Popular Shows by The Real Judaism Podcast with Rabbi Ari Klapper: Page 3

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Ep. 16 - Hashem Wants Your Body

Mar 11, 2025

15:47

Loving Hashem in your heart is important—but it’s not enough. The Ramchal teaches that Hashem doesn’t only want your thoughts and feelings; He wants your actions, too. From shaking a lulav to giving tzedakah, it’s the physical acts of mitzvos that bring holiness into the world. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores why Judaism places such a strong emphasis on the body and the physical world. What makes Shabbos meals, bris milah, and honest business practices so spiritually significant? And why do physical mitzvos elevate us in ways that pure intentions cannot? This episode will show you how Hashem calls on us to infuse holiness into every part of life—mind, heart, and body—transforming the ordinary into the extraordinary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 2 - The Battle for Real Pleasure

Mar 12, 2025

28:39

Is the world offering you real happiness, or just an illusion? We live in a world filled with distractions, desires, and an ever-growing culture that glorifies indulgence. But is what we see and chase after truly satisfying, or is it just a mirage? The Torah teaches us that pleasure isn’t inherently bad—Hashem created it for a purpose. The challenge is directing it towards real, lasting fulfillment rather than fleeting illusions. We explore the core struggle of Shmiras Einayim—not just as a battle of self-control, but as a deeper question of identity, values, and choosing what kind of life we truly want to live. Why do we feel drawn toward things that we know aren’t good for us? How does the Yetzer Hara manipulate our minds into thinking we have no choice? And most importantly—how do we reclaim control and start living in a way that leads to true satisfaction? Through Torah insights, powerful metaphors, and real-world examples, this shiur offers a roadmap to overcoming challenges, resisting the fake, and embracing a life of deeper meaning and true pleasure. If you’ve ever struggled with the pull of the world around you, this episode will give you the tools and perspective to fight back. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 78

Mar 12, 2025

2:47

The Mitzvah of Self-Improvement Bad middos often stem from ignorance, not defiance. A kind word can inspire growth more effectively than criticism. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 33 - What is Menucha?

Mar 13, 2025

25:24

Are You Really Resting on Shabbos? When we think of Menucha, we imagine a nap, a break from work, or finally slowing down. But is that what Shabbos rest really means? If so, why does the tefillah of Atah Echad speak of Menucha as something deeper—Menuchas Ahava, Menuchas Emes Ve’emuna? This episode challenges everything we assume about Menucha. True rest isn’t about stopping work—it’s about reconnecting to the source of life. When we exhaust ourselves in physicality, we become disconnected from our neshama, leaving us drained. That’s why Shabbos Menucha isn’t just about sleep; it’s a return to our spiritual core, a moment when the Shechina gives us the strength we’ve lost during the week. Through a powerful analysis of Chazal, Rabbi Klapper reveals how Menucha is not just a break—it’s the deepest experience of vitality we can have. If you’ve ever felt physically rested yet spiritually empty, this shiur will open your eyes to what true Menucha really is. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 79

Mar 14, 2025

2:35

Teaching Children About Middos Protecting kids from bad influences is vital. Learn how to guide them without fostering resentment or generalizations. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 80

Mar 16, 2025

2:29

Shidduch Questions: Protect or Harm? When asking shidduch questions, be clear and avoid gossip. Intent and precision are key to maintaining dignity and accuracy. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 17 - Clarity of the Purpose of Life

Mar 18, 2025

12:49

What is your purpose in life? It’s the most important question you’ll ever ask—and one that too many people never answer. The Ramchal teaches that every person must clarify their life’s goal before they can grow spiritually. Without a solid foundation, all efforts to achieve greatness will collapse under pressure. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper guides listeners through the process of identifying their core mission. How do you balance spiritual growth with practical responsibilities? Why is it crucial to establish life priorities before chasing success? Through powerful stories and relatable insights, this episode will help you solidify your foundation in avodas Hashem, ensuring your life is built on a purpose that will stand the test of time. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 81

Mar 19, 2025

2:22

Accuracy in Shidduch Discussions Exaggerations harm more than they help. Learn why honest and precise questions uphold both halacha and trust. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 34 - Recharging our True Batteries

Mar 20, 2025

23:53

What Really Recharges You? We talk about "recharging our batteries" all the time—but what does that really mean? Is it just getting more sleep, taking a break, or disconnecting from work? If so, why does Shabbos Menucha feel different than any other kind of rest? Shabbos isn’t just a day off—it’s a return to our true power source. Rabbi Klapper unpacks the deep connection between Menucha and Ruchniyus, showing how stepping away from Gashmiyus isn’t just about stopping work—it’s about reconnecting with the life-giving force of the world. Just like Hashem "rested" by withdrawing from creation, we recharge by moving away from the physical and immersing ourselves in Shabbos. But here’s the paradox: on Shabbos, even Gashmiyus itself is transformed. Eating, sleeping, and even enjoying food take on an entirely new meaning. What’s the secret ingredient that makes Shabbos meals taste different? Why does the Shechina come down to this world, instead of pulling us up? Discover how Shabbos doesn’t just give you a break—it redefines what real life actually is. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 82

Mar 21, 2025

2:26

Matching Expectations in Shidduchim Misaligned standards can mislead. Tailor shidduch answers to the questioner’s perspective to ensure accurate and meaningful discussions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 96

Mar 23, 2025

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Easing Conflict with Words In cases of machlokes, sometimes reframing someone's words as a foolish mistake rather than intentional harm can prevent hatred. If it truly reduces conflict, such speech may be permitted. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 83

Mar 23, 2025

2:24

Nostalgia or Lashon Hara? Reconnecting with old friends often leads to reminiscing—but beware. Casual conversations can easily stray into forbidden speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 18 - The Pursuit of Pleasure

