Popular Shows by The Real Judaism Podcast with Rabbi Ari Klapper The Real Judaism Podcast with Rabbi Ari Klapper
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Parshas Mikeitz; Why Did Yosef Do That
Parshas Mikeitz; Why Did Yosef Do That
Dec 17, 2025
11:53
Why did Yosef seat his brothers by exact birth order? Why reveal he knew the wood of their cribs—details only family could know? If he wanted to stay hidden, why leave hints that screamed it's me? Rashi reveals that Yosef banged on his cup like a magician, calling out each brother by name and mother. Rabbi Klapper uncovers something deeper: Yosef wasn't playing games—he was begging to be recognized. These weren't tricks; they were invitations. Yosef understood that complete teshuva required his brothers to see what they'd missed from the very beginning. Not just that selling him was cruel, but that dismissing his dreams was the original error. He wanted them to arrive at one realization on their own: we should have believed in our brother's greatness. Discover why true teshuva sometimes means revisiting not just what we did, but how we saw someone. Learn how Yaakov's quiet response to Yosef's dreams—holding onto possibility instead of dismissing it—offers a model for recognizing potential in the people around us. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Yosef's Tears - Vayigash
Yosef's Tears - Vayigash
Dec 24, 2025
11:09
Why did Yosef and Binyamin cry about the destruction of the Temples at their reunion? After 22 years apart, with all the emotion of brothers from the same mother finally embracing—why is this the moment Rashi says they mourned the Churban? Rabbi Klapper uncovers a truth hidden in the sequence of events. Yosef had been dropping hints for weeks, begging his brothers to recognize him on their own. But when Yehuda threatened to destroy all of Egypt—and meant it—Yosef was forced to reveal himself before the teshuva was complete. The brothers got the shock of "Ani Yosef," but they never arrived at the realization themselves. And teshuva that comes from shock, like miracles that dazzle but don't transform, doesn't build foundations. The maidservant at Yam Suf saw more than Yechezkel—and remained a maidservant. Discover why introspection that we initiate is different from truth that hits us. Learn how Yosef and Binyamin's tears weren't just prophecy—they were recognition of what was missing in that very moment. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 199
Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 199
Dec 21, 2025
2:22
Revenge Is Not Toeles Retaliating because someone spoke against you is never allowed. Even believing the rumor is rechilus. True toeles uplifts—it never mirrors the sin it condemns. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Parshas Toldos- Do You Love Food
Parshas Toldos- Do You Love Food
Nov 19, 2025
13:12
Why did Yitzchak make his blessing depend on food? Why demand that Esav hunt and serve him a meal first? Most puzzling: he used the word for "love"—the same emotion we use for a wife, a child, a soul—for this meal. What was Yitzchak really tasting? Rashi reveals something astonishing hidden in those hunting instructions: they're about kedusha, not just meal prep. Rabbi Klapper uncovers the deeper pattern: food is what connects your soul to your body. Rivka, a true tzedeket, infused her meals with spiritual holiness. Every time Yitzchak ate from her kitchen, he experienced kedusha—a real elevation of spirit. That's what he actually loved. That's what gave him the power to bless. When Yaakov brought Rivka's food, Yitzchak tasted it and felt "mikol"—everything—flooding through him. Only then could he give the bracha. Discover what this means for your own table: a righteous woman preparing food with intention, with kavanah, infuses every bite with kedusha. That's why food matters. That's why blessing flows from nourishment made holy. When you eat with awareness, you're not just feeding your body—you're connecting your soul to this world. That changes everything. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Parshas Vayeishev; Mashiach and the Power of Tznius
Parshas Vayeishev; Mashiach and the Power of Tznius
Dec 9, 2025
8:18
Why does Rashi point to tznius as the reason Tamar merited to become the grandmother of Mashiach? With so many great middos—chesed, rachamim, emunah—why is hiddenness the one that births royalty? And what does modesty have to do with power? Rabbi Klapper uncovers a startling pattern: Tamar kept her strengths locked away, used only in the right place at the right time. Rashi tells us Yehuda didn't even recognize her because she was so tznuah in his house—she never made herself seen. This isn't about clothing. It's about focus. In a world that demands you show everything, broadcast every talent, let it all hang out, Tamar understood something different. Hidden power is concentrated power. Like a secret weapon that changes wars because the enemy never sees it coming, her focused koichos created an explosion of spiritual energy. Discover why the middah of tznius isn't about restriction—it's about directing your strengths to where they can actually transform. Learn how keeping your best hidden until the right moment creates the power to build dynasties. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Ep. 3 - Invest in Yourself (reupload)
Ep. 3 - Invest in Yourself (reupload)
Jul 6, 2024
12:09
Is giving in your marriage a burden or a gift? We explore a profound truth: Marriage isn’t just about sacrificing for your spouse — it’s about investing in yourself. Many people enter marriage thinking love will naturally sustain itself, but Rabbi Klapper reveals why love must be actively nurtured and grown through meaningful acts of giving. He shows how real connection happens when each partner fills in the gaps for the other, not because they have to, but because they choose to. Through Torah insights and timeless wisdom, you’ll learn how to reframe your mindset from “I gave up for my spouse” to “I invested in us.” Discover how showing genuine respect, building your spouse’s self-esteem, and stepping in where they need support transforms a marriage from routine to remarkable. Rabbi Klapper draws a powerful parallel from the story of Michal, the daughter of Shaul, to highlight the impact of feeling valued and supported in a relationship. Ready to see your marriage as your most meaningful investment? This episode will challenge you to invest deeply in your relationship and, in doing so, find the greatest returns — love, connection, and spiritual growth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights! This is a reuploaded episode with better sound quality
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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 200
Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 200
Dec 24, 2025
2:50
Silence or Truth? If asked “who did it,” one may only say “not me” when it’s truly a wrongdoing—and never name another. Higher souls accept blame to preserve peace. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 6
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 6
Jun 30, 2024
2:16
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 9
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 9
Jul 3, 2024
2:23
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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2. Self Control
2. Self Control
Mar 14, 2021
25:45
Chizuk and practical help to overcome our most difficult Nisayon.Need help with this Nisayon? Have a question for Rabbi Klapper? Send an email to [email protected].
