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Parshas Vayishlach - Dina's Power
Parshas Vayishlach - Dina's Power
Dec 2, 2025
8:11
Where was Dina? The Pasuk lists eleven children crossing the river with Yaakov—but he had twelve. Why does Rashi say Yaakov was punished for hiding his young daughter from Esav? What kind of father wouldn't protect his child from a well-known rasha? Rashi reveals something uncomfortable: Dina had an extraordinary ability to transform people. Rabbi Klapper points to what happens later in the Parsha—after Shechem commits a terrible act, he turns around completely. The Torah uses such profound language of love that Chazal say we can learn how Hashem loves Klal Yisrael from Shechem's words about Dina. This wasn't charm. This was a spiritual power to see someone's hidden potential and draw it out. And Yaakov, by hiding her, denied even the possibility that Esav could change. Discover the koyach that women carry—to recognize strengths in others that they can't see in themselves. Learn why believing in someone's potential isn't naivety; it's how transformation actually happens. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Parshas Vayeitzei - What is True Life
Parshas Vayeitzei - What is True Life
Nov 26, 2025
6:51
Why does Hashem never attach His name to a tzaddik while they're still alive? And why did He make an exception for Yitzchak? What does it mean that a person who no longer has a Yetzer Hara is considered "like dead"—even while still breathing, still learning Torah? Rashi reveals something startling in Parshas Vayeitzei. When Yitzchak went blind and became homebound, the Yetzer Hara stopped pursuing him. And because of that—not despite it—Hashem considered him as if he had already passed on. Rabbi Klapper uncovers the radical implication: our daily battles with temptation, with lashon hara, with the pull of gashmius—these aren't obstacles to living. They are living. The very struggles we wish would disappear are what make us alive in Hashem's eyes. Discover why your hardest moments are proof that Hashem believes in you. Learn how every test is actually Hashem saying, "I know you can win this—and I'm fighting alongside you." Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Parshas Toldos- Do You Love Food
Parshas Toldos- Do You Love Food
Nov 19, 2025
13:12
Why did Yitzchak make his blessing depend on food? Why demand that Esav hunt and serve him a meal first? Most puzzling: he used the word for "love"—the same emotion we use for a wife, a child, a soul—for this meal. What was Yitzchak really tasting? Rashi reveals something astonishing hidden in those hunting instructions: they're about kedusha, not just meal prep. Rabbi Klapper uncovers the deeper pattern: food is what connects your soul to your body. Rivka, a true tzedeket, infused her meals with spiritual holiness. Every time Yitzchak ate from her kitchen, he experienced kedusha—a real elevation of spirit. That's what he actually loved. That's what gave him the power to bless. When Yaakov brought Rivka's food, Yitzchak tasted it and felt "mikol"—everything—flooding through him. Only then could he give the bracha. Discover what this means for your own table: a righteous woman preparing food with intention, with kavanah, infuses every bite with kedusha. That's why food matters. That's why blessing flows from nourishment made holy. When you eat with awareness, you're not just feeding your body—you're connecting your soul to this world. That changes everything. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Ep. 53 – Take Stock of Your Life
Ep. 53 – Take Stock of Your Life
Dec 2, 2025
4:13
Do you ever feel like life's rushing past without you even noticing? The Ramchal draws on Chazal's call to "make a cheshbon nefesh," teaching that true progress demands pausing to take honest account of where we stand. We juggle short-term thrills and long-term goals yet rarely ask: "Am I building the life I truly want?" Why do we pour energy into fleeting pleasures when our spiritual balance sheet goes unchecked? This episode will guide you through the art of spiritual auditing—mapping your priorities, pinpointing hidden losses, and crafting a clear action plan. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Parshas Chayei Sarah - The Wife, Foundation of the Home - Ep. 1
Parshas Chayei Sarah - The Wife, Foundation of the Home - Ep. 1
Nov 12, 2025
8:46
Why did three miracles suddenly return when Yitzchak brought Rivka into Sarah's tent? And what does it mean that he loved her after he married her—not before? Rashi reveals an astonishing pattern: the candle that burned all week, the blessing in the dough, and the cloud over the tent weren't just signs of Sarah's greatness—they were the spiritual DNA of a Torah home. When Sarah died, they vanished. When Rivka arrived, they returned. But why these three specific miracles? And what do they have to do with the mitzvos given uniquely to women? Rabbi Klapper uncovers the deep connection between Sarah's tent, the Mishkan, and the three mitzvos that bring the Shechina into every Jewish home: lighting Shabbos candles, separating challah, and keeping the laws of family purity. Through Yitzchak's story, we learn that real love isn't built on attraction or chemistry—it's born from witnessing your spouse build a home with kedusha. Discover why appreciating the "invisible work" of creating a Torah home is the secret to lasting love, and how every Jewish woman carries the power to make her home a dwelling place for Hashem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Why Did Rashi Say That series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our weekly Torah insights!
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Ep 1 - Remembering What You Already Know
Ep 1 - Remembering What You Already Know
Dec 14, 2024
7:25
Welcome to the very first episode of the Real Judaism - Mesilas Yesharim podcast series, where timeless Torah wisdom meets real-life application. This week, Rabbi Ari Klapper begins an incredible journey into Mesilas Yesharim, offering insights on how to bring clarity and focus into our Avodas Hashem. Why do we often forget the most important truths, even as we strive to live by them? And how can we take foundational knowledge and make it part of our daily lives? In this introductory episode, you’ll discover how Mesilas Yesharim helps us bridge the gap between what we know and how we live. Whether you’re a seasoned learner or just starting out, this series offers inspiration and tools to deepen your understanding and connection to Torah values. Real Judaism is hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions. For more episodes and resources, visit realjudaism.org. Join us as we embark on a transformative exploration of the principles that form the foundation of a meaningful Jewish life.