Mar 25, 2025

13:04

What’s the point of life? The Ramchal answers clearly: Hashem created us to experience the ultimate pleasure. But this isn’t the fleeting enjoyment of good food or material success. It’s the highest form of joy—being close to Hashem. The problem? This world is just the hallway to that eternal pleasure, and too many people spend their time decorating the hallway instead of focusing on what really matters. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores how to distinguish between temporary pleasures and lasting fulfillment. Why does Hashem want us to earn our reward instead of giving it freely? How do mitzvos become the building blocks of eternal joy? Through relatable examples and timeless wisdom, this episode will help you focus your efforts on what truly counts—earning a meaningful life and an everlasting connection to Hashem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 3 - One Step at a Time

Mar 25, 2025

27:27

What if the key to self-mastery isn’t winning every battle, but learning how to keep fighting? So many people struggle with Shemiras Einayim and personal growth because they expect perfection. The moment they stumble, they assume they’ve failed. But what if failure isn’t falling—only staying down? The Yetzer Hara tricks us into thinking that if we can’t do everything, we might as well do nothing. But the truth is, every small step forward rewires our Bechira, making the next victory easier. This episode uncovers the Torah’s approach to growth—how making even the smallest improvements builds momentum. What happens when you push yourself just one minute past your limit? Why does Hashem care more about effort than immediate results? And how can we take control of our struggles instead of being controlled by them? If you’ve ever felt stuck in an endless cycle of setbacks, this conversation will give you the tools to break free, rebuild, and keep climbing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 84

Mar 26, 2025

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Teshuva for Words Unheard When Lashon Hara doesn’t cause harm, Teshuva focuses on Hashem. But when it does, the stakes—and requirements—are much higher. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 35 - Physical and Spiritual Rest

Mar 27, 2025

27:41

Are You Resting or Just Killing Time? Is Shabbos just a day off, a break from work? Or is there something deeper we often miss? If Menucha means rest, why does Chazal say Shabbos was given for learning Torah—something that takes effort? And if we’re meant to rest, why was an entire city destroyed just for playing ball on Shabbos? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper uncovers the real meaning of Menucha—not just stopping, but recharging. True rest isn’t just avoiding work; it’s about plugging into our ultimate life source, Ruchniyus. The more we connect to Torah and Hashem, the more energy we gain. But when we turn Shabbos into a day of just "passing time," we drain the very power it's meant to give us. Through striking examples, we’ll see why Shabbos isn’t about doing nothing—it’s about doing something real. If you’ve ever walked away from Shabbos feeling physically rested but spiritually empty, this episode will change the way you approach the holiest day of the week. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 85

Mar 28, 2025

2:46

The Cost of Speaking Lashon Hara can destroy lives and futures. True Teshuva requires admitting fault to the harmed party, no matter the difficulty. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 86

Mar 30, 2025

2:33

The Power of Ben Adam L’Chaveiro The Chafetz Chaim emphasizes that mitzvos bein adam l’chaveiro are of utmost importance—sometimes even more than bein adam l’Makom. Lashon Hara weakens our connection to others and must be avoided. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 19 - A Deeper Understanding

Apr 1, 2025

6:43

What is true goodness? We chase happiness and success, but often find ourselves feeling empty. The Ramchal reveals that lasting joy comes from one source—dveikus to Hashem. But how do we achieve that connection? The answer lies in the mitzvos. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper takes you on a journey to uncover a deeper understanding of mitzvos. Why are they the key to both spiritual completion and eternal pleasure? How can physical acts lead to ultimate closeness with Hashem? Through careful analysis and practical insight, this episode will help you rethink your avodas Hashem and see mitzvos not just as obligations, but as opportunities to build a lasting relationship with the Divine. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 87

Apr 2, 2025

2:28

Judging Others Favorably Speaking Lashon Hara about someone who fails in bein adam l’chaveiro is still forbidden, even if it’s true. Unless there’s a toeles, we must give the benefit of the doubt and refrain from gossip. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 36 - True Rest is Connecting to Hashem

Apr 3, 2025

33:54

What Does It Mean to Truly Rest? If Hashem "rested" on Shabbos, why does Chazal say He’s been mezaveg zivugim—making matches—ever since? And if Shabbos is a day of rest, why does it demand chiddush, new insights in Torah? Is Menucha just stopping work, or is it something much deeper? This episode, reveals how true Menucha isn’t about inactivity—it’s about reconnecting to the source of life. Just as Hashem continues to create in a different way, Shabbos is about shifting from physical work to spiritual renewal. Through powerful insights from Chazal, we’ll see why learning Torah on Shabbos isn’t a contradiction to rest—it is rest. And how the more we engage in Torah, the more we align our minds with Hashem’s mind, forging the deepest connection possible. If you’ve ever wondered why Shabbos feels different but couldn’t put it into words, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening when the world stops and the Shechina arrives. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 88

Apr 4, 2025

2:34

Lashon Hara and Personal Grudges Speaking Lashon Hara is even worse when it stems from personal revenge. Holding a grudge or spreading negativity about someone who wronged you violates multiple issurim. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 89

Apr 6, 2025

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The Hidden Revenge in Speech Even if one follows all conditions of toeles, speaking Lashon Hara out of personal satisfaction or revenge remains forbidden. We must examine our intentions before discussing others. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 20 - The Battle of This World

Apr 8, 2025

13:24

Life is a battle. Whether it’s chasing wealth, struggling with health, or navigating relationships, we all face constant challenges. But the Ramchal reminds us that these battles are by design. Hashem placed us in a world filled with distractions and desires—not to break us, but to refine us. The real question is: Will you stay focused on what truly matters? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the nature of nisyanos—life’s tests—and how they push us to grow. Why do both poverty and wealth bring unique challenges? How do we avoid losing ourselves in the fight for success? Through practical insights and deep Torah wisdom, this episode will guide you toward seeing life’s battles not as obstacles, but as opportunities to become stronger, more connected to Hashem, and truly fulfilled. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 90

Apr 9, 2025

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Hearing vs. Seeing the Truth Even if you saw someone sin, Lashon Hara is forbidden without proper justification. How much more so if you only heard about it! Avoid spreading rumors and assumptions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 91

