Sicha #179. Parshas Ki Seitzei: Chelek Chof Daled. Pg 152. BH This week’s sicha was sponsored by Geulah Newman in honor of the imminent Geula today during this month of elul, מלך בשדה, in appreciation of the  פנים שוחקות and miracles of Hashem.  And specifically In gratitude of the Rebbe’s tremendous brachos for 2 babies, bh, both born this week: In honor of the birth of our dear granddaughter   אלישבע פיקרסקי שתחי לעו and in honor of our dear grandson, Baby Boy Parnas שיחי לעו May their parents raise them to תורה, חופה, מעשים טובים ושליחות! To sponsor a sicha please reach out to me at 619.757.0486 Lesson: Try to stay away from getting stuck in black and white arguments vilifying someone, work to see the relationship underneath. Aim for the emes and deal with conflict with integrity.  If someone is in position of having influence - (beis din) - we can’t stay away from the issue. It needs to get dealt with with clarity. Clarity will shine a powerful light. If a person does end up shoved into a machlokes. Integrity will carry them. Stay true to emes. In the end it will shine through. We have torah to help us clarify issues and go through hard things, and also to know that integrity lasts and will carry us through.

This Week’s learning was sponsored in honor of the yahrtzeit on Beis Elul of Tzvi ben Shmuel. May his neshama have an aliyah and may his family be reunited all together with the coming of Moshiach! To sponsor a sicha, reach out to Etty 6197570486! Topic: The unique (and shocking) mitzvah of “Egla Arufa” - (“decapitated calf”), performed when a murdered person was found out in the field and the killer was unknown. The details of how this mitzvah is performed highlights the tragedy of what happened with this person. There are different opinions on which part of this tragedy to focus on, the murdered, the murder, or the murderer. Rashi focuses on the ONE who was murdered. We are all responsible for this person. We dont get to “dump” or “excuse away” the situation thinking “maybe somehow this person brought this on himself - not even using Torah sources for this” NO! We must RUN to look out for each other. Where do I put my energy? We all have to be shaken up. A, I ensuring that when ppl go on their way - they will be safe, right food, right clothing, right protection of yiddishkeit and torah and mitzvos? In this month of Elul especially, Hashem is ready for EVERY Jew. I must go out of my way to care for every Jew, not just in the city, but in the field! With the tragedy of the 6 yidden murdered this week, please take the time to listen to this sicha, and take on an active resolution to reach out to someone else. (Parshas Shoftim, Chelek Chof Daled p.121.)

This week’s learning is sponsored by 3 of our listeners:  Learning Lilui nishmas the beautiful woman, wife & shlucha Mrs. Miriam A”H bas Reb Gershon Pinchas Mintz With gratitude to the Rebbe for all the beautiful simchas and that we can continue celebrating together bezras Hashem In honor of Etty’s birthday, may this year be one of brachos ad bli dai. Be a sponsor! Reach out to Etty 619.757.0486  ’Two Halves of One Soul’ - Tu B’Av * ‘Bochur, lift your eyes to Heaven and ask for the soul-mate Hashem wants for you.’ -Bnos Yerushalayim * ‘May you see your own faults and your spouse’s virtues.’ -the Frierdiker Rebbe * ‘I so want you to live peacefully together, with one heart and one mind…you are actually one - two halves of one soul.’                                      -paraphrased from a letter R’ Levik wrote to the Rebbe and Rebbetzin shortly after their wedding*The Bochur has to be focused on davening to Hashem that he should end up choosing what Hashem wants for him. (Chelek Chof Daled pg 57)

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Sicha Takeaways:In this sicha the Rebbe breaks down Rashi on the Possuk where Moshe tells the Yidden that Hashem said “it is a lot for you to be sitting by this mountain”
Idea 1: We gotta keep going & growingDeepening our yiddishkeit, our chayus and our connection to Hashem. Don't reach a plateau and stay put, we level up!
Idea 2: Eretz Yisroel is Hashem’s Land. We are Hashem’s People. When we step into our greatness the land is ours! With no wars, no need for weapons - Hashem’s land is for Hashem’s people! *Strengthen WHO we are: Hashem’s People, a holy nation, separate & unique*With WHAT we do - Torah in the details of our lives - LIVE WITH THIS*With LEADERSHIP - Rabbanim, Mashpiim, Mesorah - put your leadership in place!
How do we win Eretz Yisroel? BE Hashem’s people!We will be worthy to come to Eretz Yisroel, in a full complete Eretz Yisroel with all of its borders! (Chelek Chof Daled page 12)

