receives money from someone who is donating to them, in actual fact the poor individual is giving much more to the rich individual than the other way around. Although counterintuitive, again, we don't see the true impact of our actions in this world. We have to believe it. In fact, we will only see what actually truly took place through the absolute lens of truth in the next world, although I might have helped this individual tremendously in a financial way. Nevertheless, the spiritual blessing which I am now to receive is much greater than anything financial can buy. And in the same way, the Zohar states elsewhere that when Hashem loves an individual, He sends them a poor person their way. Because again, in our perspective, one might think, I don't really want to be bothered by somebody to have to give them charity, whereas in Hashem's perspective, He understands that the greatest gift in the world, much greater than any money can buy, is the opportunity to perform the mitzvah of giving tzedakah to the point that the Zohar says that if Hashem loves you, He will send you a poor person an opportunity to perform the mitzvah of tzedakah. “Thank you, Hashem, for the opportunity to perform this incredible mitzvah that upholds the entire world of Gemilus Chasadim. Sometimes it might be so easy, as easy as giving somebody a smile or sending a message, and at other times, giving charity or other forms of kindness. Hashem, please help me to internalize the truth, your true perspective, that when I give charity to somebody, I am gaining much more than they are gaining from my financial benefit. I don't see that with my eyes, Hashem, as you know, because you created me to exist in this world where my eyes do not see through the lens of truth. However, Hashem, I beg you, please help me to be able to believe in what you tell me. Thank you Hashem for the incredible pillar of Gemilus Chasadim.”

364 - Passenger

Jun 22, 2025

4:46

We live in a world where for many people the ultimate goal is to become a spectator and passenger and enjoy the pleasures that the world has to offer you. Very often the message that we hear and are exposed to in this world is that the ideal is to reach a place where I can just sit back, relax and enjoy and have everything done for me, where I can just be passive and enjoy pleasure. We are so privileged to have Hashem's perspective teaching us the true way we are supposed to live our lives. The verse states, man was made to toil - we were created in order to work and the Midrash states on that verse that if we do not merit, we will have to busy ourselves with the normal usual ways of the world, whereas if we choose to rather toil and work in the areas of service to Hashem, then Hashem will minimize our need to work and make effort in the usual areas of the world and we will have the privilege to spend more time in our effort and endeavor to grow in our service to Hashem. Everybody understands that in order to become a world-class piano player, it will not suffice for one to watch many videos and movies of people playing the piano. One might learn a few things by doing so, but of course ultimately in order to become proficient oneself, one has to spend many hours practicing on the piano and not just watching others do so. We live in a world where sometimes working and making efforts into one's own endeavors is seen as the first step which one kind of just needs to get through and the ultimate goal is to be able to just sit back and relax when one is finished one's work. The Torah's perspective, the only true perspective, is that just like we can understand that for the aspiring piano player, the only way that they could reach their goal is by their personal investment of their own effort and time and energy. In the same way, the Torah guides us as to how we can become proficient in our endeavor to serve Hashem. The Gemara states that everything is in the hands of Hashem except for areas of fear of Hashem. That means to say, we who are striving to live by the values of Emunah understand that ein od milvado means there is nothing else except for Hashem in the world and only what Hashem says goes. How much money I will have, how much serenity I will have, how much happiness I might have, and all the areas in one's life, they are all exclusively orchestrated by Hashem. And if one were to feel that they could add or subtract from Hashem's preordained plan, that could be tantamount to idle worship. However, the Gemara is teaching us that when it comes to our spiritual endeavors, there Hashem is telling us that we do have a say, to the point that the Gemara says that it is in our hands the level of success that we will achieve. It is so important to remind ourselves not to sit back and be spectators and passengers in this journey through life. Of course, we have to have it at the forefront of our minds that only Hashem preordains and orchestrates every single happening in our life, whilst at the same time we are taught that when it comes to spiritual endeavors, Hashem tells us that we are to view the situation then as if it is in our hands and make maximum effort to grow in our spiritual endeavors. We are so privileged to be able to live with the correct and true perspective, the only true perspective, the perspective of Hashem.