Apr 11, 2025

2:36

The Danger of Judging Intelligence Lashon Hara isn't just about actions—it includes speaking negatively about someone’s intelligence, skills, or social status. Every person has strengths and weaknesses; who are we to judge? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 92

Apr 13, 2025

2:27

Speaking About Personality Traits Comments about someone’s personality—whether they are too quiet, too loud, or lacking intelligence—can easily turn into Lashon Hara or even Motzi Shem Ra. Choose words carefully. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 93

Apr 16, 2025

2:42

One Word Can Destroy a Life A single negative remark about a person’s intelligence can ruin shidduchim, business deals, or even a rav’s parnassah. We often underestimate the damage our words can cause. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 94

Apr 18, 2025

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Would You Want It Said About You? Lashon Hara damages self-esteem and causes unnecessary anxiety. Before speaking about others, ask yourself: Would I want people saying this about me? If not, remain silent. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 95

Apr 20, 2025

2:52

The Hidden Danger in Gossip Lashon Hara about a person’s midos is especially dangerous—it’s harder to refute and more readily accepted. Since no one can "prove" character traits wrong, they spread easily and cause harm. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 4 - Keep Fighting, Keep Rising

Apr 22, 2025

25:41

What if the Torah itself is the key to breaking free from the Yetzer Hara? Many people assume that learning Torah and personal struggles exist in separate worlds. But Chazal teach us that Torah is not just wisdom—it is the ultimate weapon against the Yetzer Hara. The moment we hold onto it, even if we aren’t perfect, we give ourselves a fighting chance. Letting go, on the other hand, almost guarantees failure. In this episode, we explore why learning—even in the midst of struggle—is the single greatest strategy for overcoming challenges. Why do people give up when they feel like they’re living a double life? How does the Yetzer Hara convince us that failure is final? And why does Hashem say, Just keep holding on? Through real-world stories, deep Torah insights, and practical eitzos, this shiur will give you the tools to stay strong, keep learning, and find the strength to overcome. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 21 - Run Away From the Yetzer Hara

Apr 22, 2025

9:11

We often hear that life is a battle against the Yetzer Hara, but the Ramchal teaches a surprising truth: the best way to win isn’t to fight—it’s to run. Why wrestle with temptation when you can avoid it altogether? The Torah’s wisdom is clear: don’t put yourself in a situation where you’ll need to fight. Stay far from danger, and you won’t have to fight as hard. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores practical strategies to keep the Yetzer Hara at bay. Why is prevention more powerful than confrontation? How do small choices—like avoiding certain streets or limiting distractions—transform our avodas Hashem? Through stories and insights, this episode will inspire you to protect your spiritual growth by creating boundaries that make success in Yiddishkeit easier and more lasting. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 37 - The One True Nation

Apr 24, 2025

38:05

What Makes Us One Nation? What truly unites Klal Yisrael? Is it shared history, customs, or culture? If so, why do so many other nations with common roots fall apart while Klal Yisrael remains one people—through exile, persecution, and time? We explore the deep achdus of Klal Yisrael—an achdus that is revealed most powerfully on Shabbos. Just as Shabbos declares Hashem’s oneness to the world, it transforms Klal Yisrael into a Goy Echad Ba’aretz, a people united not just by ancestry, but by their connection to Hashem. Shabbos is not just a gift—it’s the force that makes us a nation. Why does the tefillah of Atah Echad appear only at Mincha? How does Shabbos bring out our neshama’s deepest truth? And what does the Berditchever Rebbe’s famous insight reveal about Klal Yisrael’s unwavering loyalty to Hashem? This episode unpacks the power of achdus and why our nation’s strength is found not in numbers, but in something far greater. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 97

Apr 25, 2025

2:24

The Danger of Speaking About Rabbanim Lashon Hara about a Rav can destroy his reputation, diminish his ability to lead, and harm an entire community. Even if true, such speech requires extreme caution. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 98

Apr 27, 2025

2:39

The Hidden Harm of Criticism Belittling a Rav’s knowledge or a son-in-law’s status can damage relationships and reputations. Even true statements can be destructive when spoken without a clear toeles. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 22 - The Tests of This World

Apr 29, 2025

5:50

Why did Hashem put us in a world filled with distractions? The Ramchal teaches that Olam Hazeh isn’t just a hallway to Olam Haba—it has its own purpose. But here’s the catch: if you use the world incorrectly, it pulls you away from Hashem. If you use it wisely, it brings you closer. So how do we make sure we’re elevating the world instead of getting lost in it? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the delicate balance between enjoying life’s pleasures and staying focused on spiritual growth. What does it mean to elevate the physical world? How can everyday actions become part of your avodas Hashem? Through relatable stories and practical insights, this episode will show you how to see your tests in life not as burdens, but as opportunities to build yourself—and the world—into something higher. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 99

Apr 30, 2025

1:56

Speaking About Strength and Weakness Discussing a person's physical strength or health can impact their job, shidduchim, and reputation. Even factual statements can cause harm and require careful speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 38 - Spending Money for Shabbos

May 1, 2025

32:25

Does Hashem Pay Your Bills? Shabbos is Hashem’s day, but does that mean He covers the cost? Chazal tell us “הלווני ואני פורע”—spend for Shabbos, and Hashem will pay you back. But how far does this go? Should we go into debt for a lavish seudah? Does this mean we can indulge in anything as long as it’s LeKavod Shabbos? This episode uncovers the deeper meaning behind spending for Shabbos. Is the money truly for Hashem’s kavod, or is it about personal indulgence? The difference is everything. Through powerful insights, we’ll explore how Shabbos transforms us into royalty—not just in our meals and clothing, but in our mindset. Why do even the simplest Jews dress like kings on Shabbos? How does spending for Shabbos reveal our emunah? And what happens when we lose sight of what oneg Shabbos really means? Discover how to elevate your Shabbos spending, ensuring that every expense strengthens your connection to the King’s table. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 100!