Torah True Leadership - a unique unified approach of inclusive qualities of Torah & Technicals Learning sponsored in honor of Mushkie Itkin’s Yom Huledes Want to get in on sponsoring? PM me! This Sicha delves into the appointment of Yehoshua as Moshe’s successor. The Rebbe masterfully quotes and questions Rambam and other sources in Torah to highlight the difference of Moshe/Yehoshua (considered kings) from future Jewish kings like Shaul. While Jewish kings are anointed by oil, Yehoshua is not. Hashem told Moshe “one who tends the fig tree will eat of its fruit” - meaning Yehoshua who spent his entire life studying, living & breathing Torah - he will be the new leader . By future Kings there was a separation of leadership - the King: ruler, law, wars, needs of the people, and the Head of Sanhedrin: lead the ruchnius, the Torah angle, etc Moshe transmitted the entire Torah to Yehoshua in a unique way. Jewish sovereignty isn't just to oversee the physical needs of the people, it begins with elevating the people. Yehoshua, constantly involved in torah, was appointed through smicha,(Moshe used 2 hands and transmitted the leadership to him) This is a term specific to Torah. Original Leadership according to Torah is THROUGH Torah you lead it all - 1 unified force. One inclusive leader with “Leadership qualities” to pull nation together. Based first on what? On Torah. Shaul is first king who is the *executor* of Torah Moshe and Yehoshua are an *extension* of Torah Torah becomes the source FOR The practical work the king will later do Level of Avodah: From another sicha of the rebbe (Rebbe spoke at the last kinus hashluchim, chaya sara nun beis) Moshiach = SHLIACH plus YUD For a person to fully bring Moshiach he cannot use only certain parts of himself. He has to bring his total self into the picture. Moshiach is like Moshe & Yehoshua - both a Rav and a Melech Real geulah is to have encompassing form, rav and melech - the technicals & the Torah Each one of us may have a different strength in the style leadership that we are comfortable with. Real ultimate goal is to incorporate all together - Live a SOUL reality - where Torah flows through us and is the foundation of whatever goal we have. You have it in you! Let’s try to think of ways that we can be merging our lives into one vision - our gashmius & our ruchnius together, with Torah reality flowing through. (Chelek Chof Gimmul page 190.)

