Guard Your Tongue

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 90

Apr 9, 2025

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Hearing vs. Seeing the TruthEven if you saw someone sin, Lashon Hara is forbidden without proper justification. How much more so if you only heard about it! Avoid spreading rumors and assumptions.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 89

Apr 6, 2025

2:33

The Hidden Revenge in SpeechEven if one follows all conditions of toeles, speaking Lashon Hara out of personal satisfaction or revenge remains forbidden. We must examine our intentions before discussing others.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 88

Apr 4, 2025

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Lashon Hara and Personal GrudgesSpeaking Lashon Hara is even worse when it stems from personal revenge. Holding a grudge or spreading negativity about someone who wronged you violates multiple issurim.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 87

Apr 2, 2025

2:28

Judging Others FavorablySpeaking Lashon Hara about someone who fails in bein adam l’chaveiro is still forbidden, even if it’s true. Unless there’s a toeles, we must give the benefit of the doubt and refrain from gossip.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 86

Mar 30, 2025

2:33

The Power of Ben Adam L’ChaveiroThe Chafetz Chaim emphasizes that mitzvos bein adam l’chaveiro are of utmost importance—sometimes even more than bein adam l’Makom. Lashon Hara weakens our connection to others and must be avoided.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 85

Mar 28, 2025

2:46

The Cost of Speaking Lashon Hara can destroy lives and futures. True Teshuva requires admitting fault to the harmed party, no matter the difficulty. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 84

Mar 26, 2025

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Teshuva for Words Unheard When Lashon Hara doesn’t cause harm, Teshuva focuses on Hashem. But when it does, the stakes—and requirements—are much higher. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 83

Mar 23, 2025

2:24

Nostalgia or Lashon Hara? Reconnecting with old friends often leads to reminiscing—but beware. Casual conversations can easily stray into forbidden speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 96

Mar 23, 2025

2:28

Easing Conflict with WordsIn cases of machlokes, sometimes reframing someone's words as a foolish mistake rather than intentional harm can prevent hatred. If it truly reduces conflict, such speech may be permitted.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 82

Mar 21, 2025

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Matching Expectations in Shidduchim Misaligned standards can mislead. Tailor shidduch answers to the questioner’s perspective to ensure accurate and meaningful discussions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 81

Mar 19, 2025

2:22

Accuracy in Shidduch Discussions Exaggerations harm more than they help. Learn why honest and precise questions uphold both halacha and trust. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 80

Mar 16, 2025

2:29

Shidduch Questions: Protect or Harm? When asking shidduch questions, be clear and avoid gossip. Intent and precision are key to maintaining dignity and accuracy. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 79

Mar 14, 2025

2:35

Teaching Children About Middos Protecting kids from bad influences is vital. Learn how to guide them without fostering resentment or generalizations. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 78

Mar 12, 2025

2:47

The Mitzvah of Self-Improvement Bad middos often stem from ignorance, not defiance. A kind word can inspire growth more effectively than criticism. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 77

Mar 9, 2025

2:29

Flawed Yet Growing When noticing bad middos, remember: growth takes time. Judging someone mid-journey often misrepresents their true efforts. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 76

Mar 7, 2025

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When Beis Din Is Challenged Publicly defying Beis Dn permits public rebuke. Explore why preserving Torah authority allows exceptions to typical Lashon Hara restrictions. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 75

Mar 5, 2025

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Speaking Carefully About Sinners Even when exposing sinners, exaggeration is forbidden. Learn how strict limits protect dignity, even in difficult situations. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 74

Mar 3, 2025

2:33

Balancing Protection With Teshuva While avoiding bad influences is crucial, finding ways to help others do teshuva must remain part of our communal responsibility. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 73

Feb 28, 2025

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Identifying Harmful Influences For persistent sinners who refuse rebuke, Lashon Hara can protect others from negative influence—but only with careful limits. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 72

Feb 26, 2025

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When Silence Is Golden Even with two witnesses, discretion matters. Learn when restraint can preserve dignity and encourage personal teshuva. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 71

Feb 23, 2025

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When Hate Has a Place Can you hate an unrepentant sinner? The Chafetz Chaim explores the boundaries of tochecha and the path back to love through teshuva. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 70

Feb 21, 2025

2:37

The Role of a Rav A strong connection with a Rav safeguards against missteps. Discover why having spiritual guidance is crucial for correction and growth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 69

Feb 19, 2025

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The Limits of a Single Witness When you’re the only one who saw an aveira, how can you act constructively without causing harm or committing Lashon Hara? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Trailer S2 Shemiras Einayim

Feb 18, 2025

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COMING SOON: The battle for your eyes is real. The power to choose is yours.https://realjudaism.org/ShemirasEinayimShemiras Einayim with Rabbi Ari Klapper returns for Series 2 – diving deeper than ever into the raw challenges of guarding your eyes in today's digital age. No apologetics. No judgment. Just honest, practical wisdom for real-life struggles.From smartphones to street encounters. From internal battles to external pressures. We're tackling the questions you're afraid to ask and the daily tests you face. Rabbi Klapper brings clarity, understanding, and practical tools to help you navigate these challenges while maintaining your dignity and spiritual growth.This isn't just another mussar series. This is your guide to building real strength and finding true fulfillment in a world of constant visual temptation.New episodes drop every two weeks starting 19th Feb 2025.Real struggles. Real solutions. Real growth. Real Judaism. Shemiras Einayim Series 2 – Because your battle matters.Find the Episodes wherever you get your podcastshttps://open.spotify.com/show/548Vqsw1GzzAGKjmKYi0yc?si=c5e51bbe2d964c3ahttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shmiras-einayim/id1784634481https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLiZU2rL9HnBW2qVNZRClAes4STqsKB4qS