May 2, 2025

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Judging People by Their Wealth Talking about someone's wealth—whether much or little—can lead to problems in business, shidduchim, and personal relationships. A person's worth is far more than their bank account. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 101

May 4, 2025

2:16

Context Matters in Speech The same statement can be Lashon Hara or praise depending on the context. A wealthy man learning three hours a day may be criticized, while a working man doing the same is praised. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 5 - How to do Teshuva

May 6, 2025

35:50

What if the hardest part of teshuva isn’t change, but admitting you need to? Teshuva doesn't begin with dramatic resolutions or perfect results. It begins with a moment of clarity—a quiet but powerful realization: Something’s not right. I want more. That simple decision to face ourselves honestly is already a massive step forward. Yet for many, this first step is the most frightening. It means confronting our habits, our history, and the stories we tell ourselves to stay comfortable. In this episode, we uncover the building blocks of real teshuva—what it means to separate recognition from action, how to avoid getting stuck in guilt, and why even a single decision to change shifts your entire direction in life. Drawing from Torah sources and personal experience, Rabbi Klapper offers a step-by-step path to teshuva that’s honest, practical, and sustainable. Whether you’re just beginning or returning again after a fall, this journey starts with one choice: to stop hiding and start growing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 23 - Influence on This World

May 6, 2025

8:50

What if even the simplest objects in your life—your table, your phone, or even the rocks beneath your feet—could be elevated through your actions? The Ramchal teaches that Hashem created the world with a purpose: to bring holiness into every aspect of creation. But it’s up to us to make that happen. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the profound impact of human actions on the world. Why did Yaakov Avinu’s stones fight for the chance to support his head? How does using the physical world for mitzvos change its very essence? Through fascinating stories and deep Torah insights, this episode will inspire you to see your surroundings differently. You’ll learn how to transform mundane moments into acts of kedusha that elevate not only yourself but the world around you. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 102

May 7, 2025

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How Perspective Changes Speech Spending $500 on Shabbos can be praise or criticism depending on financial status. The same applies to tzedakah. Identical words can have drastically different meanings. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 39 - The True Source of Our Salvation

May 8, 2025

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Where Does Salvation Really Come From? When we’re in tzarah, where do we turn? Do we rely on political leaders, financial security, or sheer strategy? If Hashem controls everything, why does hishtadlus seem so necessary? And if nature is just an illusion, what does that mean for the way we face challenges? Shabbos reveals the ultimate yeshuah—the realization that Hashem is not bound by nature. There are no rules He must follow, no limits to what He can change. That understanding alone is the greatest salvation a person can have. The Nefesh HaChaim teaches that a person who truly internalizes Ein Od Milvado—that Hashem is the only reality—becomes untouchable. The Brisker Rav’s unshakable calm when walking past Nazi soldiers, the dibbuk story that left Reb Elchonon Wasserman forever changed—these aren’t just miracles, they’re a shift in perspective. This episode explores how Shabbos itself is the gateway to true bitachon and why tapping into it can change everything. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 103

May 9, 2025

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Words Aren't Just Words Saying "he learns three hours" can be praise for one person and criticism for another. Lashon Hara depends not only on what is said, but how it is perceived. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 104

May 11, 2025

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Lashon Hara About Property Speaking negatively about someone’s home, business, or merchandise is Lashon Hara, as it causes financial harm. When multiple people spread such talk, the damage multiplies. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 24 - This World to the Next

May 13, 2025

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Imagine being crowned king for a year, only to be exiled to a deserted island once your reign ends. What would you do? The Ramchal teaches that life in Olam Hazeh is like a brief kingship, but our true destination is Olam Haba. The question is: are you sending your riches ahead or arriving empty-handed? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the importance of seeing this world as preparation for eternity. How do everyday actions impact our ultimate reward? Why does Olam Haba depend entirely on what we accomplish here? Through relatable stories and powerful Torah insights, this episode will inspire you to focus on what really matters—building a life that ensures your journey to the next world is filled with meaning and lasting impact. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 105

May 14, 2025

2:13

Undoing Accepted Lashon Hara If one has already accepted Lashon Hara as truth, teshuva requires working to uproot that belief. The best solution? Avoid believing it in the first place. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 40 - Shabbos and the Avos

May 15, 2025

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How the Avos Experience Shabbos Avraham rejoices, Yitzchak sings, and Yaakov rests. But what does that mean? Why do we mention the Avos in Mincha of Shabbos, each with a different reaction? And what do their middos teach us about the deeper essence of the day? Avraham, the embodiment of chesed, sees Shabbos as a flood of divine generosity—Mekor HaBracha—and rejoices in its abundance. Yitzchak, the pillar of gevurah, understands that true Shabbos menucha is about discipline, about channeling everything back to Hashem, so he sings in recognition. But Yaakov, the bechir haAvos, experiences Shabbos in its fullest form—pure menucha, where all physicality is elevated and the material world itself becomes ruchniyus. This is why Shabbos is described as the Nachalas Yaakov, a limitless inheritance that transcends all boundaries. By delving into the unique way each Av connects to Shabbos, we uncover not just their greatness, but how we, too, can elevate our Shabbos in deeper, more profound ways. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 106

May 16, 2025

2:25

Believing Lashon Hara is Forbidden Accepting Lashon Hara as truth is a de'oraisa violation—even if it’s technically true. Kabbalas Lashon Hara destroys achdus and undermines the fabric of Klal Yisrael. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 107

May 18, 2025

2:46

Worse Than Speaking It The Chafetz Chaim teaches that accepting Lashon Hara is often worse than saying it. Belief alone—without a word—is enough to bring tragic consequences, as seen in Tanach. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 6 - Using Your Time Right

