Popular Shows by The Real Judaism Podcast with Rabbi Ari Klapper

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Series 2 Trailer: The Essence of a Jewish Home

Jul 9, 2026

1:30

What if everything you thought you knew about marriage is only the surface? Season 2 of Shalom Bayis for Men goes deeper than practical tips. Building on the timeless teachings of Rav Chaim Friedlander zt"l, we return to the very beginning — the way Hashem created man and woman — to uncover what a marriage is actually meant to be. Why were we created as one being and then split apart? Why is a husband and wife's connection built entirely on chesed? And why did Hashem make men and women so fundamentally different? We'll explore how a home is the training ground where a person learns to truly give, why a woman's emotional world is a gift and not a flaw, and how understanding your wife's nature is the foundation of real Shalom Bayis. This is a season about the roots — the ideas that make everything else make sense. Subscribe now so you don't miss Episode 1. The journey to a deeper marriage starts here. Get the show on Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/644HQbfnHosBd9vscuYxFy?si=cCPw4-r3SVel0nau3z895Q⁠ Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this series is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Truly Recognize Where We Are - Tisha Bav

Jul 15, 2026

8:14

Can you mourn something you don't understand? Just before the kinos, Rabbi Klapper admits something honest: he could not understand Kina Vav — the sixth kina, a poetic acrostic that begins only at the letter Samech. And it's not the only one. Many kinos are simply beyond our grasp, especially in their difficult Hebrew. But the key was never the words. Even when we cannot connect to the language, we can still connect to the pnimius — the soul, the pain, the sorrow the kinos represent. And that pain, Rabbi Klapper says, is all around us. Our post-Holocaust generation was uniquely sheltered — 75 years of relative calm to rebuild the Torah world — but we are now back inside the mainstream of Jewish history, facing the same hatred Jews have faced for 2,000 years. And more painful still: some of our own are working to cut us off from our life source, trampling Torah and spitting on those who keep it. He anchors it in the Tochacha of Bechukosai and Rashi's reading — "we do not listen" means we do not toil in Torah — and in the Ramban's chilling observation on Eicha: he saw something worse than mothers eating their children; he saw mothers feeding their children chazir. The Haftarah's answer from Yirmiyahu is blunt: the land was lost "because you left My Torah." Even our personal pain — the illness, the young people adrift in the streets searching for satisfaction in the sewer — flows from the same distance from Hashem. Tisha B'Av is the day to face our reality and cry, to take stock of who we are and where we are holding, and to channel that pain into tefillah. Are you ready to truly recognize where you are? Take a seat on the floor and listen. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Episode 3: Providing a Wife All of Her Needs

Jul 30, 2026

23:37

What does a husband really owe his wife? The Torah obligates a husband to provide "she'er" for his wife. Rashi says food — but the Ramban reveals something far deeper: a husband must provide all of his wife's needs, including her emotional and spiritual ones. Rabbi Klapper shows how a man can technically fulfill his obligations in the coldest, most detached way and still be "yotzei" — and yet be quietly destroying his wife. Without that deeper connection, the mitzvah has missed its entire point. Through the famous story of Rabbi Akiva, who longed to give his penniless wife a golden Yerushalayim ornament, we learn that even the desire to give — when there's nothing to give — fulfills the deepest root of the mitzvah. This episode explores why the home is the "school" where a person learns to be good all day long, and why a wife is "kenegdo": equal enough to understand each other, yet different enough that there's always something real to give. Ready to understand what your wife truly needs from you — beyond the physical? This episode gets to the very root of a husband's obligation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep6. The Second Date and Beyond

Aug 24, 2024

34:38

Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.

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Ep7. Engagement

Sep 13, 2024

27:06

Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.

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Ep. 47 – Can You See

Oct 21, 2025

7:19

Have you ever walked through life convinced you're wide awake when you're actually stumbling in the dark? Chazal teach that without daily cheshbon nefesh we become blind to our own missteps—tripping over hidden pitfalls while mistaking shadows for substance. We may boast about our Torah learning yet fail to grasp the blindness lurking beneath our routines. Why do we cling to petty disputes when the real dangers go unseen? This episode will shed light on practical steps to open your spiritual eyes, cling to the Torah's lamp, and transform stumbling into steadfast growth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 49 – The Second Mistake

Nov 4, 2025

9:05

When have you justified the unjustifiable with a clever argument? The Ramchal warns that the yetzer hara wields a twisted logic—making evil deeds appear noble and noble deeds look oppressive—by distorting the little light we have in this dark world. Just as we see moral clarity warped into license for cruelty today, from condoning violence to excusing every personal indulgence, the darkness makes good look bad and bad look good. How does twisted reasoning blind us to truth? This episode will expose the subtle fallacies that barrage our hearts and equip you to recognize—and reject—the perverse proofs that mask evil as good. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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S2 Ep. 1 - You Have the Power to Choose

Feb 26, 2025

32:40

Do you really have free will, or are you just following the path laid out for you? Many people feel trapped by their habits, their struggles, and the world around them, believing that real change is impossible. But Chazal teach us a profound truth: the Yetzer Hara is an illusion. It appears like an overwhelming force, but when you examine it closely, you realize—it has no legs to stand on. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper unpacks the deceptiveness of the Yetzer Hara, showing how recognizing its tricks is the first step to overcoming it. Using deep Torah insights—from Yaakov’s battle with the Sar shel Esav to the Gemara’s depiction of the Yetzer Hara as both a mountain and a hair—he builds a step-by-step approach to reclaiming control over your life. How can small, intentional choices reshape your reality? What does it mean to actively shift your focus rather than fight forbidden thoughts head-on? And most importantly, how can you set yourself on a path where you encounter fewer tests to begin with? This episode is a guide to practical strategies for mastering your choices, overcoming challenges, and building the life you truly want—one step at a time. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Dating Shiur: Getting Started

Jun 7, 2024

35:02

Dating Shiur 1

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 9

Jul 3, 2024

2:23

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Ep5. The First Date

Aug 7, 2024

26:55

Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.

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Ep. 11 - See Beyond Temptation

Jul 28, 2025

19:24

Who are you when no one is watching? And what does your name say about your mission in this world? This episode takes us into one of the most powerful scenes in Torah: Yosef alone, far from home, facing a test no one would ever know about—except Hashem. What gave him the strength to walk away when everything inside him said yes? The answer: he remembered who he was. Rabbi Klapper uncovers the profound idea that a Jew’s name isn’t just a label—it’s a reflection of their essence. Yosef saw his father’s face and remembered his future—his name engraved on the Choshen, his destiny as one of the Shvatim—and it gave him the clarity and strength to say no. But what if we didn’t say no? Rabbi Klapper doesn’t stop with the tzaddik who stands strong—he brings us to Yehuda, who fell and got up again. The Torah’s message is clear: whether you overcome or stumble, you’re still part of the story. The Yetzer Hara wants us to forget who we are. Tshuva helps us remember. This episode gives the listener tools to fight temptation in private, resist the crushing voice of shame, and believe that every struggle and every comeback is part of a divine plan. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Trailer: S2 Shemiras Einayim

Feb 18, 2025

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COMING SOON: The battle for your eyes is real. The power to choose is yours. https://realjudaism.org/ShemirasEinayim Shemiras Einayim with Rabbi Ari Klapper returns for Series 2 – diving deeper than ever into the raw challenges of guarding your eyes in today's digital age. No apologetics. No judgment. Just honest, practical wisdom for real-life struggles. From smartphones to street encounters. From internal battles to external pressures. We're tackling the questions you're afraid to ask and the daily tests you face. Rabbi Klapper brings clarity, understanding, and practical tools to help you navigate these challenges while maintaining your dignity and spiritual growth. This isn't just another mussar series. This is your guide to building real strength and finding true fulfillment in a world of constant visual temptation. New episodes drop every two weeks starting 19th Feb 2025. Real struggles. Real solutions. Real growth. Real Judaism. Shemiras Einayim Series 2 – Because your battle matters. Find the Episodes wherever you get your podcasts https://open.spotify.com/show/548Vqsw1GzzAGKjmKYi0yc?si=c5e51bbe2d964c3a https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shmiras-einayim/id1784634481 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiZU2rL9HnBW2qVNZRClAes4STqsKB4qS