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Ep. 9 - Develop Yourself
Ep. 9 - Develop Yourself
Jan 21, 2025
11:41
What’s your real life’s work—building your bank account or building yourself? The Ramchal reminds us that avodas Hashem isn't just about knowing the right things. It’s about developing our midos and refining our character. Yet, so many people are afraid to look in the mirror and ask, “Am I really the person I should be?” In this episode, Rabbi Klapper takes a deep dive into the process of self-development. Why do so many people face a midlife crisis, feeling empty despite their worldly successes? And how can early investment in personal growth prevent those moments of regret? This episode will inspire you to make your life’s focus your own growth, ensuring that when you look back, you’ll see a life of meaning, not wasted potential. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep1. Shalom Bayis for Men
Ep1. Shalom Bayis for Men
Jun 7, 2024
23:39
Come and enhance the core of your life, your marriage, by learning what are the foundations of a truly happy home and how to strengthen them.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 188
Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 188
Nov 26, 2025
1:44
When Silence Is Safer If speaking l’toeles could provoke revenge from a powerful wrongdoer, one may speak privately to the right authority instead of publicly before three. Halacha values safety and wisdom. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Dating Shiur: Getting Started
Dating Shiur: Getting Started
Jun 7, 2024
35:02
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Ep. 6 - Seeing Life’s Crucial Details
Ep. 6 - Seeing Life’s Crucial Details
Dec 30, 2024
5:54
This week, we explore the Ramchal’s teachings on sensitivity to life’s details and the transformative power of Mussar in navigating our inner contradictions. Why do we so often overlook the aspects of life that truly matter? How can we shift from living with guilt to embracing a productive path of Teshuva? Join us as we discuss how learning Mussar provides the clarity and tools to process our struggles, develop resilience, and find purpose in the process of growth. With a focus on practical insights, this episode will inspire you to recognize the significance of details and how they shape your relationship with Hashem and yourself. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 4 - Rediscovering Mussar's True Purpose
Ep. 4 - Rediscovering Mussar's True Purpose
Dec 23, 2024
8:45
This episode tackles an age-old question: Why do so many people overlook learning Mussar, even though it’s critical to true spiritual growth? Do we dismiss it as "too simple," or do we assume it’s only for those struggling with other areas of Torah? Join us as we explore the Ramchal’s call to prioritize Mussar and how it can transform not just our knowledge, but our connection to Hashem and our purpose in life. We'll debunk the myths surrounding Mussar and highlight its universal relevance—whether you're a beginner or a talmid chacham. Together, let’s reclaim the passion and importance of a Mussar seder and bring it back into the heart of our daily Avodah. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 43
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 43
Dec 20, 2024
3:32
Choosing Embarrassment Over SinThe Chafetz Chaim teaches that being perceived as foolish in this world is better than a moment of wrongdoing in the next. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep5. The First Date
Ep5. The First Date
Aug 7, 2024
26:55
Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 42
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 42
Dec 18, 2024
2:32
Navigating Pressure: Guarding Our WordsHow do we stand firm against pressure to speak Lashon Hara—even when it risks relationships, jobs, or financial security? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 190
Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 190
Nov 30, 2025
1:50
Between Man and God Lashon Hara l’toeles about personal aveiros is far more limited. Only repeated, deliberate public sin justifies speech—and even then, only under strict halachic caution. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 36 – Think Before it Happens
Ep. 36 – Think Before it Happens
Aug 5, 2025
6:18
Have you ever found yourself scrambling for a solution only after the crisis has struck? Mesilas Yesharim warns that the yetzer hara floods our lives with relentless demands so we never pause to prepare. But Chazal implore us, “Put your heart onto your ways” (Mishlei 23:19)—to build foresight before the storm. Why do we leave our spiritual “crisis management” until we’re already under fire? How might calm reflection today spare us from panic tomorrow? What if the secret to resilience is less reaction and more anticipation? This episode will teach you how to carve out quiet moments for honest self-audit, develop instinctive safeguards against temptation, and establish “pre-game” strategies for your avodas Hashem—so that when challenges arise, you meet them with confidence rather than chaos. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 67 – The Field of Holy Fruit
Ep. 67 – The Field of Holy Fruit
Nov 20, 2025
25:52
If Hashem’s blessing is perfect, why do some fruits of life turn bitter? Continuing his journey through the stages of Shabbos, Rabbi Klapper explores the imagery of the “field of holy fruit.” Every Shabbos we become the field where Divine shefa is planted—but the week that follows reveals what kind of fruit we’ve grown. When emunah is pure, Hashem’s gifts bloom as joy, wisdom, and shalom. When the “soil” of our hearts is off, even blessing can warp into jealousy, bitul Torah, or gaavah. Through powerful contrasts—from Noach’s generation to Einstein and Rav Aharon Kotler—this episode shows how the same koach that builds worlds can also destroy them. Shabbos is the correction point: its holiness guarantees that whatever sprouts from it is kulo kodesh. The second meal of Shabbos reveals this higher clarity—seeing Hashem’s oneness not just by logic but “through a clear glass,” with total emunah. The takeaway: tend your inner field; make Shabbos the seedbed of everything you grow all week. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 52 – The Treasure of Listening
Ep. 52 – The Treasure of Listening
Nov 25, 2025
5:25
What happens when you admit you don't have all the answers and truly seek wise counsel? The Ramchal teaches that navigating life's thorny maze requires humility to follow those who've already seen the path. Too often we charge ahead on autopilot—certain we know best—only to find ourselves lost in dead ends. Why do we resist the guidance of Torah's sages when their perspective can illuminate hidden pitfalls? This episode will unveil the priceless value of honest listening—showing you how to approach true guides with openness and courageously follow their direction. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 191
Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 191
Dec 3, 2025
2:09
Pure Intentions, Not Payback Even justified speech becomes forbidden when driven by hurt or revenge. Toeles demands sincerity—never satisfaction in another’s downfall. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 35 – Are You Thinking
Ep. 35 – Are You Thinking
Jul 29, 2025
6:35
When was the last time you paused to question your own actions? Mesilas Yesharim warns that the yetzer hara’s greatest weapon is relentless pressure that robs us of reflection, turning us into mindless horses charging headlong into sin. A fleeting guilt can haunt you—so much so that you grind it down through repetition until you feel nothing at all. Why do we allow external stress to drown out our inner voice? How often do we simply obey impulse rather than ask, “What am I really doing?” And what would happen if you reclaimed just a moment to think before you act? This episode will show you how to recognize the subtle tactics of the yetzer hara, build the habit of thoughtful resistance, and transform automatic reactions into deliberate steps toward holiness—so that every choice you make is grounded in awareness and empowered by purpose. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Trailer: S2 Shemiras Einayim
Trailer: S2 Shemiras Einayim
Feb 18, 2025
1:00
COMING SOON: The battle for your eyes is real. The power to choose is yours. https://realjudaism.org/ShemirasEinayim Shemiras Einayim with Rabbi Ari Klapper returns for Series 2 – diving deeper than ever into the raw challenges of guarding your eyes in today's digital age. No apologetics. No judgment. Just honest, practical wisdom for real-life struggles. From smartphones to street encounters. From internal battles to external pressures. We're tackling the questions you're afraid to ask and the daily tests you face. Rabbi Klapper brings clarity, understanding, and practical tools to help you navigate these challenges while maintaining your dignity and spiritual growth. This isn't just another mussar series. This is your guide to building real strength and finding true fulfillment in a world of constant visual temptation. New episodes drop every two weeks starting 19th Feb 2025. Real struggles. Real solutions. Real growth. Real Judaism. Shemiras Einayim Series 2 – Because your battle matters. Find the Episodes wherever you get your podcasts https://open.spotify.com/show/548Vqsw1GzzAGKjmKYi0yc?si=c5e51bbe2d964c3a https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shmiras-einayim/id1784634481 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiZU2rL9HnBW2qVNZRClAes4STqsKB4qS
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5. The Source of Our Kedusha
5. The Source of Our Kedusha
Jun 7, 2021
19:02
Chizuk and practical help to overcome our most difficult Nisayon.Need help with this Nisayon? Have a question for Rabbi Klapper? Send an email to [email protected].