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 1
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 1
Jun 7, 2024
1:56
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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1. Shmiras Einayim - You're Not Alone
1. Shmiras Einayim - You're Not Alone
Jan 23, 2021
29:47
Chizuk and practical help to overcome our most difficult Nisayon.Need help with this Nisayon? Have a question for Rabbi Klapper? Send an email to [email protected].
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Ep. 11 - See Beyond Temptation
Ep. 11 - See Beyond Temptation
Jul 28, 2025
19:24
Who are you when no one is watching? And what does your name say about your mission in this world? This episode takes us into one of the most powerful scenes in Torah: Yosef alone, far from home, facing a test no one would ever know about—except Hashem. What gave him the strength to walk away when everything inside him said yes? The answer: he remembered who he was. Rabbi Klapper uncovers the profound idea that a Jew’s name isn’t just a label—it’s a reflection of their essence. Yosef saw his father’s face and remembered his future—his name engraved on the Choshen, his destiny as one of the Shvatim—and it gave him the clarity and strength to say no. But what if we didn’t say no? Rabbi Klapper doesn’t stop with the tzaddik who stands strong—he brings us to Yehuda, who fell and got up again. The Torah’s message is clear: whether you overcome or stumble, you’re still part of the story. The Yetzer Hara wants us to forget who we are. Tshuva helps us remember. This episode gives the listener tools to fight temptation in private, resist the crushing voice of shame, and believe that every struggle and every comeback is part of a divine plan. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 132
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 132
Jul 16, 2025
2:11
He Admits It—Together With Someone Else If someone confesses to an aveira and implicates another person in the same sentence, you're only allowed to believe what he says about himself—not the other. Even shared guilt doesn’t justify belief in Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 10 - The Power in Privacy
Ep. 10 - The Power in Privacy
Jul 14, 2025
26:37
What if the key to your deepest strength is what you choose to keep hidden? In a world that tells us to flaunt everything, the Torah tells us something radically different: keep the most powerful parts of yourself private. Real power, real holiness, lies in what you don’t reveal. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper takes us deep into the heart of tznius—not just as a dress code or a social rule, but as a spiritual strategy for greatness. Why did Rochel Imeinu give away her simanim? Why did Shaul HaMelech and Esther Hamalka keep their identities secret until the perfect moment? Because true strength is built in silence, and only revealed when it counts. But this idea doesn’t stay in the abstract. It speaks directly to one of the hardest challenges we face—Shmiras Einayim. Rabbi Klapper explains how guarding our eyes, our desires, and our inner world preserves something priceless: the ability to build a powerful, lasting connection with a future spouse. What seems like a restriction is really an investment. Every moment of self-control now creates lifelong depth later. And even if we’ve fallen, we can always rebuild. Hashem gave us the gift of teshuva—and the strength to hold out for something infinitely greater. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 76
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 76
Mar 7, 2025
2:15
When Beis Din Is Challenged Publicly defying Beis Dn permits public rebuke. Explore why preserving Torah authority allows exceptions to typical Lashon Hara restrictions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 77
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 77
Mar 9, 2025
2:29
Flawed Yet Growing When noticing bad middos, remember: growth takes time. Judging someone mid-journey often misrepresents their true efforts. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 78
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 78
Mar 12, 2025
2:47
The Mitzvah of Self-Improvement Bad middos often stem from ignorance, not defiance. A kind word can inspire growth more effectively than criticism. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 79
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 79
Mar 14, 2025
2:35
Teaching Children About Middos Protecting kids from bad influences is vital. Learn how to guide them without fostering resentment or generalizations. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 2
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 2
Jun 24, 2024
2:27
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 3
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 3
Jun 25, 2024
2:26
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 4
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 4
Jun 26, 2024
1:54
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 5
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 5
Jun 27, 2024
2:25
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 80
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 80
Mar 16, 2025
2:29
Shidduch Questions: Protect or Harm? When asking shidduch questions, be clear and avoid gossip. Intent and precision are key to maintaining dignity and accuracy. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 7
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 7
Jul 1, 2024
2:16
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 8
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 8
Jul 2, 2024
2:37
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 10
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 10
Jul 4, 2024
2:24
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Ep. 17 - Clarity of the Purpose of Life
Ep. 17 - Clarity of the Purpose of Life
Mar 18, 2025
12:49
What is your purpose in life? It’s the most important question you’ll ever ask—and one that too many people never answer. The Ramchal teaches that every person must clarify their life’s goal before they can grow spiritually. Without a solid foundation, all efforts to achieve greatness will collapse under pressure. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper guides listeners through the process of identifying their core mission. How do you balance spiritual growth with practical responsibilities? Why is it crucial to establish life priorities before chasing success? Through powerful stories and relatable insights, this episode will help you solidify your foundation in avodas Hashem, ensuring your life is built on a purpose that will stand the test of time. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 81
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 81
Mar 19, 2025
2:22
Accuracy in Shidduch Discussions Exaggerations harm more than they help. Learn why honest and precise questions uphold both halacha and trust. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 11