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Trailer S2 Shemiras Einayim

Feb 18, 2025

1:00

COMING SOON: The battle for your eyes is real. The power to choose is yours. https://realjudaism.org/ShemirasEinayim Shemiras Einayim with Rabbi Ari Klapper returns for Series 2 – diving deeper than ever into the raw challenges of guarding your eyes in today's digital age. No apologetics. No judgment. Just honest, practical wisdom for real-life struggles. From smartphones to street encounters. From internal battles to external pressures. We're tackling the questions you're afraid to ask and the daily tests you face. Rabbi Klapper brings clarity, understanding, and practical tools to help you navigate these challenges while maintaining your dignity and spiritual growth. This isn't just another mussar series. This is your guide to building real strength and finding true fulfillment in a world of constant visual temptation. New episodes drop every two weeks starting 19th Feb 2025. Real struggles. Real solutions. Real growth. Real Judaism. Shemiras Einayim Series 2 – Because your battle matters. Find the Episodes wherever you get your podcasts https://open.spotify.com/show/548Vqsw1GzzAGKjmKYi0yc?si=c5e51bbe2d964c3a https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shmiras-einayim/id1784634481 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiZU2rL9HnBW2qVNZRClAes4STqsKB4qS

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 8

Jul 2, 2024

2:37

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 10

Jul 4, 2024

2:24

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 11

Jul 7, 2024

2:06

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 12

Jul 8, 2024

1:32

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 13

Jul 9, 2024

1:52

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 14

Jul 10, 2024

2:15

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 15

Jul 11, 2024

2:16

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Ep4. Representing Yourself and Checking Out the Other

Jul 12, 2024

34:22

Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 16

Jul 14, 2024

2:23

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 17

Jul 15, 2024

2:00

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 18

Jul 16, 2024

2:26

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 19

Jul 17, 2024

2:04

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 20

Jul 18, 2024

2:03

Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.

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Ep. 2 - From Clear Ideas to Real Change

Dec 16, 2024

5:42

In this episode, we continue exploring Mesilas Yesharim, uncovering the gap between knowing the truth and living it. Have you ever felt clarity in a shiur or davening but struggled to apply it when faced with real-life challenges? Why is it so hard to transform what we know into how we act? Join us as we delve into the Ramchal’s timeless guidance on turning intellectual clarity into a lived experience. Through relatable examples and practical advice, we’ll discuss how constant repetition and reflection are the keys to personal growth. This isn’t just about adding more knowledge—it’s about creating lasting change, one small step at a time. Perfect for anyone ready to take their learning to the next level and truly make it real. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep 1 - Remembering What You Already Know

Dec 14, 2024

7:25

Welcome to the very first episode of the Real Judaism - Mesilas Yesharim podcast series, where timeless Torah wisdom meets real-life application. This week, Rabbi Ari Klapper begins an incredible journey into Mesilas Yesharim, offering insights on how to bring clarity and focus into our Avodas Hashem. Why do we often forget the most important truths, even as we strive to live by them? And how can we take foundational knowledge and make it part of our daily lives? In this introductory episode, you’ll discover how Mesilas Yesharim helps us bridge the gap between what we know and how we live. Whether you’re a seasoned learner or just starting out, this series offers inspiration and tools to deepen your understanding and connection to Torah values. Real Judaism is hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions. For more episodes and resources, visit realjudaism.org. Join us as we embark on a transformative exploration of the principles that form the foundation of a meaningful Jewish life.

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Ep8. Series Finale - Introduction to Shalom Bayis

Sep 29, 2024

23:56

Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.

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Ep. 42 – What Am I Doing

Sep 16, 2025

8:08

Have you ever looked back and realized you've been sleepwalking through your own story? The Gemara in Eruvin delivers a shocking truth: it might have been better never to be born—unless we seize the chance to "check our ways" while we still can. Yet most of us shy away from that mirror, preferring comfortable narratives to hard truths. What hidden detours have you been taking? How different would your choices be if you paused to ask, "Is this the right path for my nefesh?" This episode will guide you through the crucial steps of cheshbon nefesh—defining what deserves your commitment and courageously comparing that to your daily reality. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 43 – Am I Really Doing a Mitzvah

Sep 23, 2025

6:11

Do your mitzvos sometimes feel like empty rituals rather than soul-fueling acts? The Ramchal teaches that performing a mitzvah without genuine kavanah is like drinking from a mirage—on the surface you're "doing" the commandment, but your nefesh remains thirsty. We may rush through Purim l'chayims or recite brachos by rote, yet miss the heart of the avodah. How often do we pause to ask, "Am I fulfilling this mitzvah for its true purpose or just to check a box?" This episode will guide you to excavate the inner life of your mitzvos, transforming duty into delight so each commandment becomes a genuine encounter with Hashem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 44 – Do Things Better

Sep 30, 2025

6:55

Do you ever clock mitzvos off your list without tasting their sweetness? The Ramchal teaches that beyond performing good deeds, we must "feel" them—examining the quality of our kavanos and the depth of our engagement. It's easy to assume that showing up counts for everything: standing for Shemoneh Esrei, opening a chumash, or raising our cup on Purim. But are we really immersing our hearts in the avodah, or merely going through the motions? This episode will show you simple yet powerful ways to upgrade your service—refining your focus, amplifying your kavanah, and infusing every deed with genuine feeling. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 45 – Wait a Second.... What am I Doing

Oct 7, 2025

4:12

Have you ever realized midstream that you're on autopilot? The Ramchal warns that without daily cheshbon nefesh—pausing each day to "wait a second" and audit our deeds—our actions slip into mindless routine. We can repeat good habits until they become hollow, never noticing when we veer off course or settle for mediocrity. How would your day change if you stopped each morning to ask, "What am I doing and why?" This episode will teach you how to carve out consistent "stop and think" breaks, keeping your spiritual trajectory aligned with your highest goals. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 46 – Stop and Think

Oct 14, 2025

7:35

Do you ever race through your day without pausing to catch your breath and your bearings? The Ramchal teaches that true z'hirus begins with mindful accounting—"Stop and think!"—before and after every action, just as Chazal urge us to make daily cheshbon nefesh. Yet in our hurried lives, we plow ahead on autopilot, unaware of the small missteps that steer us off course. What patterns have you locked into by habit rather than intention? This episode will show you the simple framework of weighing choices before you act and reflecting on outcomes afterward. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 48 – The Darkness of this World

Oct 28, 2025

9:52

Have you ever been blinded by your own goodwill or dazzled by the world's bright distractions? Chazal warn us that life's darkness either hides pitfalls altogether or twists what we see into dangerous mirages. The Ramchal reveals how too much chesed without din can warp our priorities and lead us astray. Why do acts of kindness sometimes become license for excess? How can a glimmer of pleasure masquerade as genuine joy? This episode will illuminate the twin perils of hidden and distorted darkness—teaching you how to balance compassion with discernment and develop the spiritual eyesight needed to navigate life's shadows. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 50 – Corrupted Logic

Nov 11, 2025

5:46

What happens when people bring "proofs" for the most twisted behaviors? The Ramchal teaches that in our dark world, the yetzer hara's power to corrupt logic runs so deep that people will passionately defend the indefensible. We see this tragically today—supporters of mass murderers convinced they're championing justice, individuals justifying destructive habits as beneficial. Why do seemingly rational people embrace such warped reasoning? How can we protect ourselves from similar self-deception? This episode will reveal how to anchor yourself in Torah truth and resist the corrupted logic that makes cruelty appear compassionate. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Parshas Chayei Sarah - The Wife, Foundation of the Home - Ep. 1

Nov 12, 2025

8:46

Why did three miracles suddenly return when Yitzchak brought Rivka into Sarah's tent? And what does it mean that he loved her after he married her—not before? Rashi reveals an astonishing pattern: the candle that burned all week, the blessing in the dough, and the cloud over the tent weren't just signs of Sarah's greatness—they were the spiritual DNA of a Torah home. When Sarah died, they vanished. When Rivka arrived, they returned. But why these three specific miracles? And what do they have to do with the mitzvos given uniquely to women? Rabbi Klapper uncovers the deep connection between Sarah's tent, the Mishkan, and the three mitzvos that bring the Shechina into every Jewish home: lighting Shabbos candles, separating challah, and keeping the laws of family purity. Through Yitzchak's story, we learn that real love isn't built on attraction or chemistry—it's born from witnessing your spouse build a home with kedusha. Discover why appreciating the "invisible work" of creating a Torah home is the secret to lasting love, and how every Jewish woman carries the power to make her home a dwelling place for Hashem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Ep. 51 – The Garden Maze

Nov 18, 2025

7:32

Have you ever wandered through life convinced you're headed toward the center, only to realize you've been going in circles? The Ramchal compares our spiritual journey to a garden maze—its hedges so alike that without a clear guide, every turn can feel like progress yet lead away from the goal. We may follow popular paths only to find ourselves lost in confusion. Why do familiar choices so often mislead us? This episode will map out the Divine blueprint for escape—revealing how only those who've navigated these twists before can point the way, so you trust proven Torah wisdom through life's labyrinth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 52 – The Treasure of Listening