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6. How to Become Great
6. How to Become Great
Jul 8, 2021
17:11
Chizuk and practical help to overcome our most difficult Nisayon.Need help with this Nisayon? Have a question for Rabbi Klapper? Send an email to [email protected].
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Ep. 34 – Stop Running!
Ep. 34 – Stop Running!
Jul 22, 2025
7:11
What’s driving you forward without a moment’s pause? Mesilas Yesharim warns that unchecked momentum can carry us straight into peril—like horses charging into battle without thought. The navi Yirmiyahu lamented our generation’s headlong rush into sin, oblivious to the ruin in our path. Why do we barrel through life on autopilot, doing “what everyone else does”? How often do we fail to ask, “Am I running toward holiness or off a cliff”? And what if the antidote is simply to halt, reflect, and choose deliberately? This episode will teach you how to break the cycle of blind conformity—showing you practical steps to pause, assess your direction, and move forward only when your heart and mind are aligned with Hashem’s will—so that every stride you take leads you closer to true purpose rather than disaster. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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S2 Ep. 1 - You Have the Power to Choose
S2 Ep. 1 - You Have the Power to Choose
Feb 26, 2025
32:40
Do you really have free will, or are you just following the path laid out for you? Many people feel trapped by their habits, their struggles, and the world around them, believing that real change is impossible. But Chazal teach us a profound truth: the Yetzer Hara is an illusion. It appears like an overwhelming force, but when you examine it closely, you realize—it has no legs to stand on. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper unpacks the deceptiveness of the Yetzer Hara, showing how recognizing its tricks is the first step to overcoming it. Using deep Torah insights—from Yaakov’s battle with the Sar shel Esav to the Gemara’s depiction of the Yetzer Hara as both a mountain and a hair—he builds a step-by-step approach to reclaiming control over your life. How can small, intentional choices reshape your reality? What does it mean to actively shift your focus rather than fight forbidden thoughts head-on? And most importantly, how can you set yourself on a path where you encounter fewer tests to begin with? This episode is a guide to practical strategies for mastering your choices, overcoming challenges, and building the life you truly want—one step at a time. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Trailer S2 Shemiras Einayim
Trailer S2 Shemiras Einayim
Feb 18, 2025
1:00
COMING SOON: The battle for your eyes is real. The power to choose is yours. https://realjudaism.org/ShemirasEinayim Shemiras Einayim with Rabbi Ari Klapper returns for Series 2 – diving deeper than ever into the raw challenges of guarding your eyes in today's digital age. No apologetics. No judgment. Just honest, practical wisdom for real-life struggles. From smartphones to street encounters. From internal battles to external pressures. We're tackling the questions you're afraid to ask and the daily tests you face. Rabbi Klapper brings clarity, understanding, and practical tools to help you navigate these challenges while maintaining your dignity and spiritual growth. This isn't just another mussar series. This is your guide to building real strength and finding true fulfillment in a world of constant visual temptation. New episodes drop every two weeks starting 19th Feb 2025. Real struggles. Real solutions. Real growth. Real Judaism. Shemiras Einayim Series 2 – Because your battle matters. Find the Episodes wherever you get your podcasts https://open.spotify.com/show/548Vqsw1GzzAGKjmKYi0yc?si=c5e51bbe2d964c3a https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shmiras-einayim/id1784634481 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiZU2rL9HnBW2qVNZRClAes4STqsKB4qS
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Ep. 13 - Walk in His Ways
Ep. 13 - Walk in His Ways
Feb 18, 2025
12:37
How do we follow Hashem’s ways when He is infinite and we are human? The Ramchal teaches that “walking in His ways” means refining our midos to mirror His attributes. But improving midos isn’t just about fixing what’s broken—it’s about straightening what’s slightly off and fine-tuning every aspect of our character. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the challenge of aligning our personalities with Torah values. How do we channel natural tendencies into productive avodas Hashem? Why is it dangerous to say, “That’s just the way I am”? And how can each person’s unique traits become tools for bringing more chesed and kiddush Hashem into the world? This episode will help you take control of your nature and make it a force for good, following in Hashem’s ways step by step. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 33 – Purposely Closing Your Eyes
Ep. 33 – Purposely Closing Your Eyes
Jul 15, 2025
7:53
Have you ever chosen ignorance over self-preservation? Mesilas Yesharim warns that ignoring clear dangers to our nefesh is like willingly marching into a fire. While we instinctively flee physical threats—red lights, speeding cars—the subtler blaze of ta’avah often ensnares us because we shut our eyes to reality. Why do we swipe social media feeds when we know the soul-erosion it brings? How can we risk our spiritual future for a fleeting dopamine hit? What would change if we treated threats to our nefesh with the same urgency as a blazing inferno? This episode will open your eyes to the hidden fires around you, teach you how to refuse the invitation to look away, and empower you to guard your soul with clear-sighted vigilance—so you walk safely toward your eternal destination. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep2. Building Up Yourself
Ep2. Building Up Yourself
Jun 21, 2024
36:15
Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.