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 11
Jul 7, 2024
2:06
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 12
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 12
Jul 8, 2024
1:32
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 13
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 13
Jul 9, 2024
1:52
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 14
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 14
Jul 10, 2024
2:15
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 15
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 15
Jul 11, 2024
2:16
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 82
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 82
Mar 21, 2025
2:26
Matching Expectations in Shidduchim Misaligned standards can mislead. Tailor shidduch answers to the questioner’s perspective to ensure accurate and meaningful discussions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 96
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 96
Mar 23, 2025
2:28
Easing Conflict with Words In cases of machlokes, sometimes reframing someone's words as a foolish mistake rather than intentional harm can prevent hatred. If it truly reduces conflict, such speech may be permitted. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 16
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 16
Jul 14, 2024
2:23
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 17
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 17
Jul 15, 2024
2:00
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 18
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 18
Jul 16, 2024
2:26
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 19
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 19
Jul 17, 2024
2:04
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 20
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 20
Jul 18, 2024
2:03
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 83
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 83
Mar 23, 2025
2:24
Nostalgia or Lashon Hara? Reconnecting with old friends often leads to reminiscing—but beware. Casual conversations can easily stray into forbidden speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 21
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 21
Jul 21, 2024
2:08
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Ep. 9 - Develop Yourself
Ep. 9 - Develop Yourself
Jan 21, 2025
11:41
What’s your real life’s work—building your bank account or building yourself? The Ramchal reminds us that avodas Hashem isn't just about knowing the right things. It’s about developing our midos and refining our character. Yet, so many people are afraid to look in the mirror and ask, “Am I really the person I should be?” In this episode, Rabbi Klapper takes a deep dive into the process of self-development. Why do so many people face a midlife crisis, feeling empty despite their worldly successes? And how can early investment in personal growth prevent those moments of regret? This episode will inspire you to make your life’s focus your own growth, ensuring that when you look back, you’ll see a life of meaning, not wasted potential. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 25
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 25
Jul 25, 2024
2:08
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Ep. 8 - You are Normal
Ep. 8 - You are Normal
Jun 16, 2025
20:54
What if your deepest struggles don’t define you—but reveal who you really are?When it comes to Shemiras Einayim and controlling our thoughts, many people believe that the battle itself is a sign of failure. But Rabbi Klapper offers a powerful truth: the fight doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’re alive. Hashem designed this world with challenges so that we could grow through them. That includes the taiva itself. It’s not inherently evil—it’s meant to become holy. So instead of asking, “Why do I have this?” the real question is, “What am I meant to do with it?”In this episode, we dive into the root of the Yetzer Hara, why Hashem gave us this powerful drive, and how holding it back doesn’t weaken it—it strengthens its potential. Why didn’t Hashem just make us without temptation? And how can understanding our mahus—our essence—help us fight back without losing ourselves in shame or guilt? With stories from the Gemara, insights from the Chazal, and examples from everyday life, Rabbi Klapper shows how embracing who you really are gives you the strength to stand tall, even when you fall.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 8 - Proper Planning
Ep. 8 - Proper Planning
Jan 14, 2025
7:12
Why do so many ambitious plans for spiritual growth fail? The Ramchal teaches us that the key to lasting success in avodas Hashem isn’t about how fast we grow but about how wisely we plan. It’s not just about inspiration—it’s about knowing yourself, recognizing your limits, and pacing your efforts to avoid burnout. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores practical strategies for personal growth, from using incentives to stay motivated to understanding the dangers of an “all-or-nothing” mindset. How do you balance ambition with patience? And how do you build a plan that works for you? This episode will help you create a sustainable approach to growth, ensuring that your spiritual goals don’t fizzle out. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 7 - Natural Emunah
Ep. 7 - Natural Emunah
Jan 7, 2025
8:00
Ever notice how young children have a pure, unshakable belief in Hashem? That’s because emunah is natural—it’s hardwired into every human soul. Yet as we grow older, cynicism creeps in, clouding this innate faith. Why does this happen? And how can we reclaim the simplicity of belief in a complicated world? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the Ramchal’s profound insight: unlike yirah and ahavah, which require effort to cultivate, emunah is already inside us. But maintaining it requires care—keeping negativity and doubts at bay. Through relatable stories and practical advice, this episode offers a path to nurturing your natural faith and holding onto the clarity that life’s distractions often bury. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 6 - Seeing Life’s Crucial Details
Ep. 6 - Seeing Life’s Crucial Details
Dec 30, 2024
5:54
This week, we explore the Ramchal’s teachings on sensitivity to life’s details and the transformative power of Mussar in navigating our inner contradictions. Why do we so often overlook the aspects of life that truly matter? How can we shift from living with guilt to embracing a productive path of Teshuva? Join us as we discuss how learning Mussar provides the clarity and tools to process our struggles, develop resilience, and find purpose in the process of growth. With a focus on practical insights, this episode will inspire you to recognize the significance of details and how they shape your relationship with Hashem and yourself. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 5 - What Drives True Avodas Hashem?
Ep. 5 - What Drives True Avodas Hashem?