My body's experience and ability is the deepest expression of Hashem’s power. Menachem Av - We bring our father comfort.This week's learning sponsored by 3 individuals!Chaya Musha bas Devorah Leah & Henna Shomerboth in honor of their Yom Huledes - May this learning be a zchus for a shnas bracha, ad bli dai!!* Thank you for choosing these sichos as your birthday gift!Learning sponsored also by Susan Shapiro in honor of the yahrtzeit of her mother (my Safta!) Basya bas Nessa. May her neshama have an aliyah and endless nachas!Want to get in on sponsoring? PM me!Sicha Summary NotesEver had a moment where you were really stuck in your own challenge?In this month of Menachem Av, we comfort Hashem for the pain He is in.There are 2 dimensions of Hashem’s pain of being in golus1. Shchina is with the yidden in Golus. When we experience our Geulah it is Hashem’s Geulah. Our neshamos are always Godly, no choice there, but our bodies - that dont reflect godliness, those Hashem chose! When we are physically (body) in golus, so is Hashem.2. Like a king who said to his servants, if you are looking for me, I am going to be next to my son.What is deeper about this that is being added?Differentiation! Jewish Mothers - we get it! Where my kid is, that's where Ill be.2 different situationsThe father feels obvious cherishing of the child, bringing nachas! Warm fuzzy feeling, my delicious child, i'm with them! - neshama part of the yid, nachas producer, neshama is never affected by the golusRebbe adding! This is also true when it comes to the body. The body does NOT show Hashem. It looks just as coarse as other bodies. Mashal - if you are looking for me, I am going to be with my son. Ya this is my kid, i go with him everywhere he is at. Hashem is with us in our tumah. Essential connectionOnly in the Jewish Body (vs soul) do you see the connection of Hashems essence. I'm with my kid. Period.Hashem is ALWAYS with us. Menachem Av - Hashem is here as the father to his child.Level 1 nachas connection - neshama experienceLevel 2 essential connection - body experience Taking this even deeper...We also suffer loss, How can we comfort Hashem?The greatness of what the child can do > parentsLike a blue eyed child born from brown eyed parents, the child reveals a recessive gene his parents have, but did not display.You have incredible power! Show up with all the emunah, all the positivity - WOW! This was always there in Hashem but not expressed until a Yid does this.We have the ability through our physical struggles, we are bringing out a koiach always there in Hashem - that had not yet been brought out.All of us showing up in Mitzvos, Torah, we are bringing out Hashems “recessive DNA”. there is no such thing as a ME struggle - don't ever feel alone, you are Hashems essence being expressed. Feel empowered! We can define the golus, tap into incredible koiach, Hashems essence pumping through us. Shift to new approach: Moshiach!(Chelek chof Gimmul page 214)

Torah True Leadership - a unique unified approach of inclusive qualities of Torah & Technicals Learning sponsored in honor of Mushkie Itkin’s Yom Huledes Want to get in on sponsoring? PM me! This Sicha delves into the appointment of Yehoshua as Moshe’s successor. The Rebbe masterfully quotes and questions Rambam and other sources in Torah to highlight the difference of Moshe/Yehoshua (considered kings) from future Jewish kings like Shaul. While Jewish kings are anointed by oil, Yehoshua is not. Hashem told Moshe “one who tends the fig tree will eat of its fruit” - meaning Yehoshua who spent his entire life studying, living & breathing Torah - he will be the new leader . By future Kings there was a separation of leadership - the King: ruler, law, wars, needs of the people, and the Head of Sanhedrin: lead the ruchnius, the Torah angle, etc Moshe transmitted the entire Torah to Yehoshua in a unique way. Jewish sovereignty isn't just to oversee the physical needs of the people, it begins with elevating the people. Yehoshua, constantly involved in torah, was appointed through smicha,(Moshe used 2 hands and transmitted the leadership to him) This is a term specific to Torah. Original Leadership according to Torah is THROUGH Torah you lead it all - 1 unified force. One inclusive leader with “Leadership qualities” to pull nation together. Based first on what? On Torah. Shaul is first king who is the *executor* of Torah Moshe and Yehoshua are an *extension* of Torah Torah becomes the source FOR The practical work the king will later do Level of Avodah: From another sicha of the rebbe (Rebbe spoke at the last kinus hashluchim, chaya sara nun beis) Moshiach = SHLIACH plus YUD For a person to fully bring Moshiach he cannot use only certain parts of himself. He has to bring his total self into the picture. Moshiach is like Moshe & Yehoshua - both a Rav and a Melech Real geulah is to have encompassing form, rav and melech - the technicals & the Torah Each one of us may have a different strength in the style leadership that we are comfortable with. Real ultimate goal is to incorporate all together - Live a SOUL reality - where Torah flows through us and is the foundation of whatever goal we have. You have it in you! Let’s try to think of ways that we can be merging our lives into one vision - our gashmius & our ruchnius together, with Torah reality flowing through. (Chelek Chof Gimmul page 190.)

Staying Present & utilizing that specific time even if its crazy, or "in between". Additionally, a part of this sicha that is not in the audio recording: the Rebbe says a person may get distracted by the big wide world in 2 ways: 1) wouldn’t it be better if my situation was diff- more like some other place or moment in the world- then I could do my avoda well? 2) how can avoda in my little space and time bring Geulah to the whole world? The answer is the same to both. Stay focused “dah”. That’s where it’s at for yourself personally and for the greater impact. (Nun Alef. In Sefer HaSichos or Likkutei Sichos Parshios page 695.)