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Ep. 32 – Care About Yourself
Ep. 32 – Care About Yourself
Jul 8, 2025
8:05
Have you ever hurt yourself by turning a blind eye to your own well-being? The Ramchal teaches that true growth begins with z’hirus—paying genuine attention to your life’s path. Too often, we ignore warning signs—like risking our health or our reputation—simply to save a moment or spare discomfort. Why do we willingly trample over our own happiness? How would our choices change if we truly valued our nefesh and treated it as Hashem’s precious gift? This episode will challenge you to open your eyes, recognize the stakes of every decision, and develop the self-care that forms the bedrock of all avodas Hashem—so you live fully, safely, and in alignment with your soul’s highest purpose. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Shabbos Malchusa 1
Shabbos Malchusa 1
Jun 7, 2024
23:34
Shabbos Malchusa 1
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 58
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 58
Jan 24, 2025
2:40
Clever Words, Hidden DamageImplying negativity without names still counts as Lashon Hara. Learn how subtlety doesn’t excuse hurtful words. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 57
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 57
Jan 22, 2025
2:08
Jokes That Hurt“Just kidding” doesn’t excuse Lashon Hara. Jokes at others’ expense break trust and damage relationships—even if they seem harmless. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep3. Invest in Yourself
Ep3. Invest in Yourself
Jul 6, 2024
12:10
Come and enhance the core of your life, your marriage, by learning what are the foundations of a truly happy home and how to strengthen them.
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Ep. 8 - Proper Planning
Ep. 8 - Proper Planning
Jan 14, 2025
7:12
Why do so many ambitious plans for spiritual growth fail? The Ramchal teaches us that the key to lasting success in avodas Hashem isn’t about how fast we grow but about how wisely we plan. It’s not just about inspiration—it’s about knowing yourself, recognizing your limits, and pacing your efforts to avoid burnout. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores practical strategies for personal growth, from using incentives to stay motivated to understanding the dangers of an “all-or-nothing” mindset. How do you balance ambition with patience? And how do you build a plan that works for you? This episode will help you create a sustainable approach to growth, ensuring that your spiritual goals don’t fizzle out. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep4. Representing Yourself and Checking Out the Other
Ep4. Representing Yourself and Checking Out the Other
Jul 12, 2024
34:22
Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.
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Ep. 28 – The Smallest Details
Ep. 28 – The Smallest Details
Jun 10, 2025
7:35
Do you breeze through mitzvos without pausing to notice the tiny moments? The Ramchal reminds us that every detail—like a quarter‐carat on a diamond—can mean the difference between ordinary and extraordinary avodas Hashem. Yet we often dance at a chasuna or learn Torah mechanically, missing the chance to infuse each act with kavanah. How would your simchas choshen look if you stopped for just a beat to remember “I am making a mitzvah”? Why does a single thought before picking up Lulav elevate the entire mitzvah? What happens when we treat our service of Hashem like precious gold, sensitive to even the smallest nuances? This episode will show you how to transform your daily avodah by sharpening your awareness—so that every blink, every breath, and every move becomes an opportunity to draw closer to the true purpose of your soul. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 115
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 115
Jun 6, 2025
1:58
Don't Sit With Them Choosing to sit with known gossipers makes you part of their aveirah, even if you stay silent. The Torah warns us: avoid the company of scoffers. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 7 - Natural Emunah
Ep. 7 - Natural Emunah
Jan 7, 2025
8:00
Ever notice how young children have a pure, unshakable belief in Hashem? That’s because emunah is natural—it’s hardwired into every human soul. Yet as we grow older, cynicism creeps in, clouding this innate faith. Why does this happen? And how can we reclaim the simplicity of belief in a complicated world? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the Ramchal’s profound insight: unlike yirah and ahavah, which require effort to cultivate, emunah is already inside us. But maintaining it requires care—keeping negativity and doubts at bay. Through relatable stories and practical advice, this episode offers a path to nurturing your natural faith and holding onto the clarity that life’s distractions often bury. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 48
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 48
Jan 1, 2025
3:16
Spreading Secrets: Where Do We Draw the Line?Even when shared in public, Lashon Hara cannot spread beyond those who first heard it. Understand the severe limits of this heter. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 47
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 47
Dec 29, 2024
2:58
The Risky Reality of Public SpeechEven when heard by three, Lashon Hara remains forbidden. When can repeating information become a slippery slope to sin? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 26 – Your Neshamah, Your True Self
Ep. 26 – Your Neshamah, Your True Self
May 27, 2025
9:16
Have you ever treated your body like the destination instead of the vehicle? The Ramchal teaches that our neshama is a “treasure from the highest,” totally untouched by physical pleasures and yet lodged within our guf . We live by default as if the body—our senses, comforts, and status—is who we are. But what happens when you recognize that your real identity is this lofty soul, and that your body exists only to serve it? How do we realign our daily choices so our guf becomes a holy instrument rather than the master? Why does the neshama sometimes rebel at leaving the body, and what does that teach us about genuine avodas Hashem? This episode will unveil how to shift from being “the car” to becoming the driver, empowering you to live with purpose—body and soul united in sanctity. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 46
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 46
Dec 27, 2024
2:33
Intent and Interpretation: A Fine LineWhat happens when a seemingly neutral statement can be understood as either praise or insult? Learn the delicate halachos of speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 5 - What Drives True Avodas Hashem?
Ep. 5 - What Drives True Avodas Hashem?