365 - Make It Happen

Jun 23, 2025

4:44

We've been discussing how the usual way of the world we live in very often directs us towards becoming spectators and passengers. Yes, many would agree that one needs to first work in order to achieve their success, but the goal, according to many with the mistaken perspective, is that eventually we finish our work so that we can sit back and relax to the pleasure and entertainment that the world has to offer. We are so privileged to be able to not need to be bound by any perspective that could exist, but rather have the true and only perspective, Hashem's perspective, the guidance of the Torah teaching us with an explicit verse that man was created in order to toil. In this world, every human being is meant to work hard, and as the Midrash puts it, if we invest our energies into the normal usual way of the world, then that's where we will exercise our obligation to work hard. Whereas when someone chooses to invest their energies towards their spiritual endeavors and service to Hashem, then as the Midrash says, their obligation to work in this world can be fulfilled in their effort towards their service of Hashem. And in addition to that, we've learned the Gemara, which states that in all areas of our lives, although we might have an obligation to work to fulfill the mitzvah of hishtadlus, to make an effort, nevertheless, according to all opinions, we are absolutely obligated to believe that our efforts have absolutely zero impact in the actual outcome of what we are trying to achieve. However, the Gemara points out that there is one exception, and that is that everything is preordained and exclusively orchestrated by Hashem, except for the areas of our spiritual growth, where there we have a particular power to impact our own destiny, unlike other areas. As discussed many times, the Torah commentaries mention that our ultimate purpose in this world is to grow in our emunah, belief in Hashem. It is certainly advisable and recommended to seek constant daily inspiration, to try to be able to live with the mindset of emunah on a constant basis. Everything in the world seems to go against a life of emunah, and therefore, even for those who are involved in spiritual endeavors through their regular routine, it would be very advisable to seek constant inspiration about living a life of emunah and bitachon on a constant basis. For some people, it might be most beneficial to listen to recordings about emunah and bitachon. For others, it might be beneficial to read books about emunah and bitachon. There is no question that this endeavor to seek inspiration on a daily basis about emunah and bitachon is a very worthwhile endeavor. However, it is so important that the process and journey does not end there. We should not fall into the trap of becoming a spectator and passenger in our spiritual endeavors, and in particular, in our journey and effort to grow and become successful in our emunah, in our faith in Hashem. Of course, the importance of the daily inspiration, listening, reading, or whatever it may be, is of paramount importance, but it is super important to not stop there and internalize and realize that the only way to ultimately and truly grow in our emunah endeavor is by investing our own effort, time, and energy into our emunah growth endeavor. Talking to Hashem is available to each of us at every opportunity, and the more we talk to Hashem, the more we develop our relationship, the more we will grow in our emunah.

350 - Torah Study (Part-8)

Jun 4, 2025

4:35

367 - True or False?

Jun 25, 2025

5:22

We've discussed many times that emunah ultimately is about what we believe, not about what we see nor about what we understand. In fact, as learnt numerous times, the Torah commentaries teach that this world is referred to as the world of untruth, where things that appear to be a certain way are in actuality very often the opposite. People and situations which are often defined as success stories in this world, many times in the world of truth, are defined as exactly the opposite. So how do we find the true perspective if everything in this world seems to go against the truth? In Hashem's books there is a beautiful teaching that helps us to internalize and digest this concept. The word for truth in the Torah is emes and the word for falsehood in the Torah is sheker. Both of these words are comprised of three letters each. If one takes a look at the word sheker which stands for falsehood, we will notice two things. Firstly, the letters that sheker are made up of are three letters of the Hebrew alphabet that follow one immediately after another. And Torah commentaries teach that this is because sheker, falsehood, is very easy to find. Just like to get from one letter of the alphabet to the next one immediately following it is an easy exercise. So too, to find falsehood and sheker in the world is very easy. In fact, if we do not work hard, we will find sheker. And in the same vein, if one looks at these three letters sheker, the way they are written in the Torah, they all stand on just one point. Some of the letters of the Hebrew alphabet in the way they are written in the Torah, the base and bottom of the letters are comprised of a line or numerous points. However, these three letters of the word sheker, all three letters stand and are supported by just one point. And the reason for this is because although sheker, falsehood, is very easy to find, nevertheless, falsehood is not something that stands solidly. And if one makes an effort to try to find the truth, the falsehood, the sheker can be knocked over relatively easily. And we find by the word emes, truth, exactly the opposite. The word emes is comprised of three letters of the Hebrew alphabet, the first letter of the alphabet, the middle letter of the alphabet, and the final letter of the alphabet, to teach us that, yes, it's going to be difficult to find real truth in this world because the attractions and entertainment that this world is always advertising to us is always ringing with falsehood the easy way out. However, if we make an effort, we can find the truth. It is going to be more difficult to find the truth than to find falsehood. But nevertheless, if we search hard, we will find the truth. And in the same vein, these three letters of the word emes, their bases are not just standing on one point in the Hebrew alphabet, they stand solidly. And that is to teach us that when one has found the truth, that truth will be difficult to topple over. When something is false, if one makes an effort, one will be able to topple it over and see eventually that that is not the true way. Whereas with truth, if one works hard to find it, one will eventually know that this is the truth, because that will be very difficult to topple over and move back towards a life of falsehood. Let us remember, everything in this world is about our belief, our belief in Hashem, our belief that ultimately what we see and experience for the most part is Sheker, is falsehood. And we have to believe the guidance of Hashem, the guidance of the Torah, for without that, just using our common sense logic, the things that we see and experience, we will be led to a life of Sheker. However, if we choose to live a life of Emunah, a life of belief, and choose to make our maximum effort to follow the guidance of the Torah, we can find the truth. The truth is difficult to find, but can be found. “Thank you Hashem for the opportunity to be able to have your perspective of Emunah and be able to find the truth in my life.”

