Meaningful Ideas on the Parsha

101

Beshalach - The Ultimate Caretaker

Jan 26, 2024

8:11

Normally servants take care of their master, but Hashem took us to be His servants and then took care us. Onkeles converted soldiers sent to abduct him by giving over this concept. How can we connect with it? Have a good Shabbos

102

Bo - Those Who Didn't Want To Leave

Jan 18, 2024

8:38

Chazal tell us that only one-fifth of the Jewish people left Mitzrayim, the other four-fifths perished during Makkas Choshech. Why did they deserve to die, and what can we learn from the story? Have a good Shabbos

103

Va'eira - The Destructive Nature of Ingratitude

Jan 11, 2024

8:43

Chazal say Pharaoh worked to ignore all the good Yosef had done for him, and it led to his denying Hashem. How does being a Kafui Tov lead to one being a Kofer? Can succumbing to the Yetzer Hara really take us down in such a dangerous downard spiral? Some ideas in the self-destructive nature of middas raos.

104

Shemos - Bearing the Burden With Others

Jan 4, 2024

10:19

In our introduction to Moshe Rabeinu, basically all the Torah tells us about the first 80 years of his life is that he was Noseh B'ol with others. Why was this Middah his biggest zechus to become the leader of the Jewish people? How does it differ from empathy and kindness? A little longer this week as I added a small message in honor of the Mashgiach Rav Matisyahu Salomon Zt"l, whose levaya was today. May we hear Besuros Tovos, and may the Mashgiach be a Meilitz Yosher for us all. Have a good Shabbos

105

Vayechi - Sharing and Transferring Mitzvos

Dec 27, 2023

9:41

Yaakov Avinu's brachos to Yissachar and Zevulun reference the partnership they have between them. Is Yissachar giving up a portion of his learning, can one buy another's zechusim? What about selling one's aveiros? Some insights into how one can gain a share inthe zechusim of another, and the greatness of supporting Torah. Hope you enjoy. Feel free to reach out for the Marei Mekomos. Have a good Shabbos

106

Vayigash - When We Fight Back & When We Don't

Dec 21, 2023

9:29

At the end of Parshas Miketz, the brothers are submissive with Yosef and prepared to stay as his slaves. However, at the beginning of Vayigash, Yehuda is threatening Yosef with war and destruction if he tries to keep Binyamin. What caused the change in approach? An approach based on the Ohr Hachaim, Lev Eliyahu, and the Kovetz Hearos to the topic of when we fight back, and when we don't. May this dvar torah be a zechus for refuah for Erez ben Hadas and Eitan ben Batsheva among the other hostages, and for refuah for Chaim Dov ben Minah Rachel and Avraham Nechemia ben Braynah among the rest of the Cholei Yisrael. Have a good Shabbos.

107

Miketz - Limiting The Suffering of Tzaddikim

Dec 15, 2023

9:53

Chazal tell us that Hashem often prevents Tzaddikim from suffering for more than 3 days. Fascinating applications Chazal make to Yosef's brothers going to jail, Yonah, Matan Torah, and the Akeidah. May this week's Dvar Torah be a zechus for a Refuah Shelaimah for Eitan ben Batsheva Yahalomi, among the rest of the Shevuyim. Have a good Shabbos

108

Vayeishev & Chanukah - The Refuah Before The Makkah

Dec 8, 2023

9:20

Chazal tell us Hashem caused Yehuda to give birth to the ancestor ofMashiach before they even went down to Mitzrayim. Why was that neccessary at this time? Some insights into the light of Hashgacha Pratis Hashem provides even in times of darkness. Have a good Shabbos and a Freilichen Chanukah.