Think about moments of imprisonment or stuckness in my own life. Mentality of our Rebbe - not only good WILL Come out of this, there is good IN this NOW. Reveal it. Today marks the liberation of the Frierdiker Rebbe from Soviet prison. “Only with the Baal Shem Tov’s approach to Hashgacha Protis was I able to make it through the imprisonment.” The Frierdiker Rebbe’s approach was that the physical & psychological suffering of his situation wasn’t suffering, but a zchus - so what was painful? The deeper pain of What is going to be with Hashem’s plan while I am not able to continue the mission of spreading yiddishkeit in the world in the best way possible. Employee vs Owner. At the end of the day the employee is satisfied that he did all he could. The owner cares about the bottom line! Did we accomplish what is needed? True for neshamos in this world - sometimes things aren't working out, we can trust in Hashem - and sleep well. But when you are the owner - it's painful that it's not being accomplished! Even if I can check all the boxes of doing my job - I can't rest! When so bound with Hashem - you are like the owner - You want the mission accomplished! What helped the Frierdiker Rebbe - and therefore empowers us? Baal Shem Tov introduced chassidishe Hashgacha Protis- everything is part of the big plan. NOTHING insignificant! Everything ties back to kavanas habriyos. ANY situation where we feel SO stuck we need to know to not despair. Despair is a liar! Ein Od Milvado! This itself is part of Hashem’s plan - grab the moment & find a way to reveal elokus in THIS situation. Think about moments of imprisonment or stuckness in my own life. Mentality of our Rebbe - not only good WILL Come out of this, there is good IN this NOW. Reveal it. Chelek Chof Gimmel page 157

30 years since Gimmul Tamuz - We are bound to the Rebbe exactly as we were since Day 1. Stand strong, hold on & ask for brachos! In this Sicha we see the great miracle of the Yidden being saved from the huge threat of their enemies in the Valley of Arnon. Rashi deep dives into this and explores how this miracle happened without our knowledge of the threat or the miracle - until the Well showed us what Hashem protected us from. Hashems great miracles are happening without us even realizing. Moshe, like a devoted mother, is informed of it all and raises our awareness to sing the song of gratitude. The Rebbe wakes us up to the truth of the geulah happening - Miracles around us and bringing us to a space where we can burst into the ultimate song of Moshiach! (Chelek Chof gimmel pg 148.)

Really powerful sicha directing us to go forward through challenges with JOY. When we encounter our own inner sneaky korach voices trying to tell us negative untruths - we can know that there are “Hashem truths” to live by and we can go forward with strength and with joy! The Rebbe deep dives into Rashi’s comments on Hashem giving Aharon the gifts of kehuna a) a statement of joy and b) 24 Gifts show eternal commitment - why these come together and how the kehuna is an eternal Hashem-given reality. We always read Parshas Korach as we enter the month of Tammuz. From the Frierdiker Rebbe’s Arrest we come to spreading yiddishkeit to every part of the world and the final geulah. Sometimes we go through a difficult time, filled with obstacles & challenges - the message of Tammuz, and this sicha is, We will come stronger and better than ever before. We can access Joy & get rid of the inner-korach voices that try to cool us down, marching to geulah with joy & confidence! (Chelek Chof gimmel pg 123)

Of the Kohen Gadols 8 garments, 3 were worn - not for service, but for representation. They needed to BE there. The choshen, the eifod and the me-il. Each symbolize different levels of Yidden, and show us how ALL are needed. Connecting to Hashem = connecting to Yidden. The Kohen Gadol brought all of us in, and only THEN did the service. Every yid is precious just for who he/she is. Now more than ever we need to look at each other as worthy precious jews. We get the strength and clarity to do this by connecting ourselves to the Rebbe. Ashreinu! That we are taught to see eachother as such precious gems. Together - with ALL of Yidden - we will walk together to Moshiach. (Chelek Chof Alef pg 181)