Nov 25, 2025

5:25

What happens when you admit you don't have all the answers and truly seek wise counsel? The Ramchal teaches that navigating life's thorny maze requires humility to follow those who've already seen the path. Too often we charge ahead on autopilot—certain we know best—only to find ourselves lost in dead ends. Why do we resist the guidance of Torah's sages when their perspective can illuminate hidden pitfalls? This episode will unveil the priceless value of honest listening—showing you how to approach true guides with openness and courageously follow their direction. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 53 – Take Stock of Your Life

Dec 2, 2025

4:13

Do you ever feel like life's rushing past without you even noticing? The Ramchal draws on Chazal's call to "make a cheshbon nefesh," teaching that true progress demands pausing to take honest account of where we stand. We juggle short-term thrills and long-term goals yet rarely ask: "Am I building the life I truly want?" Why do we pour energy into fleeting pleasures when our spiritual balance sheet goes unchecked? This episode will guide you through the art of spiritual auditing—mapping your priorities, pinpointing hidden losses, and crafting a clear action plan. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Shalom Bayis Series 2 Trailer: The Essence of a Jewish Home

Jul 15, 2026

1:29

What if everything you thought you knew about marriage is only the surface? Season 2 of Shalom Bayis for Men goes deeper than practical tips. Building on the timeless teachings of Rav Chaim Friedlander zt"l, we return to the very beginning — the way Hashem created man and woman — to uncover what a marriage is actually meant to be. Why were we created as one being and then split apart? Why is a husband and wife's connection built entirely on chesed? And why did Hashem make men and women so fundamentally different? Over eight episodes, we'll explore how a home is the training ground where a person learns to truly give, why a woman's emotional world is a gift and not a flaw, and how understanding your wife's nature is the foundation of real Shalom Bayis. This is a season about the roots — the ideas that make everything else make sense. Subscribe now so you don't miss Episode 1. The journey to a deeper marriage starts here. Get the show on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/644HQbfnHosBd9vscuYxFy?si=cCPw4-r3SVel0nau3z895Q Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this series is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 271

Oct 22, 2026

1:58

If you're sure they won't listen anyway, should you even say it? Rabbi Klapper flips the case to the girl's side: what if she has a hidden illness, or her home is one of pritzus, and it's being concealed from the chosson? Here the deciding factor is whether the other side will actually act on the information. If they won't listen and will simply pocket it, there's no to'eles - and worse, later when the shidduch sours it could be dredged up as rechilus ('I should have listened when they told me about this'). But if the person will genuinely be wary and take these serious matters to heart, then it is very important to share, because such things can be a real reason not to proceed with the shidduch. Tune in to see how to'eles turns on the listener - back tomorrow. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 272

Oct 26, 2026

2:52

How can you be truly certain a father-in-law's money promise is a lie? Rabbi Klapper goes deeper on the money question: before you can warn the boy's side that the girl's father is promising what he can't deliver, you must actually know it. The Chofetz Chaim gives three grounds: the family is genuinely, verifiably destitute (and even then, people hide money and outsiders rarely know a bank account); or you know the person firsthand to be sneaky, with bad midos and a history of broken promises; or you literally heard him say he has no intention of keeping his word. Only with real certainty may you reveal it. Remember, too, that a family that isn't rich will often be more moseir nefesh than a wealthy one to support a young couple in learning. Precise, careful halacha - listen in and come back tomorrow. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Episode 13: The Rules From Shana Rishona We May Have Forgotten

Oct 29, 2026

25:25

The Chazon Ish wrote a famous letter to a young avreich in his first year of marriage. Are you sure you're not skipping the rules in it? Rav Chaim Friedlander now brings the Chazon Ish's letter, and Rabbi Klapper shows why it applies to every couple, not only those in shana rishona. Her deepest enjoyment is knowing she finds favor in her husband's eyes, so he must work to show her love and closeness by talking with her and spending time with her. (Al tarbeh sicha im ha'isha is about talk that isn't needed.) Formality breeds fear and distance; speak to her the way a right hand relates to the left. Tell her where you're going and what you did, and give her chizuk. Then the point most people forget: daven for shalom bayis. The Gemara in Gittin describes the Satan stirring up strife on Erev Shabbos, so ask Hashem for help every Friday. Rabbi Klapper knows Erev Shabbos chaos firsthand, including a race for stitches minutes before candle lighting. A Midrash explains that once Chava was created, ish and isha could only live together when Hashem put His Name between them. Take out the yud and the hei, and what's left is two fires. If shalom bayis takes a miracle, techniques won't produce it; bring in the One who makes miracles. That is also why Rabbi Klapper warns against secular marriage books built on getting what you want instead of achdus. Finally, the Chazon Ish adds one word to the mitzvah of v'simach es ishto: it is a chov, an obligation, not a perk. Just as chetzyo lachem on Yom Tov means serving Hashem with the physical, the year of simcha is a duty, not free time. Ready to bring Hashem into your home and take the first year's rules seriously, whatever year you're in? Tune in. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Episode 14: Building the Foundations of the Jewish People

Nov 5, 2026

22:40

Why does the Torah send a soldier home from the front in the middle of a war, just because he got married? Rabbi Klapper sets out the two parshiyos. In Parshas Shoftim, a man who has only done kiddushin, erusin, is sent home from battle, but the Mishnah in Sotah says he still provides water, food and road repair for the army. In Parshas Ki Seitzei, a man who has completed nisuin is free of every war-related duty, with nothing at all placed on him. Why go that far? Because his first year is not a vacation. It is the chirus of avodah, not chofesh, and he is laying the foundation of a home. Klal Yisrael went down to Mitzrayim ish u'veiso and was counted by its families, so every home is a brick in the building of Klal Yisrael. Drawing on Rav Noach Weinberg's five levels of pleasure, Rabbi Klapper explains that a soldier risks his life for what he believes in, and what the Jewish army defends is the homes of Klal Yisrael. The new husband is building the very thing they are fighting for. So why can't he stay home and help from there? Because the Torah wants no communal obligation on him at all, so his wife can always come first. The needs of the tzibur would push his own aside. Rabbi Klapper tells of a couple who took on kiruv work in their first year and nearly lost their marriage to it. A shana rishona can be repaired later, but it is far harder than building it right the first time. Ready to see your home as the front line of Klal Yisrael? Tune in. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Parshas Tzav- Shabbos HaGadol, Establishing Emunah

Mar 25, 2026

11:28

Why is the great miracle of Yud Nisan commemorated on Shabbos — even when Yud Nisan falls on a Tuesday? If the Torah never mentions Shabbos in connection with taking the sheep, why do we call it Shabbos HaGadol and not Yud Nisan HaGadol? And what does any of this have to do with us, four days before our own Leil Seder? Rabbi Klapper uncovers a stunning layer in the Drisha: it wasn't coincidence that the sheep was taken on Shabbos — it was the entire point. The week is the only unit of time that has no astronomical explanation. No moon cycle, no constellation, no planetary movement creates a seven-day week. The week comes from one place: HaKadosh Baruch Hu created the world in six days and rested on the seventh. Shabbos is therefore the purest expression of Emunah that exists. And on the very day that declares Hashem runs this world, Klal Yisrael took the god of Egypt, tied it to their beds, and told the Egyptians exactly what they were going to do with it. That's not just a miracle. That's a declaration. Discover why Pesach can only begin with Shabbos — and why throwing away your Avodah Zarah on the day of Emunah is the first step toward any Geulah. Learn what the Egyptians' silence really meant, and why the Drisha says the date was almost irrelevant. Uncover what your own personal sheep might be — and what Shabbos is asking you to do with it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Ep. 85 – Connecting Physical and Spiritual

Mar 26, 2026

24:49

How can a finite human mind ever hold something as infinite as Torah? Rabbi Ari Klapper takes you into the wonder of limud Torah as the most direct bridge between Shamayim and aretz. Rules and rituals make sense; any society needs boundaries. But Torah is not just wisdom — it’s dvar Hashem, and that shouldn’t be graspable by physical creatures. He uses vivid imagery: a cup can hold water, but it can’t “hold” sound waves; the soul animates the body, but we can’t point to where it sits. So what does it mean that a person can take Hashem’s words into his mouth and mind? Judaism isn’t escape from the physical; it’s transformation of the physical into a כלי for the spiritual. From there, the episode lands on a surprisingly practical key: humility. Moshe Rabbeinu learns for forty days and cannot retain, until Hashem gives Torah as a gift. The cleaner the “mirror,” the clearer the reflection; the purer the “pipe,” the truer the flow. If learning becomes a project of proving you’re smart, the channel clogs. If learning becomes a way of hearing Hashem, the channel opens — and Torah starts reshaping you from the inside. Practical takeaway: before your next learning session, pause for ten seconds and say (in your own words), “Hashem, let me receive Your Torah,” then learn like you’re listening, not performing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 70 – Being Careful with Every Word