109

Vayishlach - Seeing The Captors For Who They Are

Nov 30, 2023

9:57

The Torah tells us of all the kindness Yaakov provided for the city of Shechem, and how they then abducted and abused Dinah. Some thoughts on those who only seek to harm us, and how to approach them. May this Dvar Torah be a zechus for Erez and Sohar Kalderon, and Yagil and Or Yaakov, to have a full Refuah Shelaima, together with the other released hostages. Have a good Shabbos

110

Vayeitzei - Like The Dust Of The Earth

Nov 23, 2023

9:21

Yaakov was given a Beracha to be like the dust of the earth. The Medrash says a pshat it's a Beracha relating to the anti-semitism we will face in Galus. Some Chizuk in the face of the challenges we are facing today.

111

Toldos - Those Who Bless Us & Those Who Curse Us

Nov 16, 2023

9:24

Yitzchak blessed Yaakov, those who curse us will be cursed, and those who bless us will be blessed. What the Yerushalmi teaches about how we should react to the way they treat us, and what the Medrash teaches about the difficult times in our history.

112

Chayei Sarah - Handling Insulting Behavior

Nov 9, 2023

9:59

Chazal warn us not to daven to Hashem to punish our fellow Jews, even if they wrong us. They praise one who is able to be Ma'avor Al Midosov and take things in stride. Some insights from the Chofetz Chaim and the Tomer Devorah on how we can achieve such heights. May this Dvar Torah be a Zechus for Erez ben Hadas (Kalderon) to be rescued, together with the other hostages in Gaza. You can find a list of the names for Tehillim at https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Q6IU209js8fYUrFRoYBK3rKa9WLpuFjl/view and pictures of them at https://www.kidnappedfromisrael.com Have a wonderful Shabbos

113

Chayei Sarah - Handling Insulting Behavior

Nov 8, 2023

9:59

Chazal warn us not to daven to Hashem to punish our fellow Jews, even if they wrong us. They praise one who is able to be Ma'avor Al Midosov and take things in stride. Some insights from the Chofetz Chaim and the Tomer Devorah on how we can achieve such heights. May this Dvar Torah be a Zechus for Erez ben Hadas (Kalderon) to be rescued, together with the other hostages in Gaza. You can find a list of the names for Tehillim at https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Q6IU209js8fYUrFRoYBK3rKa9WLpuFjl/view and pictures of them at https://www.kidnappedfromisrael.com Have a wonderful Shabbos

114

Vayeira - Marching Past Our Doubts

Nov 1, 2023

9:39

When Avraham went to do the Akeidah, the Yetzer Hara tried to convince him he'd misunderstood what Hashem wanted. To some of the challenges, Avraham and Yitzchak said Al Minas Kein, we will do it regardless. Why did they respond that way, instead of defending their position? The Rosh Yeshiva's famous Shmuess in how to best fight those nagging doubts. Have a wonderful Shabbos

115

Lech Lecha - Learning How To Give

Oct 25, 2023

9:43

The Alter of Slobodka said one cannot be a Baal Chesed without serving Hashem, and one cannot serve Hashem without being a Baal Chesed. How does our relationship with Hashem help us be a bigger Baal Chesed? How can we learn how to do more? May we find more ways to bring zechusim for the sake of Acheinu Bnei Yisrael. Have a Good Shabbos

116

Lech Lecha - Learning How To Give

Oct 25, 2023

9:43

The Alter of Slobodka said one cannot be a Baal Chesed without serving Hashem, and one cannot serve Hashem without being a Baal Chesed. How does our relationship with Hashem help us be a bigger Baal Chesed? How can we learn how to do more? May we find more ways to bring zechusim for the sake of Acheinu Bnei Yisrael. Have a Good Shabbos

117

Noach - Lessons in Chesed From the Teivah

Oct 18, 2023

9:38

In these times my Rabbeim are advising that we increase in our Achdus and Chesed as a Zechus for Acheinu Bnei Yisrael. Perspectives on Chesed from the Alter of Slabodka, and lessons to learn from Noach's Chesed in the Teivah. See the greatness of devotion to Chesed, Chazal even tell us lessons Avraham Avinu took from Noach's behavior in the Teivah. May it inspire us to follow in their ways. Besuros Tovos and a meaningful Shabbos

118

Bereishis - Punishing the Inciters

Oct 11, 2023

9:36

The snake was not given a chance to defend it self, because it had incited others to the worst evils. Thoughts on how the Torah views such things, in light of the situation in Eretz Yisrael. May Hashem send us Besuros Tovos. Have a good Shabbos.