May 19, 2025

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What if the best way to fight the Yetzer Hara is not to fight it at all? When we imagine spiritual growth, we often picture intense battles—resisting temptation, wrestling with taivos, fighting off distractions. But the Torah offers a surprising strategy: stay too busy for the Yetzer Hara to catch up. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the concept of misiach daas—not by ignoring the battle, but by turning your focus elsewhere. When your time is filled with purpose, you leave no space for the Yetzer Hara to sneak in. Through a deep look at Paro’s strategy in Mitzrayim and its reversal in avodas Hashem, we uncover how keeping our minds occupied is more than a distraction tactic—it’s a spiritual weapon. From building Torah learning habits one small step at a time, to finding hobbies, jobs, or friends that keep us energized and grounded, this shiur guides you toward a life of intentional action. Why does boredom open the door to aveiros? How can your free time become a tool for growth instead of a trap for failure? And what does it mean to “walk like a businessman” in your daily life? With clarity and warmth, Rabbi Klapper offers a new lens on time management—not as a productivity hack, but as the foundation of kedusha. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 108

May 21, 2025

2:36

When Listening Is Allowed Listening to Lashon Hara is only permitted when done letoeles, such as evaluating a potential business partner or shidduch—with zero acceptance and full skepticism. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 41 - A True Rest of Emunah

May 22, 2025

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When things are calm, emunah is easy. But what happens when the world around you shakes? Can you still say “Ein Od Milvado” with confidence? And how do you find peace when everything seems uncertain? This episode explores the essence of emunah on Shabbos—Menuchas Emes U’Muna, a rest rooted in unshakeable trust. Rabbi Klapper reveals how Shabbos is the day we step back and recognize that everything is in Hashem’s hands. But this isn’t just about being passive; it’s about living with a calm that comes from knowing that even when you aren’t in control, Hashem is. Through powerful insights and stories, we’ll see how this emunah transforms anxiety into tranquility, making Shabbos a day of true peace, not just physical rest. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 109

May 23, 2025

2:24

Protecting Others Without Accepting You may listen to Lashon Hara to protect someone else, but vague excuses like “maybe one day I’ll need it” are not a heter. Every word must have real purpose. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 110

May 25, 2025

2:46

Listening to Make Peace If your sincere goal is shalom, listening to Lashon Hara may be allowed—if you actively seek to defend the subject or calm the speaker. Intention makes all the difference. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 26 – Your Neshamah, Your True Self

May 27, 2025

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Have you ever treated your body like the destination instead of the vehicle? The Ramchal teaches that our neshama is a “treasure from the highest,” totally untouched by physical pleasures and yet lodged within our guf . We live by default as if the body—our senses, comforts, and status—is who we are. But what happens when you recognize that your real identity is this lofty soul, and that your body exists only to serve it? How do we realign our daily choices so our guf becomes a holy instrument rather than the master? Why does the neshama sometimes rebel at leaving the body, and what does that teach us about genuine avodas Hashem? This episode will unveil how to shift from being “the car” to becoming the driver, empowering you to live with purpose—body and soul united in sanctity. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 111

May 28, 2025

2:53

Can You Handle the Truth? Even when permitted to listen, you must be confident you won’t accept what you hear. If you know you’ll believe it, even a justified listening becomes assur. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 42 - A Complete Rest

May 29, 2025

30:58

Rest isn’t just about taking a break. If it were, then any lazy afternoon could be called Menucha. But Shabbos Menucha is different—it’s a complete disconnection from the world’s chaos, a retreat into the shade of Hashem’s presence. Why does true Menucha mean letting go completely? And what does it look like to trust Hashem so fully that even your worries disappear? This episode explores the essence of Menucha Sheleima, a rest that is more than physical relaxation—it’s an active, spiritual surrender. Rabbi Klapper reveals how the highest form of Menucha is the one Hashem desires for us, where we stop relying on our own efforts and allow ourselves to be held by Hashem’s protection. Through the powerful story of a family who found joy on Shabbos even in the face of tragedy, we learn how complete trust can transform everything. True Menucha isn’t just about peace—it’s about choosing Hashem over everything else. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 112

May 30, 2025

2:42

Group Dynamics and Strategy When facing a group with a dominant speaker of Lashon Hara, sometimes the best move is to wait and later correct the others—quietly, thoughtfully, and without confrontation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 113

Jun 1, 2025

2:44

When You’re Caught in It If you’re surrounded by people speaking Lashon Hara, discreetly showing disapproval or mentally rejecting the words can still count as spiritual resistance—even without speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 7 - Knowing Your Essence

Jun 2, 2025

25:43

What if your biggest fall isn’t the sin—but what you believe about yourself afterward?So many people striving for growth fall into a dangerous trap—not because of their Yetzer Hara, but because of how they respond to it. One misstep, and suddenly, it feels like all their progress has vanished. But Rabbi Klapper offers a radically honest and comforting truth: You are not your failure. You are normal. And falling doesn’t make you broken—it makes you human. The true test isn’t whether you fall, but whether you get back up.In this deeply affirming episode, we explore the power of healthy busha, how to tell the difference between shame that destroys and shame that uplifts, and why your essence—your mahut—is never defined by your mistakes. Why does the Yetzer Hara push perfection so hard? How does focusing on small, winnable battles reshape your identity? And why is just showing up to keep trying the greatest victory of all? With stories, insights, and practical tools, Rabbi Klapper gives you permission to stop being perfect—and start being real.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 27 – Keeping Focus on What's Important

Jun 3, 2025

6:30

Do you live life like a passenger in a car, or like the driver? The Ramchal reveals that while every living being has a nefesh—a basic soul that gives it life—a Jew possesses something infinitely higher: a neshama, a soul that originates in the highest realms. But here’s the paradox: our neshama has nothing to gain from the physical world. So why is it here? Why did Hashem place such a lofty, spiritual entity into a physical body? What’s the purpose of a neshama that is so far beyond this world, yet bound to it? This episode will guide you to see your true self beyond the distractions, align your guf (body) with your neshama’s purpose, and keep your focus on what truly matters. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 114

Jun 4, 2025

2:41

Three Tools for Resistance Reject the words in your heart, feel regret about hearing them, and avoid showing any approval. Even a frown can send a message—and protect your neshamah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 43 - Shabbos and Tefillin