Dec 26, 2024
6:34
In this episode, we explore the deeper meaning of Yiras Shamayim and what it truly means to go beyond the basics in Avodas Hashem. Why do people resist taking on extra responsibilities like chumras, and how can they actually strengthen our relationship with Hashem? Through the lens of the Ramchal’s teachings, we’ll uncover the power of lifnim mishuras hadin—going above and beyond halachic obligations—not as a burden, but as an opportunity to enhance our spiritual lives. Join us as we reflect on the importance of Mussar, the effort required for growth, and the extraordinary rewards that come with true dedication to Avodas Hashem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 45
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 45
Dec 25, 2024
2:31
Understanding the Rule of Three. Can speaking in front of three people ever lessen the severity of Lashon Hara? The Chafetz Chaim unpacks this complex and often misunderstood concept. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 44
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 44
Dec 22, 2024
2:50
The Modern Danger of WordsFrom texts to tweets, Lashon Hara spreads faster than ever. Learn why writing it is as serious as speaking it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 3 - Beyond Knowledge: Becoming Better
Ep. 3 - Beyond Knowledge: Becoming Better
Dec 19, 2024
7:13
This week, we explore the Ramchal’s perspective on intellect and its potential for personal transformation. Have you ever wondered why intellectual achievements alone don’t lead to true fulfillment? Why do so many brilliant minds struggle to translate their insights into real personal growth? Join us as we dive into Mesilas Yesharim and uncover the secret to using your mind—not just for knowledge, but for self-improvement. We’ll challenge the common idea of intellect as a purely external pursuit and show how true wisdom lies in applying what we know to change who we are. Through practical advice and timeless lessons, this episode is perfect for anyone looking to move beyond theory and become their best self. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 2 - From Clear Ideas to Real Change
Ep. 2 - From Clear Ideas to Real Change
Dec 16, 2024
5:42
In this episode, we continue exploring Mesilas Yesharim, uncovering the gap between knowing the truth and living it. Have you ever felt clarity in a shiur or davening but struggled to apply it when faced with real-life challenges? Why is it so hard to transform what we know into how we act? Join us as we delve into the Ramchal’s timeless guidance on turning intellectual clarity into a lived experience. Through relatable examples and practical advice, we’ll discuss how constant repetition and reflection are the keys to personal growth. This isn’t just about adding more knowledge—it’s about creating lasting change, one small step at a time. Perfect for anyone ready to take their learning to the next level and truly make it real. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep6. The Second Date and Beyond
Ep6. The Second Date and Beyond
Aug 24, 2024
34:38
Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 41
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 41
Dec 15, 2024
1:49
Day 41 Today's lesson highlights the gravity of Lashon Hara, which the Chafetz Chaim teaches is worse than the gravest sins. Even under pressure, guarding our words is non-negotiable—because our speech shapes our world. This daily lesson is presented by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, as part of the Real Judaism series. You can find more content like this at RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share so you never miss a chance to deepen your understanding of Torah and Jewish living! We know it’s been a while since our last episode, and we truly appreciate your patience. Behind the scenes, we’ve been working hard on some exciting changes to bring you even better content. Thank you for sticking with us—we’re thrilled to be back and can’t wait to continue sharing timeless Torah wisdom with you! The podcast Bezrat Hashem will be released 2 or 3 times a week
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Ep7. Engagement
Ep7. Engagement
Sep 13, 2024
27:06
Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.
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Ep6. How to (not) Fight
Ep6. How to (not) Fight
Sep 13, 2024
22:07
Come and enhance the core of your life, your marriage, by learning what are the foundations of a truly happy home and how to strengthen them.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 31
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 31
Sep 15, 2024
2:12
Less than 3 minutes a day to proper Shmiras Halashon. Easy to follow and very practical.
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Ep8. Series Finale - Introduction to Shalom Bayis
Ep8. Series Finale - Introduction to Shalom Bayis
Sep 29, 2024
23:56
Understand why the Shidduch system is the best way to find your Bashert. A step by step approach to dating for marriage.
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 70
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 70
Feb 21, 2025
2:37
The Role of a Rav A strong connection with a Rav safeguards against missteps. Discover why having spiritual guidance is crucial for correction and growth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 11 - Use Your Time Right
Ep. 11 - Use Your Time Right
Feb 4, 2025
7:32
We all know time is precious—yet we waste so much of it on things that don’t truly matter. The Ramchal challenges us to rethink our priorities: are we investing our time in what’s truly important, or are we letting life slip by while focusing on trivialities? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores how Yiras Shamayim—true awe of Hashem—is the ultimate Chochmah, but it requires effort, focus, and consistent work. Why do we spend hours perfecting our careers and hobbies, yet neglect the most vital parts of life? This episode will guide you on how to shift your mindset and use your time wisely, turning each moment into a step toward real growth and self-transformation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 71
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 71
Feb 23, 2025
3:44
When Hate Has a Place Can you hate an unrepentant sinner? The Chafetz Chaim explores the boundaries of tochecha and the path back to love through teshuva. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 14 - Loving Hashem
Ep. 14 - Loving Hashem
Feb 25, 2025
10:19
How do we truly love Hashem? The Ramchal teaches that Ahavas Hashem isn't about grand gestures or bursts of emotion—it's about cultivating a deep, steady relationship. But what does real love mean? And how do we separate love from fleeting feelings of excitement? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the essence of love in avodas Hashem. Why do we instinctively want to make our parents proud, even when it’s hard? And how does that natural drive help us build a relationship with Hashem? Through relatable examples and powerful insights, this episode reveals how to transform mitzvos from obligations into acts of love, bringing meaning and joy into every aspect of your life. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 72
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 72