119

V'zos HaBracha and Sof Moadim - Appreciating the Love for Us

Oct 4, 2023

6:37

The Ohr Hachaim points out the greatness of Moshe Rabbeinu in blessing us before his death, even though we helped cause it to happen at this time. We can extend that to appreciate the Love Hashem has for us, as manifested in Hoshana Rabah and Shemini Atzeres. Thanks again as we come to an end of season 3, appreciate your being a listener. Have a Chag Kasher V'sameach.

120

Sukkos - Binding Ourselves Together

Sep 27, 2023

9:07

Chazal tell us that the 4 species we take on Sukkos represent 4 different types of Jews. Who is part of that group and is worthy of being bound together, and who is not? Have a Chag Kasher V'Sameach

121

Shabbos Shuva - Finding Our Weak Spots

Sep 20, 2023

9:04

It's a time for personal change, but Chazal tell us a person has a hard time seeing his own flaws. Some suggestions for gaining greater insight. Based on ideas from Mishlei, Rav Yisrael Salanter, the Baal Shem Tov, and Rav Mendel Kaplan. Gmar Chasimah Tovah

122

Rosh Hashana - Bringing Honor to the King

Sep 13, 2023

7:31

Rosh Hashana is the first of the Aseres Yamei Teshuva, yet we speak about Hashem's Malchus, not about our actions. How can we use the focus on Malchus to transform us and help us do Teshuva? As we come to near the end of 3 years of these shiurim, want to thank you for being a listener who helps keep them going strong. Have a K'sivah V'chasimah Tovah and a Gut G'bentched Yor.

123

Nitzavim - Feeling Healthy Shame For Our Aveiros

Sep 7, 2023

9:43

Chazal teach us that Klal Yisrael needed a new Bris with Hashem, due to their shame from the Chet HaEgel. How can we approach shame from our Aveiros in a healthy way, as opposed to an unhealthy way? Based on ideas in the Chiddushei HaLev and the book From Boys to Men Have a Good Shabbos and a Kesivah Vachasimah Tovah

124

Ki Savo - Upholding Every Single One

Aug 31, 2023

8:14

The Jewish People accepted a curse on one who doesn't uphold the words of the Torah. Rabbeinu Yonah and Ramban explain it means one who doesn't accept all the Mitzvos of the Torah and chooses to ignore one. Who does that include, and how do we approach it?

125

Rabbi Luban - The Purpose of a Shmuess

Aug 25, 2023

9:40

Wanted to share with you a special clip someone sent me from my Rebbe Rav Binyamin Luban Shlita. He really articulates the approach which is one of the foundations for what I am trying to do on the podcast. His ideas of how to show people how the Torah speaks directly to them in a meaningful way have formed the foundation of what I do here, even though I rarely do Chofetz Chaim style shmuessim. Hope you enjoy this special episode.

126

Ki Seitzei - Choosing Our Challenges

Aug 24, 2023

9:10

In the topic of fencing in a roof, Rabbeinu Bechayai teaches that we all signed up for our life situations during the original 6 days of creation. Explore some philosophical and practical applications of this idea. Have a good Shabbos.

127

Shoftim - The Essence of Chinuch

Aug 16, 2023

9:26

Rashi says the language of חנוכת הבית found in the parsha is the same language as חנוך לנער. You don't educate a house, what does chinuch actually mean? Some ideas and perspectives based on the Piaseczna Rebbe's elaboration of Rashi's idea in his Chovas Hatalmidim. Have a great Shabbos

128

Re'eh - Clinging to Hashem in Our Minds

Aug 10, 2023

8:48

The Torah tells us a Mitzvah to cling to Hashem in our minds. How can we develop the mindfulness to do that? Some ideas based on the Chayei Adam and others, that have the ability to enrich our lives. Wishing you a good Shabbos