Mar 31, 2026

5:42

Words can wound deeper than weapons. The Mesilas Yesharim takes us to a painful moment: Rochel Imeinu, desperate for children, cries out to Yaakov, "Give me children!" His response? "Am I God?" The midrash says this required a tikkun—not because Yaakov was wrong, but because even the greatest tzaddikim can hurt someone with words they don't intend. Years later, Yosef used similar language to comfort his brothers, fixing what his father had broken. Every word you speak makes a roshem, leaves an imprint. You might think you're helping, that your intentions are pure, but if your words wound someone who's already hurting, there will be consequences. Sometimes people speak without realizing the damage—they don't know someone's background, their pain, their story. Onaas devarim, hurting with words, is an issur d'Oraisa. Can you measure your speech carefully enough to avoid crushing someone's spirit? Will you recognize that even small slights need correction, and that the person most qualified to fix them is often the one who felt the pain? This episode demands: speak with sensitivity or pay the price. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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פרק 16: גלה את הכוח הנסתר של עיניך: הפסק להסתכל, התחל לראות

Apr 1, 2026

26:40

מה אם כל מבט שאתה מביט אינו פעולה פיזית, אלא יצירת קשר רוחני עוצמתי? קל לחשוב על שמירת העיניים במונחים של "מותר" ו"אסור", ולראות בהסתכלות אסורה עבירה קטנה וחסרת משמעות. אבל מה אם מאחורי הפעולה הפשוטה של הראייה מסתתר כוח רוחני אדיר, היכול לבנות עולמות או להרוס אותם? בפרק זה, הרב ארי קלפר חושף את המימד הנסתר של כוח הראייה, ומראה כיצד כל מבט יוצר קשר רוחני ממשי בין הרואה לנראה. דרך מקורות עמוקים מהקבלה וסיפורים מדהימים על גדולי ישראל, הרב קלפר מפרק את התפיסה שהראייה היא פעולה פסיבית. תגלו כיצד הסתכלות אסורה יכולה להשפיע על צינורות השפע בזוגיות, וכיצד, מנגד, למבט יש גם כוח עצום לברך ולקדש. הפרק לא רק מסביר את חומרת הפגם, אלא גם מספק כלים מעשיים מגדולי הדורות כיצד לתקן את הנזק שנגרם לעיניים. בסיום הפרק, תפסיקו לזלזל בכוח המבט שלכם. תבינו שאתם מחזיקים בידיכם כלי רוחני רב עוצמה, ותקבלו את הידע וההשראה להשתמש בו לקדושה, לברכה ולבניית קשרים נכונים ואמיתיים. מוכנים לגלות את העוצמה הנסתרת בעיניים שלכם? בהנחיית הרב ארי קלפר ובהפקת אלי פודקאסט הפקות, פרק זה הוא חלק מסדרת "יהדות אמיתית", הזמינה ב-RealJudism.org. אל תשכחו להירשם ולשתף כדי להישאר מחוברים לשיעורים היומיים ולתובנות התורה הנצחיות שלנו.

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Ep. 86 – The Strongest Connection to Hashem

Apr 2, 2026

28:56

Why would a great mind freeze up the moment he’s put on the spot — like all his Torah disappears? Rabbi Ari Klapper uses the story of Levi bar Sisi to uncover a hidden rule: Torah and chochmah don’t live in the same place as ego. A person can collect knowledge, build sharp arguments, and impress others — yet when pressure hits, everything collapses. Why? Because the strongest connection to Hashem isn’t “having a lot,” it’s being connected to the Source. He frames it with a mashal: the king can give you a pile of money, or he can give you a key — access. One is impressive; the other is endless. That distinction reshapes daily avodah. A cistern stores water; a spring keeps flowing. A battery holds charge; a plug draws continuously. Real chochmah is the kind that stays plugged into Hashem’s ratzon, so it refreshes, expands, and stays alive — especially under stress. Practical takeaway: when you feel yourself learning or speaking to “be someone,” stop and ask one grounding question: “What does Hashem want from me right now?” That shift — from performance to presence — turns Torah from a possession into a living connection. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 71 – What is Your True Intention

Apr 7, 2026

5:03

Yaakov Avinu locked his daughter Dina in a box to prevent her from marrying Eisav—and was punished for it. How could refusing to give your daughter to a rasha be wrong? The Mesilas Yesharim reveals a stunning dimension: Yaakov wasn't punished for protecting Dina, but for the simcha he felt while doing it. He should have been pained that his own brother had fallen so low. And there's another layer—Dina possessed such spiritual power that she transformed Shechem's selfish lust into genuine love, testified by four expressions the Torah uses to describe his feelings. If she could flip a rapist's heart, imagine what she could have done for Eisav. This isn't about second-guessing the gedolim—it's about recognizing that Hashem sees past our actions into our intentions. You can do the technically correct thing with the wrong kavana, and it matters. Are you being honest with yourself about why you're making the choices you make? Can you admit when self-interest masquerades as righteousness? Hashem knows the truth even when we hide it from ourselves. This episode demands brutal self-honesty: What is your true intention? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 87 – The Source of Wisdom

Apr 9, 2026

26:38

Is wisdom something you own, or something you stay connected to? Rabbi Ari Klapper sharpens the difference with a modern mashal: a device can run on battery for a while, but a plug gives constant power. A person might be “smart” in the sense of stored facts, yet still think and decide from himself alone. True chochmah, the episode argues, is daas that stays linked to the Source of all wisdom — like a spring that keeps flowing. He adds a vivid comparison: one gift is a pile of money, but the greater gift is the key to the vault. The goal isn’t to have wisdom; it’s to have access. Then Shabbos comes into focus as the weekly reconnection. Shabbos isn’t only a day off; it’s the day you step out of the noise and plug back in through tefillah, learning, and quiet trust. If you’re always running on battery (your plans, your cleverness, your control), you eventually drain out, and frustration follows. But when you reconnect to Hashem’s ratzon, your thinking steadies and your reactions soften. Practical takeaway: pick one “battery” area — worry, overthinking, needing control — and make one tiny “plug-in” habit: 30 seconds of asking, “Hashem, what do You want from me in this next moment?” Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Parshas Tazria- Your True Life Source

Apr 13, 2026

8:32

Why does a white hair only create Tumah if the follicle dried up — and what does that have to do with how you make a living? Why did a Kohen, one of the greatest experts in Hilchos Negaim of his generation, need his wife to teach him something he already knew? And if HaKadosh Baruch Hu gives every single individual hair on your body its own personal life source — why are you convinced He can't do the same for you? Rabbi Klapper uncovers a Midrash buried inside the intricate halachos of Tzaras that stops you cold. A Kohen preparing to leave his community for Parnassah teaches his wife the laws of Negaim — including how to identify when a hair's follicle has dried up and lost its life source. His wife turns the halacha right back at him: if the Ribono Shel Olam gives every hair its own source of life, why do you think you need to go searching for yours? The Chovos HaLevavos tells the exact same story with a twist — a goy makes the same point to a wandering Jew debating theology on the road. Discover why doing your hishtadlus doesn't mean doing more — it means doing what's normal and trusting who's actually in charge. Learn how a halacha about leprosy becomes one of the most practical lessons in bitachon you'll ever hear. Uncover why the life source you're looking for has been with you the whole time. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Parshas Tazria- Your True Life Source

Apr 13, 2026

8:32

Why does a white hair only create Tumah if the follicle dried up — and what does that have to do with how you make a living? Why did a Kohen, one of the greatest experts in Hilchos Negaim of his generation, need his wife to teach him something he already knew? And if HaKadosh Baruch Hu gives every single individual hair on your body its own personal life source — why are you convinced He can't do the same for you? Rabbi Klapper uncovers a Midrash buried inside the intricate halachos of Tzaras that stops you cold. A Kohen preparing to leave his community for Parnassah teaches his wife the laws of Negaim — including how to identify when a hair's follicle has dried up and lost its life source. His wife turns the halacha right back at him: if the Ribono Shel Olam gives every hair its own source of life, why do you think you need to go searching for yours? The Chovos HaLevavos tells the exact same story with a twist — a goy makes the same point to a wandering Jew debating theology on the road. Discover why doing your hishtadlus doesn't mean doing more — it means doing what's normal and trusting who's actually in charge. Learn how a halacha about leprosy becomes one of the most practical lessons in bitachon you'll ever hear. Uncover why the life source you're looking for has been with you the whole time. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Ep. 72 – The Test of Hishtadlus