Jun 5, 2025

23:16

If Shabbos is an ois (a sign) and Tefillin is also an ois, why don’t we wear Tefillin on Shabbos? Isn’t more holiness better? But there’s a deeper truth: Shabbos itself is a living Tefillin. Just as Tefillin ties Hashem’s name to our head and heart, Shabbos binds us directly to Hashem’s presence without needing physical reminders. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the profound connection between Shabbos and Tefillin. Why is Tefillin hidden inside black boxes, while Shabbos is an open, radiant experience? What is the purpose of the mechitzos (barriers) that make Tefillin possible, and how do they reveal a secret about how we experience Hashem’s light? Through the lens of Kabbalah and powerful stories, we discover why Shabbos is the highest form of attachment to Hashem—an ois so powerful that it doesn’t need any other symbol. If you’ve ever wondered why Shabbos feels different, this episode will show you how it’s a day of direct connection to Hashem—like wearing Tefillin on your soul. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 115

Jun 6, 2025

1:58

Don't Sit With Them Choosing to sit with known gossipers makes you part of their aveirah, even if you stay silent. The Torah warns us: avoid the company of scoffers. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 28 – The Smallest Details

Jun 10, 2025

7:35

Do you breeze through mitzvos without pausing to notice the tiny moments? The Ramchal reminds us that every detail—like a quarter‐carat on a diamond—can mean the difference between ordinary and extraordinary avodas Hashem. Yet we often dance at a chasuna or learn Torah mechanically, missing the chance to infuse each act with kavanah. How would your simchas choshen look if you stopped for just a beat to remember “I am making a mitzvah”? Why does a single thought before picking up Lulav elevate the entire mitzvah? What happens when we treat our service of Hashem like precious gold, sensitive to even the smallest nuances? This episode will show you how to transform your daily avodah by sharpening your awareness—so that every blink, every breath, and every move becomes an opportunity to draw closer to the true purpose of your soul. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 117

Jun 10, 2025

2:53

Respecting Torah Authority Speaking negatively about Dayanim—even if you think they ruled wrongly—is forbidden. We must trust that Hashem ensures justice, and always be dan Talmidei Chachamim l’kaf zechus. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 44 - Shabbos, Tefillin, and the Beis Hamikdash

Jun 12, 2025

25:35

If the Beis HaMikdash was the channel for all bracha in the world, what do we have now that it’s gone? How can we still experience that connection to Hashem’s presence without a physical Mikdash? Shabbos is our living Beis HaMikdash. Just as the Beis HaMikdash was the place where Hashem’s Shechina rested, Shabbos is the time where that presence is felt in our lives. Rabbi Klapper reveals how Shabbos takes the role of the Mikdash, becoming the channel through which all shefa (blessing) enters our world. Why is Shabbos called “Mikdash B’Zman”—a sanctuary in time? What does it mean to enter Shabbos as though stepping into the Kodesh HaKodashim? And how does this change the way we prepare, experience, and leave Shabbos each week? Discover how to turn your home into a Beis HaMikdash every week, and how Shabbos is far more than a day of rest—it’s a day of divine connection. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 118

Jun 13, 2025

2:53

Doubting a Din Is Not a Heter Even if a Dayan’s ruling seems mistaken, degrading Talmidei Chachamim is never justified. Respect demands restraint, even when questioning halachic outcomes. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 119

Jun 15, 2025

1:59

Disagreement Doesn’t Permit Disrespect Even after verifying an error in Beis Din, you may not slander its members. Corrective steps must follow halacha—not public humiliation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 8 - You are Normal

Jun 16, 2025

20:54

What if your deepest struggles don’t define you—but reveal who you really are?When it comes to Shemiras Einayim and controlling our thoughts, many people believe that the battle itself is a sign of failure. But Rabbi Klapper offers a powerful truth: the fight doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’re alive. Hashem designed this world with challenges so that we could grow through them. That includes the taiva itself. It’s not inherently evil—it’s meant to become holy. So instead of asking, “Why do I have this?” the real question is, “What am I meant to do with it?”In this episode, we dive into the root of the Yetzer Hara, why Hashem gave us this powerful drive, and how holding it back doesn’t weaken it—it strengthens its potential. Why didn’t Hashem just make us without temptation? And how can understanding our mahus—our essence—help us fight back without losing ourselves in shame or guilt? With stories from the Gemara, insights from the Chazal, and examples from everyday life, Rabbi Klapper shows how embracing who you really are gives you the strength to stand tall, even when you fall.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 29 – The Purpose of the Pleasures of the World

Jun 17, 2025

10:10

Do you ever mistake a dopamine rush for your life’s mission? The Ramchal teaches that while Hashem designed Olam Haba as the ultimate pleasure palace, this world’s comforts serve a very different role. We live in a hedonistic culture that chases feel‐good moments, yet the true iker of our stay here is to confront tests and cling to mitzvos. Why are our greatest trials often wrapped in success and abundance? How can we distinguish Divine chizuk from mere distraction? What if the very pleasures you enjoy are invitations to deepen your service of Hashem instead of derailing it? This episode will show you how to reframe every blessing as fuel for your avodas Hashem—so that when pleasure comes, you harness it for growth, stay anchored in purpose, and earn your ultimate reward. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 120

Jun 18, 2025

2:20

The Past Is Off Limits Lashon Hara about someone’s past or ancestors—no matter how true—is still forbidden. Teshuva demands respect for who a person is now. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 45 - Like the Beis Hamikdash

Jun 19, 2025

24:00

If we long for the Beis HaMikdash, where Hashem’s presence was felt so powerfully, what do we have now? Is Shabbos just a taste of what was lost, or is it something even more powerful? Shabbos isn’t just a memorial of the Mikdash—it is a Mikdash in time. Just as the Beis HaMikdash was the place where the Shechina rested, Shabbos is the time where that presence is felt without walls, without barriers. Rabbi Klapper reveals how the Kedusha of Shabbos transforms our homes into mini Beis HaMikdash. But if Shabbos is so holy, why don’t we feel it? What’s the secret to experiencing the Shechina in your home every week? Learn how treating Shabbos like a Mikdash can transform your experience and bring true divine connection into your life. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 121