368 - Chamber of Free Gifts

Jun 26, 2025

5:20

The Torah records how Moshe Rabbeinu was prohibited from entering the Land of Eretz Yisrael, and having such a burning desire to have the privilege to enter the Holy Land, he poured out his heart in prayer to Hashem, begging Him to override the decree prohibiting him from entering the Holy Land. We are taught that when Moshe Rabbeinu prayed to Hashem to have this privilege, he chose to verbalize and direct his prayer in a particular manner. Although Moshe Rabbeinu is considered to have been the most righteous man of all time, and perhaps he could have said to Hashem, “Hashem, look at all my righteous deeds, look how I've always led the Jewish people in such an incredible way”, and whatever else he might have thought of to try convince Hashem to give him the privilege to enter the Land of Eretz Yisrael, nevertheless, the Gemara teaches us that when Moshe Rabbeinu prayed, he did not make mention whatsoever at any of his accomplishments that might have brought him merit in order to make his prayer and request successful. We are taught that when Moshe Rabbeinu prayed, he prayed asking for a matnat chinam, a free gift from Hashem, saying, Hashem, not because of my actions am I requesting to go into the Land, but rather just because You are my loving Father, and I'm asking You, please, Hashem, give me this free gift, I have a burning desire to be able to go into the Land. And in the same vein, we are taught by Torah sources that based on one's request of what they are praying for, one's prayer is directed to different chambers in the heavenly worlds. And there are many considerations and factors which make a prayer successful or at times prevent a prayer from making its way into the chamber which will bring about one's desired request. Sometimes a person might not be worthy for their prayer to be answered because they might be performing sins in other areas of their lives. It could be also that this prayer was not said with enough concentration and intention and meaning to be answered, and there could be many factors beyond our comprehension why a prayer might not be answered in the way we would like it to be. And in the same way, what if I don't have any merits, or at least related to this prayer, the area that I'm asking for, what if I have sinned and messed up in this particular area many times, and in a sense, how could I have the audacity to ask Hashem to help me in this particular area? Or let's take an individual who might not have any merits. Do they then not have a right to pray? And if they do, how do we expect their prayer to make it through the many barriers at the entrance of the heavenly chambers? And we are taught that there is one chamber called the otzar matnas chinam, the heavenly chamber of free gifts, that even though I am not worthy to have my prayer answered based on my acts and my merits, nevertheless, the way the prayer is verbalized and directed is by saying: “Hashem my Father, I have a burning desire to become a mother of a child. For whatever reason, in your calculations, Hashem, you have made it difficult for me to be able to have children. And Hashem, I know that anything and everything that you do can only be for the best, because ultimately, you created me only because you wanted to give to me. And whatever you do in my existence for sure will be for my best. However, at the same time, you, Hashem, have taught us that we have the opportunity and ability to be able to talk to you about anything and everything that we desire. And Hashem, I am begging you with all my heart, I really would love to become a mother and be able to parent a child. Even if the doctors have said it is something with very low possibility, I know that you are completely beyond any of the doctor's predictions and calculations. Hashem, I am not asking you because of my merits or the good deeds that I have done. I am asking you, please bless me with a child just because you are you and you love me. Please, Hashem, grant me the gift from your Otzar Matnas Chinam, your heavenly chamber of free gifts. Thank you, Hashem, for all the gifts that you give us on a constant basis. And thank you, Hashem, for your heavenly chamber of free gifts.”