Feb 26, 2025
3:20
When Silence Is Golden Even with two witnesses, discretion matters. Learn when restraint can preserve dignity and encourage personal teshuva. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 31 - Erev Shabbos Nap
Ep. 31 - Erev Shabbos Nap
Feb 27, 2025
25:51
The Secret to a True Shabbos If Shabbos is a time of unparalleled Kedusha, why do so many people feel disconnected when it finally arrives? You’ve set the table, the candles are ready, the food is prepared—but is that enough? The answer lies not just in what we do before Shabbos, but in how we prepare ourselves to truly receive it. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper unpacks the deep significance of Erev Shabbos preparations—not just as physical tasks, but as a spiritual avodah. Unlike other mitzvos, where our actions bring Kedusha into the world, Shabbos is different: Hashem brings the Shechinah to us. But if we aren’t ready to greet Him, what happens then? Through powerful analogies—imagine a chassan arriving at an empty wedding hall—he shows how anticipation shapes our experience. And what about the controversial Erev Shabbos nap? Is it just a luxury, or an essential way to ensure we honor Shabbos with full presence? Join us as we uncover the key to feeling the holiness of Shabbos instead of just going through the motions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 73
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 73
Feb 28, 2025
2:32
Identifying Harmful Influences For persistent sinners who refuse rebuke, Lashon Hara can protect others from negative influence—but only with careful limits. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 74
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 74
Mar 3, 2025
2:33
Balancing Protection With Teshuva While avoiding bad influences is crucial, finding ways to help others do teshuva must remain part of our communal responsibility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 15 - A Full Heart for Hashem
Ep. 15 - A Full Heart for Hashem
Mar 4, 2025
21:31
What does it mean to serve Hashem with a full heart? The Ramchal teaches that shlemus halev—a complete and wholehearted devotion to Hashem—goes beyond performing mitzvos. It means aligning your inner world, your desires, and your intentions entirely with Hashem's will. But how do we achieve such purity of heart when we’re naturally pulled toward self-interest? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the balance between human needs and spiritual aspirations. Is it possible to enjoy the pleasures of life while maintaining pure intentions? How do everyday actions like eating or celebrating become acts of divine service? With relatable stories and practical advice, this episode will guide you on the path to serving Hashem with sincerity and joy, helping you turn even mundane moments into spiritual achievements. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 75
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 75
Mar 5, 2025
2:21
Speaking Carefully About Sinners Even when exposing sinners, exaggeration is forbidden. Learn how strict limits protect dignity, even in difficult situations. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 32 - Welcoming in Shabbos
Ep. 32 - Welcoming in Shabbos
Mar 6, 2025
36:07
We don’t welcome Pesach. We don’t welcome Tefillin. So why do we welcome Shabbos? Why do we sing to it, escort it, and refer to it as a guest? What makes Shabbos so fundamentally different from any other mitzvah? Shabbos isn’t just a mitzvah—it’s an encounter with the Shechina. Rabbi Klapper unpacks the depth behind Kabbalas Shabbos, showing how it mirrors Matan Torah, where Klal Yisrael insisted, “We want to see our King!” Just like at Har Sinai, where we had to prepare, dress properly, and stand ready, Shabbos demands that same level of kavod. But are we actually prepared for this moment? Do we race into Shabbos last-minute, treating it as a break from work rather than a royal event? With powerful analogies and halachic insights, this episode explores the true meaning of greeting the Shechina—and why treating Shabbos as just another mitzvah misses the entire point. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 76
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 76
Mar 7, 2025
2:15
When Beis Din Is Challenged Publicly defying Beis Dn permits public rebuke. Explore why preserving Torah authority allows exceptions to typical Lashon Hara restrictions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 77
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 77
Mar 9, 2025
2:29
Flawed Yet Growing When noticing bad middos, remember: growth takes time. Judging someone mid-journey often misrepresents their true efforts. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 16 - Hashem Wants Your Body
Ep. 16 - Hashem Wants Your Body
Mar 11, 2025
15:47
Loving Hashem in your heart is important—but it’s not enough. The Ramchal teaches that Hashem doesn’t only want your thoughts and feelings; He wants your actions, too. From shaking a lulav to giving tzedakah, it’s the physical acts of mitzvos that bring holiness into the world. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores why Judaism places such a strong emphasis on the body and the physical world. What makes Shabbos meals, bris milah, and honest business practices so spiritually significant? And why do physical mitzvos elevate us in ways that pure intentions cannot? This episode will show you how Hashem calls on us to infuse holiness into every part of life—mind, heart, and body—transforming the ordinary into the extraordinary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 2 - The Battle for Real Pleasure
Ep. 2 - The Battle for Real Pleasure
Mar 12, 2025
28:39
Is the world offering you real happiness, or just an illusion? We live in a world filled with distractions, desires, and an ever-growing culture that glorifies indulgence. But is what we see and chase after truly satisfying, or is it just a mirage? The Torah teaches us that pleasure isn’t inherently bad—Hashem created it for a purpose. The challenge is directing it towards real, lasting fulfillment rather than fleeting illusions. We explore the core struggle of Shmiras Einayim—not just as a battle of self-control, but as a deeper question of identity, values, and choosing what kind of life we truly want to live. Why do we feel drawn toward things that we know aren’t good for us? How does the Yetzer Hara manipulate our minds into thinking we have no choice? And most importantly—how do we reclaim control and start living in a way that leads to true satisfaction? Through Torah insights, powerful metaphors, and real-world examples, this shiur offers a roadmap to overcoming challenges, resisting the fake, and embracing a life of deeper meaning and true pleasure. If you’ve ever struggled with the pull of the world around you, this episode will give you the tools and perspective to fight back. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 78
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 78
Mar 12, 2025
2:47
The Mitzvah of Self-Improvement Bad middos often stem from ignorance, not defiance. A kind word can inspire growth more effectively than criticism. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 33 - What is Menucha?
Ep. 33 - What is Menucha?