Dec 26, 2024
6:34
In this episode, we explore the deeper meaning of Yiras Shamayim and what it truly means to go beyond the basics in Avodas Hashem. Why do people resist taking on extra responsibilities like chumras, and how can they actually strengthen our relationship with Hashem? Through the lens of the Ramchal’s teachings, we’ll uncover the power of lifnim mishuras hadin—going above and beyond halachic obligations—not as a burden, but as an opportunity to enhance our spiritual lives. Join us as we reflect on the importance of Mussar, the effort required for growth, and the extraordinary rewards that come with true dedication to Avodas Hashem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 4 - Rediscovering Mussar's True Purpose
Ep. 4 - Rediscovering Mussar's True Purpose
Dec 23, 2024
8:45
This episode tackles an age-old question: Why do so many people overlook learning Mussar, even though it’s critical to true spiritual growth? Do we dismiss it as "too simple," or do we assume it’s only for those struggling with other areas of Torah? Join us as we explore the Ramchal’s call to prioritize Mussar and how it can transform not just our knowledge, but our connection to Hashem and our purpose in life. We'll debunk the myths surrounding Mussar and highlight its universal relevance—whether you're a beginner or a talmid chacham. Together, let’s reclaim the passion and importance of a Mussar seder and bring it back into the heart of our daily Avodah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 3 - Beyond Knowledge: Becoming Better
Ep. 3 - Beyond Knowledge: Becoming Better
Dec 19, 2024
7:13
This week, we explore the Ramchal’s perspective on intellect and its potential for personal transformation. Have you ever wondered why intellectual achievements alone don’t lead to true fulfillment? Why do so many brilliant minds struggle to translate their insights into real personal growth? Join us as we dive into Mesilas Yesharim and uncover the secret to using your mind—not just for knowledge, but for self-improvement. We’ll challenge the common idea of intellect as a purely external pursuit and show how true wisdom lies in applying what we know to change who we are. Through practical advice and timeless lessons, this episode is perfect for anyone looking to move beyond theory and become their best self. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 6 - Using Your Time Right
Ep. 6 - Using Your Time Right
May 19, 2025
31:57
What if the best way to fight the Yetzer Hara is not to fight it at all? When we imagine spiritual growth, we often picture intense battles—resisting temptation, wrestling with taivos, fighting off distractions. But the Torah offers a surprising strategy: stay too busy for the Yetzer Hara to catch up. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the concept of misiach daas—not by ignoring the battle, but by turning your focus elsewhere. When your time is filled with purpose, you leave no space for the Yetzer Hara to sneak in. Through a deep look at Paro’s strategy in Mitzrayim and its reversal in avodas Hashem, we uncover how keeping our minds occupied is more than a distraction tactic—it’s a spiritual weapon. From building Torah learning habits one small step at a time, to finding hobbies, jobs, or friends that keep us energized and grounded, this shiur guides you toward a life of intentional action. Why does boredom open the door to aveiros? How can your free time become a tool for growth instead of a trap for failure? And what does it mean to “walk like a businessman” in your daily life? With clarity and warmth, Rabbi Klapper offers a new lens on time management—not as a productivity hack, but as the foundation of kedusha. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 2 - From Clear Ideas to Real Change
Ep. 2 - From Clear Ideas to Real Change
Dec 16, 2024
5:42
In this episode, we continue exploring Mesilas Yesharim, uncovering the gap between knowing the truth and living it. Have you ever felt clarity in a shiur or davening but struggled to apply it when faced with real-life challenges? Why is it so hard to transform what we know into how we act? Join us as we delve into the Ramchal’s timeless guidance on turning intellectual clarity into a lived experience. Through relatable examples and practical advice, we’ll discuss how constant repetition and reflection are the keys to personal growth. This isn’t just about adding more knowledge—it’s about creating lasting change, one small step at a time. Perfect for anyone ready to take their learning to the next level and truly make it real. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 41
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 41
Dec 15, 2024
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Day 41 Today's lesson highlights the gravity of Lashon Hara, which the Chafetz Chaim teaches is worse than the gravest sins. Even under pressure, guarding our words is non-negotiable—because our speech shapes our world. This daily lesson is presented by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, as part of the Real Judaism series. You can find more content like this at RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share so you never miss a chance to deepen your understanding of Torah and Jewish living! We know it’s been a while since our last episode, and we truly appreciate your patience. Behind the scenes, we’ve been working hard on some exciting changes to bring you even better content. Thank you for sticking with us—we’re thrilled to be back and can’t wait to continue sharing timeless Torah wisdom with you! The podcast Bezrat Hashem will be released 2 or 3 times a week
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Ep 1 - Remembering What You Already Know
Ep 1 - Remembering What You Already Know
Dec 14, 2024
7:25
Welcome to the very first episode of the Real Judaism - Mesilas Yesharim podcast series, where timeless Torah wisdom meets real-life application. This week, Rabbi Ari Klapper begins an incredible journey into Mesilas Yesharim, offering insights on how to bring clarity and focus into our Avodas Hashem. Why do we often forget the most important truths, even as we strive to live by them? And how can we take foundational knowledge and make it part of our daily lives? In this introductory episode, you’ll discover how Mesilas Yesharim helps us bridge the gap between what we know and how we live. Whether you’re a seasoned learner or just starting out, this series offers inspiration and tools to deepen your understanding and connection to Torah values. Real Judaism is hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions. For more episodes and resources, visit realjudaism.org. Join us as we embark on a transformative exploration of the principles that form the foundation of a meaningful Jewish life.
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Ep7. A Man's Needs, Exclusivity
Ep7. A Man's Needs, Exclusivity
Oct 17, 2024
26:47
Come and enhance the core of your life, your marriage, by learning what are the foundations of a truly happy home and how to strengthen them.