Apr 14, 2026

5:42

Yosef HaTzaddik asked the Sar HaMashkim to remember him—and got two extra years in prison. Why was asking for help considered wrong? The Mesilas Yesharim unpacks an astonishing distinction: Yosef's bitachon was flawless, but his hishtadlus was misguided. He knew the Sar HaMashkim couldn't be trusted, yet he asked anyway because he felt obligated to "do something." That wasn't hishtadlus—it was grasping at straws, an act of desperation disguised as effort. True hishtadlus means making realistic efforts in line with what Hashem expects, not manufacturing actions just to feel like you tried. How often do we work extra hours convincing ourselves it's responsible, while trading away learning time, family time, and spiritual growth? There's always a trade-off, and we're terrible at seeing it objectively. Are you doing genuine hishtadlus, or are you just busy for the sake of being busy? Can you tell the difference between productive effort and pointless spinning? This episode challenges you to evaluate your choices honestly—and maybe ask a Rav or Rebbe for an outside perspective, because your bias is stronger than you think. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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איך הצעד הקטן ביותר – להגיד "אכפת לי" – הוא הניצחון הגדול ביותר על עמלק

Apr 15, 2026

23:04

מה אם תחושת ה"לא אכפת לי" שלך היא לא עצלות, אלאהתקפה רוחנית של עמלק? אחת התחושות המשתקות ביותר היא האדישות. הרגשה של "טמטוםהלב", חוסר חשק, והמחשבה ששום דבר לא באמת חשוב. קל לפטור את זה כעצלות, אבלמה אם זה משהו עמוק ומסוכן הרבה יותר? בפרק זה, הרב ארי קלפר חושף את השורש הרוחנישל האדישות ומזהה אותה עם כוחו של עמלק – המידההיחידה שאין בה שום צד טוב, ומטרתה לקרר את הלהט הרוחני ולגרום לנו להאמין שאין טעםבמאבק. דרך ניתוח עומק של מהות מלחמת עמלק, הרב קלפר מראה כיצד כלאחד מאיתנו נקרא להילחם באויב הפנימי הזה. תגלו מדוע הצעד הראשון והמכריע ביותראינו פעולה גדולה, אלא הכרזה פנימית פשוטה: "אכפת לי. אני חשוב. יש ליתפקיד". הפרק מסביר כיצד האדישות היא ה"מכסה" שחוסם את האור הפנימישל הנשמה, וכיצד ההחלטה להילחם בה היא זו שמדליקה את האור ומאפשרת צמיחה אמיתית. בסיום הפרק, תפסיקו לראות באדישות שלכם תכונת אופי ותתחילולראות בה אויב שיש לנצח. תהיו מצוידים בהבנה ובמוטיבציה לעשות את הצעד הראשוןוהחשוב ביותר בדרך להתעוררות רוחנית – להחזיראת האכפתיות לחייכם. מוכנים להצטרף למלחמה החשובה ביותר? בהנחיית הרב ארי קלפר ובהפקת אלי פודקאסט הפקות, פרקזה הוא חלק מסדרת "יהדות אמיתית", הזמינה ב-RealJudism.org.אל תשכחו להירשם ולשתף כדי להישאר מחוברים לשיעורים היומייםולתובנות התורה הנצחיות שלנו.

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Ep. 88 – How to Attain Wisdom

Apr 16, 2026

25:45

If Torah is Hashem’s wisdom, why do some people learn for years and still don’t become wiser? Rabbi Ari Klapper turns to an unexpected guide: Chovos HaLevavos, which maps “gates” of inner work, not just information. One gate is introspection: learning to look honestly at yourself, without excuses, and noticing what is really driving you. Torah is “not ours,” yet Hashem allows it to enter a human mind and heart. That only happens when the inner vessel is prepared — when a person stops treating learning as data-collection and starts letting it address his motives, blind spots, and self-deceptions. The episode brings it down to earth with a simple idea: wisdom isn’t a trophy; it’s a posture. It grows in a heart that can hear, in a mind that can say “I might be wrong,” and in a life that makes room for Hashem. So how do you attain wisdom? Start small and concrete: take a daily two-minute cheshbon hanefesh. Ask: “What did I do today that reflected Hashem, and what did I do that reflected my impulses?” Then choose one adjustment for tomorrow. Practical takeaway: do that reflection before sleep, and begin the next day with one targeted change — that’s how Torah turns into chochmah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 220

Apr 20, 2026

2:34

Explaining What They Already KnowEven when no new facts are shared, explaining a past wrong in a way that inflames anger is Rechilus. Halacha forbids turning pain into deeper resentment. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 73 – Smallest Detail

Apr 21, 2026

4:51

Yosef embalmed his father without Hashem's permission—and died 27 years earlier than his brothers. David HaMelech called Torah words "songs"—and Uzzah was killed during the celebration of bringing the Aron to Yerushalayim, grinding the simcha to a halt. The Mesilas Yesharim hammers home a relentless truth: Hashem doesn't overlook the little things. Not for gedolim, not for you. Every small infraction, every misplaced word, every careless thought—it all counts. You might think Hashem only judges the big stuff, but the details are where judgment lives. Does Hashem know every thought you have? Yes. Even the ones you don't act on? Yes. Even if you're "just average" and not a gadol? Yes—Hashem judges everyone on their level, but He judges everyone. You're not small; you're building generations that will come from you, and every tiny choice ripples forward. This isn't meant to crush you—it's meant to sharpen you. Take each moment seriously, do better in the details, and you'll see it's possible. Are you paying attention to the little things, or are you coasting on autopilot? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Parshas Acharei-Kedosim- How Do I Love My Friend Like Myself(1)

Apr 22, 2026

10:44

Is V'ahavta L'reiacha Kamocha really telling you to feel genuine love for every single person you've ever met? Is it normal — or even possible — to love a stranger the same way you love your children? And if most people can't actually do that, are they violating one of the most fundamental mitzvos in the entire Torah every single day? Rabbi Klapper unpacks the layers hiding inside this famous pasuk. The most basic level — the floor, not the ceiling — is simply: don't hurt someone else the way you wouldn't want to be hurt. That's Hillel's one-foot Torah. But the Maharal reveals something deeper: the word Ahava itself means l'chaber — to connect. Which means the feeling of love doesn't have to come first. Do something for someone, and the love follows. Send the Mishloach Manos even when you don't feel close. Give the gift. Make the gesture. The connection builds from the action, not the other way around. And then the Rambam drops something unexpected: the language he uses to describe a husband's obligation to his wife is almost identical to the language of V'ahavta L'reiacha Kamocha — because your spouse is where this mitzvah finds its fullest expression. Discover why the mitzvah of loving your fellow Jew has levels — and which one you're actually responsible for right now. Learn why doing good for someone creates love rather than the reverse. Uncover why HaKadosh Baruch Hu put the deepest version of this mitzvah inside your own home. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 221

Apr 23, 2026

3:02

Adding Fuel to AngerEven if someone already heard the original Lashon Hara, repeating it is still Rechilus. A second report deepens anger, strengthens belief, and causes more aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 89 – All Wisdom Is from Hashem

Apr 23, 2026

24:02

Why does Judaism insist on so many physical mitzvos if holiness is “spiritual”? Rabbi Ari Klapper tackles a deep misconception: that body and soul are enemies, so the only path to kedushah is to escape the physical world. Torah disagrees. The episode explains that all forms of chochmah ultimately trace back to Hashem, and mitzvos were given specifically to guide the body until it becomes a כלי for kedushah. Not by starving the body or denying life, but by elevating it: eating with brachos, building holiness through action, and bringing Hashem into the ordinary. In that sense, the “wisdom” Judaism aims for isn’t abstract; it’s lived — through hands, mouth, time, money, and desire. And that’s where it becomes personal. If your spiritual life lives only in shul, but your temper, habits, and cravings live “down here,” you’ve split yourself in two, and you’ll feel the inner friction. Torah’s path is integration: transform the animal drive into a servant of Hashem. When you take something physical and do it with Hashem in mind, you’re pulling Shamayim into aretz and making space for the Shechinah. Practical takeaway: choose one routine physical act today (food, phone, work, conversation) and add a two-second intention: “I am serving Hashem with my body right now.” Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 222

Apr 27, 2026

3:14

Teshuva for RechilusTeshuva for Rechilus requires charatah, vidui, and kabalah al ha’asid. Because it is bein adam l’chaveiro, asking mechilah may also be necessary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 74 – What am I in Front of Hashem

