Guard Your Tongue

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 249

Jul 30, 2026

2:53

Mesirah Demands Highest ProofAllowing mesirah requires a far higher bar than ordinary Rechilus. Only clear firsthand knowledge, real toeles, no revenge, and prior rabbinic guidance can permit action. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 248

Jul 27, 2026

2:18

Revenge Is Not JusticeBeing harmed by a moser does not create a mitzvah to inform on him in return. Retaliation can become a far greater aveira than the original wrong. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 247

Jul 23, 2026

2:15

Clear Signs, Limited ActionEven with dvarim hanikarim, the signs must be clear, firsthand, and useful. You may not spread the matter further or punish the person based on suspicion. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 246

Jul 20, 2026

2:20

When Signs Seem ClearDvarim hanikarim matter only when what you saw clearly matches the claim and no tzad zechus remains. If another explanation exists, you may not accept it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 245

Jul 16, 2026

1:59

Side Comments Still CountEven if Rechilus is mentioned only derech agav, as a side remark, it remains forbidden to believe. Casual delivery does not make gossip more trustworthy. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Shalom Bayis Series 2 Trailer: The Essence of a Jewish Home

Jul 15, 2026

1:30

What if everything you thought you knew about marriage is only the surface?Season 2 of Shalom Bayis for Men goes deeper than practical tips. Building on the timeless teachings of Rav Chaim Friedlander zt"l, we return to the very beginning — the way Hashem created man and woman — to uncover what a marriage is actually meant to be. Why were we created as one being and then split apart? Why is a husband and wife's connection built entirely on chesed? And why did Hashem make men and women so fundamentally different?Over eight episodes, we'll explore how a home is the training ground where a person learns to truly give, why a woman's emotional world is a gift and not a flaw, and how understanding your wife's nature is the foundation of real Shalom Bayis. This is a season about the roots — the ideas that make everything else make sense.Subscribe now so you don't miss Episode 1. The journey to a deeper marriage starts here.Get the show on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/644HQbfnHosBd9vscuYxFy?si=cCPw4-r3SVel0nau3z895QHosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this series is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 244

Jul 13, 2026

2:35

No One Is Two WitnessesToday, no individual has the status of two witnesses for accepting Rechilus. Even from family or trusted people, you may be cautious, but not believe it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 243

Jul 9, 2026

2:17

Trust Isn’t UnlimitedEven great trustworthiness does not create a blanket heter to accept Rechilus. At most, it permits self-protection, never harming or embarrassing the other person. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 242

Jul 6, 2026

3:02

Belief Only for ProtectionRechilus from an exceptionally trustworthy person may be believed only to protect yourself, and only if heard firsthand. It may never be spread further without need. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 241

Jul 2, 2026

1:40

Many Voices, Still UnprovenEven if Rechilus comes from multiple people or becomes public rumor, you still may not accept it as truth. Halacha allows caution, not belief. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 240

Jun 29, 2026

2:44

Choose Dialogue Over SuspicionDan l’kaf zechus changes everything. A calm, respectful conversation can turn suspicion and hatred into understanding, trust, and even love. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 239

Jun 25, 2026

2:50

One Rumor, Many AveirosAccepting Rechilus from a non-Jew can trigger hatred, grudge-bearing, revenge, and worse. One rumor can spiral into many aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 238

Jun 22, 2026

3:34

Business Rumors MisleadWhen a non-Jew blames a Jewish competitor for a lost sale, don’t accept it. Dan l’kaf zechus applies in business too. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 237

Jun 18, 2026

2:54

Don’t Believe HimIf a non-Jew claims another Jew informed on you, do not accept it. Believing him can trigger hatred, revenge, and even worse aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 236

Jun 15, 2026

3:27

Don’t Blame the CompetitorLosing a contract is painful, but you may not assume a competitor caused it. Suspicion is not proof, even when circumstances look convincing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 235

Jun 11, 2026

2:39

Why Trust the Gossiper?Why believe the speaker committing an aveira over the Jew with chazkas kashrus? Even helpful warnings allow caution, never full acceptance. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 234

Jun 8, 2026

2:49

Silence Isn’t AdmissionRechilus remains forbidden whether spoken privately, publicly, or even in front of the accused. Silence does not prove guilt. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 233

Jun 4, 2026

2:49

Undo Accepted RechilusTeshuva for accepting Rechilus begins by uprooting belief from your heart. Then come charatah, vidui, and kabalah for the future. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 232

Jun 1, 2026

2:35

Choose the Favorable ReadEven when you must be choshesh, stay dan l’kaf zechus. Many hurtful-sounding comments may actually have a positive meaning. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 231

May 28, 2026

2:26

Don’t Go LookingSearching for negative talk guarantees pain. Protect your relationship with Hashem instead of chasing every rumor about yourself. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 230

May 25, 2026

3:01

Stop Chasing GossipDon’t go asking what others say about you. That curiosity invites Rechilus, heartache, and many avoidable aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 229

May 21, 2026

2:18

Respect Despite SuspicionEven when you are choshesh, you must still treat the other Jew with full respect. Halacha allows self-protection, but never degrading or hurting him. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 228

May 18, 2026

2:36

Choshesh, Not ConvincedBeing choshesh means protecting yourself, not believing evil. You may not hate, take revenge, or withhold what another Jew is rightfully owed. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 227