Jun 20, 2025

2:27

Be Wary, Not Certain When Lashon Hara affects your safety or future, you may be choyshesh—cautious—but not mekabel. Protection is allowed; judgment is not. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 122

Jun 22, 2025

2:30

Fifty Rumors Don’t Equal Fact Widespread rumors—even from many people—don’t justify labeling someone a rasha. Only Beis Din can establish such a verdict. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 30 – Controling Your Own Mind

Jun 24, 2025

8:08

What if the fiercest struggle you face isn’t external but inside your own head? Mesilas Yesharim challenges us to recognize that our minds—our very intentions—are the battleground where true avodas Hashem is won or lost. All day long, thoughts intrude: a catchy tune you can’t shake, worries that derail your davening, or desires that hijack your focus. How can we steer these wandering impulses back toward sacred purpose? What shifts when you decide that every intention, whether in work, learning, or prayer, is offered “lishmah” to Hashem? This episode will teach you practical steps to tame your inner dialogue, transform fleeting thoughts into moments of kavanah, and achieve the self-control that underpins genuine spiritual growth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 123

Jun 25, 2025

2:03

Caution Without Harm Being choyshesh doesn’t permit harming the person—no insults, no withholding owed money, and no public shaming. It’s for self-protection only. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 46 - Shabbos and Tisha B'Av

Jun 26, 2025

25:27

Tisha B’Av is the darkest day of the year, filled with mourning and loss. Shabbos is the holiest day, filled with joy and connection. But what happens when Tisha B’Av falls on Shabbos? Why do we treat it like any other Shabbos—full of food, song, and celebration? Is this just a technicality, or is something much deeper happening? Rabbi Klapper reveals the secret connection between Shabbos and Tisha B’Av: Shabbos is a living Beis HaMikdash. While Tisha B’Av forces us to face the destruction of the Mikdash and the Shechina’s absence, Shabbos brings that Shechina back, making it real again. This episode explores why Shabbos doesn’t just push away Tisha B’Av—it actually fixes it. When Shabbos arrives, the Shechina is here, and the Mikdash is restored. But how can we truly feel that Shechina in our lives? And what can we do to experience Shabbos as a day of divine presence, even in a world still in exile? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 124

Jun 27, 2025

2:49

The Danger of Hurting the Needy Even if you suspect a collector is dishonest, halacha demands continued support until proper investigation. Rumors don’t cancel chezkas oni. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 125

Jun 29, 2025

2:13

Undoing the Damage of Belief If you already accepted Lashon Hara, do teshuva—reject it in your heart, reflect on alternate explanations, and work to uproot belief from within. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 9 - Two Types of Embarrassment

Jun 30, 2025

24:13

Can shame lift you—or destroy you? It depends on what you believe about yourself. Everyone feels busha. It’s one of the defining traits of a Jew. But not all embarrassment is created equal. Some forms of shame tear a person down, convincing them they’re worthless and hopeless. Other forms awaken something deeper—reminding you that you’re too valuable to live beneath your greatness. In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the difference between toxic guilt and uplifting embarrassment. Why do we sometimes feel like giving up after a fall? And what would change if we believed we were too holy to fall, not too dirty to rise? Drawing on Torah sources, psychological insight, and the sefer From Boys to Men by Dr. Shloime Zimmerman, this shiur brings clarity to the inner chaos many experience when struggling with taivah and self-worth. You’ll discover why your Yetzer Hara often disguises himself as your biggest cheerleader, how social norms distort your self-image, and most importantly—how to remember that you're a Ben Melech, no matter how far you've fallen. If you've ever felt crushed by failure or unsure of your value, this episode will help you rebuild your inner world from the foundation of truth: you are already worthy. Now act like it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 31 – Keep Your Eye on the Goal

Jul 1, 2025

5:42

What happens when you lose sight of your true mission and chase life’s detours instead? Mesilas Yesharim reminds us that clarity of purpose—the foundational “why” for our existence—is the compass that guides every step of avodas Hashem. Too often, people confuse success, pleasure, or status with genuine kedushah, mistaking an Olympic medal or a fat paycheck for spiritual achievement. Why do our priorities become so skewed? How can we realign our ambitions when every distraction whispers “this is the goal”? What if the secret to meaningful growth is simply remembering that this world is just the gateway to something far greater? This episode will equip you to define your personal mission clearly, map out the step-by-step process from z’hirus to kedushah, and develop the focus to stay on course—so that every decision you make steers you toward lasting purpose and eternal reward. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 126

Jul 2, 2025

1:55

Public Doesn’t Mean Proven Even if Lashon Hara is widely publicized or shared online, you still may not believe it. Truth isn’t determined by volume or visibility—only by proper investigation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 47 – Menorah, Shulchan, and Atonement on Shabbos

Jul 3, 2025

25:50

Can a table bring you closer to Hashem? Can a candle bring you atonement? If the Beis HaMikdash was all about sacrifices, what do Shabbos candles and challah have to do with it? And why does simply saying “Vayechulu” on Friday night carry the power of a korban? This episode reveals how Shabbos mirrors the Beis HaMikdash in astonishing ways. The menorah becomes the Shabbos candles, the shulchan becomes the Shabbos table, and the korban tamid becomes the Vayechulu we recite each week. But the goal isn’t ritual—it’s reconnection. When we light candles, prepare the table, and declare Hashem’s mastery over creation, we’re not just remembering the Mikdash—we’re rebuilding it. Rabbi Klapper shows how each detail, even the number of challahs, echoes the sacred service of the Kohanim. Shabbos isn’t a substitute for the Mikdash. It’s a weekly Mikdash we step into with open eyes and full hearts. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 127