Apr 28, 2026

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Michal bas Shaul criticized David HaMelech for dancing undignified in front of the slave women—and was punished with barrenness. Wasn't she right? A king should carry himself with dignity, and David's public dancing seemed beneath his station. But David's response cut through to the core: "I wasn't dancing for the commoners—I was dancing before Hashem. And before Hashem, I am nothing." The Mesilas Yesharim teaches that Michal's mistake wasn't her concern for kavod haMalchus; it was her failure to recognize that no human status matters when you're standing before the Ribbono Shel Olam. Moshe Rabbeinu, the greatest human to ever live, understood this perfectly—he saw himself as merely a vessel for Hashem's message. David HaMelech grasped it too: "In front of Hashem, I would lower myself even more if I could." You might be a Rav, a Rosh Yeshiva, a respected leader—but what are you in front of Hashem? Can you hold both truths: that you have responsibilities and dignity in this world, but before Hashem you're nothing? This episode strips away ego and forces the question: Do you know your place kolapei Hashem? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Parshas Emor- Its in Your Hands

Apr 28, 2026

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What do you do with a man who never had a chance? Why does Rashi point the finger directly at someone whose father was murdered before he was born, whose tribe threw him out, and who had no corner of the world to call his own? And what does a blasphemer's worst moment have to do with the choices sitting right in front of you today? Rashi reveals that the megadef wasn't simply a criminal — he was a man built out of compounding wreckage. His father, an Egyptian, was killed by Moshe Rabbeinu sixty years earlier — meaning this man grew up without a father his entire life. His mother was a Jewish woman from Shevet Don who had been taken advantage of. When he finally tries to plant himself somewhere, to belong, he walks into Shevet Don because his mother came from there — and Moshe himself rules him out. Lineage follows the father. He has no father. Rejected, stateless, untethered — and then he curses Hashem. Rabbi Klapper traces how Rashi's comment on pasuk yud dalet, on the words es yadeihem, — the witnesses laying hands on his head and saying your blood is on your hands — isn't cruelty. It's the most radical statement of human dignity in the parsha: you were never merely the sum of what was done to you. Discover that the Torah's refusal to excuse him is actually the deepest form of respect — it insists he was capable of more. Learn that free choice doesn't disappear when circumstances get brutal; it's the one thing that cannot be stripped away. Uncover the uncomfortable truth that seeking help, turning around, choosing differently — that decision is always, only, yours. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 223

Apr 30, 2026

2:31

Accepting Is Even WorseAccepting Rechilus can be even more dangerous than speaking it. Once believed, it can unleash terrible harm, as seen in the tragedy of Nov. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 90 – Don’t Get Angry

Apr 30, 2026

29:44

Why does one flash of anger wipe out wisdom — like your mind suddenly goes dark? Rabbi Ari Klapper shows that this isn’t only “bad middos”; it’s spiritual physics. Chazal teach that when a person gets angry, if he has chochmah it departs. Moshe Rabbeinu becomes the case study: after the war with Midyan, Moshe reacts with anger, and the halachah of hag’alas keilim is taught through Elazar instead of through Moshe. The point isn’t to criticize Moshe; it’s to reveal what anger does. In that moment, anger disconnects a person from Hashem; instead of receiving from the Source, he reacts from ego and control. That is why the Gemara is not describing a mood, but an unplugging. Then the episode ties it to Shabbos. Shabbos is the day of Malchus and menuchah, living “in front of the King.” Anger is the opposite of that presence; it shrinks your world down to “me,” and you pay for it with calm and good judgment. Practical takeaway: build a tiny pause into your reactions — one breath, one sentence: “Hashem is here.” If you need a second tool, physically step back or take a sip of water before you answer. Try it once today in the most ordinary trigger (traffic, kids, a comment). That one pause protects your chochmah — and turns a trigger into avodas Hashem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 224

May 4, 2026

2:46

Don’t Let It InThe first impression is powerful, so never accept Rechilus automatically. Train yourself to pause, question, and refuse belief until facts are clear. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 75 – Even the Greatest People

May 5, 2026

3:48

Chizkiyahu HaMelech experienced some of the most miraculous events in Tanach—an entire Assyrian army dropped dead overnight, and Hashem literally turned back time for him. Torah knowledge flourished under his reign, and he was unquestionably a tzaddik. Yet for one small infraction—showing the Babylonian king the inner storage rooms of the palace—his children were punished, destined to become servants in Babylon. The Mesilas Yesharim's message rings clear: even the greatest tzaddikim don't escape judgment for small mistakes. If Hashem held Chizkiyahu accountable, what makes you think He's overlooking your slip-ups? You might think, "That's only for gedolim—Hashem judges them harshly but goes easy on regular people." Wrong. Hashem judges everyone; He simply does it according to their level. The fortunate ones get their punishments in this world so their Olam Haba stays intact. Nobody gets away with anything—it's only a question of when and where the reckoning comes. Are you living with the awareness that Hashem has a cheshbon for you? Will you take your life seriously before it's too late? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Parshas Behar-Bechukosai- The Chain of Life

May 6, 2026

11:15

How does a person go from simply easing up on learning to not believing in Hashem at all? Why does Rashi trace spiritual collapse not to dramatic rebellion but to something as quiet as relaxing your effort? And what does it mean that the unraveling can span generations — by the time anyone notices, it's already someone else's crisis? Rashi reveals that the opening words of Bechukosai — im bechukosai telechu — don't mean following the rules. They mean toiling in Torah, actively wrestling with it. And from there Rashi maps a chain almost unbearable to trace: not being amel leads to not fulfilling mitzvos, which leads to hating them, which leads to causing others to abandon them, which ends — mamish — at a kofer b'ikur, someone who stops believing entirely. Rabbi Klapper draws out the devastating logic: this isn't someone who gets angry and walks away. It's someone on a downward escalator who never notices which way it's moving. The Haskalah is the proof — people who thought they were modernizing Judaism watched their grandchildren marry out, because once you loosen your grip on Torah itself, the ground keeps moving beneath you. Discover that Rashi's chain runs in both directions — the logic of collapse is equally the logic of growth. Learn that the standard isn't scholarship; it's honest effort, because genuine effort is what keeps you moving against the current. Uncover what's actually at stake in your Torah today — you're not just living your own life, you're building the foundation the people after you will stand on. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Ep. 91 – From Potential to Reality

May 7, 2026

30:21

Why does Shabbos, the holiest day of the week, need a partner at all? This episode opens with a surprising Midrash: every day of creation has its pair, its counterpart that takes hidden potential and brings it into lived reality. The first days prepare the world; the later days draw that preparation out into life, movement, and use. But Shabbos seems different. Shabbos is not just another layer of creation. It is the arrival of kedushah itself, the entrance of the Shechinah, the revelation of something far above the ordinary structure of the world. So what could possibly “complete” Shabbos? What could take something so lofty and make it real here below? Rabbi Klapper answers with a bold idea: Klal Yisrael are Shabbos’s partner. Shabbos brings the possibility of holiness, but the Jewish people are the ones who receive it, live it, and draw it into the world. That means Shabbos is never just a day that happens to us. It is a relationship, a calling, a task. The practical takeaway is both empowering and demanding: every time you bring calm, kedushah, and awareness into Shabbos, you are doing what only Klal Yisrael can do — turning holy potential into holy reality. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 225

May 7, 2026

3:06

Listening Without AcceptingA Jew must learn to hear a warning without accepting it as fact. You may protect yourself, but halacha forbids believing Rechilus outright. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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פרק 18- האם הניסיון שלך באמת קשה יותר, או שאתה פשוט לא מבין את גודל הפוטנציאל שלך?

May 10, 2026

25:37

מה אם העובדה שהניסיון שלך כל כך קשה, היא הוכחה שאתה יכוללהיות גדול? רבים מאיתנו מרגישים שהניסיון האישי שלנו, במיוחד בתחום שמירתהעיניים, קשה באופן יוצא דופן. המחשבה "לי זה יותר קשה מלאחרים" יכולהלהוביל לייאוש ולתחושה שאנחנו פגומים. בפרק זה, הרב ארי קלפר הופך את התפיסה הזו על פיה וחושף את אחד הסודות המעצימים ביותר של חז"ל: "כל הגדול מחברו, יצרו גדול ממנו". תגלו שתחושת הקושי אינה סימן לחולשה, אלא סימן לפוטנציאל רוחני אדיר. דרך סיפורו המפתיע של האמורא הגדול אביי, ודוגמאות מהחייםהמודרניים, הרב קלפר מראה שהקב"ה מתאים את עוצמת הניסיון לגדלות הנשמה. במקום להתייאש מהקושי, נלמד לראות בו הזדמנות לצמיחה אדירה. הפרק לא נשאר בתיאוריה ומספק עצות מעשיות ופשוטות ליישום יומיומי – כיצד להתכונן ליציאה לרחוב, איך להסיט את המחשבה, ואיך להפוך מטרף קל לאדם ששולט בסביבתו הרוחנית. בסיום הפרק, תפסיקו לראות בקושי שלכם אות קלון, ותתחילו לראותבו אות לגדולה. תחושת הייאוש תוחלף בהבנה שהאתגר שלכם הוא ההזדמנות הגדולה ביותר שלכם להתעלות. אתם לא חלשים, אתם גדולים בפוטנציאל. מוכנים לאמץ את האתגר שלכם? בהנחיית הרב ארי קלפר ובהפקת אלי פודקאסט הפקות, פרק זה הואחלק מסדרת "יהדות אמיתית", הזמינה ב-RealJudism.org. אלתשכחו להירשם ולשתף כדי להישאר מחוברים לשיעורים היומיים ולתובנות התורה הנצחיותשלנו.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 226