129

Eikev - Loving The Ger

Aug 4, 2023

9:26

The Torah warns in 36 places that we must treat a ger with proper sensitivity. Here the Torah tells us a special Mitzvah to love a Ger. There are beautiful lessons in sensitivity and perspective in how the Rambam explains it, may we be zoche to able to learn from them. Thanks for being a listener. Have a good Shabbos

130

Vaeschanan - Paths To Loving Hashem

Jul 30, 2023

9:28

In Kriyas Shema we have the mitzvah to love Hashem. Exploring two approaches in the Rambam to how we can come to have more Ahavas Hashem, one based on Kriyas Shema.

131

Devarim - Dangers of Negativity

Jul 20, 2023

7:34

How could Bnei Yisrael have said a language that being taken to E"Y was B'Sinas Hashem? Ideas from Rabbeinu Yonah on the dangers of Narganus/negativity.

132

Tisha B'av - Understanding Sinas Chinam - Double Episode

Jul 19, 2023

18:47

The 2nd Mikdash was destroyed because of Sinas Chinam. What causes us to hate others, and how can we work on it? What are the parameters of Sinas Chinam, who are we obligated to forgive? Why is the Bar Kamtza story more an example of Sinas Chinam and concealed hatred then any of the other stories of cruelty and machlokes in that time? One of the most thought out shiurim I have prepared so far. It was a lot of material, so I split it into two clips. I think it's essential to think about, and I hope you find it meaningful. Thanks to all the people who helped with fleshing out this material, including Rabbi Yehuda Shmuelevitz, Rabbi Natan Lindell, Maor, Daniel, Dovid Tzvi, and the Kamin Kiddush Chaburah. Hope you have a meaningful fast. May we be zoche to the Binyan Hamikdash with the Bias Goel Tzedek Bimheirah Biyameinu Amen. This Episode is dedicated as a zechus for a Refuah Shelaimah for Yehuda Leib ben Rachel Chana

133

Masai - Emunah From Our Travels

Jul 13, 2023

9:16

The Ramban says the Torah lists the 42 places the Jews encamped in the worldness so we can see where they are to increase our Emunah. Don't we believe the Chumash that they lived on miracles, what does looking at a map add? An idea from the Ohr Yechezkel about making our Emunah real and being able to feel Hashem in our lives. Have a Good Shabbos

134

Pinchas - Humility and Bnos Tzelafchad

Jul 6, 2023

8:54

The Torah tells us Moshe brought the claims of the Bnos Tzelafchad before Hashem. Why didn't he answer the question himself? Two approaches of the Midrash in the importance of humility. Hope you enjoy. Have a good Shabbos

135

Chukas Balak - Rewards for a Mitzvah

Jun 28, 2023

9:46

Chiddushim in the rewards Og and Balak recieved for their actions. A famous Chofetz Chaim shmuess about Og and my own shmuess about Balak. Never discount the value of a Mitzvah. (Although it's a chiddush Balak counts as a mitzvah, but seems to me this is so.) Have a great Shabbos

136

Korach - When Great Men Fall

Jun 22, 2023

9:12

Chazal tell us that Korach was a great person, and are surprised he succumbed to this Nisayon. They also tell us that some of our other famous great ancestors were involved in this movement. Some ideas about how the Yetzer Hara can pose a risk to even the greatest of people, and how to judge such situations. Have a good Shabbos.

137

Shelach - The Dangers of Lashon Hara

Jun 15, 2023

9:35

Chazal tell us the Meraglim, and that whole generation, were killed out because they spoke Lashon Hara about Eretz Yisrael. Why was it the Aveirah of Lashon Hara, as opposed to the lack of Emunah and the Chillul Hashem? Some thoughts about Lashon Hara and the humility we need to develop to overcome it. May you have a wonderful Shabbos.

138

Behaaloscha - Shavings of the Leviim

Jun 9, 2023

9:57

The Torah tells us about 3 who had a Mitzvah to shave their hair, one being the Leviim at their inauguration. Why did they shave their hair and what can it teach us about confidence? Hope you enjoy. Have a good Shabbos.