Jul 4, 2025

2:05

Azus Isn’t Proof When someone confidently slanders another—even in front of them—it doesn’t mean it’s true. Silence from the victim isn’t admission; never confuse chutzpah with credibility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 128

Jul 6, 2025

2:18

Even the Rav Stayed Silent A Rav once overheard Lashon Hara about himself—and said nothing. Shock, humility, or calculation might silence a victim, but it’s no license to believe gossip. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 32 – Care About Yourself

Jul 8, 2025

8:05

Have you ever hurt yourself by turning a blind eye to your own well-being? The Ramchal teaches that true growth begins with z’hirus—paying genuine attention to your life’s path. Too often, we ignore warning signs—like risking our health or our reputation—simply to save a moment or spare discomfort. Why do we willingly trample over our own happiness? How would our choices change if we truly valued our nefesh and treated it as Hashem’s precious gift? This episode will challenge you to open your eyes, recognize the stakes of every decision, and develop the self-care that forms the bedrock of all avodas Hashem—so you live fully, safely, and in alignment with your soul’s highest purpose. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 129

Jul 9, 2025

2:20

Two Witnesses? Still Lashon Hara Even if two people testify to the same claim, if it’s not in Beis Din, it’s still Lashon Hara. Reputation and halacha—not hearsay—define credibility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights! Daily Chafetz Chaim Day 130 Scheduled:

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Ep. 48 – The Holiness of Food

Jul 10, 2025

29:34

Can eating be a spiritual act? Can a piece of challah or kugel bring you closer to Hashem? We know that korbanos in the Beis HaMikdash were holy—but what if your Shabbos table could be just as powerful? Rabbi Klapper guides us through the hidden kedusha of food on Shabbos. Drawing powerful parallels between the eating of korbanos by the Kohanim and our Shabbos seudos, we discover that food isn’t just nourishment—it’s connection. When prepared and eaten l’kavod Shabbos, even a simple dish becomes an offering on Hashem’s table. Through stories of Esther HaMalka, Yitzchak Avinu, and insights into the halachos of clothing, mikvah, and the scent of the ketores, we uncover the secret: Shabbos meals are a spiritual experience when rooted in shalom bayis and kavod Shabbos. Hashem repays the cost—and rewards the intention. Your dining room can become a mikdash, if you bring the right kavod and peace to the table. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 130

Jul 11, 2025

2:09

Don't Trust the Rumors Even repeated, vague rumors carry no weight in halacha. In a world of fake news and viral lies, we must be even more vigilant before believing anything harmful. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 131

Jul 13, 2025

1:55

Exceptions for Known Resha’im Lashon Hara may only be believed about someone who is a known public rasha—but only after confirmed facts establish their status beyond doubt. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 33 – Purposely Closing Your Eyes

Jul 15, 2025

7:53

Have you ever chosen ignorance over self-preservation? Mesilas Yesharim warns that ignoring clear dangers to our nefesh is like willingly marching into a fire. While we instinctively flee physical threats—red lights, speeding cars—the subtler blaze of ta’avah often ensnares us because we shut our eyes to reality. Why do we swipe social media feeds when we know the soul-erosion it brings? How can we risk our spiritual future for a fleeting dopamine hit? What would change if we treated threats to our nefesh with the same urgency as a blazing inferno? This episode will open your eyes to the hidden fires around you, teach you how to refuse the invitation to look away, and empower you to guard your soul with clear-sighted vigilance—so you walk safely toward your eternal destination. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 132

Jul 16, 2025

2:11

He Admits It—Together With Someone Else If someone confesses to an aveira and implicates another person in the same sentence, you're only allowed to believe what he says about himself—not the other. Even shared guilt doesn’t justify belief in Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 49 – A Good Smell on Shabbos

Jul 17, 2025

30:26

Why does the Torah highlight the prohibition of fire—but not of smell—on Shabbos? And why does a fragrance have the power to shift the atmosphere of a home? We’re used to thinking of smells as trivial—nice, maybe—but not spiritual. But Chazal, the Zohar, and even the Ketores say otherwise. Rabbi Klapper takes us deep into the quiet power of reach tov, showing how scent is more than perfume—it’s presence. In the Beis HaMikdash, the ketores didn’t just make things smell nice; it announced that the Shechina was welcome. And in our homes, the smell of food, flowers, and warmth becomes a defense against kas—anger—and against the fire the Satan loves to light on Erev Shabbos. That’s why Chazal say don’t light a fire in your homes—not just a physical one, but the emotional kind too. This episode explores how to protect your Shabbos atmosphere, build shalom bayis, and make your home a place the Shechina wants to enter. Because yes, holiness can be smelled. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 133

Jul 18, 2025

2:19

Can You Trust the Trustworthy? Even someone famously honest cannot be believed if they speak Lashon Hara—unless you are a Rav with halachic responsibility and strict conditions are met. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 134

Jul 22, 2025

2:12

When a Rav May Believe A Rav may believe trustworthy testimony about a known aveirah, but not personal criticisms or family gossip. Even credibility has limits in Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 34 – Stop Running!

Jul 22, 2025

7:11

What’s driving you forward without a moment’s pause? Mesilas Yesharim warns that unchecked momentum can carry us straight into peril—like horses charging into battle without thought. The navi Yirmiyahu lamented our generation’s headlong rush into sin, oblivious to the ruin in our path. Why do we barrel through life on autopilot, doing “what everyone else does”? How often do we fail to ask, “Am I running toward holiness or off a cliff”? And what if the antidote is simply to halt, reflect, and choose deliberately? This episode will teach you how to break the cycle of blind conformity—showing you practical steps to pause, assess your direction, and move forward only when your heart and mind are aligned with Hashem’s will—so that every stride you take leads you closer to true purpose rather than disaster. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 135

Jul 23, 2025

1:56

You’re Causing Him to Sin Showing interest in Lashon Hara causes the speaker to sin more—and violates lifnei iver. Even silent curiosity encourages spiritual harm. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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