*This month is Chodesh HaGeulah, a month filled with joy and celebration. Yet, our hearts are heavy with the reality of what’s going on in Eretz Yisroel and for our nation right now. How do we navigate these 2 opposite spaces?* In parshas Toldos we learn that Hashem made a big miracle to respond to the scoffers, to make Yitzchaks face look just like Avraham. This doesn’t seem like such a big deal – but in connection to the language used by krias yam suf, we learn that its “a big deal / difficult” when 2 opposites are held in one space. (By krias yam suf – the waters miraculously saved the Jews, and destroyed the Egyptians – these 2 realities were the “difficulty” of that miracle). Here we also have 2 opposites. Avraham is complete chessed, while Yitzchak is gevurah. Hashem made Yitzchak (gevurah) look like Avraham – *both outside AND from the inside!* This is the difficult thing Hashem did. True chessed is chessed WITH gevurah. To pour water unconditionally, a person could drown, but to pour water with gevurah – the receiver can drink and benefit from the water – truly a chessed! *Chessed WITH Gevurah allows the good to be accessed.* What can we take away from this? Everything we learn about the Avos is a lesson for us 1) Each one of us can combine within ourselves the power of Avraham, Yitzchak & Yaakov. Yitzchak looked like Avraham is the ultimate combo of bringing together Chessed and Gevurah. A heart can carry tears and joy at the same time. With our relationship with Hashem, we can truly combine them. We could pick a time to be sad, and then flip and pick a time to be happy. OR, more challenging but also more pnimiusdike, we can contain this bitterness and joy at the SAME TIME. *We are the children of Avraham, Yitzchak and Yaakov and when the world around is in a state of horror, we can maintain BOTH the scream of Ad Mosai and the joy of knowing Moshiach is coming now!* Each one of us can aim for this goal, have moments of both emotions at the same time. 2) When Hashem was figuring this all out – Whose image was formed to match whose? Avraham was first! Sometimes we have to choose on the approach of chessed or gevurah - err on the side of chessed. Take your “Yitzchak moment” and make him into “a chessed moment”. When a challenge comes our way and we are not sure which way to respond – with kindess or restraint, follow Hashem’s example. *Better to err on the side of overly kind, than the side of being overly gevurah-dik* 3) Toldos in Kislev – the month where Chassidus gets spread everywhere, pouring out! Feel comfortable to bring messages of chassidus into ALL types of situations. Take these ideas all the way to chutzah. Spreading chassidus outward is an act of chessed. Initially, chassidus was held back (gevurah). But the essence of the Jewish people is connected to the essence of Hashem. Unity has the ability to combine together chessed and gevurah. Yitzchak should be similar to Avraham. What is meant to be hidden, Hashem made revealed. And so we should spread Chassidus everywhere, without restraint! SO: Go with chessed! Put it all out there! Spread chassidus! Feel both of these opposing emotions! And when not sure how to act, err on the side of chessed! Be there for someone else, instead of pulling away! May this month of Geulah being the ultimate chessed, the ultimate hug, with the coming of Moshiach! (Likkutei Sichos Chelek Chof, Page 100)

Thought Question: *What do we celebrate in our family?* Which actions, or accomplishments or moments do we celebrate – and how that passes on to our children! 20 Av was a personal Yom Tov for a family that got to donate wood to the mishkan annually on that day. This sicha breaks down the story of their celebration – the what and how and why – and how the zchus came from their ancestors Dovid Hamelech & Yoav ben Tzruya – and how it continues to pass on for generations to come. The family celebrated their ability to give wood to the mishkan, a commodity at this time of year, that can be a part of helping another yid who needs to bring a korban! Reb Levik’s yartzeit is 20 Av – he combined the traits of Dovid & Yoav as a Torah Giant who cared and sacrificed for every Jew’s simple needs, and this was something he celebrated! You too have something special, Torah & Chassidus, and in each individuals capacity are able to share it with others! This is a celebration! And when we celebrate this, and pass this message on to our children, it brings incredible joy in ahavas Yisroel which brings Moshiach! Likkutei Sichos Chelek Daled, page 1103