369 - The Gift of Shabbos

Jun 27, 2025

4:43

If we are to ask ourselves, what is the greatest gift that we could give to another individual? We might come up with different answers based on our perspectives and preferences. The Gemara tells that Hashem approached Moshe Rabbeinu and told him, “I have a great gift and this great gift that is full of goodness is called Shabbos.” Although we might have some understanding about the great gift and opportunity that we have each week as Shabbos approaches, it is motivating and inspiring to highlight that of all the things in the world, Hashem specifically chose Shabbos to be termed the great gift. There are many ideas behind the holiness and greatness of the tremendous gift of Shabbos that we have the opportunity to embrace every week. As always, with every mitzvah, our approach should not be based on our understanding and agreement to Hashem's command, but rather we should perform Hashem's mitzvos based on the belief that we trust Him, that if He said, this is what is good for us, this is the greatest gift in the world, whether we understand or we don't, we treat the mitzvah in the way that Hashem has presented it. And in this case, Shabbos, we believe, is the greatest gift. Just to highlight with one example what the Kabbalists teach about the potency of Shabbos - the effect of Torah learning during a regular weekday, we know, is equal to the potency of all the mitzvos put together. And we are taught that on Shabbos, the potency of every single moment of Torah is multiplied by a thousand. There are many reasons and explanations for the incredible gift of Shabbos and the holiness that comes with it. The Gemara states that a person who takes large steps loses one five hundredth of their eyesight by taking those large steps. And the Gemara thereafter says, well, what if one already took those large steps, how do they rectify their eyesight? And the Gemara says that the way to rectify one's eyesight is on Shabbos at the time of Kiddush. There are many explanations to what the exact meaning behind this Gemara is. I once saw a beautiful explanation that when the Gemara says that a person who takes large steps loses their eyesight. This means to say that during the week when we are busy, distracted by our many commitments and endeavors, in a sense we lose our eyesight and vision about what is important. But as Shabbos comes and now, I am unable to be involved with those distractions, I now have the space to focus on the true important things in life. Why do I exist? What is my purpose in this world? If I were to leave this world, am I happy where I am holding? Many of these questions are not things we usually think about whilst busy with our day-to-day activities. But as Shabbos comes and we turn off the distractions, we have the opportunity to focus on the real important matters that will make a difference for us eternally. We are all so privileged to have the opportunity and gift of Shabbos every single week, and everything that Shabbos and its holiness comes with. May we all merit to use the gift of Shabbos to further our spiritual endeavors, our Torah learning, our mitzvah performance, and our personal relationship with Hashem. “Hashem, thank You so much for this incredible gift of Shabbos. Thank You for this sacred time that You have given me to be able to turn off the distractions and focus on the real things that truly matter for my eternal life. Thank You Hashem for the incredible gift of Shabbos.”

370 - More Pleasure?