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Ep. 5 - How to do Teshuva
Ep. 5 - How to do Teshuva
May 6, 2025
35:50
What if the hardest part of teshuva isn’t change, but admitting you need to? Teshuva doesn't begin with dramatic resolutions or perfect results. It begins with a moment of clarity—a quiet but powerful realization: Something’s not right. I want more. That simple decision to face ourselves honestly is already a massive step forward. Yet for many, this first step is the most frightening. It means confronting our habits, our history, and the stories we tell ourselves to stay comfortable. In this episode, we uncover the building blocks of real teshuva—what it means to separate recognition from action, how to avoid getting stuck in guilt, and why even a single decision to change shifts your entire direction in life. Drawing from Torah sources and personal experience, Rabbi Klapper offers a step-by-step path to teshuva that’s honest, practical, and sustainable. Whether you’re just beginning or returning again after a fall, this journey starts with one choice: to stop hiding and start growing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 52 – The Treasure of Listening
Ep. 52 – The Treasure of Listening
Nov 25, 2025
5:25
What happens when you admit you don't have all the answers and truly seek wise counsel? The Ramchal teaches that navigating life's thorny maze requires humility to follow those who've already seen the path. Too often we charge ahead on autopilot—certain we know best—only to find ourselves lost in dead ends. Why do we resist the guidance of Torah's sages when their perspective can illuminate hidden pitfalls? This episode will unveil the priceless value of honest listening—showing you how to approach true guides with openness and courageously follow their direction. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Parshas Vayeitzei - What is True Life
Parshas Vayeitzei - What is True Life
Nov 26, 2025
6:51
Why does Hashem never attach His name to a tzaddik while they're still alive? And why did He make an exception for Yitzchak? What does it mean that a person who no longer has a Yetzer Hara is considered "like dead"—even while still breathing, still learning Torah? Rashi reveals something startling in Parshas Vayeitzei. When Yitzchak went blind and became homebound, the Yetzer Hara stopped pursuing him. And because of that—not despite it—Hashem considered him as if he had already passed on. Rabbi Klapper uncovers the radical implication: our daily battles with temptation, with lashon hara, with the pull of gashmius—these aren't obstacles to living. They are living. The very struggles we wish would disappear are what make us alive in Hashem's eyes. Discover why your hardest moments are proof that Hashem believes in you. Learn how every test is actually Hashem saying, "I know you can win this—and I'm fighting alongside you." Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Ep. 53 – Take Stock of Your Life
Ep. 53 – Take Stock of Your Life
Dec 2, 2025
4:13
Do you ever feel like life's rushing past without you even noticing? The Ramchal draws on Chazal's call to "make a cheshbon nefesh," teaching that true progress demands pausing to take honest account of where we stand. We juggle short-term thrills and long-term goals yet rarely ask: "Am I building the life I truly want?" Why do we pour energy into fleeting pleasures when our spiritual balance sheet goes unchecked? This episode will guide you through the art of spiritual auditing—mapping your priorities, pinpointing hidden losses, and crafting a clear action plan. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Parshas Vayishlach - Dina's Power
Parshas Vayishlach - Dina's Power
Dec 2, 2025
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Where was Dina? The Pasuk lists eleven children crossing the river with Yaakov—but he had twelve. Why does Rashi say Yaakov was punished for hiding his young daughter from Esav? What kind of father wouldn't protect his child from a well-known rasha? Rashi reveals something uncomfortable: Dina had an extraordinary ability to transform people. Rabbi Klapper points to what happens later in the Parsha—after Shechem commits a terrible act, he turns around completely. The Torah uses such profound language of love that Chazal say we can learn how Hashem loves Klal Yisrael from Shechem's words about Dina. This wasn't charm. This was a spiritual power to see someone's hidden potential and draw it out. And Yaakov, by hiding her, denied even the possibility that Esav could change. Discover the koyach that women carry—to recognize strengths in others that they can't see in themselves. Learn why believing in someone's potential isn't naivety; it's how transformation actually happens. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Ep. 69 – I Don’t Need Proofs
Ep. 69 – I Don’t Need Proofs
Dec 4, 2025
26:39
If faith is logical, why does Hashem still ask for emunah peshutah — simple faith? This episode dismantles the modern obsession with proofs. Rabbi Klapper shows, through vivid mashalim, that the simplest truths need no defense. When you see writing in the sand, you know there was a writer. So too, when we look at the universe — its structure, its precision, its beauty — only arrogance makes us imagine accident. Hashem built the world with such clarity that only darkness of heart can hide Him. But Shabbos restores sight. When the week blinds us with “maybes” and endless questioning, Shabbos opens our eyes to what’s obvious: there is a Borei Olam. The task isn’t to prove, but to see. The takeaway: let Shabbos be your reset button from doubt — spend one moment this week simply looking at the world and saying, “Of course You’re here.” Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 192
Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 192
Dec 5, 2025
2:52
Don’t Condemn Communities Speaking badly about individuals is grave—but condemning entire groups or towns is far worse. Every Jew deserves dan l’kaf zechus—and humility before Hashem’s plan. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 54 – Hashem Wants You All the Time
Ep. 54 – Hashem Wants You All the Time
Dec 9, 2025
4:50
Do you relegate your spiritual life to weekends and holidays, as if Hashem clocks out on Monday morning? Chazal teach—and the Ramchal underscores—that our service of Hashem is not a part-time hobby but a full-time calling. Yet we often live split lives: "Shul Ari" on Shabbos, "Business Bob" during the week, never stopping to ask what Torah says about our daily routines. Why do we treat morning coffee and office meetings as neutral zones outside Divine awareness? This episode will reveal how to transform your entire day into a living Torah, recognizing Hashem's desire for your constant companionship. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 195
Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 195
Dec 12, 2025
2:04