139

Naso - Sheep of Integrity

Jun 2, 2023

9:32

The Inaugural Karbanos of the Nesiim all came with tremendous symbolism unique to their shevet. Yissacher brought a sheep to represent the integrity of Yaakov with the sheep of Lavan. Why is that what's chosen as the aspect of Yaakov to tap into here? Hope you have a great Shabbos.

140

Shavuos - The Connectedness of Everything in Torah

May 21, 2023

9:38

Why do Chazal talk about 613 Mitzvos, when there are clearly thousands of Mitzvos? An idea from the Maalos HaTorah about the connectedness of everything in Torah. This idea has always spoken to me, hope you find it helpful. May you have a meaningful Shavuos. Please make sure to listen to our other shiurim about Shavuos, and please rate us 5 stars to help others find the podcast.

141

Bamidbar - Valuing Privacy and Dignity

May 18, 2023

9:43

The Midrash says after the building of the Mishkan, Hashem stopped speaking to Moshe in public, because it was more Tznius to do it in the Mishkan. What does publicity have to do with Tznius, when we are dealing with Nevuah or Harbatas Torah? Some thoughts about privacy and dignity, based on the Chiddushei Halev. Hope you enjoy it, and are not offended by anything in this shiur. If you want something clarified, please reach out. Have a wonderful Shabbos.

142

Behar - Ribbis and Jewish Brotherhood

May 12, 2023

9:05

The Torah lists six La'avin on one who lends with Ribbis, and two on one who pays back Ribbis. Why is it wrong for one to make money that way, and why shouldn't the lender express gratitude? Hope you find in thought provoking. Beis Horaah l’Inyanei Ribbis hotline is at (845) 493-8604. Have a good Shabbos.

143

Emor - Uplifting the Kohen Gadol

May 4, 2023

8:59

The Midrash tell us the Kohen Gadol should be the Gadol in beauty, wealth, wisdom, and physical strength. Why are these important for the Kohen Gadol to have? Thanks for listening, Have a good Shabbos

144

Kedoshim - Sensitivity to Others Feelings

Apr 26, 2023

9:35

The Torah warns us not to embarrass other people. How can we be more careful not to hurt others unwittingly? Including some ideas from my Rebbeim Rabbi Tropper Zt"l and Rabbi Scharfman Zt"l. Hope you find it helpful. Have a great Shabbos

145

Tazria - Metzora - What Can You Learn from Tzaraas?

Apr 19, 2023

8:34

What can we learn from Tzaraas today? Lessons in Hashgacha Pratis from the Sefer HaChinuch. Thanks for listening. Have a good Shabbos

146

Shemini - Admitting Our Mistakes

Apr 14, 2023

8:28

Why was it important for Moshe to publicize that he had forgotten a Halacha? Should we share our mistakes when trying to influence others? Have a good Shabbos

147

Pesach - Vehi Sheomda For Our Benefit

Apr 4, 2023

7:14

What is Amda for us so that Hashem should help us in every generation? The understanding of the Netziv in why the dangers are also part of the Havtacha. Have a Chag Kasher V'sameach and a meaningful Pesach

148

Tzav - Changing for the Hotzaah

Mar 30, 2023

7:59

Why did the Kohen have to change from the regular Bigadim for the Hotzaas Hadeshen? Was it a dirtier job than whatever else was done in the Mishkan? Have a good Shabbos and a Chag Kasher V'sameach.

149

Vayikra - Distancing From Theft

Mar 23, 2023

8:35

Why do we burn the stomach of an animal on the Mizbeach, but not the stomach of a bird? Can one redeem himself for his financial shtick by spending some of the money on a Korban?

150

Pekudei - Splitting up the Mitzvos

Mar 14, 2023

5:39

Why does the Parsha keep repeating that Moshe did as Hashem had commanded him? How can we increase the number of Mitzvos in the Mitzvos we do?