May 11, 2026

3:04

Mastering What We HearAvraham Avinu teaches that a Jew can control not only speech, but hearing. We can listen carefully without accepting harmful words as truth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 76 – Nothing Gets Overlooked

May 12, 2026

7:11

Rabbi Yochanan cried when he reached the pasuk, "I will be a swift witness against you." Why? Because Hashem's judgment is fast—no time for excuses, no room for justifications. The Mesilas Yesharim teaches that when an eved's master judges both the heavy and light matters equally, that servant has no way out. People love to say, "God doesn't really care about the small stuff—He only focuses on the big aveiros." But that's sonos, borderline heresy. If you expect Hashem to reward your tiny good deeds, why would He ignore your small aveiros? Those "little" aveiros compound—one strand becomes a rope, a casual lack of kavana in bentching becomes a lifetime of mindless brachos. Hashem doesn't punish small things like big things, but He doesn't ignore them either. Every detail gets weighed, every moment counts. You can't hide behind the big aveiros hoping the small ones get overlooked. Can you admit that even your "minor" slip-ups matter? Are you taking the small stuff seriously, or are you sleepwalking through life assuming nobody's watching? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Parshas Bamidbar- The Cure for Jealousy

May 12, 2026

9:41

Why does every tribe need its own flag if every tribe follows the exact same Torah? What does it mean that the nations of the world saw those flags and immediately wanted their own? And why was Korach's rebellion the one crack in a people that should have been completely immune to jealousy? Rabbi Klapper uncovers a Midrash that reframes the entire parsha in a single move. When Bnai Yisrael stood at Har Sinai and the heavens opened, they didn't just hear the Torah — they saw the angels, organized in legions, each group gathered under its own flag. And they understood something: every angel, from Gavriel and Michoel down to the countless nameless ones, knew their specific tachlis. The flag wasn't nationalism. It was a declaration — I know my mission, and I am proud of it. When Bnai Yisrael brought that structure into the desert, each shevet rallying around its own derech within the Torah, they built something the nations couldn't manufacture: a people with no structural reason for jealousy. Korach almost broke it. But almost is the whole point. Discover that jealousy dissolves the moment you know what you're actually here for. Learn that your specific derech isn't a consolation prize for not being someone else — it's the mission only you were built to carry. Uncover the quiet truth: satisfaction doesn't come from having everything; it comes from doing the thing that has your name on it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Ep. 92 – The Spiritual Aspects of Male and Female

May 14, 2026

27:59

What if giving and receiving are not opposites, but two halves of one holy process? This episode explores one of the deepest structures built into creation: the Torah’s picture of zachar and nekeivah, not as a social slogan, but as a spiritual pattern. Rabbi Klapper traces how one side carries potential and flow, while the other receives, shapes, and brings that potential into lived form. A husband and wife, a father and mother, even the moon and the sun all become windows into this mystery. The one who receives is not passive. Receiving is itself a form of greatness, because it is what turns possibility into a home, a family, a future, a world. From there, the episode becomes intensely practical. Spiritual life is not built only through abstract ideals or individual inspiration. It is built through partnership, through knowing your place, through understanding what you are meant to draw down and what you are meant to bring forth. That is why Torah is not merely “learned”; it is housed, nurtured, and made real. The takeaway is to stop treating giving as the only strength that matters. Sometimes the deepest avodah is to become the kind of vessel that can truly receive what Hashem wants to send. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 227

May 14, 2026

2:39

Asking for ProtectionWhen real warning signs appear, a person may ask others what they’ve heard in order to guard himself. Still, he may only be choshesh, never accept. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 228

May 18, 2026

2:36

Choshesh, Not ConvincedBeing choshesh means protecting yourself, not believing evil. You may not hate, take revenge, or withhold what another Jew is rightfully owed. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 77 – Take Every Second Seriously

May 19, 2026

5:16

One misplaced dot in a computer program and the whole thing crashes. We use this analogy to shatter the illusion that God overlooks details. If Hashem rewards every tiny good deed, He's also accounting for every small aveira. People walk around saying, "God knows how hard it is for me—He'll look the other way on this one." No, He won't. Hashem doesn't forget anything. Every second of your life is either building or eroding your spiritual account. Time is your most precious commodity, and once it's gone, you're never getting it back. The Gemara warns: whoever says Hashem will just forget about things, Hashem will forget that person's innards—even your body's basic functions are a constant gift that could stop at any moment. Look at a hospital; see how many things can go wrong. Your health, your breath, your heartbeat—none of it is automatic. Hashem is holding it all together every single second. If He's not overlooking your physical existence, why would He overlook your spiritual choices? Are you using your time wisely, or are you wasting the most precious thing you'll ever have? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Shavuos- Bring the Torah Home

May 19, 2026

11:38

Why is the inauguration of the Mishkan called Hashem's greatest joy — even above the giving of the Torah? What does it mean that wedding language appears twice in the Torah, once at Sinai and once at the Mishkan, as if the two events complete a single sentence? And if the whole point of creation was Hashem dwelling in this world — where does that leave us right now? Rabbi Klapper uncovers a thread running from the Rambam through the Mishnah in Maseches Taanis that reframes everything we thought we knew about Shavuos. Yes, the giving of the Torah was the wedding — Yom Chasunaso. But the Mishnah reserves a separate category for Yom Simchas Libo, the day of deepest joy: the moment the Mishkan was completed and the Shekhinah actually descended into this world. Rashi's commentary on the Nasi Yissachar's korban traces the entire sweep of history forward to that moment — Adam, Noach, the seventy nations, the Avos, Moshe, all of them hinted at in a single korban — because every generation was one step in the same long courtship. Har Sinai was not the destination. It was the commitment. The Mishkan was when Hashem finally came home. Discover that Sinai was the wedding, but the Mishkan was when Hashem moved in — and those are two very different things. Learn that bringing Torah into your home isn't extra credit; it's the architecture that invites the Shekhinah in. Uncover what Chazal knew and we keep forgetting: the presence of Hashem in a home isn't a miracle waiting to happen — it's a choice you can make tonight. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 229

May 21, 2026

2:18

Respect Despite SuspicionEven when you are choshesh, you must still treat the other Jew with full respect. Halacha allows self-protection, but never degrading or hurting him. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 93 – Your Essence: In Your Place

May 21, 2026

21:41

If your soul gives life to your body, why is the neshamah spoken of as a receiver? This episode begins with a strange paradox and then opens into a profound answer. Yes, the neshamah is what animates the body. Yes, it is the giver of life, awareness, and spiritual direction. But Rabbi Klapper explains that the true identity of something is defined not only by what it does, but by where it belongs. And the neshamah does not really belong here. Its home is above. Its source is under the Kisei HaKavod. Its being in this world is a mission, not a natural resting place. That changes everything. We are not bodies that happen to have a spiritual side; we are heavenly souls traveling through a physical world to accomplish something eternal. The world is not “home” in the deepest sense. It is the field of avodah, the place where mitzvos can be done, choices can be made, and closeness to Hashem can be earned. The practical takeaway is simple and steadying: when life feels too heavy, remember that not every discomfort means something is wrong. Sometimes it means your neshamah remembers where it truly belongs — and is trying to pull you upward. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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פרק 19 - הפסק להיות מופתע, התחל לתכנן: המדריך האסטרטגי שלך לניצחון