Mar 13, 2025
25:24
Are You Really Resting on Shabbos? When we think of Menucha, we imagine a nap, a break from work, or finally slowing down. But is that what Shabbos rest really means? If so, why does the tefillah of Atah Echad speak of Menucha as something deeper—Menuchas Ahava, Menuchas Emes Ve’emuna? This episode challenges everything we assume about Menucha. True rest isn’t about stopping work—it’s about reconnecting to the source of life. When we exhaust ourselves in physicality, we become disconnected from our neshama, leaving us drained. That’s why Shabbos Menucha isn’t just about sleep; it’s a return to our spiritual core, a moment when the Shechina gives us the strength we’ve lost during the week. Through a powerful analysis of Chazal, Rabbi Klapper reveals how Menucha is not just a break—it’s the deepest experience of vitality we can have. If you’ve ever felt physically rested yet spiritually empty, this shiur will open your eyes to what true Menucha really is. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 79
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 79
Mar 14, 2025
2:35
Teaching Children About Middos Protecting kids from bad influences is vital. Learn how to guide them without fostering resentment or generalizations. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 80
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 80
Mar 16, 2025
2:29
Shidduch Questions: Protect or Harm? When asking shidduch questions, be clear and avoid gossip. Intent and precision are key to maintaining dignity and accuracy. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 17 - Clarity of the Purpose of Life
Ep. 17 - Clarity of the Purpose of Life
Mar 18, 2025
12:49
What is your purpose in life? It’s the most important question you’ll ever ask—and one that too many people never answer. The Ramchal teaches that every person must clarify their life’s goal before they can grow spiritually. Without a solid foundation, all efforts to achieve greatness will collapse under pressure. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper guides listeners through the process of identifying their core mission. How do you balance spiritual growth with practical responsibilities? Why is it crucial to establish life priorities before chasing success? Through powerful stories and relatable insights, this episode will help you solidify your foundation in avodas Hashem, ensuring your life is built on a purpose that will stand the test of time. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 81
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 81
Mar 19, 2025
2:22
Accuracy in Shidduch Discussions Exaggerations harm more than they help. Learn why honest and precise questions uphold both halacha and trust. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 34 - Recharging our True Batteries
Ep. 34 - Recharging our True Batteries
Mar 20, 2025
23:53
What Really Recharges You? We talk about "recharging our batteries" all the time—but what does that really mean? Is it just getting more sleep, taking a break, or disconnecting from work? If so, why does Shabbos Menucha feel different than any other kind of rest? Shabbos isn’t just a day off—it’s a return to our true power source. Rabbi Klapper unpacks the deep connection between Menucha and Ruchniyus, showing how stepping away from Gashmiyus isn’t just about stopping work—it’s about reconnecting with the life-giving force of the world. Just like Hashem "rested" by withdrawing from creation, we recharge by moving away from the physical and immersing ourselves in Shabbos. But here’s the paradox: on Shabbos, even Gashmiyus itself is transformed. Eating, sleeping, and even enjoying food take on an entirely new meaning. What’s the secret ingredient that makes Shabbos meals taste different? Why does the Shechina come down to this world, instead of pulling us up? Discover how Shabbos doesn’t just give you a break—it redefines what real life actually is. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 82
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 82
Mar 21, 2025
2:26
Matching Expectations in Shidduchim Misaligned standards can mislead. Tailor shidduch answers to the questioner’s perspective to ensure accurate and meaningful discussions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 96
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 96
Mar 23, 2025
2:28
Easing Conflict with Words In cases of machlokes, sometimes reframing someone's words as a foolish mistake rather than intentional harm can prevent hatred. If it truly reduces conflict, such speech may be permitted. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 83
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 83
Mar 23, 2025
2:24
Nostalgia or Lashon Hara? Reconnecting with old friends often leads to reminiscing—but beware. Casual conversations can easily stray into forbidden speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 18 - The Pursuit of Pleasure
Ep. 18 - The Pursuit of Pleasure
Mar 25, 2025
13:04
What’s the point of life? The Ramchal answers clearly: Hashem created us to experience the ultimate pleasure. But this isn’t the fleeting enjoyment of good food or material success. It’s the highest form of joy—being close to Hashem. The problem? This world is just the hallway to that eternal pleasure, and too many people spend their time decorating the hallway instead of focusing on what really matters. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores how to distinguish between temporary pleasures and lasting fulfillment. Why does Hashem want us to earn our reward instead of giving it freely? How do mitzvos become the building blocks of eternal joy? Through relatable examples and timeless wisdom, this episode will help you focus your efforts on what truly counts—earning a meaningful life and an everlasting connection to Hashem. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 3 - One Step at a Time
Ep. 3 - One Step at a Time
Mar 25, 2025
27:27
What if the key to self-mastery isn’t winning every battle, but learning how to keep fighting? So many people struggle with Shemiras Einayim and personal growth because they expect perfection. The moment they stumble, they assume they’ve failed. But what if failure isn’t falling—only staying down? The Yetzer Hara tricks us into thinking that if we can’t do everything, we might as well do nothing. But the truth is, every small step forward rewires our Bechira, making the next victory easier. This episode uncovers the Torah’s approach to growth—how making even the smallest improvements builds momentum. What happens when you push yourself just one minute past your limit? Why does Hashem care more about effort than immediate results? And how can we take control of our struggles instead of being controlled by them? If you’ve ever felt stuck in an endless cycle of setbacks, this conversation will give you the tools to break free, rebuild, and keep climbing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 84
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 84
Mar 26, 2025
2:17
Teshuva for Words Unheard When Lashon Hara doesn’t cause harm, Teshuva focuses on Hashem. But when it does, the stakes—and requirements—are much higher. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 35 - Physical and Spiritual Rest
Ep. 35 - Physical and Spiritual Rest
Mar 27, 2025
27:41
Are You Resting or Just Killing Time? Is Shabbos just a day off, a break from work? Or is there something deeper we often miss? If Menucha means rest, why does Chazal say Shabbos was given for learning Torah—something that takes effort? And if we’re meant to rest, why was an entire city destroyed just for playing ball on Shabbos? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper uncovers the real meaning of Menucha—not just stopping, but recharging. True rest isn’t just avoiding work; it’s about plugging into our ultimate life source, Ruchniyus. The more we connect to Torah and Hashem, the more energy we gain. But when we turn Shabbos into a day of just "passing time," we drain the very power it's meant to give us. Through striking examples, we’ll see why Shabbos isn’t about doing nothing—it’s about doing something real. If you’ve ever walked away from Shabbos feeling physically rested but spiritually empty, this episode will change the way you approach the holiest day of the week. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 85
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 85
Mar 28, 2025
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The Cost of Speaking Lashon Hara can destroy lives and futures. True Teshuva requires admitting fault to the harmed party, no matter the difficulty. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 86
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 86
Mar 30, 2025