Jun 29, 2025

5:22

We've discussed many times that our job in this world is to believe specifically when we don't see or when we don't understand. We are also called on to have emunah, to believe that with regards to every single one of us, the amount of pleasure that we are destined to experience in this world has been preordained Not only that, as we've learned previously, the Torah commentaries teach that we ourselves, before we came down into this world, prescribed the exact happenings of what will be best for us throughout our lives. And therefore, the amount of pleasure that we are due to experience, we have already prescribed and preordained before we came into this world. When we indulge in some form of forbidden pleasure, we ought to remember Hashem has already preordained the exact amount of pleasure that we are due to receive. And therefore, if we opt to receive some of that pleasure in a forbidden way, we are now detracting from some of the pleasure that Hashem had destined to give to us in a permissible way. The amount of pleasure that Hashem decreed that we will experience will for sure make its way to our lives, because if Hashem decreed so, we believe that that will for sure happen. We are called on to choose to experience that pleasure in a permissible way. When we choose to experience pleasure in a forbidden way, committing a sin, then not only are we using up the pleasure that Hashem has already predestined for us, but also we are committing a sin which has consequences waiting for us in the next world. Whereas when we opt to follow Hashem's commandments and stay away from any form of pleasure which could be related to sin, we will then receive our full measure of pleasure in this world, but in a permissible way. Thereby, we will not have any trace of sin related to that pleasure on our record when we come to the next world. And not only that, it will actually be a mitzvah because it is a mitzvah to enjoy the pleasures that Hashem gives us in this world in a permissible way. What is important to remember is that we cannot make more pleasure for ourselves than Hashem has already preordained. Sometimes the evil inclination entices us to believe that if we perform a certain forbidden act, we thereby will gain by the pleasure that we will experience. But the truth of the matter, if one is looking out of the eyes of an emunah perspective, is that one cannot add even one iota more of pleasure than has already been preordained by Hashem. And all that pleasure can be experienced and received in a permissible way. We do not need to look to areas that are not permissible, areas of sin, because regardless, we will receive the pleasure that has already been preordained for us. There is a story told in the Gemara of a man whose evil inclination took over him, and there was a certain very beautiful woman of ill repute. And this man made his way over to experience pleasure in a forbidden way. And at the last moment, when the man had the opportunity to sin, something stopped him, and he decided to make his way back, and he did not commit the sin that he had come for. And this woman of ill repute was so inspired by this episode that in the end, she made her way to the town of this man looking for him, and she asked his rabbi to convert her, and eventually, the man who had initially seeked this pleasure in a forbidden way became married to this woman. One very powerful point we learn from this Gemara is that we believe that all pleasure was already preordained from Hashem. We have the choice of how we will experience that. We could, God forbid, opt to use up the amount of pleasure that has been preordained to us by indulging in forbidden areas. That would be a real shame, because that pleasure now will have serious consequences, more than we can imagine, whereas an individual who is able to take to heart that that same form of pleasure is already predestined to them, and one can experience that same pleasure in a permissible way, not having any taint of sin, but rather having a mitzvah of enjoying Hashem's world to their record. “Thank you, Hashem, for all the pleasure that you have given me and are due to give me, and thank you, Hashem, for teaching me that all the pleasure in my world can be obtained in a permissible way.”

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371 - Unlocked Prayers

Jun 30, 2025

4:07

The Gemara teaches us that tefillah, prayer, is one of the highest things in the world, and nevertheless, the usual tendency of people is to undermine the power and potency of tefillah. As with many areas, when a certain action is spiritually potent, the evil forces make their maximum efforts to try to deter us from tapping into these holy endeavors. Specifically, because tefillah is one of the highest spiritual endeavors within our reach, as the Gemara outlines, the evil forces in the spiritual realms cause our natural tendency to undermine the potency and power of tefillah. In times of old, before any of the prescribed prayers existed, it was common practice for a Jew to talk to Hashem in their own words, as clearly seen throughout the Torah and Tanach. And even after the prescribed prayers were enacted, it was common practice throughout the generations for people to converse with Hashem in their own words, as outlined by many Torah commentaries. We are so privileged to have both forms of prayer available to us on a daily basis, both the prescribed prayers, as well as the opportunity at any given moment to talk to Hashem in our own words. When it comes to the prescribed prayers, we are encouraged to articulate the words that have been formulated in the correct way, as well as do our best to mean what we are saying. And we are permitted, at certain parts of the Shemona Esrei, to add in our own words to make the tefillos more personal. And as taught by Halacha, in particular by the final paragraph, Elokai Netzor, there is a green card to talk completely in our own words to Hashem about anything and everything. A motivating teaching in Torah literature is that when it comes to our prescribed prayers, in a sense, the evil forces are expecting the prayers to be said because we are prescribed to pray three times a day, and therefore they have the jurisdiction on a spiritual level to prevent our prayers from going up, if perhaps we didn't have the right intention or for many other reasons. Of course, much of the time, our prayers do make it up, but they are on guard expecting our prayers, and therefore if there is an opportunity for them to prevent them from making their way up, they do so; whereas when it comes to our personal prayers, they are unexpected by the evil forces in the spiritual realms. Because we do not have a specific law outlining exactly when we are supposed to talk to Hashem in our own words, and therefore because it is our personal relationship with Hashem and varies from individual to individual, the evil forces in the spiritual realms are not expecting our personal prayers in order to try and make efforts to prevent them from reaching Hashem. “Thank you, Hashem, for the opportunity to talk to you at any given moment without even requiring me to prepare myself in any particular way. I never feel alone, Hashem, because wherever I go, I always can talk to you, and I believe that you are listening to me. Thank you, my Father, for always being my companion and walking together with me, no matter what I am experiencing, both through the sweet times in my life as well as through the difficult and challenging times.”