See, But Understand First Even when witnessing wrongdoing, one must know halacha before judging. Misinterpreting actions without clarity turns truth into motzi shem ra—a lie in the guise of zeal. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 55 – What am I Doing
Ep. 55 – What am I Doing
Dec 16, 2025
6:53
Have you ever tracked your bank balance more closely than your soul's trajectory? The Ramchal teaches that true avodas Hashem begins with two questions: "What is the right path?" and then "Am I actually walking it?" We're quick to audit our businesses yet neglect to pause and ask whether our daily routines align with our Divine purpose. Why do we expend mental energy on vacations and investments, yet rarely on our spiritual growth? This episode will guide you through the time-tested practice of cheshbon nefesh—daily self-accounting that turns thought into action and habit into holiness. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 71 – Why Can’t I Find Hashem
Ep. 71 – Why Can’t I Find Hashem
Dec 18, 2025
31:50
If Hashem fills the world, why does He feel hidden? Rabbi Klapper answers with a parable that could come from Rapinkus himself: a scientist searching for sound waves with a microscope. The tools are wrong. So too, many search for Hashem with intellect or data instead of purity, honesty, and humility. The darkness of olam hazeh isn’t lack of light — it’s misuse of instruments. Shabbos retrains our spiritual vision. When we quiet the noise, cleanse the mind, and open the heart, Hashem’s presence becomes undeniable. Even a tree, a rock, or a heartbeat becomes proof. Practical step: before Kiddush, pause and say, “I’m switching tools.” Let Shabbos teach you to see the Divine not through telescopes but through truth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 56 – Sensitivity Training
Ep. 56 – Sensitivity Training
Dec 23, 2025
8:41
Have you ever missed a hidden blessing because your heart was dulled to life's finer nuances? The Ramchal teaches that Torah learning is the ultimate sensitivity training—sharpening our spiritual "sense organs" so we recognize true good and recoil from subtle evils. Too often we stroll through mitzvos and moral choices on autopilot, unaware of the precious opportunities hiding in plain sight. How might your relationships deepen if you perceived every act of kindness as a Divine gift? This episode will show you how immersive Torah study rewires your instincts—so you instinctively gravitate toward holiness. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 138
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 138
Jul 30, 2025
2:32
Signs That Confirm a Story If you see external behavior—devarim hanikarim—that seems to confirm Lashon Hara, belief is only allowed when judgment l’kaf zechus is impossible. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 51 – Shira and Zimra
Ep. 51 – Shira and Zimra
Jul 31, 2025
30:09
Why do we sing on Shabbos? What does music express that words alone never could? In this stirring and soulful episode, Rabbi Klapper opens the door to the world of shira and zimra—two different kinds of song, each with its own power. Shira uses words to praise Hashem, while zimra bypasses speech altogether, expressing a heart so full that no words will do. Through examples from the Beis HaMikdash, the Avodah of the Leviim, and the structure of the Torah itself, we discover that music is not just an accessory to holiness—it’s a gateway. Like a niggun that lifts the soul or a trop that unlocks hidden meaning in the Torah, song connects us to Hashem in a way that reaches beyond thought and straight into the heart. Shabbos, the day when the Shechinah rests in our homes, is also the day of song—because only through melody can we truly express the joy, the gratitude, and the awe of standing in the King’s presence. This episode invites you to listen more deeply—to the words, the notes, and the silence between them. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 139
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 139
Aug 1, 2025
1:55
Clear Evidence or Just Suspicion? Devarim hanikarim must be unmistakable, direct, and witnessed yourself. Vague impressions or secondhand reports are not enough to justify belief. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 140
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 140
Aug 3, 2025
2:31
Believing ≠ Acting Even when belief is halachically permitted, you may not spread the information, shame the person, or cause financial harm. Caution does not equal permission to harm. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 36 – Think Before it Happens
Ep. 36 – Think Before it Happens
Aug 5, 2025
6:18
Have you ever found yourself scrambling for a solution only after the crisis has struck? Mesilas Yesharim warns that the yetzer hara floods our lives with relentless demands so we never pause to prepare. But Chazal implore us, “Put your heart onto your ways” (Mishlei 23:19)—to build foresight before the storm. Why do we leave our spiritual “crisis management” until we’re already under fire? How might calm reflection today spare us from panic tomorrow? What if the secret to resilience is less reaction and more anticipation? This episode will teach you how to carve out quiet moments for honest self-audit, develop instinctive safeguards against temptation, and establish “pre-game” strategies for your avodas Hashem—so that when challenges arise, you meet them with confidence rather than chaos. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 141
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 141
Aug 6, 2025
1:57
Can Beis Din Rely on Hints? In rare cases, Beis Din may act on devarim hanikarim, but only after thorough investigation. Regular individuals should never rely on such signs to take action. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 52 – The Depth of Song
Ep. 52 – The Depth of Song
Aug 7, 2025
27:15
What happens when you feel something so deeply, you can’t even say it out loud? Can a niggun express what words cannot? Some moments of connection to Hashem are so deep, so raw, they escape language. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper opens the gates to Zimra—the wordless tune—and Shira—the articulated song—and shows how both are essential for true avodas Hashem. We explore why Shabbos is the day of song more than any other: each tefillah, each seudah, each moment carries a unique melody, a unique way of expressing something that can’t be said directly. But music alone is not enough. Like a seed that never gets planted, pure emotion without translation into words or actions can fade quickly. It must be rooted in Shira—in words, in thought, in details—if we want it to become real. Drawing from Tehillim, halacha, and a moving analogy from Rav Pinkus, we learn why Shabbos songs matter so much and why they must go beyond performance. They’re not background—they’re transformation. When we sing with kavana, both with and without words, we carry the depth of Shabbos into the rest of our lives. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 142