May 24, 2026

26:28

איך דקה אחת של מחשבה לפני היציאה מהבית יכולה לחסוך שעות שלמאבק? רבים מאיתנו יוצאים לעולם בכל יום כשאנחנו לא מוכנים לקרבהרוחני שמצפה לנו, ומופתעים כל פעם מחדש כשהניסיונות מגיעים. אנחנו פועלים באופן תגובתי, במקום אסטרטגי. בפרק זה, הרב ארי קלפר חושף שהיצר הרע הוא אולי חזק, אבל הוא גם צפוי. הוא פועל בשיטתיות, והמפתח לניצחון הוא להכיר את טקטיקותיו ולהכין תוכנית פעולה מראש. במקום להיות קורבנות פסיביים, אנו יכולים להפוך למפקדים חכמים בשדה הקרב של הנפש. דרך משלים ודוגמאות מעשיות, הרב קלפר מציג תוכנית אסטרטגיתפשוטה ויעילה. תלמדו כיצד לחשוב כמו "איש עסקים" לפני פגישה חשובה,לזהות את נקודות התורפה בדרך שלכם, ולבצע פעולות קטנות אך משמעותיות – כמו לעמוד עם הגב לתנועה או לשים שיעור באוזניות – שיכולות לשנות את תוצאות המערכה. הפרק חושף כיצד המודעות לתוכניות היצר הרע היא הצעד הראשון לנטרול כוחו. בסיום הפרק, תפסיקו להיות מופתעים ותתחילו להיות מוכנים. תהיומצוידים במפת דרכים אסטרטגית שתעניק לכם תחושת שליטה, ביטחון, ויכולת גדולה בהרבה לנצח בניסיונות היומיומיים. אתם מסוגלים להפוך מטרף קל למפקדים בשטח. מוכנים לכתוב את תוכנית הקרב שלכם? בהנחיית הרב ארי קלפר ובהפקת אלי פודקאסט הפקות, פרק זה הואחלק מסדרת "יהדות אמיתית", הזמינה ב-RealJudism.org. אלתשכחו להירשם ולשתף כדי להישאר מחוברים לשיעורים היומיים ולתובנות התורה הנצחיותשלנו.

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 230

May 25, 2026

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Stop Chasing GossipDon’t go asking what others say about you. That curiosity invites Rechilus, heartache, and many avoidable aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 78 – There is Justice in the World

May 26, 2026

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The Yetzer Hara whispers, "Don't worry—Hashem will forgive you." Don't listen. The Mesilas Yesharim declares that Hashem is emes, and emes means no one gets away with anything. You see terrorists walking free, reshaim prospering, and you wonder where the justice is. It's there—you just don't see when and where it lands. The fortunate ones pay in this world; the unfortunate pay in the next. Moshe Rabbeinu taught that Hashem is a rock—solid, unchanging, purely just. If it would be unjust to overlook your mitzvos, it's equally unjust to overlook your aveiros. Everything will ultimately bring kavod Shamayim—either through reward for the righteous or punishment for the wicked. When Mashiach comes, the whole world will see the accounting, and everything will be revealed retroactively as having been for Hashem's glory. On one hand, this should comfort you—injustice isn't real; it's just delayed. On the other hand, it should terrify you—there's justice for you too. Will you change before Hashem corrects you? Can you accept that punishment exists to fix what's broken, and maybe fix yourself first? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 94 – Giving and Receiving

May 28, 2026

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Can you really call yourself a giver if you’ve forgotten where your gifts came from? This episode cuts straight into a subtle spiritual danger: the illusion that because something now sits in your hands, it must have come from you. Rabbi Klapper uses the example of wealth, success, and human generosity to show how easily a person begins to see himself as the source. But Shabbos tells a different story. Shabbos is called the source of blessing, yet it never presents itself as independent. Why? Because Shabbos receives from Hashem and gives to the world at the very same moment. It is a pure channel, a holy pipeline, never confusing the flow with the Source. That is the challenge for us as well. To give without arrogance. To build, provide, and help while never forgetting that all shefa begins with Hashem. This does not weaken human action; it purifies it. The practical reflection is powerful: the next time you give something — money, time, encouragement, wisdom — pause before you do it and remember, “I am passing on what Hashem first placed in my hands.” That one moment can turn ego into humility and kindness into avodah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 231

May 28, 2026

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Don’t Go LookingSearching for negative talk guarantees pain. Protect your relationship with Hashem instead of chasing every rumor about yourself. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 232

Jun 1, 2026

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Choose the Favorable ReadEven when you must be choshesh, stay dan l’kaf zechus. Many hurtful-sounding comments may actually have a positive meaning. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 79 – Where is there Room for Mercy

Jun 2, 2026

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If Hashem judges every detail and punishes every aveira, where's the mercy? The Mesilas Yesharim poses this philosophical question: Hashem takes everything into account—big and small, reward and punishment—so where does rachamim fit in? The answer: without rachamim, the world wouldn't exist at all. According to strict din, you should be struck down the moment you rebel against Hashem. Every aveira is an act of rebellion—God gives you life and asks you to follow His rules, and you said no. That deserves instant death. But how do you fix an aveira? You can't take back chilul Shabbos. You can't undo murder or adultery. A young man kills someone in a drunk driving accident, and three years later he's sitting in prison realizing he can never bring that person back. There are no second chances for some things—so according to din alone, there's no path forward. That's where rachamim enters: not to erase justice, but to transform it. Hashem gives you time, holds back immediate punishment, offers you teshuva as a way to fix the unfixable. Can you grasp how much chesed it is that you're still breathing after your mistakes? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 95 – The Exact Same Moment

Jun 4, 2026

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What if the deepest truth of Shabbos is that two things happen at once — and never separate? Rabbi Klapper brings a vivid mashal of a mirror. A painting receives an image and then later reflects it. But a mirror is different: in the very same instant that it receives, it gives. What you see in it is both the one reflected and the reflection itself, together, inseparably. That, he explains, is Shabbos. Shabbos receives from Hashem and gives to the world in the exact same moment. It is not first one thing and then the other. It is the point where the Shechinah enters and the world is blessed in one single movement. That is why Shabbos is doubled — zachor and shamor, chosson and kallah, Shabbos and Shechinah. Even “Bo’i Kallah” carries both meanings at once. We are greeting the day, and we are greeting the Divine Presence shining through the day. The practical takeaway is as direct as it gets: to deepen your Shabbos, keep one thought alive again and again — “It’s Shabbos. Hashem is here.” That remembrance is not a side detail. It is the mirror itself. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 233

Jun 4, 2026

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Undo Accepted RechilusTeshuva for accepting Rechilus begins by uprooting belief from your heart. Then come charatah, vidui, and kabalah for the future. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 234

Jun 8, 2026

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Silence Isn’t AdmissionRechilus remains forbidden whether spoken privately, publicly, or even in front of the accused. Silence does not prove guilt. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 80 – True Regret

Jun 9, 2026

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That's charata. The Mesilas Yesharim teaches that true regret means you wish you never did it, even if you enjoyed every second of it at the time. People confuse "I won't do it again" with "I wish I never did it." A baal teshuva might say, "I wasn't frum back then—I didn't know better, so it's okay that I enjoyed it." No. Real charata means even though you had fun, you're horrified by what you did. Hashem's rachamim allows teshuva to uproot the desire to sin, and when you uproot the desire, it's as if the act itself never happened. But that only works if your regret is real. Are you hiding behind excuses—"I was an oneis, I didn't know"—to avoid feeling the full weight of what you did? Or can you stare honestly at your past enjoyment and say, "I wish with everything in me that I never experienced that"? This episode forces you to confront whether your teshuva is genuine or just a performance. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 235

Jun 11, 2026

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Why Trust the Gossiper?Why believe the speaker committing an aveira over the Jew with chazkas kashrus? Even helpful warnings allow caution, never full acceptance. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 236

Jun 15, 2026

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Don’t Blame the CompetitorLosing a contract is painful, but you may not assume a competitor caused it. Suspicion is not proof, even when circumstances look convincing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Ep. 81 – The Secret of Teshuva

Jun 16, 2026

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Teshuva doesn't just erase an aveira—it uproots it retroactively, as if it never existed. The Mesilas Yesharim unveils an unbelievable chesed: when you do proper teshuva, the pleasure you got from the sin is replaced by the pain you feel for having done it. That pain itself becomes the justice, fulfilling the requirement to fix what was broken. This isn't din—it's rachamim collaborating with din to achieve Hashem's ultimate purpose: bringing you close to Him. Hashem doesn't want to punish you; He wants your heart. Why does Hashem give you time instead of striking you down immediately? To wake you up. The Dor HaMabul had 120 years, and even a week before destruction, Hashem sent miracles to shake them awake. He didn't want to destroy the world—He wanted them to fix it. When you do real teshuva with genuine pain, you're doing what Hashem wanted all along: getting closer to Him. The punishment would have achieved that by force; teshuva achieves it through choice. Can you transform your mistakes into closeness, or will you need Hashem to force the correction? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 237

Jun 18, 2026

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Don’t Believe HimIf a non-Jew claims another Jew informed on you, do not accept it. Believing him can trigger hatred, revenge, and even worse aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 238

Jun 22, 2026

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Business Rumors MisleadWhen a non-Jew blames a Jewish competitor for a lost sale, don’t accept it. Dan l’kaf zechus applies in business too. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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