May 14, 2026

2:39

Asking for ProtectionWhen real warning signs appear, a person may ask others what they’ve heard in order to guard himself. Still, he may only be choshesh, never accept. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 226

May 11, 2026

3:04

Mastering What We HearAvraham Avinu teaches that a Jew can control not only speech, but hearing. We can listen carefully without accepting harmful words as truth. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 225

May 7, 2026

3:06

Listening Without AcceptingA Jew must learn to hear a warning without accepting it as fact. You may protect yourself, but halacha forbids believing Rechilus outright. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 224

May 4, 2026

2:46

Don’t Let It InThe first impression is powerful, so never accept Rechilus automatically. Train yourself to pause, question, and refuse belief until facts are clear. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 223

Apr 30, 2026

2:31

Accepting Is Even WorseAccepting Rechilus can be even more dangerous than speaking it. Once believed, it can unleash terrible harm, as seen in the tragedy of Nov. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 222

Apr 27, 2026

3:14

Teshuva for RechilusTeshuva for Rechilus requires charatah, vidui, and kabalah al ha’asid. Because it is bein adam l’chaveiro, asking mechilah may also be necessary. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 221

Apr 23, 2026

3:02

Adding Fuel to AngerEven if someone already heard the original Lashon Hara, repeating it is still Rechilus. A second report deepens anger, strengthens belief, and causes more aveiros. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 220

Apr 20, 2026

2:34

Explaining What They Already KnowEven when no new facts are shared, explaining a past wrong in a way that inflames anger is Rechilus. Halacha forbids turning pain into deeper resentment. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 219

Feb 6, 2026

2:27

Family SensitivitiesSpeaking about someone’s relatives is just as harmful. Words about a brother, parent, or child ignite deep pain and resentment—guard your speech at home too.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 218

Feb 4, 2026

2:36

Gossip in ConversationEven casual talk about others can turn into Rechilus. Conversations at simchas or in stores can easily cross into gossip—think before you share.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 217

Feb 2, 2026

3:35

The Cycle of AngerOne person’s gossip fuels another’s reaction, creating a cycle of pain and hatred. The only way to stop it—pause, stay silent, and seek daas Torah.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 216

Jan 30, 2026

3:06

Truth Can Still KillEven if every word is true, repeating it can cause pain, shame, or hatred. Words of “truth” used carelessly are spiritual weapons.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 215

Jan 28, 2026

2:45

Don’t Ruin RelationshipsEven public information may not be repeated if it causes anger or destroys partnerships. Preserving peace always outweighs curiosity or gossip.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 214

Jan 26, 2026

2:17

Heard by Three Isn’t PermissionEven if gossip was spoken before three people, it’s still assur to repeat. Halacha never allows spreading Rechilus further—truth doesn’t make it mutar.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 213

Jan 23, 2026

2:56

Avak Rechilus: Subtle GossipEven vague or ambiguous remarks—sarcastic tone, half-smiles, or unclear praise—can become Avak Rechilus. Words must be clear, kind, and free of hidden sting.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 212

Jan 21, 2026

3:21

Rechilus in the Digital AgePosting gossip or criticism online is still Rechilus—and far worse when spread to thousands. Think before you tap; your words can destroy lives.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 211

Jan 19, 2026

2:47

Triggering Old WoundsEven if nothing new is said, reviving old conflicts to gain favor is Rechilus. Stirring memories of past fights reawakens hatred and divides hearts.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 210

Jan 16, 2026

2:32

Hints That HurtEven hinting at who spoke negatively about someone is Rechilus. Revealing through context, tone, or implication destroys trust just as much as words.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 209

Jan 14, 2026

2:34

Lie for the Sake of PeaceWhen truth will spark hatred, one may lie to prevent Rechilus—but not swear. Shalom takes precedence over brutal honesty when guided by halacha.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 208

Jan 11, 2026

2:52

Strength in SilenceRefusing to speak Rechilus when pressured—by friends, family, or superiors—is a kiddush Hashem. Resisting gossip protects both the victim and the listener.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 207

Jan 9, 2026

3:09

Pressure Is No ExcuseEven under threat of job loss or embarrassment, one may not speak Rechilus. Losing money is better than losing integrity—speech has eternal weight.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 206

Jan 7, 2026

2:36

When They “Already Know”Even if the listener knows part of the story, adding details or confirming gossip is still Rechilus. Curiosity is no heter—silence preserves dignity.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 205

Jan 4, 2026

2:28

True Words, False PeaceEven true information can be Rechilus if it breeds resentment. Whether uniting enemies or dividing friends, truth used wrongly destroys relationships.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 204

Jan 2, 2026

2:21

Unintended HatredEven without intending harm, quoting someone to prove your point can cause hatred. Rechilus isn’t only in malice—it’s in careless speech that divides friends.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 203

Dec 31, 2025

2:30

The Essence of RechilusTransferring one person’s words or deeds to another—even truthfully—creates resentment. Rechilus destroys peace and was among the sins that caused the Churban HaBayis.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 202

Dec 28, 2025

2:32

The Tragedy of Doeg Ha’adomiDoeg’s Rechilus against Ahimelech led to the massacre of Nov, the city of Kohanim. A single tale of gossip can bring destruction beyond imagination.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 201 (Hilchos Rechilus)

Dec 26, 2025

2:43

Beginning Hilchos RechilusThe Chafetz Chaim introduces Rechilus—revealing what one person said about another—as a severe aveira linked to bloodshed. It destroys lives, families, and communities.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

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