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The Power of Ben Adam L’Chaveiro The Chafetz Chaim emphasizes that mitzvos bein adam l’chaveiro are of utmost importance—sometimes even more than bein adam l’Makom. Lashon Hara weakens our connection to others and must be avoided. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 19 - A Deeper Understanding
Ep. 19 - A Deeper Understanding
Apr 1, 2025
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What is true goodness? We chase happiness and success, but often find ourselves feeling empty. The Ramchal reveals that lasting joy comes from one source—dveikus to Hashem. But how do we achieve that connection? The answer lies in the mitzvos. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper takes you on a journey to uncover a deeper understanding of mitzvos. Why are they the key to both spiritual completion and eternal pleasure? How can physical acts lead to ultimate closeness with Hashem? Through careful analysis and practical insight, this episode will help you rethink your avodas Hashem and see mitzvos not just as obligations, but as opportunities to build a lasting relationship with the Divine. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 87
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 87
Apr 2, 2025
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Judging Others Favorably Speaking Lashon Hara about someone who fails in bein adam l’chaveiro is still forbidden, even if it’s true. Unless there’s a toeles, we must give the benefit of the doubt and refrain from gossip. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 36 - True Rest is Connecting to Hashem
Ep. 36 - True Rest is Connecting to Hashem
Apr 3, 2025
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What Does It Mean to Truly Rest? If Hashem "rested" on Shabbos, why does Chazal say He’s been mezaveg zivugim—making matches—ever since? And if Shabbos is a day of rest, why does it demand chiddush, new insights in Torah? Is Menucha just stopping work, or is it something much deeper? This episode, reveals how true Menucha isn’t about inactivity—it’s about reconnecting to the source of life. Just as Hashem continues to create in a different way, Shabbos is about shifting from physical work to spiritual renewal. Through powerful insights from Chazal, we’ll see why learning Torah on Shabbos isn’t a contradiction to rest—it is rest. And how the more we engage in Torah, the more we align our minds with Hashem’s mind, forging the deepest connection possible. If you’ve ever wondered why Shabbos feels different but couldn’t put it into words, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening when the world stops and the Shechina arrives. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 88
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 88
Apr 4, 2025
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Lashon Hara and Personal Grudges Speaking Lashon Hara is even worse when it stems from personal revenge. Holding a grudge or spreading negativity about someone who wronged you violates multiple issurim. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 89
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 89
Apr 6, 2025
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The Hidden Revenge in Speech Even if one follows all conditions of toeles, speaking Lashon Hara out of personal satisfaction or revenge remains forbidden. We must examine our intentions before discussing others. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 20 - The Battle of This World
Ep. 20 - The Battle of This World
Apr 8, 2025
13:24
Life is a battle. Whether it’s chasing wealth, struggling with health, or navigating relationships, we all face constant challenges. But the Ramchal reminds us that these battles are by design. Hashem placed us in a world filled with distractions and desires—not to break us, but to refine us. The real question is: Will you stay focused on what truly matters? In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the nature of nisyanos—life’s tests—and how they push us to grow. Why do both poverty and wealth bring unique challenges? How do we avoid losing ourselves in the fight for success? Through practical insights and deep Torah wisdom, this episode will guide you toward seeing life’s battles not as obstacles, but as opportunities to become stronger, more connected to Hashem, and truly fulfilled. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 90
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 90
Apr 9, 2025
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Hearing vs. Seeing the Truth Even if you saw someone sin, Lashon Hara is forbidden without proper justification. How much more so if you only heard about it! Avoid spreading rumors and assumptions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 91
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 91
Apr 11, 2025
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The Danger of Judging Intelligence Lashon Hara isn't just about actions—it includes speaking negatively about someone’s intelligence, skills, or social status. Every person has strengths and weaknesses; who are we to judge? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 92
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 92
Apr 13, 2025
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Speaking About Personality Traits Comments about someone’s personality—whether they are too quiet, too loud, or lacking intelligence—can easily turn into Lashon Hara or even Motzi Shem Ra. Choose words carefully. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 93
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 93
Apr 16, 2025
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One Word Can Destroy a Life A single negative remark about a person’s intelligence can ruin shidduchim, business deals, or even a rav’s parnassah. We often underestimate the damage our words can cause. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 94
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 94
Apr 18, 2025
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Would You Want It Said About You? Lashon Hara damages self-esteem and causes unnecessary anxiety. Before speaking about others, ask yourself: Would I want people saying this about me? If not, remain silent. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 95
Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 95
Apr 20, 2025
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The Hidden Danger in Gossip Lashon Hara about a person’s midos is especially dangerous—it’s harder to refute and more readily accepted. Since no one can "prove" character traits wrong, they spread easily and cause harm. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 4 - Keep Fighting, Keep Rising
Ep. 4 - Keep Fighting, Keep Rising
Apr 22, 2025
25:41
What if the Torah itself is the key to breaking free from the Yetzer Hara? Many people assume that learning Torah and personal struggles exist in separate worlds. But Chazal teach us that Torah is not just wisdom—it is the ultimate weapon against the Yetzer Hara. The moment we hold onto it, even if we aren’t perfect, we give ourselves a fighting chance. Letting go, on the other hand, almost guarantees failure. In this episode, we explore why learning—even in the midst of struggle—is the single greatest strategy for overcoming challenges. Why do people give up when they feel like they’re living a double life? How does the Yetzer Hara convince us that failure is final? And why does Hashem say, Just keep holding on? Through real-world stories, deep Torah insights, and practical eitzos, this shiur will give you the tools to stay strong, keep learning, and find the strength to overcome. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!
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Ep. 21 - Run Away From the Yetzer Hara
Ep. 21 - Run Away From the Yetzer Hara
Apr 22, 2025
9:11
We often hear that life is a battle against the Yetzer Hara, but the Ramchal teaches a surprising truth: the best way to win isn’t to fight—it’s to run. Why wrestle with temptation when you can avoid it altogether? The Torah’s wisdom is clear: don’t put yourself in a situation where you’ll need to fight. Stay far from danger, and you won’t have to fight as hard. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores practical strategies to keep the Yetzer Hara at bay. Why is prevention more powerful than confrontation? How do small choices—like avoiding certain streets or limiting distractions—transform our avodas Hashem? Through stories and insights, this episode will inspire you to protect your spiritual growth by creating boundaries that make success in Yiddishkeit easier and more lasting. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!