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 68

Feb 16, 2025

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Helping Those Who Don’t Want Help Even the willfully defiant deserve correction. Learn how to involve the right people to address persistent aveiros effectively. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 67

Feb 14, 2025

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Protecting Others Without Gossip When someone’s sin could harm others, carefully share details only to prevent further aveiros. Balance responsibility with sensitivity. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 66

Feb 12, 2025

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Correct With Love, Not Gossip When someone visibly sins, rushing to spread the story only worsens the situation. Compassionate tochacha can help them return. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 65

Feb 9, 2025

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Finding the Benefit of the Doubt When a mitzvah observer falters, consider: could ignorance or misunderstanding explain their actions? Why Dan L’chaf Zechus protects us all. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 64

Feb 7, 2025

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Common Faults, Same Halacha Even widely accepted failings like neglecting Torah study or Shabbos spending can’t justify Lashon Hara. Learn why these failings still demand discretion. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 63

Feb 5, 2025

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The Harmful Power of Words Speaking hurtful truths—like family sins or past mistakes—destroys reputations. Learn why even accurate Lashon Hara is forbidden. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 62

Feb 2, 2025

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Think Before You Speak Even when judging harshly seems justified, spreading the story can cause harm. If unsure, say nothing and seek guidance. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 61

Jan 31, 2025

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When the Average Jew Slips What about judging a regular person who falls? We explore why we owe them the same benefit of the doubt we expect ourselves. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 60

Jan 29, 2025

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Judging Others Favorably: A Story Even when something looks wrong, the mitzvah of Dan L’chaf Zechus demands we withhold judgment—especially for a Yirei Shamayim. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 59

Jan 26, 2025

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Do Intentions Matter? Even if no one believes your Lashon Hara, it still harms your relationship with Hashem. Teshuva is always necessary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 58

Jan 24, 2025

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Clever Words, Hidden DamageImplying negativity without names still counts as Lashon Hara. Learn how subtlety doesn’t excuse hurtful words. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 57

Jan 22, 2025

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Jokes That Hurt“Just kidding” doesn’t excuse Lashon Hara. Jokes at others’ expense break trust and damage relationships—even if they seem harmless. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 56

Jan 19, 2025

2:35

Tone Matters: Avak Lashon HaraSarcasm and tone can turn neutral words into poison. Discover how body language and intent redefine what we say. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 55

Jan 17, 2025

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Private Slander, Public ShameSpeaking Lashon Hara in private or public carries severe consequences. Why embarrassing others erases Olam Haba. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 54

Jan 15, 2025

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Protecting SecretsSharing someone’s secret—even unspoken—violates trust. Sensitivity to privacy reflects true v’ahavta l’rei’acha kamocha. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 53

Jan 12, 2025

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Criticizing Public SpeakersRebuking a speaker publicly can harm reputations and communities. Learn how to address concerns without falling into Lashon Hara. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 52

Jan 10, 2025

2:50

Group Decisions: United We StandOnce decisions are made in committees, even dissenters must unify. Complaining divides communities and breeds distrust in leadership. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 51

Jan 8, 2025

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Who Are You Talking To?Sharing information, even with a heter, depends on trust. What happens when listeners twist, exaggerate, or spread your words further? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 50

Jan 5, 2025

2:41

Growth After MistakesWhat if someone changed? The Chafetz Chaim warns against dredging up past wrongs. Teshuva means letting the past truly remain the past. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 49

Jan 3, 2025

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Guarding Secrets: A Matter of RespectSharing a secret, even non-damaging, breaches trust and halacha. Explore the responsibility to respect others' privacy in every situation. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 48

Jan 1, 2025

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Spreading Secrets: Where Do We Draw the Line?Even when shared in public, Lashon Hara cannot spread beyond those who first heard it. Understand the severe limits of this heter. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 47

Dec 29, 2024

2:58

The Risky Reality of Public SpeechEven when heard by three, Lashon Hara remains forbidden. When can repeating information become a slippery slope to sin? Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 46

Dec 27, 2024

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Intent and Interpretation: A Fine LineWhat happens when a seemingly neutral statement can be understood as either praise or insult? Learn the delicate halachos of speech. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 45

Dec 25, 2024

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Understanding the Rule of Three. Can speaking in front of three people ever lessen the severity of Lashon Hara? The Chafetz Chaim unpacks this complex and often misunderstood concept. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 44

Dec 22, 2024

2:50

The Modern Danger of WordsFrom texts to tweets, Lashon Hara spreads faster than ever. Learn why writing it is as serious as speaking it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim - Day 43

Dec 20, 2024

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Choosing Embarrassment Over SinThe Chafetz Chaim teaches that being perceived as foolish in this world is better than a moment of wrongdoing in the next. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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