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 142
Aug 8, 2025
2:49
Don’t Act on Accusation Alone Even community leaders must not act on mere suspicion or one-sided claims. Halacha demands real evidence—not emotion or instinct—before taking serious steps. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 143
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 143
Aug 10, 2025
2:43
No Excuses for Family Gossip Lashon Hara remains assur even when spoken about close relatives. Love doesn’t justify gossip—true care means speaking directly, not behind someone’s back. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 37 – Being Honest with Yourself
Ep. 37 – Being Honest with Yourself
Aug 12, 2025
4:53
Do you dare to face the unvarnished truth about your own motives? Our master, the Ramchal, teaches that the loftiest service begins with middas emes—raw honesty before Hashem and oneself. Yet so often we spin comforting stories—“I’m too tired,” “Everyone else does it,” “It won’t hurt”—just to dodge the sting of guilt. What distortions keep you from seeing your real priorities? When was the last time you confronted your own contradictions instead of brushing them aside? How might embracing brutal self‐truth unlock genuine growth? This episode will guide you to shatter the illusions you cling to, harness Divine aid in your inner battle, and build an avodas Hashem rooted in authenticity rather than self-deception. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 144
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 144
Aug 13, 2025
2:44
Venting About a Spouse Speaking negatively about a spouse to family can destroy multiple relationships. Unless it's for true toeles, even venting can cross the line into Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 53 – The Song of Shabbos
Ep. 53 – The Song of Shabbos
Aug 14, 2025
27:02
What if the holiest moments are the ones you can’t describe? What if the real entrance to Shabbos isn’t spoken—but sung? The moment Shabbos begins isn’t something you can schedule. It doesn’t arrive when the candles are lit or the seudah is served. It crashes into your world like a wave—silent, sudden, and impossible to prepare for. Rabbi Klapper uncovers why the Torah calls it Mizmor Shir L’yom HaShabbos, beginning with the wordless melody (zimra) before allowing in words (shira). That’s not poetic—it’s halachic reality. The Shechinah enters like the moment of death or the day of judgment: sudden, total, and transformative. No matter how much we prepare, the actual experience of Shabbos is always more than we’re ready for. And yet—we are called to respond. To sing. Not just to float on inspiration, but to translate it into awareness, into action, into change. The song of Shabbos begins where words end, but it cannot stay there. Through rich minhagim, layered metaphors, and the startling honesty of spiritual growth, this episode invites you to enter Shabbos not just as a break from the week—but as a taste of Olam Haba, demanding more from your heart, your voice, and your life. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 145
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 145
Aug 15, 2025
2:44
Lashon Hara About Children Criticizing children—especially when not your own—can deeply harm them. Even when rebuke is needed, speak only with care, truth, and clear toeles. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 146
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 146
Aug 17, 2025
2:47
Respecting Torah’s Representatives Speaking Lashon Hara about a talmid chacham is not just personal—it’s an affront to Torah itself. Disrespecting leaders can unravel entire communities. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 38 – Help Yourself
Ep. 38 – Help Yourself
Aug 19, 2025
6:20
Have you ever waited for divine rescue without lifting a finger? The Ramchal teaches that while Hashem is our ultimate Helper, He won't save us unless we first open our eyes and take action. It's tempting to blame our struggles on fate or cover our ears and pretend nothing's wrong, but without genuine self-awareness and effort, even miracles remain out of reach. Why do we expect Hashem's support when we won't support ourselves? How can you ignite your own will to change before calling out for aid? This episode will inspire you to begin with honest self-examination—showing you how to "help yourself" by opening your eyes to challenges, awakening your inner resolve, and turning to Hashem with heartfelt tefillah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 147
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 147
Aug 20, 2025
2:26
Outside the Boundary of Am Yisrael The halachos of Lashon Hara don’t apply to someone who openly rejects Torah fundamentals. But one must be 100% sure before applying this grave label. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 54 – Shabbos; A Whole New World
Ep. 54 – Shabbos; A Whole New World
Aug 21, 2025
29:52
Is Shabbos just a day off—or is it a different world? What if the change from weekday to Shabbos isn't just a shift in schedule, but a total shift in identity, in reality, in malchus? In this eye-opening episode, Rabbi Klapper lays the foundation for a deeper understanding of what it means to live under Hashem's kingship. Drawing parallels between how nations function—with flags, language, clothing, and values—and how Shabbos creates a “spiritual country” of its own, we come to see that Shabbos isn’t one mitzvah among many. It’s a world, with its own culture, rhythm, and leadership. Just as the Jewish people have always maintained their uniqueness—through exile, pressure, and even persecution—Shabbos becomes our weekly declaration: we live in the King's palace. The kedusha of Shabbos isn’t just felt inside; it transforms the streets, the meals, the very air of a Jewish home. This episode invites you to see yourself not just as a Jew who keeps Shabbos—but as a citizen of Shabbos. And once you live in that world, everything looks different—even Monday. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 148
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 148
Aug 22, 2025
2:06
Certainty Required for Apikorsus Even when halacha permits Lashon Hara about an Apikores, it must be based on firsthand knowledge or overwhelming communal consensus—not rumors or assumptions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 149
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 149
Aug 24, 2025
2:22
Known Reshaim, Not Suspicions If someone publicly violates severe aveiros with no excuse, Lashon Hara may be allowed. But misuse of this heter is dangerous and deeply discouraged. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 39 – What is Really Important in Life
Ep. 39 – What is Really Important in Life
Aug 26, 2025
5:50
When was the last time you paused to ask what will matter when you look back on your life? The Ramchal teaches that true greatness comes from daily cheshbon nefesh—taking stock of our purpose and our performance. Yet we often chase fleeting thrills only to wonder at eighty where the years went. Why do we invest energy in trivial pursuits when our spiritual balance sheet goes unchecked? This episode will guide you through the two-step process of cheshbon nefesh: first, clarifying what really deserves your devotion, and second, honestly assessing whether your daily actions match that vision—so you build a life you'll be proud to remember. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 150
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 150
Aug 27, 2025
2:13
When Fighting Justifies Speech Lashon Hara about a ba’al machlokes may be allowed to prevent damage—but only with clear intent, clarity on who is at fault, and pure motives. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 55 – In the King’s Palace
Ep. 55 – In the King’s Palace
Aug 28, 2025
26:07
If Hashem is always everywhere, what makes Shabbos different? Why is it that the same actions done on Friday feel mundane, yet on Shabbos they carry such weight, depth, and holiness? In this rich and powerful episode, Rabbi Klapper deepens our understanding of Shabbos by comparing it to the royal palace of a king. Just as entering the king’s inner court demands heightened reverence, precision, and presence, so too does entering into Shabbos. Drawing from Chazal, halacha, and the physical reality of the Beis HaMikdash, we uncover the core idea: Shabbos is the space where Hashem’s malchus is revealed b’gilu. Not just in theory—but in experience. Rabbi Klapper explains how even if we can’t always feel this, we can act our way into awareness. Clothing, behavior, speech—these aren't empty rituals, they're ways to train ourselves to feel the awe of being in Hashem’s presence. Just as the Beis HaMikdash reshaped the people who entered it, Shabbos can reshape us—if we let it. If you’ve ever wondered how to make Shabbos feel holy—not just look holy—this episode gives you the roadmap. It's not about changing Shabbos. It's about letting Shabbos change you. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 151
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 151
Aug 29, 2025
2:17
No Shortcut to Shalom Even when speaking Lashon Hara seems to help end conflict, it’s only permitted as a last resort—with firsthand knowledge and no alternative path to peace. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 152
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 152
Aug 31, 2025
1:27
Speaking About the Deceased Lashon Hara remains assur even after death. Slandering a niftar, especially a talmid chacham or his Torah, incurs serious consequences, including nidui. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 40 – Develop Your Instinct
Ep. 40 – Develop Your Instinct
Sep 2, 2025
6:08
What if your soul's survival depended on split-second reflexes? The Ramchal teaches that true z'hirus isn't only thinking before you act—it's training your instincts so that when temptation strikes, you respond correctly without hesitation. Just as a commando drills for crisis, we must forge spiritual "muscles" to look away from forbidden scenes and seize fleeting opportunities for mitzvah. How do you reprogram reflexes that betray your higher purpose? This episode will show you how to lay the groundwork today through targeted mental rehearsals and deliberate habit-building, so when the next nisayon arrives, your instinctive response steers you toward holiness. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 153
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 153
Sep 3, 2025
2:39
Protecting Your Family from Harm You may speak with family to warn them of dangerous influences—but only to protect, not to shame. Avoid exaggeration and don’t present rumor as fact. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 56 - Extreme Sensitivity
Ep. 56 - Extreme Sensitivity
Sep 4, 2025
33:59
Ep. 56 – Extreme Sensitivity What if the most dangerous thing about Shabbos isn’t what you do—but what you ignore? How do we train ourselves to treat Shabbos like we're truly standing before the King? In this urgent and emotionally charged episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the concept of poshe'a—spiritual negligence—and why even unintentional mistakes on Shabbos must be taken seriously. From forgotten Eruv Tavshilin to casually fiddling with muxa, he makes the case that small habits reflect deeper attitudes. Shabbos isn’t just a set of rules; it’s standing lifnei haMelech. Just as a soldier in the king’s guard is judged by the shine of his buttons, we too are judged by our awareness, our preparation, and the kavod we bring into Shabbos. Through halachic sources and striking analogies—like a driver who blames his broken glasses for an accident—Rabbi Klapper teaches us that forgetting isn’t innocent when it becomes a lifestyle. This episode invites you to rethink how seriously you take the “small things”—because when the King is present, nothing is small. Whether it’s how you dress, how you speak, or how you act in private, Shabbos demands our full awareness. And with it, the chance to become who we were meant to be. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 154
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 154
Sep 5, 2025
2:38
Not an Excuse for Gossip Even when warning family, you must stay focused on protection—not storytelling. Spreading general neighborhood gossip under the guise of “toeles” is still Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 155
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 155
Sep 7, 2025
2:27
Tochacha or Talk? If you’re truly seeking tochacha, why not give it yourself? Don’t use others as messengers unless they’re better suited—with care and humility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 41 – Truly Know Yourself
Ep. 41 – Truly Know Yourself
Sep 9, 2025
5:57
What truths lie hidden beneath your self-image? The Ramchal teaches that genuine growth begins when we confront our real standing, not our preferred fantasy. It's easy to coast on comfortable illusions—"I'm fine as I am," "It's not my fault"—but those self-deceptions steer us off-course. Why do we cling to excuses instead of embracing the power to change? This episode will guide you through the vital practice of cheshbon nefesh—honest self-audit that roots out hidden flaws, ignites lasting improvement, and truly aligns your path with Hashem's purpose. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 156
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 156
Sep 10, 2025
2:09
Don’t Speak to Non-Jews Lashon Hara to a non-Jew can damage far more than just reputations. It harms communities, violates halacha, and desecrates Hashem’s name. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!